₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
I read some things here in amazement.

Jman06:
There's sense in what she said. Some cunning men just want doormats as wife whom they can easily ride on. The woman would suffer to make the money with them or even more of the money, but the man would take everything in his name and use the wealth to chase small girls.
Women would however continue to fall for such cunning men because those kind of men are masters of sweet talking. They easily use words to brainwash the woman.

kimbraa:
Chai! Naija guys and so much stupidity spewed on one thread. The lady is right in every sense of what she said. Why would a man dictate how I spend my salary when I've a brain of mine, and he earns too? Why would we contribute to buy a car/property only him is entitled to?

Most of you bashing her need brain transplant.

tartarus:
Of cos but many nairaland guys don't know how to read. They just follow the bandwagon

I agree with her opinion. Couples should make decisions together!

Tellemall:
Lol.

The average Nigerian Man/ nairaland man is a misogynist who finds reasoning difficult. Even in such a glaring case he will demand to see "the other side of the story". If the tables were turned they would all say, "after devil fear woman, wicked beings ever liveth, daughters of Eve are violent, Jezebel incarnates"etc. It seems the other side of the story only exists when they feel a woman is at fault. If you say otherwise they conclude you must be a woman and a feminist to boot. Can't there be equality?

They are asking why the man would argue with her before trying to kill her and then himself, a man who came prepared to die and kill his wife before that. Probably trying to psyche himself with an argument. But of course, it had to mean the woman made it up and force fed him poison. The man couldn't possibly have been jealous and psychotic.

Funny.

genghiskhan007:
These are traits of a
Single
Rustrated
Disvirgined
Possessed
Jobless
Whoring

Lady

talk2percy:
No wonder she dey show expired breast-she fit be lesbian

Bimpe29:
She's one of the pythons that swallow marital bliss.

praiseneofingz:
am I the only one who thinks this one heart have been shattered?

Snow87:
Weldon ma, but make I no catch u for Shiloh 2025 praying for a God fearing man.

LesbianBoy:
Senseless girl

princeking2:
Yes Aunty slay queen.
Well, I think it should be a collective decision, after all it was a product of collective effort.

princeking2:
Yes Aunty slay queen.
Well, I think it should be a collective decision, after all it was a product of collective effort.

millomaniac:
But if she does make the decision I guess that makes the man the door mat. Olodo girl !!

LordBaelish:
This one is just an UGLY attention seeker.

Which Naija woman would contribute for Car and allow the man to sell off?

Naija women that would shout "I contributed ooo" till you vex refund her the money..

Na wa sha. Some people online dey do like we no dey the same naija offline..

SMH

Horlubunmmy:
Another slay witch.

I'm sure she's not married yet.

marvin904:
feminist are just educated mo.rons

modelmike7:
What you bolded is generally, not for THIS woman in THIS PARTICULAR story ma'm.
I absolutely put the blame on the man in this story up there, the woman has no fault at all apart from falling in love with the devil!

But ma'm, while this so much hateful words this beautiful and LOVELY VALENTINE'S MORNING, it's not even 8am yet.
Haba sis?!
Normaly, I ignore mentions that spit so much hates as this, but just have to reply this cos I don't know you to be this way.
Have a beautiful day ahead my beautiful sis.
God loves you!

donsimo:
Don't be an idiot, think you have a brain, even if a man felt jealous of his wife, wouldn't he travel out and try and make it.
At worse he would leave the woman.

There is more to the story, or do you mean to tell me that women don't lie, and everything they say should be treated as the gospel truth

Tex42:
So unfortunate...

It's a pity we didn't get to hear ur Late husband'sside of the story. Can't comment based on urs alone.

I'll pass...

Modified: U were stabbed 7 times[ 2 in the ribs] and u were discharged in less than a week?! OK o!

Lemme coman be going...

modelmike7:
''Towards July 2014, things had gone so sour that instead of threatening to beat me up, he would threaten to kill me. ‘I can kill you, I’ll kill you one day!’ became regular threats.''

This is the point she should have run for her life before things got outta hands!

Well, God still loves you and want you alive......
Sure, Some men are nothing but beast,
while some women's tongue can kill more than poison !

Xisnin:
What other side of the story?
That the husband did not beat her?
What if he said her never touched her?
You will jump up in joy that you have been vindicated.

I have worked with NGOs in the past and I can tell you that the last
thing a wife will do is confirm that she is been abused. Even those
who were hospitalised due to beatings will still deny being abused.
Whenever a wife come out to tell her story of marital, there is no "other side"
except in cases where the husband was the one who initiated the divorce.

Note that excuses such as she doesn't obey me or she is disrespectful are nonsense.
If you read the comments above, you will see a post excusing abuse with many likes,
that is to show you the level of reasoning of an average Nigerian men.

Saao:
What really happen? A loving wife will always have a loving husband. Many women nawaday turn their husband into a beast with their feminist or so called modern marriage attitudes. You can't have a good home if you can't submit to your husband. A submissive wife always control the husband. Looking for sympathizers won't assist marriages or victim mentality destroys faster than anything.

Authoreety:
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When cat dey sleep, rat go bite im tail, dat tin wey d rat dey find,e go get am in abundance

Eaa247:
you are absolutely correct though this does not support domestic violence.
We ve not heard from the husband's side of the story.
Y shud ppl spend the whole time planning for a single day event of wedding without considering the lifelong thing of marriage.

olabrad:
When you have very foul attitude as a woman, I hope you also realise that is a form of domestic violence against the man? So think before you comment. Emotional attack is also a form of aggression. Stop being myopic in your reasoning.

Sodiquinone:
I don't support marital abuse,but I am sure some women can't escape it with their basket mouth and attitude

anpipac:
SAY WHATSOEVER YOU LIKE AS AN EXCUSE. BUT NOT COMMITTE ADULTERY WITH MEN. WALK AWAY AND KEEP VIRGINA INTACT OR DIE AND GO TO HELL. NO BEG FOR FORGIVENESS CAN SAVE YOU WHEN YOU Bleep ANOTHER MAN. GOD HATES DIVORCE. DO NOT ENTER INTO MARRIED UNPREPARED.

bintushop:
picture a woman without a virgina. What do u see? U will see nothing but a useless dead walking good for nothing robot

joinnow:
My neighbor in limca estate nearly go mad because he use his saving to be training a lady at uni. When she graduated.she said she no do again cos his father told her not to marry another tribe.
The guy just dry up within a week. Thank God I told him to take leave travel somewhere far and rethink his life which he did.Now he has met a working independent graduate.

afbstrategies:
Too bad! Orgasms, like time waits for no one. Good luck anyways!

afbstrategies:
How many sexual orgasms have you achieved through christian teaching?

afbstrategies:
If God start punishing them now, some of you will start crying for them

asuustrike2009:
It is absolute wrong. What they posted there isn't different from what the world is doing

asuustrike2009:
Take it or leave it,it is sinful. If the church wants to discuss something of that nature, there is a way to go about it not carnality as being displayed

Maximus85:
Naked girl identified.
You dress like a prostitute and walked pass my hood. Na girls like you go remove the remaining rags wey you wear. Awon were

BalogunIdowu:
So they can't blame you for tempting him with your nudity abi... Rubbish!

iyke1989:
mumu...shut up!

Maximus85:
Even when you dress like a harlot?

blessedabisola:
And How Did You Present Yourself Too.Too Nude

elonize:
U pushed for end rape,n c wat u r wearing.....better change

oga70563:
Thank you!

dominique:
No justification whatsoever for sexually assaulting anybody, too bad the average Nigerian man is too depraved to realize this. If you see nothing wrong with grabbing a woman's arse without her permission, then you are a potential rapist

PDPGuy:
But that is a bit awkward. “Excuse me ma, can I touch your nyash”.

oga70563:
Madam, let me enlighten you. She wasn't raped nor attempted to be. She was only molested

Rape and Molestation are two different words and crime

oga70563:
It's very wrong of you to tag me a rapist. If Kimani had dressed properly, her asss won't have been grabbed.

Scatterscatter:
But I don't understand something o...

She said guys should gain consent from girls before touching them. Was the guy supposed to say "excuse me ma, can I touch your yansh"