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ShyCypher:
Unfortunately you are right here.

I have nothin' - absolutely nothin' - to offer a woman above 30 years.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
most of them and kids below 15years whose heards are filled with fantasy. They can't seperate reality from fantasy yet. Some of them who are above 20 are idle and so are their brains. Some still pee in the bed. You know them from their silly comments.

ShyCypher:
Madam, If you had channeled this drive and zeal back then in your mid 20s, you might have started raisin' your own family by now.

Don't blame nairaland for your misfortunes.

I can imagine how frustrated you'll be in person - snappin' at everythin' you see but all it'll do is intensify the pain which you feel right now.

You're past your sell-by date and it is evident in your bitter post. I suggest you trick a man into impregnatin' you soon so you can at least enjoy the joys of motherhood before the inevitable menopause creeps up on you in a couple years time.

Tick tock...



PS: You actually have only sex to offer to a man. If you had anythin' else, you would be married by now.

edoman2016:
The school proprietor could be right to sack her for getting pregnant out of wedlock. A teacher is expected to be a role model to pupils. I can not allow my children to be taught by a teacher that got pregnant out of wedlock because it is a bad example of morality. A child born out of wedlock is a bastard.

OmniSparrow:
You sound really pained. Poor thing.

ShyCypher:
Why are you suddenly violent?

If you aren't 30 yet, why are you pained?

jaychubi:
Women have what is called menapause men don't, got dt

ShyCypher:
Slay mamas are really angry o.

I never knew there was this number of 30+ mamas on nairaland.

Ahhh! Wahala dey o

I can see Dimples129, Daeylar, pocohontas, ladyhippolyta88 rantin' & wailin' up there

The thing pain dem well well o!

ShyCypher:
She is free to take her own life.

...same advice I'm givin' you right now ma.

Choose a bridge & jump into the lagoon. You are expired!

lereinter:
its 75% true

even in china, gals of such age are called " left over"

Sagay212:
that's the TRUFF!...The TRUFF is bitter than chloroquin and extremely pepperish than 1000 naira ata rodo.

check am well, which guy go wan marry woman wey be 30 years and above? wetin she dey do all the years wey she nor gree marry until she turn 30. if una like make una vex nack una head for ground, na true the guy don yarn. All those young ones forming shakara, you better behave yourself now that you are young and accept a correct guyman wey dey scope you before you join association of bitter single ladies turn feminist over night because of lost hope. a word is enough for the wise.

babasolution:
nope,men are creating things,inventing and developing the world,maybe,not african men though,atleast thats something,all women do is copy,hate ,bring down n destroy men,destroy family ,culture,promote whoredom and indecency,no positive value,even the ones that manage to bring positive value eventually use it as a canon ball to get at men and further destroy

ikpuru1234:
Sorry am not trying to be rude but I dont think i will suggest talking to him again. I cannot make this relationship work all by myself, it must be a collective efforts. I tried talking to him the following day and what did i get? more spitting and shouting. If he asks for reconciliation I will suggest individual counselling first before together. Our GP can arrange that, if not we will continue living like housemates until I package my next move. For now, I take care of myself and kids, that's my priority. I wish I didn't relocate with him, dont even have any close friends to run or talk to. I would have left home with kids if not because of this new place.

ikpuru1234:
I called them as well they said I will be linked to them if am really in a danger from him, like those stalking types. That I also have to file against him at police. But other benefit I cannot get due to visa status. We are citizens of where we moved from and they are good with women. They gave me option of since I have a good profession I should wait until I start work then go and rent. I will keep searching. I wish I could get a temp accomodation now so i dont have to wait until 2-3months. Landlords also dont take unemployed people even with 3 months upfront; which I suggested as i have some savings.
He sent me a text message 'I am sorry" yet we stay in the same house. It shows me his type of heart that you could do that kind of atrocity and feel that 3 typed words will make it alright.

At that point,she said she wondered why I didnt take advantage of her that night. She asked if I didnt find her attractive enough.

cummando:
Like divorce? What you see as depression might be a hurdle she has to overcome for a happier tomorrow. Its an advice though. Its left for her to take it or leave it. Its not compulsory

Pubichairs:
his wife was stuck to him through hard times, now they've made it big...I believe those worthless gold digging bitches..would use their sense this time

I feel like separating for a while will do us good, also we could get counselling and his management on anger if we decide to come back together.

cummando:
Perseverance.... That's all I have to say. I see you have some of that. Else you would have long divorced him because A couple of years you complained he snores. Men always want to be in charge of the house...in fact in charge of everything. So I'll say play possum. You'll get a lot of advice from here or anywhere. Fools will say leave him. Morons will say walk away. What I'll stay stay there. If he shouts look at him,dont say a word. Instead say sorry. If he wants something do it fast.If he wants some action give it to him wella. Be the obedient "foolish" wife. Very soon his conscience will come into play.Trust me divorce is not an option. You'll ruin the lives of those kids.Do it for them. Remember nothing good comes easy.

P.s : a recent survey(Jan 2018) shows that 84% of those in Nigeria prisons comes from broken homes.

Sagamite:
Na today?

Who no know say I dey arrogant?

You don't have to accept it o. But I will continue saying it.

Make no mistake; there is a serious gender war going on in the world at the moment. It was started and feulled by stupid feminists.

I AM PART OF THE WAR! As I would not sit my arse down and let anyone tell me that my rights should be secondary to theirs and they should get an advantage and even power over me. Which is what feminism has become.

I fight feminists and reetarded real men with a passion!

Secondly I am not a supporter of the women's L'Oreal movement aka "Because I am worth it" .................aka "I should have everything my way simply for being a woman". Selfishness begets selfishness from me.

Sagamite:
Really?

Disappointment?

Disappointment because you don’t like the facts or the reality?

Lets start with 2 fcking facts, sweetheart.

Fact 1: I have not gotten any “worse”. I am not getting any more brilliant either, because I am at the peak so that is almost impossible. These are just the same things I have been saying for fcking years on NL. I am getting fcking consistent as usual.

If there are any changes in my utterances, they are changes aligned to and based on observations of changes in society (e.g. the final outcomes of radical feminism I have been warning about for at least 5 years) but the changes are consistent with my espoused position right from time.

Fact 2: I am not the type to give a flying shyt about the approval of other people ESPECIALLY about my opinion. I expect people to feel privileged hearing them and learning from them. I don’t need your “appointment”, nor does your disappointment carry any weight in my life. My opinions are ALWAYS reasoned, factual, objective and logical. So telling me you are disappointed would not change them. I don’t base my opinions on subjectivity and you are a subject, I wouldn’t try to please you. The only thing that would carry weight with me is your solid counter-arguments.

Now coming to your point about self-hate and hatred of blackness. I think we all know the former is pure nonsense and quite laughable if you meant it literally; i.e. not a statement indirectly linked to the latter. It was just you getting emotional like most women do.

I think of myself very highly and supremely. Actually many think it is over the top, but frankly I don’t blame them because they don’t live my world or live in my head. If they did and saw how it feels to live a life where one is able to observe the world and to, every time, actually be able to spot, decipher and point out the BS in it in a fcking accurately manner, it would be like fcking “Alice in Clairvoyanceworld” to them and they would feel Godly too.

I am a fcking great social observer! It is my fcking talent just like playing football is Messi’s talent and running fast is Bolt’s talent. Those 2 also think highly and supremely of themselves. They are justified to.

Focusing more on the latter, hatred of blackness, it is actually an interesting point if you meant it in totality and not just linked to my opinions of the typical behaviour of black women (“sisters” as the black panther like to call them). It is interesting because you are highlighting that you know I am not only harsh on women, I am also harsh on black people. So all the likes of Ladyhippolyta88 talking nonsense about missipipioghene and hellovism are talking crap. I am ruthless against the black race in regards to progressive behaviours as much as I am ruthless with women in regards to relationship behaviours. As a matter of fact, I frequently call black people monkeys; more derogatory and less factual than women that I call “selfish”.

There are actually 3 social groupings I love watching their train wrecks based on their own stupidity that I have observed:

1) Women: As previously mentioned about majority of them’s selections when young and the abuse of their first-to-have advantage power (especially black women). Then expecting good outcomes in their solipsism later when the power shifts.
2) Black people: With their persistent idiocy and lack of intellectualism in their societies. The average black society hardly engage their brains when making decisions to the point they create shyt and weak societies (aka shitholes!), no wonder they were seen as and taken as slave material by other races. Some would say I am wrong that they were just unlucky. But I would say BS! The black race is full of stupid people who don’t understand their priorities and on average have a weaker brain than other races. Everywhere they go, their community is a failure and violent. The same things they were doing that led to them being conquerable (i.e. moronic traditions, culture, religiosity, leadership selection and lack of intellectuality) is what their buffoon descendants are doing today and some are selling them in Libya!
3) Muslims: I grew up observing how these people thought it was a source of power and exciting to demonstrate to other people that they are more violent than people of other religions and are more willing to die in a fight. They refused to condemn and be the first to condemn atrocities committed in the name of their religion; many secretly enjoy watching the 'power by fear' it gave them. I used to speak against this back in the day at A-level College. Now they have a completely discredited religion that is hated by a lot of people in the world to the point countries (not just Trump’s US) are refusing to take Muslim refugees. Worse still is that the bombers are now bombing the Muslims themselves and their community are the biggest casualties. .............Their fcking train wreck.

The worst thing is that these 3 groupings are the ones most likely to blame some other groupings for their woes, claiming they are being picked on, instead of looking internally at their own behaviours and decisions.

Girl, those are just snippets. Let me stop there, because if I pour the analysis in my head out, it would fill 4 pages and you will be too overwhelmed.

Unfortunately for everyone that falls within these groupings, there is no mechanism for stamping the ‘stupidity guilt’ on the foreheads of members guilty of the wrong-doing, so at the end of the day, all the members will potentially be subject to the collective consequences of the wrong behaviours. Only a few (guilty or not) would be lucky to escape the consequences. Hence, why people like me have to shout over the top to highlight it to the members to stop these stupid behaviours. If dem like, make dem hear; if dem like, make dem dey feel picked on. The consequences will remain there.

I love watching train wrecks of people who don’t see reason and refuse to do the right thing when they can. I have no pity or sympathy for such people. Looku Looku!

Luckily for you, I have always identified you as one of those that don’t fall into this class of under-developed black females. One can tell by observing some [small list of] black girls’ utterances and approach on NL. I have a good idea of which girls are classy and which ones ghettoish. Not that I am saying you would not have the selfish traits inherent in a woman (as demonstrated by your reactions here), you just come across as generally more self-developed and can control your potential negatives better than majority of black women

. Don’t carry their cross especially as you are married. ‘People deserve to get what they deserve’ is my view in life.

What I stated are the realities on the ground. It is not only me saying it, others including TV stations and professional publications are saying it; some others are forming MGTOW. I just happen to be a pioneer in saying these things before they did because of my social observation gift!

chronique:
I do not support ladies being called olosho for speaking their minds or because people are arguing over an issue. I don't even know the girl(I heard her name for the first time when the incident occurred). I've have as much as possible, refrained from contributing to the topic because the incident in question, is a sensitive one and both parties have put out statements to defend themselves. I'm not commenting because I want to take sides with the driver or all uber drivers, on this case. I'm trying to be very neutral on it. All I'm saying to you in plain and simple English is that,you should not use such words on a group of people collectively, over this incident. Let's flip this script a bit.

Imagine some nollywood actress coming to protest against being called olosho because of this incident,and I comment on Nairaland and say they are idiots and I ask if they called "all of them olosho". How does that sound? Silly right? But the truth is that they have the right to come out and protest about being called derogatory names over this incident which no one truly knows who is at fault.

I'm not here to fight for taxify driver at the centre of the issue,or dorcas or any nairalander who comments on this case. I'm just saying that we should be civil in our approach. Don't go about throwing words on people collectively. As for those calling you olosho; I'm sure you know not everyone on the internet is couth enough to know how to talk to people in a public forum. It isn't my responsibility to start quoting them one by one and engaging them on that.

majekdom2:
do you need a sooth sayer to tell you that?

Daeylar:
Don't mind the fools,
Carrying carboards like idiots, we are not rapists,
Mtchewwwwwwwwww

Why are they trying to inject themselves into the issue.
The issue is between dorcas and the man. Let it go to court, let's see who is wrong and who is right.

Not this nonsense they are doing,



Don't mind the fools,
They want to insert themselves into the situation at all costs
Why can't they wait for it to go to court?
Did dorcas talk about them?
Why can't they allow dorcas and the man to battle it out in court,
Protesting as if dorcas is talking about them.

superhumanist:
I just pity you

Keballl:
You are ironically contradicting yourself which shows you aren't thinking properly.

Your insinuation that they should fold their harms and allow folks like you call a dog a bad name simply to hang it won't fly.

While it is your right to raise awareness about assault on ladies, it is also their right to bring to the notice of the populace the pain of their everyday hustle.

You have no rights whatsoever to call them idiots simply because their narratives didn't sooth your all knowing opinion.

It is folks like you who will engage in jungle justice simply because you have a warped stereotype about others.

chronique:
It's obvious you do not see your wrong doing here,and you genuinely believe that you have a right to call them idiots. I'm very sure you know what idiot means,and all the synonyms associated with it. With that kind of mindset,nothing I type here would make you see reasons as to why you are wrong. I'm just gonna let it slide,and not engage you in any further discussion on this,again.

superhumanist:
Emotions and sentiments seem to get the better of you.

The drivers were not just protesting the rape case at hand! Please, go and learn the meaning of this phrase "the straw that broke the camel's back" because this ra*pe case was the straw.

Keballl:
You are just vibrating foolishly. People are legitimately protesting against perceived social profiling and here you are busy convulsing that they have no rights to be heard over an unproven allegation.

What nonsense.

chronique:
First things first,I didn't pick on you. I only drew your attention to the fact that your calling them idiots,is wrong. In case you do not know,in Nigeria here,a lot of people look down on taxi drivers as people of a lower class. If you were born and bred here before you traveled out,you'd obviously know that's a fact(except you just wan to feign ignorance). Secondly, you and I and every other person(apart from the driver and the "perceived victim" do not have a first hand info on what transpired; we're all responding based on what both parties said. Obviously, we all know that this incident, would one way affect the image and perception a good no of people would have towards these drivers just as a lot of female riders might not become very comfortable taking this uber taxify biz. I can understand why they'd want to protest about not wanting to be labeled badly. I have read a lot of comments and responses from people on social media on this issue. This is the first time I'm even commenting and it's just cos of what you typed and nothing more. If they decide to stage a protest,it probably would be due to events that must have occurred/transpired surrounding this issue. It's really up to them to do that and it's not the business of you and I. You really don't have any justifiable basis for calling them idiots.
That being said,try and be more calm and less emotional/sentimental when responding to a post that isn't in any way,aggressive. The tone in which you have responded to me is quite insultive but I choose not to pay attention to that. Have a good day.

superhumanist:
Ironic, how you called people "1diots" for speaking up.

But yes, the court case will be interesting