ok...God would definitely see u thru. I know how u feel. For not supporting ur sister when she's wrong, she wants to ruin u. Some people are like that but they don't know tomorrow.
I could HV helped u but I don't have a house in Abuja but I do elsewhere and no one is there and my neighbor sometimes would be like oga, when r u coming bk..How can u leave ur house without putting anyone.
Jemiwizzy: I don't have anywhere to go I don't want to go back to where am not welcome anymore they will treat me more bad I need accommodation to stay in I don't have any clue on what to do now and I don't have any body to help me financially all I just want is peace of mind.
canttedra: The recent topic on the home page motivated me to make this post, anonymously of course.
We were dating before I left Nigeria. We've been dating for about three years. Sometime last year I got a new job in the US (I schooled there so it was easy), and moved away from the country. Until a few weeks ago, we talked nearly every other day. It's always fun talking to her. But lately, things have started to get a little rough because of something that came up, and which I would like to believe is not my fault.
Prior to dating her, since I was a kid in university, I made myself a few promises relating to women:
1. I will never pay a woman's school fees 2. I will never rent a house or apartment for a woman, nor furnish an existing apartment 3. I will never sponsor a woman abroad.
Of course, this does not mean that I won't buy a woman gifts (I do that regularly), or take her on a nice trip. I just do not envisage myself pulling a woman up the social ladder. I prefer she makes her own growth moves as it relates to finances or relocation.
I made these promises based on the fact that I expected that whomever I make a partner should be able to make something of their own selves. I do not want to be anybody's savior or anyone's get-out-of-jail card. This resolution has made lose a few women in the past who thought the relationship should be based on what they can get out of it, and my girlfriend knows this.
The situation right now is that there is a path for her to come to America through studying. We already talked about her applying for graduate studies and then transitioning here into a better job. However, she now feels that would be stressful and may not work. Instead, she thinks it's better if I return to Nigeria this December to marry her and then sponsor her eventually to the US. That's not going to happen. This has created a rift and we have not been talking for a while now.
Am I being unreasonable here? How can I make her realize she can be her own person and not have to depend on someone else to "sponsor" her? It just drives me nuts that she knows this about me but is now vehemently insisting that this is the only viable option.
Why don't you look for a citizen over there to marry or are you a citizen already?
What does "too nice" even mean? Because I have never heard any of my friends say they rejected a guy because he was 'too nice'. Maybe he was boring, too clingy, too clumsy, too rude or too short but 'too nice'? Nah!
Let me not even start with the 'past her prime' nonsense.
Women don't like nice guys and that's why they finish last. I could recall this girl I was nice to but unfortunately for her, she thought I was a wussy. After couple of months, I changed my tactics and later banged her. In fact, I banged her so many times that I got tired of her.
Hahahhaa this one weak me, thats how one idiot I mate in camp was doing nice to me, when I know how she is following rugged guys na now she saw me Abi, I japa left the Mumu
You can fûck her as much as you want but never ever ever commit
Except you are okay sharing her with her baby daddy 1.. irrespective of how she swears he is the devil's incarnate he knows what to do He knows how to rub her back He know how to bite her ear lobe softly and she opens her legs for him That's how he got her pregnant
Mickey18AR: That's why even at 40 they'll never see any "Good man" to marry them
That's right. They prefer to date bad boys at the early stage but when they are getting old and desperate, they start looking for good guys. Senseless species.
MarvelouzB: I have been dating this guy for 2 years now and oh yes I really like him, we met during my NYSC through my cousin who is a friend of his, he do come visit me during my service year, he has a good job in Lagos and he is doing well on his own. Recently, he proposed to me and I accepted, we are making arrangements for him to come see my parents. But I noticed recently that he has a bit of temper which doesn't last and he insults me a lot at ease, I told him I don't like it, he apologised but he does it even when we are having a normal conversation, recently he insulted my parents on one of our conversations and I was devastated, I hold my parents in high esteem and I can't imagine myself with a guy who has no respect for me or my parents. He chatted me up but I am yet to reply, and I know he will apologise, should I accept his apology and continue with the wedding plans, I am scared for what the future holds if I finally get married to him. I need some opinions please
Your ilk is here complaining about Western laws and shouting "women are taking away our property" when most of you do not even get to have properties abroad. And if you did, you wouldn't be here ranting because you would know that there are ways to protect them.
You are totally wrong. Nigerian women(not all) are senseless. You are among those who are foolish. Look, when it comes to marriage, you need to understand some certain things. I recently talked with a young lady and discovered she has nothing to offer to my loved friend in marriage.
I told her my friend lives in Ghana and she was like 419, yahoo yahoo and she didn't even ask me about this guy. So terrible.
Later on, I said to her actually, the person I wanted to introduce you lives in New Zealand and he is an Engineer, a citizen and he is just 30. The babe up till now still calls me on phone. That was how she lost a great opportunity. Senseless girls.
They will be shouting that women take away their property abroad but majority of them do not even own houses there. They live in the poorest neighborhoods to be able to send some small change home. Yet they expect their wives to worship them for taking them abroad.
The big question is, what can you offer to a man? Isn't better to live poorly and send something home than living richly and cannot send anything? Which would you choose? Senseless woman.
Frustrated007: serving your husband and giving him the necessary respect is human trafficking?
Which hole do you thots crawl out from for Christ sake!!! I swear there needs to be a massive campaign against marriage! Prostitution should be legal and men should boycott marriages then we will see who will suffer. People don't value what they have till they loose it. The same way the Israelites didn't value God till he left them.
That's probably why lots of women are single and hopeless. Some have lost their senses and can't think well.
BaddieFreak: I was molested as a kid when I was six by a grown man 45-50 years. Before that incident, my father had left my mom when she was pregnant with me.
So I grew up without a father. I only grew up with my step dad who also harrased me sexually and regularly beat my mom to stupor. I got disgusted by any male, regardless of their age, after that. When I was in secondary school, a boy had a crush on me and confessed, and I hated him for that.
Anyone who confessed his love to me would disgust me. As I grew older and reached my teenage years, my friends would start talking about boys, and I would get left out since the topic wouldn’t interest me and I would walk out of the conversation.
As time passed, my desire to be in a relationship grew, but I couldn’t find a stunning guy I’d like to be involved with.
So I tried to start a relationship with men. I met this entrepreneur who made a decent living, had a 10/10 personality, is accepting, loving, responsible, initiative, young, rich, works out, has a six-pack, eats healthy food, travels but I couldn't feel any thing for him so I left.
I met another guy like that. He was arrogant and proud and was used to women chasing after him. I liked his carefree personality but disliked his irresponsible ways. He was more like a typical hooligan, too immature and irresponsible.
Even though I liked him, I decided that I wouldn’t date him since I thought being in a relationship would force me to be vulnerable and I wasn’t ready to be vulnerable with anyone, so I left him.
I met one or two handsome guys who were extremely rude and arrogant, self-centered, and expect the world to revolve around them. I immediately dismissed them.
I am surprised by women who fall in love with every single guy they meet all the time. Does anyone have a similar experience? How do you treat my case?
Hehehe. What an interesting story. Are you still interested in guys?
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Men are hypocrites Ready to bang his friend's woman but ready to kill when his woman gets banged
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MissEfe: wicked man. I just dey pity 4 d gal womb. See wetin 1k wan do persin pikin. Girls work hard oh, aquire a skill. learn to be independent and be contented with what u have, make one guy no use u do shakara
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