₦airaland Forum

INEC is wasting a lot of our resources. Funds that can be used to fund developments are being wasted by INEC.

INEC should be scrapped now!

There are several other better ways to monitor elections than the analog expensive system of INEC.

Let's try SMS voting, let's use our Bvn, let's other bodies like interswitch handle our elections. This will make it free and fair and less expensive.

Expect Buhari in 2019. He's coming back comfortably. Your vote is not needed.

The result was rigged. If you haven't gotten your pvc, it not my business. There's nothing called free and fair elections in Nigeria again. GEJ is really a hero.

Interesting, which sin is now greater than the blood of jesus? Can a sin now undo the salvation bought by the blood of Jesus? When did sins become more powerful than the blood?

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UDUJ:
SirToby please don’t bring religion into this. God is not punishing you for any activity you feel you did

You suffer from Anxiety. Anxiety is a mental health disorder and affects over 60% of Nigerians but because of the way our society is designed we decide not to treat it cause of the supposed stigma attached to such. When people think of anxiety, they think of worrying and stress. They think of fears and a feeling as though something is going to go wrong. Anxiety is seen in thoughts and actions.

But anxiety has a tremendous physical component, and one of the key contributors to those physical sensations is long term stress. This Stress has a tremendous impact on your health, and one of the most common conditions is feeling ill.


The stress from anxiety can cause feelings of very genuine sickness. These feelings often mimic the way illnesses make you feel. Your stomach can feel like it's rumbling and you may even feel like you are having fever or malaria. Feeling sick may be a sign that you've fallen ill, but it can also be a clear sign of anxiety.

When we are stressed and the stress is a prolonged one (e.g. grief), it is physically very hard on the body to maintain this stress response for a prolonged period, so we have to find ways to take our body out of this stress response. Some of these ways are spending time with friends, counselling, medication, mindfulness, making sure we eat and sleep enough, massage, hypnosis etc. There are lots of different things that can help.

Anxiety can weaken your immune system, increasing the risk of suffering from mild illness.

Feeling ill is something that often causes concern. Some people feel so sick that they vomit or experience profound nausea that keeps them away from their activities. Some people experience more than just nausea as well. They may experience other symptoms that are similar to catching a fever, malaria or flu. They may feel like their organss are swollen, or their tongue is dry. They may feel lightheaded. They may even cough or experience severe stomach discomfort, like indigestion.

When anxiety is causing these symptoms, they're not dangerous. Anxiety is simply your body's misfiring of the body's natural fight or flight response, and the way your body reacts is designed to make sure that you know you're supposed to be fearful.
The problem isn't the signals themselves, the problem is that you're experiencing them all the time, often when it is inconvenient. People feel these symptoms for different reasons:

Situational anxiety is actually natural. It's inconvenient, but it's natural. Back in school, if you felt severe illness before a big test, it's because you genuinely feared that test. While tests shouldn't provide that fear, the reaction is not unexpected.

But on the other hand, the one you should fear and what I think you have is Feelings of chronic illness from anxiety which is even more problematic, because when your anxiety won't go away, the feeling of being ill won't go away either. It becomes something that makes you feel worse about your health, saps your energy, and can ruin each and every day (all symptoms you are feeling now).

My recommendation: go to the clinic and see a trained therapist. He will prescribe some good anti-depressants. You will be okay.

Bro. Please, we need to discuss...as soon as you can permit me

I actually expected a stadium like church considering the amount spent.. But this is the real thing... Something beyond tithe

Interpreting the Bible is not for every dick, Tom and freeze.

Sometimes I wonder the kind of guys that marry ladies like this....



No be say I holy pass, but even if I'm under a spell I can't marry a cleavage baring lady.

It's been a very long time I read from a foolish Nigerian like this who have lost his identity in the white man's land. See the way the foolish folk is defending America and calling Nigeria a third world. You're too foolish beyond comprehension. Trump has become a nightmare to you just because your identity has an American is unstable... Stay calm you're a citizen already, you won't be deported. And please stop painting America like one special place, some of us hate the place like poo. I have never dreamed of spending a year in your overhyped poo country.

Abbeybailey:
Like I said you are a fool that doesn't give a damn about Nigeria and you are spewing garbage. Go back to your tribal section you third world Nazi sympathizer.

I'm almost breathless... There is hope for families if we have more of these women in Nigeria. I wonder how lovely your family is.

PaperLace:
Dear OP,

Whether you cancel the white wedding or not _ you're already married. Marriage isn't relationship where you can waltz in and out as you like. It's an oath, binding on both parties.

Be careful how you bring your issues to the public, considering that your mind is currently fragile. The general rule, may not apply to your situation. I don't think any responsible married person would tell you to walk away so soon. I have domineering in-laws too, your wife's whole family can never be as rude as my FIL alone _ but you handle such people with wisdom (now that you're already married). If you weren't married, I would have said run.

The early days of most marriages are like this. One person will always see the other as a demon, while painting him/herself as the angel. You are not an angel, I am sure your wife would sound just as bitter as you, if she creates her own thread. What you have to do is win your wife to your side. Once you genuinely win your wife to your side, she would handle her family.

The last post on your wife and SIL, you didn't do well.
If that's your own attitude, then you and your wife need orientation. Why does your wife shout? Is she a mad woman? Has she always been like this? What is she always shouting about?

My husband also doesn't know how to discuss in low tones, he must raise his voice. I used to join him, until I sat and thought about it _two people no dey mad at the same time. He did it again and I ignored, I politely told him he is embarrassing US and we would talk when he is calm. He still repeated it and I used all my self-control to keep ignoring.

One day, he called me and asked why I have been refusing to get angry. I started laughing and we had a talk that changed a lot till this moment. People like that know what they are doing to a good extent, the best medicine for them is to show them how normal people express themselves. Don't come down to their level, don't go begging unnecessarily _ just express yourself firmly.
When you do this over and over, they'll come to revere your silence and few words.

You mould your spouse to be who you want them to be. There is really no perfect spouse at first, but we mould them to our perfection with time.

Captain your ship as best as you can _all with the dignity of a king.

Please someone should please help me, I'm frustrated... Why am I seeing bvn validation in progress? What can I do?

Op, so you mean that site became bad under Fayose because he didn't maintain it?

With the pictures I'm seeing, the place has been tattered even before Fayose became the Governor. Show us the pictures just before Fayose was sworn in...

Confirm.... Keep sleeping till you rest in peace.

Fayose 2019

The target is not Oga jona but osinbajo... Something is wrong with buhari... Though Jonathan's administration is 10 times better than this worthless one. .

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Fayose... Always talking the uncensored truth.

I just imagine how desperate buhari was for power... Now he has the power, but no health to carry it...

Money is good, power is better, but good health and peace surpass them.

Time and chance didn't work for buhari... He got the mandate to lead again when his body couldn't carry his dreams. Becoming the right thing at the wrong time is as bad as doing the wrong thing and the right time.

Selah

Onrugbo bo o...

All I see is the perverted form Patrick obiagbon

ApostleJSuleman:
This is very unfair and a Gross injustice being perpetrated in this country.
To all those cheering this injustice, be aware, today it is Kemi, tomorrow it could be you.
Nothing stops someone from saying what she thinks, if anyone thinks they are being maligned, nothing stops you from seeking redress in a court of competent jurisdiction. But perverting justice and unduly incarcerating one is illegitimate and should never be condoned , Nobody is more important than the other, no body is more equal than another;
If the said man wasn't a Preacher; would you all be encouraging this like you do? Let's be objective and reasonable for once . All this adulation and deifying we do for preachers in this part of the world to the dismal extent of condoning all their excesses and dignifying them as infallible is truly pitiable ,
I really pity for this nation and how vainglorious religiousness has further hacked us into a dejected and despondent state ..

I just wish you won't be tarnished on social media for what you didn't do, for something capable to turning your world upside, for something capable of tearing your family apart, and make your children feel shameful on the streets... By one mentally unbalanced blogger.

If I inherited a good name, and I've been doing everything to protect my name over years. Then I would go all out to get justice if someone tries to tarnish and stain the name I've built over the years.

The problem is, in Nigeria we don't know that value of a good name. What kemi did is as bad as murder for people who knows what a good name is. Please stop saying nonsense... Let her learn and teach others too. Don't mess with a man who values himself and his name. Even if he's poor, he deserves justice.

jeroton:
So Aregbesola has been wrongly accused by this result ,

Brugge:
I am impressed with Osun, how did Oni gbese one of Nigeria managed to clear it? That guy has my respect.

Abeg wake up, aregbesola is not owing less than 11 months salary, dude has been paying half salary for more than 2 years. That report is trash. Why should we be deceiving ourselves na?

beejay247:
Dm me or give ne ur no

[quote author=mhizv post=56884848]OK [/quote

About panic attacks.

mhizv:
. about,?

Can we please talk? Need to ask some questions from you.

mhizv:
no matter how relaxed I think I am,it turns out bad.last time it was at 160. and I checked before leaving for the hospital read 120/80.. all the same thanks just checked. and the results is exactly how it is with me

Please, I need to speak with you directly.

beejay247:
Thanks op.. I am going through this and there have been about 80% improvement

It's actually not easy.. You won't even be able to explain how e dey do you..

BP will just be untable like Nepa.. Lol..

I was at first diagnosed of hypertension, did series of tests....

My doctor has been really helpful..Seeing or hearing from him will automatically calm me down, Imagine calling him around 2am but I have been able to do without him... .

Ordinary breeze can trigger the panic except someone with you confirm he also feel the breeze..

The thing is just to belive nothing will happen.

If anything happens to osinbajo.... Nigeria will... Don't know what else to say...

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IamOpemipo:
Just finished listening to the track and man its a very good track,totally naija..davido owned that track man..and that olamides part, well that has always been his style (believe me the core street will love this song Cos of his part), he had said worse in the past and wldnt stop the song from been played on radio..and that hook actually gave the song another feel instead of the monotonous rapper Singer chemistry davido and Wale cld have shared.

#justsaying

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DLondonboiy:
Today is the day....

Something big has happened in aso rock...Power has changed hands..
Before the end of this week, there would be an announcement..

Oga... Which power change hands? Nothing dey happen for aso Rock where I dey.

I have seen many foolish Christians on nairaland, who don't even go to church... Yet they are quick to despise a man of God.. Foolish Christians who don't read the Bible... By now, many of them are adults, they don't know that David was a product of an illicit affair put of wedlock. Interesting people like funmi iyanda who really don't have a good life behind the screen is castigating a pastor.

David was born out of wedlock, Jesse his father and his brothers despised him, he was not even numbered among his children when Samuel came to anoint the next king... Samuel had to ask... "Are these all ur children?"

Foolish people, Rehab was the great grandmom of David... They say she's not her direct monther... But when they call Jesus the son of David, they keep mute. If you can call Jesus the son of David, you can as well call David the son of Rehab the prostitute... So whichever way you want to view it... David was a product of an extra marital affair. And he is also the son of a harlot.

Funmi iyanda should go to church... At least a bible teaching church... Not all these churches that are carried away by ur fame. Mtcheeeeew to all poor Christians who don't read their bibles and come here on nairaland to rant and spew foolishness.

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