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chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

Never ignore the signs. Move on. Don't give her one kobo. Use your money for something better, invest it. Do you know you can start agro business with that amount.
Don't let a woman ruin your life. God had rescued you, keep it that way

doctokwus:
Didirin

Musa Fatai, Aka Dr Frank.... SARS fall on you ...... very soon

PrecisionFx:
Onye nko, The bank values a house n tell the owner how much loan they can get wit it, Not the other way round.

Keep defending silidity

like you dont know what goes on here.

People value their house as collateral for loan, if you value your house 500 million to collect a loan, thats what the government would value it for you, simple

Nice

Its all Paint. Even he lips are drawn. Whats the point of being a model when all your face is painted like a Chinese doll

Thats why i pick up my condoms and dispose them immedieately. There was even a period where id take the condom into the bathroom and fill it with water to be extra sure it was not leaking.

Its better to abstain and get the very one God destines for you.

Cant take any chances with just any girl in this generation.

AntiBrutus:
You mean she injected the sperm using a catheter?
That's the only plausible way I can think of.

Conception doesn't take place in the cervix.
The road from the cervix to the uterus isn't as straight forward as 'inserting sperm deep into her vagina'.

What if she used a funnel

If this happened in the west easterners would jubilate. We can disagree on everything but humans loosing their lives should never be used as a form of attack, no matter the tribe.

Rip to the dead, hope we solve this problem once for all

Gabbysky:
You can speak your Yoruba all you like, but any teacher that teaches any of my children that useless language that we will never be interested in, will be severely dealt with.
I have already warned them.
They should pass my threat to Ambode

Lmao, when dss catch you for no reason and you are unheard of, you will beat your chest well at the ogba-nba compound (u know you know)

colossus91:
Lol we understand Yoruba but the feeling is mutual too so calm dafuqdown!!

Im chill as fuq

CSTR2:
Anybody that have not seen Yoruba tribalism must not be a Nigerian.
You are tribalists. Even your awolowo as educated as he was,was a staunch tribalist.

How much more an ignoramus like you.

Abeg dey go.

Well tribalism must be a good thing then. Tribalism without insult to others is nationalism - odua nationalism i accept.

Every Yoruba must therefore be a tribalist, a non insulting tribalist.

CSTR2:
Now you don't care what igbos do.
I will remind you when I catch you talking about igbo tribalism.

Igbo tribalism is like saying a woman with breast. its normal.

What you have not seen is Yoruba tribalism.

What you will see might be tribalism from your view, but its Pro-Yoruba from our view.

Cmon, you guys hate us, why should we really care, accommodate or like you.We talk hausa this hausa that, but in all truth you lot are worse, and the most sinister and disrespectful tribe, yet.....

We don't hate you, we don't like you, we just don't care what Igbo does or don't do. Enough is enough - o ti to ge.

CSTR2:
But when igbos do the same, it is archaic and tribalistic?
Nice

Frankly, we dont give a damn what igbos do at this stage, we are doing what we are doing for our own people, heritage and future, In Yoruba land, Yoruba First. The same way it is in the east, in igbo land its igbo first. No more unnecessary fraternization or accommodation. Its going to get more pronounced in coming years. Every region needs to adopt similar tactics.

Nigeriabiafra80:
Yoruba are beginning to behave more archaic than the north, what will national anthem in Yoruba do for them, will it make tinubu teeth more yellow?they can also translate the coat of arm to yoruba language, how tinubu boys look at me

Yourba just stopped putting others before them. Does not have anything to do with being Archaic. The thinking of you igbos is just inherently poor or you are good at deceiving yourselves.

....

shogotermies:
percentage of people who control Lagos.
the government- 30%
jagaban- 30%
area boys- 30%
rich men- 10%.

I just keep wondering after Lagos claiming to be a mega city,but this boys are making daily, what an educated person will earn in a month,. with no skills, no business idea, no degree...
very laughable.
ambode, please do something serious..

Which area boy is controlling lagos, if you dont have stuff to say , my friend keep quiet.

livebynite:
Should I Break Up With Her, Serious Advise Needed

I am in a bad situation and I need advice please
My gf Tinuke I call her tintin for short, has been the center of my world but for some time now certain things have me worried
We started dating 2 years ago then we moved in together after the sixth month, we do everything together at least whenever we can.
To be clear I am not a jealous person but somethings have really got me worried.
1. When we met she told me she has lots of guys as friends, and that she used to be a tomboy, even at work she has only guys as her friends, She works in KFC as a checkout girl.

2. We once went to her secondary school reunion and there where over 50 guys there and she was the only girl! I had to ask her if she went to an all guy’s school and she said these are the boy friends of her class mates that the girls will soon arrive. They never did she danced with every single guy there, but at least she introduced me to her 4 school sons and 3 school fathers who took care of her during her high school days. The only thing that bothered me about the night was she kept sitting on the laps of a particular guy who seemd way older than her to have been her school son back then and for some reason they were whispering stuff into each other’s ears all night.

3. I work with an importer as his wharehouse manager and sometimes I have to sleep there whenever we are doing stock taking and I have come home twice to find her with one of her school sons shirtless in my house and she says they are doing interview preparations (She has a big heart and loves helping people) so I can’t fault this I just always caution her to tell these guys to not take off their shirt in the house, yes granted the house I hot as we live in a self-contained. But they usually drink up all the garri in the house it’s so annoying!

4. We once went to see her uncle she grew up with somewhere in Ikoyi and when we got to bourdilion she had to call several times finally her uncles driver came to pick us, I had to wait in the security house while she went into see her uncle for over 5 hours and they didn’t even offer me ordinary water? I was so pissed.

5. KFC really stresses her out, she works even holidays, and every night around 10 her boss has to call and she has to give him reports sometimes he calls her to come back to the branch for random stock taking or reconciliation though he usually comes to pick her himself and is kind enough to send cool looking guys to drop her off the next day.

6. Another issue is that sex between us is so bad, as in every time we make love the song deep and wide constantly comes to mind, she says its the stress at work that makes her kitty so wide, I mean it is wide!! One can easily build a two wing duplex and still have space to park ten cars in there. We have had several talks about her quitting this job but not just because of how it affects her body but I have seen several nudes pictures of male organs to some rich customers sent to her, I was very angry but she explained that I shouldn’t that she always blocks the numbers.

7. Recently I came home and I found an empty condom wrap in the toilet seems it was flushed but didn’t go, she said she wanted to ask me who did that, and what really got me angry was I saw a plate in the sink with remnants of garri and milk, I was saving that remaining garri she said her school son dropped by for tutorials, I have wanted her in the past about using up the garri in the house for these guests, now I think this has gone far enough. AI am seriously thinking of breaking up with her. I need a woman who can manage our resources not waste! She is a truly wonderful person with a big heart but this wastage has got to stop. I love her but this thing is driving me nuts!!
Please mature comments only

Any girl with too many male friends is a No no. Don't be deceived.

livebynite:
Should I Break Up With Her, Serious Advise Needed

I am in a bad situation and I need advice please
My gf Tinuke I call her tintin for short, has been the center of my world but for some time now certain things have me worried
We started dating 2 years ago then we moved in together after the sixth month, we do everything together at least whenever we can.
To be clear I am not a jealous person but somethings have really got me worried.
1. When we met she told me she has lots of guys as friends, and that she used to be a tomboy, even at work she has only guys as her friends, She works in KFC as a checkout girl.

2. We once went to her secondary school reunion and there where over 50 guys there and she was the only girl! I had to ask her if she went to an all guy’s school and she said these are the boy friends of her class mates that the girls will soon arrive. They never did she danced with every single guy there, but at least she introduced me to her 4 school sons and 3 school fathers who took care of her during her high school days. The only thing that bothered me about the night was she kept sitting on the laps of a particular guy who seemd way older than her to have been her school son back then and for some reason they were whispering stuff into each other’s ears all night.

3. I work with an importer as his wharehouse manager and sometimes I have to sleep there whenever we are doing stock taking and I have come home twice to find her with one of her school sons shirtless in my house and she says they are doing interview preparations (She has a big heart and loves helping people) so I can’t fault this I just always caution her to tell these guys to not take off their shirt in the house, yes granted the house I hot as we live in a self-contained. But they usually drink up all the garri in the house it’s so annoying!

4. We once went to see her uncle she grew up with somewhere in Ikoyi and when we got to bourdilion she had to call several times finally her uncles driver came to pick us, I had to wait in the security house while she went into see her uncle for over 5 hours and they didn’t even offer me ordinary water? I was so pissed.

5. KFC really stresses her out, she works even holidays, and every night around 10 her boss has to call and she has to give him reports sometimes he calls her to come back to the branch for random stock taking or reconciliation though he usually comes to pick her himself and is kind enough to send cool looking guys to drop her off the next day.

6. Another issue is that sex between us is so bad, as in every time we make love the song deep and wide constantly comes to mind, she says its the stress at work that makes her kitty so wide, I mean it is wide!! One can easily build a two wing duplex and still have space to park ten cars in there. We have had several talks about her quitting this job but not just because of how it affects her body but I have seen several nudes pictures of male organs to some rich customers sent to her, I was very angry but she explained that I shouldn’t that she always blocks the numbers.

7. Recently I came home and I found an empty condom wrap in the toilet seems it was flushed but didn’t go, she said she wanted to ask me who did that, and what really got me angry was I saw a plate in the sink with remnants of garri and milk, I was saving that remaining garri she said her school son dropped by for tutorials, I have wanted her in the past about using up the garri in the house for these guests, now I think this has gone far enough. AI am seriously thinking of breaking up with her. I need a woman who can manage our resources not waste! She is a truly wonderful person with a big heart but this wastage has got to stop. I love her but this thing is driving me nuts!!
Please mature comments only

Dummy.
Get a better woman.
Big heart ko. She is loose your calling it big heart

This man should care for his speech. Or else God will feed him with the same poison he filled his Own Cup with

This makes me embarrassed for our girls. What a shame...

Something is fishy.

I reall dislike this country now

It seems these guys are actually free, they look very well kept its impossible they are in police custody.

Why not just let us know they have been granted bail. Why pretend they are jailed by putting cuffs on their hands.

It's getting clearer that Buhari or his cohorts are involved with Boko Haram.

Or this is another failed attempt by the government

They just put this man in trouble anyhow.
Tightly hatched plan, Kanu missing (Probably killed by the govt, probably), Abaribe you had the guts to stand ba? you are going down for kanu too.

The government used one stone to kill two birds.

Kanu gone
Abaribe going
Anyone who wants to stand as guarantor to a secessionist leader would be cautious.


Wicked act by this administration, but A1

gidgiddy:
Not at all. The Biafran movement existed before Kanu was born.

Ikpeazu's interview exposes him as someone who reasons like any other Nigerian and not as an Igbo man. He keeps talking about war, war, war as if that is what Biafra is about. Nnamdi Kanu wanted a referendum and not war. I also do not understand where people like Ikpeazu get this idea that majority of Igbos want Nigerias unity? Support a referendum let the Igbos go and decide if the love Nigeria.

And like the biased politician he is, he is not even talking about the illegal and unwarranted invasion of his state by the Nigerian Army and the killing of unarmed members of his constituency.

i didnt mean the biafra movement but the ipob one, that gave new momentum to biafra. @ bold, i disagree, he beat the drums of war. i would say otherwise if it were so. He said nothing about dialogue, not with his body language, not with his uncouth words, yet he was not prepared....

If you want dialogue, the first simple approach to respect those who you want to dialogue with, he did'nt have the common sense to do that or he felt he could coerce the government into referendum out of the fear of the unknown, eitherway, even a blind person knew he was doomed to fail from the beginning.

He was a tout at best, deserves no respect unlike actual leaders like Ojukwu, who sincerely meant well for the igbos and was wise in his methods.

Nnamdi Kanu made the movement and destroyed the movement with his own hands..... Nnamdi was his own undoing

Vickify:
20/02/18

Yesterday, I finally underwent the egg collection procedure. I don't have much to say about it because the memory is kinda fuzzy and the eggs retrieval process itself issa blur. I just remember being taken into the egg collection room, meeting the doctor (Not my crush, Margret Thatcher incarnate - she was kinda friendly sha). She inserted the IV on my right arm and the nurse put my left arm in the blood pressure machine. After the anaesthetic started taking effect, I started slipping in and out of consciousness and felt when the doctor was pricking my ovaries with the long needle, it hurt just as when I injected my skin. Anyways, I started coming around when the doctor said that was all of it and the nurse told her they had gotten eight containers of fluids. I remember when she helped me up and I asked her if they were done already and she replied in the affirmative. The whole thing didn't take more than thirty minutes like even my sister that escorted me agreed. I also remember asking the nurse how many eggs they were able to collect but she said they would know after the embryologist has examined the fluids. I got to the recovery room and slept off immediately. I woke up probably an hour later and most of the fuzzy feeling was gone. I was discharged a few minutes later after the nurse confirmed I wasn't feeling dizzy or nauseous. She gave me instructions on the drugs to take and told me I may feel a lot of pain after the pain meds wear off.

I felt really weak on the journey home and felt the urge to sit down. When we got to the bus/stop, I had sunstroke and had to whip on my shades to shield my eyes from the suddenly harsh sun. We eventually made it home and I slept off almost immediately. I had a long rest but woke up feeling constipated, must be one of the drugs they gave me (they advised me to drink lots of fluids and I'm still on it)

After 24 hours of rest and drinking lots of water, I'm feeling better and I've been able to pass out faecal matter. I didn't feel the pain the nurse said I would feel so the stash of panadol they gave me will last me for period cramps for the rest of the year.

On a whole, I think the entire experience has been rather painless, considering most of the scary stories I read online. But note, I didn't narrate this to down play some of the negatives other donors have encountered, I'm only telling this from my experience. I think the good experience I had is thanks to the doctors who knew the best protocol for me and used it. My pain threshold is medium so if you're like me, you won't be overly scared of injections.

I received my alert today and can't wait for the next cycle coming up in May/June.


PS: To those it may concern
Only females get paid at least a 100k and above for one egg donation cycle in Nigeria. To the males, remuneration goes from 5-10k depending on the sperm quality.

So sad, cos over in the western world they pay these people about $ 8000 for a first time and $ 10,000 for consequent ones.

Hope it doesn't affect your fertility on the long run cos there's babies we need to have.

ansger:
I have a girlfriend who I intend marrying. I asked her about her medical records which she showed me. She told me she's at a cross road over her genotype because the two tests she did in the last five years showed AA and AS respectively, from different hospitals though. I told her to go for another test recently and it came out to be AS still.

I saw the record of the first one which was AA and it was from a government hospital, while the two last ones are from a Private Hospital. I seriously need advise here because I'm AS too.

Both of you go in and redo the test. the result is it, don't wish the AA on her cos an SS child cannot be wished away.

Good luck

I think its time to strategically push every hausa man to stay in their own region. If you are not a professional, you shouldnt be in the south.
If the Government wont uphold the law and kill these bastard boko haram people, then its best everyone of them be discriminated, who knows who is who.

Let the southern states issue State Work permits, Student ID CARD, Business operator permit renewable every two years. Will be issued only after you have gotten a background check.

If you are caught doing business or loafing around without these documents, you are put in jail for 10 days. If they jail some people like 12 times, no one will tell him to carry his load and leave the state.

bolondo:
Hello everyone. It is my first intervention here and I expect many more.
I am a European man who has a girlfriend of Edo state for years, and thinking about getting married.
What can you tell me about the wedding in Benin City?
Greetings and thanks.

Make sure she is a real good christian.
Edo women have some bad wraps.
But if you can really vouch for her then by all means go for her.
However if you cannot, especially in the place of her being faithful to you, my brother, reconsider deeply.
Don't rush, because you are european does not mean your nudges about a person is wrong.
Basically just be very sensible, dont be coerced, marry when you are certain of the lady....

Good luck

bakynes:
I am Afonja as rightly termed by Igbos and I support the need for both Major ethnic group in the South to work together to take our destinies away from these Born to rule Hausa-Fulani. But before any peace pact can be drawn on Nairaland, Igbos most refrain from calling Lagos "a no man's land". We agree all Nigerians have contributed to the Developement of Lagos but it is still our ancestral land that has had huge advantage over any state in Nigeria by virtue of the early Portuguese traders and the British colonialist.

I campaigned in my own little way for Buhari in 2015 as I also campaigned for GEJ in 2011 and now I support the removal of Buhari by the use of our votes.

Igbos must understand that many Yorubas did not vote out GEJ because he favoured Igbos more, we simply voted him out because of how he allowed Corruption to fester in his Govt. So it was never a mistake voting out GEJ and now we must also vote out Buhari in 2019.

The only way we can salvage our destinies away from the Northern Oligarchy is only if these two major tribes to work hand in hand together especially the Yoruba Christians and Liberal Yoruba Muslims.

Even as a Yoruba man I know we have some Extremist Yoruba Muslims who always support the North over their tribes men but these extremist Yorubas are few in Numbers compared to the Yoruba Christians and Liberal Yoruba Muslim.

Yorubas,Igbos,SS minorities and non muslim minorities of the Middle Belt can work together to overturn the core North's dominance.

You are a dummy.
Not yoruba.

How foolish can you be actually calling yourself an afonja, you a a dummy , a big huge dummy..... If you are really yoruba.

Theres no coalition