Japhet04: I'm a law student and i'm naturally dark skinned with dark lips, but just recently i discovered that my lower lip is turning pink, and it doesn't do so uniformly, becase there are still some dark patches on the lip and it's spreading out..,
Pls help i don't know what to do anymore, because i have already seen the dermatologist and they gave me hydrocortisone cream to rub but it has yielded no results
This makes me very sad and scared and it has also affected my relationship with other people in a bad way because I sometimes feel stigmatized when people keep asking me what is wrong with my lips and this kind of decreases my self esteem ..,
Pls has anyone here experienced the same thing or knows someone who has, how did they cure it or cope with it.
Pls helpful suggestions, see pics below..
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Bro, go to another dermatologist.
And dont mind people who are saying vitiligo, this is not vitiligo. But ensure you go to a dermatologist though.
It looks like a reaction to something though, see a dermatologist or an experienced doctor, go to a good hospital, maybe UCH so you can be certain the diagnosis is sure.
And don't forget the place of prayer, it actually works too, Ask God to make it stop, pray to God to help you meet a good doctor to diagnose you.... God still works great things.
This piece is a personal opinion of mine, and my intention is not to praise or criticise one party or another.
Recently, South East leaders visited President Muhammadu Buhari, endorsing him for a second term and promised to deliver the 5 states in their zone to him. APC is currently ruling one of the 5 states in the East. It is clearly known to many people that Anambra and Ebonyi Governor despite being in opposition parties have openly endorsed the President for a 2nd Term. APC will clearly and easily win Anambra, Imo and Ebonyi State by 2019. APC has already shown its strength in the gubernatorial election done there last year, claiming 2nd position in the election. APC is clearly promising them the presidential slot by 2023. Remember, if PDP or any other political party emerges today, the party will surely go for 8 Years. It is clearly known that any party that might want to stand against APC come 2019 will field a candidate from the North. Igbo will not a mistake by not supporting Buhari so as to give them the presidency they have longing for since 1999.
Another clear reason is that Asiwaju Bola Tinubu and Chief Bisi Akande still support and clearly show they are still in the APC. Some people are claiming Chief Bola Tinubu might go to bring up Alliance for Democracy (AD). Baba Tinubu can’t be so foolish to weaken the party he has been supporting and bringing up since 1999, Jagaban will surely deliver 80% of South West since the Vice President is still coming from their side.
The vote from the Northern bloc will surely give Buhari an upper hand in the upcoming election, The Northerners have one culture and thing they do, which other tribes don’t take serious in Nigeria; when election is a week ahead most of Hausa-Fulanis will go back to the states where they have the voters cards to vote. Tell me, how many Igbo or Yoruba can leave his abode to go his homeland to vote because of election, many don’t. The Northerners will leave their business and farms to decide who will lead this nation for another 4 years, they have been doing it since 1999 and they will still be doing it.
APC should have up to 30% in the Niger Delta region due to Governor Obaseki and other prominent people from the region.
President Buhari has really tried in the agricultural sector and improved it and is working to diversify the nation’s economy and wean it off its reliance on petroleum. He has clearly shown he is a democrat and has integrity in terms of elections. Since he has been sworn in, various elections have been conducted where he didn’t do like other presidents who will impose their party in the election by rigging. I believe it will be difficult for any party to dethrone this present ruling party, the APC.
Don’t be deceived by those social media politicians whereby 80% of those voting on social media don’t have voters card, or won’t go out on election day. Meanwhile, those in the North will go out to defend their votes. Our market women, farmers, are not on social media, according to a recent survey. Majority of the voters are not on social media, so don’t be deceived by that. source:http://www.opinions.ng/buhari-likely-win-2019/
As a yoruba man, i can tell you boldly, Tinubu does not have any power over his people, the only people he has power over are touts. Now if you must know, when Yoruba voted Buhari, it was not because of Tinubu, it was becaus yorubas believed in Buhari at least trusted he would perform better than Jonathan.
We are not Northerners who are swayed by the words of one elder statesman, an elder states man who does not respect himself would be treated as a non entity and trust me, Tinubu has lost that position.
I will give you this information for free, Buhari would loose gallantly in the SW this time if someone slightly sensible presents himself, Yorubas are moved by performance, not your tribe unlike others, that is why we would not vote for a Yoruba man who is a bad leader, its as simple as that, all we want is a good leader and buhari has failed.
A new party is all we are waiting for, we don't shout, our power is in our calmness and tactical observations. APC would win governorship positions though, not presidential.
Kitanayo: I will start from the beginning so that i will be better understood, soo sorry if it is too long
I and my husband met in one of our ICAN classes so we hit it off immediately, became friends, dated then got married. It was blissful, we had our kids, to me life was perfect till one day he changed.
He started picking fights on irrelevant things, wouldnt talk to me for days, i thought it was just a phase until one day he didnt come back home, after so much calls to family members, friends collegues at work, we found out he left the country with another woman, this was 4 years ago, we later found out he paid for the house rent for two years and he vowed never to have anything to do with me and my kids anymore.
Even after pleadings from family members he still refused so i moved on, believing that one day he would come back to me because i believe his actions was not normal, he asked for divorce, i refused cos my bible is against it (luke 16:18). Since then God has been soo good to me, i've moved into my own home(a working mom) and God has been taking care of my kids for me.
Now 2 years ago, i met this lady who was serving(nysc), i see her as my younger sister so we talk alot, so she knows all about me, she helps me at home, with my kids and all.
One day we were talking about sex generally, so she said she can satisfy my urge, i was shocked, i dont want to go into details but that was how it started.
Mind you i do not insert anything into my "VJ", what she does is the normal licking and sucking till i "CUM" she's in a serious relationship with a man so i do not do same act to her and she doesnt ask for anything in return(from a wealthy home).I dont see myself as a lesbian since i dont indulge in it moreso i still love my husband.
I agreed to it because it's safer than having sex and contacting std in the process, i am human, i have needs and i dont want to commit adultery cos i'm still married and i believe my husband would come back to me, i feel no guilt whatsoever for this act.
Reason why i brought this here is to know your views about this act, i want to have diff. opinions from matured minds so no insults please, thank you.
Mods please help take this to FP
It's ungodly and it's a rebellion against God. Repent.
Maxwellbaba: bro, he be like say the OP smoke Oshogbo weed o lol
But wait, All those Trackers get power supply and antenna ni
na wa for this country o.
abeg make I waka jare
All gps trackers either use batteries or they are connected to a source on your vehicle or something, usually under the dash board. and yes, they all have antennas regardless of how short
With recent happenings in Nigeria, we need more civilised ethical hacker. The solution is just to contact the guy and find out if its real or not. Even motivate him and not criticise.
He is trying to help find missing phones, kidnappers etc.
We need to support each other in Nigeria. I'm sure if the criticizers were to evaluate the wright brothers plan of flying a plane or some other crazy stuffs. They will solely condemn.
As a matter of fact. I have seen more crazy ethical hacking than this gsm palava. I have seen an hacker that can get access to any mobile device or computer remotely. With just knowing your phone number or computer IP address.
Anyways...
I'm just passing by... I need to plan what to eat for tonight. I Dont understand where this country is going..
There are ethical hackers and they can do all that, hacking is vast. But even a great hacker has to have a level of access to be able to hack. Can you hack something that has no power? there are methods to these things. for example if i send trojan viruses to your email and you never use your email, would your computer get infected?.....
My problem with OP is he is trying to get people to pay him for something he cant defend its method logically. Plus i have time today
Donharrie: Sorry if you are pained, but do not contribute to what you know nothing about.
You can now go back to your hole
Sorry
Meanwhile if you doubt, send your number to my email and i will reveal where your hole is I'm serious, send your number to my mail
Im just seeing the bolded, so you can start spamming my email with stupid mails and poorly coded "attachments". Just hear yourself mahn, even someone with small common sense can tell you are a fake.
A sim card is a slave computing device which needs a host to send a command to which it responds. if its out of a phone or out of a network coverage area it cannot be tracked. it doesn't have a power supply talkless of its own antenna. Are you that naive??
If you had such technology you would be in silicon valley right now as one of the wealthiest men on earth with CIA using your technology to track terrorists all over the world.
BTW Your name: Daniel *** Your Number: +2347065983249
verygudbadguy: As a mediator that God has created me, I have decided to come in between you guys, volunteer my phone number, and if he gets my location right, we will simply believe him as a tech for real.
Donharrie, prove to ConcernedNL that you are for Real. 08137503380.
Donharrie: Sorry if you are pained, but do not contribute to what you know nothing about.
You can now go back to your hole
Sorry
if you are Tech as you claim prove yourself. Otherwise you are what we REAL tech guys call noob trying to form knowledge or a plain cheap scammer. Enjoy your day man.
If a simple chip is fixed into your skin, you can be tracked anywhere you go on earth.
Please go back into your hole and stop disgracing yourself, we are in the 21st century
Dummy. If you put a passive rfid on a human, it is not to track, it is to scan for details. Otherwise any form of GPS has to be powered by a miniature battery eitherways.
A SIM card without a phone is passive. Even MTN can't tell where an unpowered SIM card is.
Those plenty nonsense you speak about tracking anywhere in the world is for the birds. If your tracker is not powered by whatever it is not going to work, and the last I checked, SIM cards don't have solar panels bro.
Simply put, you being a dishonest man/boy. There are real tech inclined people on this platform and trying to bamboozle is a lame attempt at deceiving.
I'm a well-researched web developer/ethical hacker, A graduate of a United Kingdom cyber security institution, I've worked with legal bodies and still works with them on freelance projects indirectly to track down missing devices, hiding thieves, kidnappers or missing family members etc tracking a phone number is an easy task for mobile users in the UK, I and my ethical hacking team created a software for this successfully.
Using a local method by triangulating the phone number with 2 major mobile universal hack networks and monitor the meeting points of the radius between the closest cell phone towers via GPRS signals, we can track the exact location of any phone number. This works 100% of the time.
We will successfully track the location of the phone number you provide to us either the number is still available or not. The cost for when the number is still available is cheaper than when the phone number is not available.
Make an order, and i will send you the exact number's specific location with latitude and longitude.
We will determine the cellsite controlling the number and the actual address. It will be 100% accurate. A trial will convince you
Email me at crashmyex4today@gmail.com Use the subject for quick response – “track this number” Explain your reason for the tracking and and we will get to work immediately.
After successful transaction, if you need to hire an advanced developer/programmer, we are available at an affordable cost.
Lol. Once a SIM is out of a phone it cannot be tracked.
Preciousgirl: He doesn't want me get close to his own blood brothers he even gets angry when I talk about them he only says I greet them, nothing else, no hug, not even talk about them
Please is this behavior of my husband normal??
His brothers could be flirts and so he is protecting his wife from them or one of them. Ive had a case where my girlfriend when I was really young was having a crush on my cousin, it broke my heart. Your husband might have experienced such competition with his brothers so respect your husbands wishes or you cause unnecessary issues, it's not his friendly brothers you married.
TochiPhotos: Happy Christmas everyone! May the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ bring peace, blessings, love and happiness into our lives. Seasons greetings form me and B and have a lovely Christmas and new year celebration.
I’m sorry I have not been updating my thread, I have been really busy with school and other side projects. So much has happened in the past few weeks. My school is on a 2 week winter break now but I’m still not free because this is the only time I have to dedicate to an app I’m working on.
It’s so difficult dating someone who doesn’t speak your language and my relationship with B has not been a bed of roses because we misunderstand each other some times and disgreee and have minor quarrels once in a while mostly because of the language barrier because my Russian is still not as good or near fluency.
One thing I really like about her is she’s understanding especially about her expectations from me. She knows I’m a student and I’m not able to buy her anything or provide because my school is priority and she understands that but the problem now is she often jokingly tells me I will leave her later when I am done with school and I start working because I will go and look for a more beautiful woman. That I am dating her because I don’t have money, it pains me when she says this even tho I keep reassuring her I genuinely like her. I confronted her about this and she said it was because her friend told her African men are fond of abandoning their white girlfriend when they start making money. Our relationship hasn’t been easy because of the language and cultural difference but we try our best to make it work.
For Christmas I don’t have money to buy her any gift so I gave her a Dashiki I brought from Nigeria and she loved it so much. Even her mom loves the Dashiki. It feels so good when someone truly appreciates your gift no matter how little it is.
I’m spending Christmas and new year in her place and we plan to go skating soon because I have not experienced ice skating before and I look forward to doing that.
Have a happy holidays guys!
See you guys soon and I’ll try and make out time to update my thread.
Mehn, this post makes me happy, keep showing miss B love and represent. Wish you good success in your endeavors, God bless.
As I write this I dont even know where to start. I am Zimbabwean and I have dated a Yoruba man for 10 years now. We have our fair share of problems but he has remained consistant over the years. I met him when I was 19. He courted me for a full year before I accepted him. I went to school for my bachelors and Masters different continents he always made an effort to follow me wherever I went, or be there whenever I needed anything he would make sure he provided where he could and its done.
I eventually moved to the USA and he eventually relocated to be with me. I have a good job and I come for a very well off family. Im not perfect but I constantly strive to grow in my relationship with Christ. I cook most of the nigerian dishes. Take care of him when he needs me and I support him when necessary too. One time this man came to live with me for a very long time. He didnt support me with rent, bills or food. I did it anyway out of love. You guys, I also stayed for years when he didnt meet any of my needs and all he would say is 'God will provide.' All I ever wanted was an equal partner..of course I submit and Im respectful but I would really also want a man who takes care of his home and family as if you dont it causes resentment.
Anyway fast forward ..4 months ago we had a big fight and it was over me encouraging him to get a job and not rely on hustling, buying and selling etc. The fights started about how I have changed, im this and that. I quickly became the enemy. I also warned him about alcohol consumption as a lot of his money atleast $500 a month is spent on booze and when he drinks he becomes very aggressive and angry. He also asked me for a lump sum of money. He wanted me to withdraw it from my savings and give it to him but I could not do so at the time. Finances make relationships akward also. Lastly he was pestering me about having a baby for him. I said I will not, I was raised well and will never have a child out of wedlock. Anyway he then moved out and went back to his old state and got a place.
Whilst there a friend he knew from school contacted him on ig. They started talking again and the girl made trips to his house. He said about 4. He hardly knows the girl and said they just attended the same school in naija.
Fast forward to my birthday he comes to visit and he started crying. I have never seen this man cry EVER. I asked him what was wrong and he mentioned his mom and a lot was going on in his life..I Knew she wasn't too well before.I started crying too and comforted him..he left and started acting funny the next day.
After a lot of back and forth days later he broke down again and told me he got a girl pregnant and he was crying saying i wish it wasnt happening and it was you. He sent a message to the girl telling her to get rid of it and asked her why she would want to get married for a man she doesnt know after one night stand. "Girls that trap men sha..
It was a mistake he was drunk and just wanted to bust a nut. They used protection by the way and she was acting like she does not know how it happened. I asked him if he disposed of the condom, no she did. I asked him if he was a learner? Women trap men all the time with sperm.
He went over to her place I was on the other end of the phone listening in. She said she wouldn't do it and was acting possesesd. She said a whole speech about how she can do it alone and his name wont be on birth certificate etc and how she doesn't want a man who does not want her child. She also said 'if your parents did that to you would you be here driving this very expensive car' clap hands for the gold digger everyone. Just as I had suspected.other women see a good thing and want a finished product, they dont know its someone elses work. He told her, he can never ever be with her even if she kept it. He left her house.
30 minutes later his door bell rings and we were still on the phone. She says a whole speech and says she will remove it. When she left we celebrated and we were so happy. God forgive us. I said to myself now I only have to work on trusting him again. Next day she calls and says she changes her mind.. goodness..my boyfriend doesnt want her or her child and she's forcing it on him. Is it by force yoruba gehs sha lol..
I also really need prayers guys I think she does jazz. She told my bf that her pastor in nigeria told her he has someone in his life. What kin pastor b dat.bf is scared to display my pics and I cant see her face because he thinks she might want to harm me. A pastor of God we talked to wanted to talk to her but she says she fears what the girl might do to her.
Omg please pray for me. My boyfriend and i really didnt want a broken home.whats the point of keeping a baby the man doesn't want. I asked him to ask her how much she wants and we will give her the money. She blocked him and got her brother to call him.
He was so desperate he was willing to do anything for her to get rid of it but she wont budge, she has even blocked him.I am praying its not his, she's not pregnant or she just lets us be abeg. Please give me guidance and support. Should i leave this man, will I be able to live with a bastard child and constant reminder of his infidelity? I forgave him eventually after his people begged me and due to our history.
He wants to go see my people so we do the trad, engagement etc so we start on our family..he waited all these years for me to go to school and do what I needed to do and now this. I have to see that mumu woman who ruined my life forever. But believe me you although her child will be catered for she will not get a dime from me or my personal family's inheritance and the wealth acquired from me and my husband. The child will get something but not to the extant she thinks. I will do my homework and file paperwork to protect myself.
Is it common for Yoruba women to trap men. You dont even know this man and one night stand you wont let him be..nawawo.
Do I seem desperate for staying? It has been 10 years and this was not only my man but my friend. I have everything going for me, men approach me always but I turn them down. I have zero baggage.
Please help
I didnt need to read all you wrote. I am a yoruba man and so no one can say i am saying this out of hate.
Dump that man, keep him out of your life, even with prayers, avoid him like a plague because he wont change, at least maybe not by your hand except he becomes truly born again.
Plus you claim you are christian, why do you have an affar with someone who isnt born again, your relationship isnt christian if you both are compromising.
You know what, start afresh, get a guy who will take care of you and get married to you before doing the deed uno what i mean. If you want God to be involved in your relationships, the least you must do is to obey basic rules from the scriptures.
As this may be the season of happiness, not everyone partakes in the joy of the festivity, I am one of those. Let me cut the chase and go straight to the point.
I'm a 400 level student of civil engineering, I've got a younger sister, I'm older than her with a couple of years although she's yet to gain admission despite the fact that she has tried severally. she decided to start working pending whenever she gains admission.
Along the line, she became a cultist and she suddenly became a heavy smoker, drinker and a drug addict (tramadol, rephnol, codine,etc).
At this point my mum (she's a single mother, my dad died a couple of years back) did she least she could do by scolding, reporting her to the leaders in the church, kinsmen and everyone whom she thought she(my sister) would listen to but all these efforts proved abortive as she deteriorated further as she graduated to bringing men to the house at odd hours of the night.
As at last week, my mum called me and was sobbing over the phone, she told me that my younger sister beat her up because she confronted her about her behavior.
right now I'm confused, in order not to act rashly, i decided to seek for advice from this noble forum.
Please guys i need your matured advice here
How old is she? Stage 1 Firstly tell your mum to stop arguing with her, or else she will repeat it.
Stage 2 Call your sister and ask her about what happened, dont go gra gra on her, let her talk, tell her gently to apologise to your mum, tell her to stop doing stuff that hurts your mum.
Stage 3 Tell your mum to be your informant, whats happening at home etc
Stage 4 If your sister persists in bringing cultists home, without telling anyone, inform SARS, let them scoop her up, put her in there for maybe a week or two, flog stupidness out of her body. bail her out. After bailing her out, tell her that the SARS guys told you they are really keeping watch on her gang so she is better off reducing her relationship with them.
Mlazer: Hey people. For the past four years, I seem to had a case of man boobs, it was quite small, however for the past four months, it seems to be growing bigger. If I was an obese person, I wouldn't worry too much about it but I am a lean person.
Its become very difficult to take my shirt off. Haven't even been to a doctor. I've done my research and the only way to eliminate is through surgery. Nothing about nigeria comes up in my search result and I'm beginning to thibk that it is not possible to get the surgery in Nigeria. If it is, how much does it cost. Doctors in the houee and people who have had the surgery done on them, advice is needed.
Haven't been to the swimming pool in about 3 years. That bad
Check your diet, do you take Soya products. if you do , cut it out totally.
forreelinc: selfish lady instead make you give other people source for laffter by leaving yourself you go dey do surgery don't you care about other peoples happiness?
May God be merciful for every idle words we speak...
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selfish lady instead make you give other people source for laffter by leaving yourself you go dey do surgery don't you care about other peoples happiness?