Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

If there was no written agreement, she can claim it was a cash gift, after all you celebrated her birthday for her.... Even EFCC can't get the money for you. And if you arrest her and she has sense, she can counter sue you for violation of human rights claiming you are a bitter ex lover using your power.

Go to her house alone, ask her for your money, give her a deadline or you will ensure you get her jailed... Or count your losses and move on

Madlov3:
Hi! For the sake of anonymity, i decided to use this new account.

I met this girl last December, but we officially started dating in January, I love her and I think she loves me too.Everything is going so well and all things been equal, i may pop the question next year December.
The problem started when I told her to come spend last weekend with me and honestly I regretted that.

After going to pick her on friday evening, i told her there’s isn’t food at home and that i was thinking of cooking spaghetti.
Getting home, it occurred to me that i have never tasted her food so I decided to let her do the cooking.(NB:I cook! like am a very good cook) so after some minutes in the kitchen, she signaled me to come eat but damn!the food was a colossal disaster! It was so overcooked and tasteless. I was not happy that evening and I complained about it.
The next day was a Saturday! She prepared yam and veggies but that was another disaster, the yam was salty and the veggies were also so overcooked. They were no longer greenies but brown.

Another thing i also noticed about her is is throughout our 3 days together, she was always moody! I really don’t think it’s because of the food disaster because my complain lasted for just some minutes.Am still trying to figure out why someone will choose to be moody and sad for no tangible reason.
Last weekend with her was a depressing one for me and right now, am seriously rethinking popping the Question next year because i don’t want to be an unhappy married man.
I really don’t know what to do

You might want to check yourself too. Must you complain about everything. She can't cook, teach her. If she told you you are terrible in bed, and nagged about it, would you smile through the weekend.

lilfreezy:
iceland go beat us. argentina go beat us. when we come down for plane, rain go beat us. hungry go beat us. buhari go beat us. sars go beat us.

when will jesus come abeg?

That's your personal portion.

agabusta:


He blew his chances already due to his rapacious tendencies.

The SW will never support him. They already have a lot more qualified people on queue.

Same with the North, they equally have a lot more qualified people on queue. I

dont get it twisted, he can shake the incumbent if he tries.

ibotic:
We are dead in this match

Try to be positive for once in your life.

Uglymugg:


Below 6'2" is short category.

Beht I didn't ask you

fancy4eve:
I don't lyk short guys, more especially d big headed ones, light skin (fair in complexion) is a big no for me nd talkative is wat I can't stand in a man.

Define short though.

EzendiEgo1:


Why trump and Kim Jong-un the behave like small kids.

Why can't they do their summit in peace without the world hearing about it.

As Old as Trump is, there's no atom of shame in him. You are 71yrs old while this idiot is 38yrs but still yet he place himself so low to have a summit with this fool.

I have so much respect in America president ( Franklin D. Roosevelt ) he can't take this rubbish act by Childish president trying to compare U.S strength.


North Korea shouldn't allow this fool to destabilize them. They should learn from what happened to Japan in 1941Hiroshima:20,000 soldiers killed70,000–126,000 civilians killed
Nagasaki:39,000–80,000 killedTotal: 129,000–226,000+ killed

Within a day

Lol. Ignorance.

This is a great historical event that would be taught in history books, diplomacy courses and the art of deal making for years to come and u are talking simple.

This "fool" has done what no other "wise" American president has ever been able to do, good is good

donestk:
Greetings farmlanders,

I write on behalf of my aunt who's on the verge of shutting down her farm due to eggs theft by her workers.

The more she put in checks, the more the workers devise new means.

I promise to provide advisory to her on a lasting solution.

Farmlanders please proffer workable solutions to save a business on the verge of collapse.

Mod please move to FP.

Thanks!

You need few people to be accountable for the eggs, maybe 1 person. One store person. So if there are thefts, you know who to hold. install cctv, No bags allowed on entry to the poultry. install a cctv at the poultry and at the entrance or exit. randomly check whoever disobeys, sack them.

Dont hesitate to sack people, or else they would sack you

cyraxx:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl in my Fifth year in Unizik. She too was in her finals though a different department. We started dating, worked our service to Lagos. It's been fun, I have shown her to my parents And hope to go see hers soon we have been through lot together but she is very Free around guys;

1. We where in a bus en route to surulele suddenly she started a conversation with a dude told him everything about her life and he demanded her number which she gave him. I was there looking and she didn't see any big deal after all he will only call and she won't even do anything with him.

2. She ran into a course mate in camp in my presence he held her hand and they left to meet his friends I was just standing there when she came back no apology.

3. A guy she knew in school got to know she is in lagos, he took her out for lunch. He started visiting her. And he started inviting her over. She told me about the lunch after it was already done. And I got to know of their visit from her facebook chat. When I confronted her she said he is engaged and his fiancee knows about their visits.

4. She visited a guy who wants to marry her with out my consent. But told me later. When I confronted her she said she told him about us.

Am lost on what to do. We have been through a lot, she has been telling her parents about me all her relations are tired of her talking of me and are waiting to see me.

She has rejected many men for me. But am just lost I feel am not being respected. She has also rejected many marriage proposal because of me.

I am just lost, I called off the whole thing and she has been in anguish begging and pleading buh this is not the first time it only gets worst.

everyone is saying you are a fool, but i can relate with you cos i have been there.

Break up with the girl and get a girl that is more conservative. Such women are only going to bring you pain. move on with your life, once and for all.

Hedonisst:
Bloody liar. No way in hell you're getting HIV from a shaving bump contacting pussy juice.

Even to get HIV from actual unprotected sex isn't that easy sef. There's a decent chance that you wouldn't get it even if you penetrate a positive woman. That's how hard it is for the virus to spread. Not to mention shaving bump. Nonsense.

i heard so, how true is this. my doctor once said this to me.

In short don't waste your money

great

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

You did right and I hope his new wife is on nairaland to see

Antoinemercer:
Hello all my family just recently discovered that my younger sister is a lesbian we were all extremely devastated,the signs were always there when she was younger i noticed she liked watching lesbian porn a lot but never thought much about it or even thought to tell my parents because I thought it was just a phase that all teenagers go through.

The real revelation came a month ago when the whole family went out to a weeding except for her we were going to be gone for 2 hours i however had to comeback earlier than expected because I was feeling nauseous that was when I met a shocking sight of her romancing and handling the breasts of another girl.

I need some advice please I won't to know how we can beat this spirrit of homosexuality out of her please she is my dearest sister and I don't want her to go to hell.

Keep praying for her and counsel her. It is the spirit of Lust.
There is NOTHING other than that you can do to her, ostracizing her, beating her, showing hatred towards her will only make matters worse.

LifeofAirforce:
Thank you to real people who sees so much joy in my comment.

Blessings


And those with bitter soul, I won't say it will be permanent because silly comments don't easily get to me

Una no know me but on Nairaland.

Congrats. Whichever way a child comes, God gave him for a good purpose, so congrats, wish his mother a safe delivery and you both enough money, and wisdom to raise your child.

I think the police should be given only batons. And just special forces guns for robbery related incidents.

Shalomc:
See simple attire of the fiercest military commander in the world..... And the plenty ropes of that who cannot stop ordinary herdsmen and boko haram.

Appreciate yours, not everyone can be the same. Have you seen a russian generals attire.

lol, liar, i know this dude, he worked in the aviation industry during the time i did the same, around 4-5 years back....

praiseneofingz:
please no jokes or insult as this is a burden to me right now I noticed over 2weeks now I wake up with no erection and whenever I look at my joystick, it look smaller by the day.
note: I'm not an impotent I've hard sex at least 7 times this year but I Really don't know what is wrong with my d*ck right now. please this is serious and not a joke.....I'm so scared right now!!

You are taking something that is reducing ur testosterone. Soya milk, tea, supplements etc. Watch out for your new intake

The death of the righteous

How stupi do they think Nigerians are really

doreto:
We are presently separated for 4 months with no contact/communication.The separation was not related to trust issues,but miscommunication,insults and the likes,no violence.

While I am in a great place emotionally,I want to attempt to reconcile our relationship.

I need ideas.Is it possible? If it is,has any one here seen a case of reconciliation after a deep marital separation? Please share with me.

Thanks.

She's your wife, not girl friend. Pursue after her, drop your pride somewhere and make amends.

Hope they are put in protective custody when they get to prison, so they don't infect other inmates.

14 years + 2 years

I don't buy this bull story, you saw your sister being murdered, through the window in the room or what, you went and returned at 4am??
That sister should be questioned more, ensure this isn't a crime of passion, affair between this sister and the murderer.

This is the last time i want to visit nairaland, henceforth Bloomberg.

The mediocrity here is putrid.

NigerianYouths need to stop giving these nothing to offer celebrities and diversify our interests a bit.....

michaelo2:
Michaelo2 is getting married.....

DebMike 2018

As long as your woman gives you peace and she will be a good mother to your children, a joy to he inlaws, and a prudent woman, the rest is secondary. wish you a good life, disregard the comments.

Uyiii:

Lol, see how stupid you sound.
your small sense didn't direct your brainless brain to see housing, health care, public service and of course crime rate which is also security as the prerogative for which the worse cities have been rated.

I jokingly made a comment which when logically and critically analysed and comprehended isn't far fetched, but because you have itching fingers and 'na you carry 9ja for head pass' has made you reasoned with your ball-less balls.
you should offer yourself sense if there's even space for it.

eediot

Do you have to be obnoxious when making a point. cmon mahn.

fiizznation:
Kudos to the government of president buhari for the safety return of those girls. And am also very happy for the families of the girls, at least they will finally reunite with their children.

Had it been that that useless, hopeless and pathetic drunkard took similar action when chibok girls were kidnapped by boko haram, the girls would have been rescued/released on time. But the clueless man had to play politics with the lives of the innocent girls, blaming this and that, and till today our fingers are still crossed, hoping and praying for the successful release of the remaining chibok girls.

I really hope you think deeply.

Do you know huge ransomes are paid to Boko haram to release hostages, tens in millions of dollars. Guess what, they now have more money to recruit, get more weapons, restock and the cycle continues.... Theres nothing to celebrate here

EmmaJohn12345:
Bro.... I joined the Army with the hope of sponsoring myself to school... I have never had the thought of molesting anybody nor intimidating people. And God can bear me witness that I have never shed an innocent blood.... I have only served in maiduguri and presently serving in kaduna.

Cant you just resign

Olifiz:
See tekno looking dry like stock fish.

Honestly. It looks really unhealthy.