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ChopBellefull:
This is really though.. I read ur story bit by bit... D best part is that she feels remorse. As for d forgiveness part it's left for u..

I am still imagining wat i ll do to a cheating partner let alone a cheating wife.. OP use wisdom, nd for r sake of ur son dnt hv a broken home. Forgv her and watch her closely.

RealPMer:
I met this girl early this year and we didn't really connect until recently. So, straight to the pint, the day we had sex (after lots of begging) she told me she was raped at a tender age. I was a bit upset, asked her why she didn't tell me in the first place and she said she wanted to and all.

What I want to ask now is:

- should I end the relationship as every sexual experience could serve as a reminder of that day

-could it be a lie as I have read often times that girls use that as a cover up for not being a virgin (she didn't want to give in at first telling me she's keeping herself for her husband)

Your honest opinion is needed on this matter. Thanks.

shortgun:
The kind of my girl is very rear these days, I love her with all that is in me.
She also madly in love with me....she can do anything for me to be happy.
She always tries to impress me with her cooking skills but the truth is I don't enjoy her meals.

I am a good cook myself(tutored in mum's kitchen) but she will never let me cook.
I pretend most times that I enjoy her meals but deep inside I know she can't cook.
I don't know if it's because I am used to my mums type of cooking or what

She will add all the spices and sauce that will now make the food to taste terrible.

pls what is the best way to tell her without hurting her feelings.
I don't ever want to hurt her feelings but at the same time I want to come back home to a delicious meal when we become couple.

Besto:
Good afternoon everyone, Please i have a friend with this strange cut predicament all over her body when ever she sleeps and wakes up. Please can anyone interprets this and a possible solution as she has been to the church, prayed for and all that but yet she still experiences this blades like cuts frequently.Chic is really down lately as it's not even about the strange cuts but it also does hurts her.

irepnaija4eva:
Call your headmistress and teachers and ask for a refund..

joliyp:
I work in an oil company as a secretary to the director I edit vital info (illegal) I use different softwares to edit .Atimes I fake and edit degree n waec result for him I get paid heavily
but this time he want me to edit and forward date a vital document that will yield to billions but am scared if I try such with him he might kill me I can't go into details for now ......

I need advice

DavidJohnDavid:
They dated for 2 years and then he was transfered to another city for work. Everything was alright while they were dating and he was even comtemplatiing proposing. When he came to visit her during christmas period, he discovered that the whole house was trashed, she was smelling looked like a homeless person, who hadn't showered in months.
She claims, she is suffering from depression and doesn't have the energy of showering, taking her bath or even going to work

What he doesn't understand is why she claims she doesn't have the energy to go to work, bath or brush her teeth and yet she always has energy and appetite to eat, go to the market to buy food, and use the toilet.

Is she telling the truth or just plain lazy?

mubarakyoung:
dis horrible tin started last month since she started barking small small wen are havin sex bt the the last nyt ones is audibe to d extend that i am afraid nw


pls what shoul i do pls

Djbond:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need to know what is going on.
I met this girl about 5 weeks ago, we had sex the following day I met her. Before the hookup, I've never seen her or known her.
On the day we had sex, she told me she had a child for her ex husband but the child is no more. She asked me if I'm OK with that and I said yes.
Well, we had sex like 4 times and this last week, she called me to tell me that her period is 10days late, said she went for a test and she's pregnant.
My thoughts now are, is she trying to hook me down with this pregnancy (if true) or she is just playing me. But on second thought, I think she's serious with the way she was talking about it. But, you know girls, sometimes they try to play pranks and look serious.
As for me now I'm not ready to be a father now.
So please guys, is it possible that she could be pregnant within this short period of time

Nedfed:
My elder brother happen to be a Managing direction of a private Organisation. The Organisation conducted aptitude test and interview for the qualified applicants on Monday, but only 6 out of 25 applicants were picked (4 mens and 2 ladies). This afternoon while I was in his office, he showed me the names and the Cv of those people.
But to my greatest surprise my Ex who break my heart back then at the Polytechnics happen to be among. This lady drop me purposely because am from a poor home and follow another guy despite all the love and cares I show her.
I think this is the pay back time, Should I block her way? Cause what she did then is still fresh in my heart.

ChizzyMaris:
What do you do when the person you're in a romantic relationship with has a best friend of the opposite sex, and has refused to let go of him/her despite the fact that you've registered your displeasure for the friendship countless times?
Especially when what brought them together in the first place is that one of them had a romantic interest in the other, but was friend zoned instead?

Let's talk.

cruchenutii:
No need to confront him. Just send him out packing. End of Story.

If he asks, Just say my family is coming over & they need a place to stay.

dharamanil:
Lemme just go straight to the point. I have a flat mate who came back from the states recently or lemme say he has been based there all his life but maybe he was deported or so cos he didn't come back feeling all ok on cheddah.

One morning I and my girlfriend was seated in the living room when I left her to go recieve a call outside real quick on getting back inside I saw him seated in the living room too but with his phone on her hands, a phone ever since I knew him he doesn't allow nobody touch. I thought he prolly was justshoiwng her one of those random whatssap videa until 2days later she told me he was trying to get her num.

Ever since he got the number he has been chatting her up and she shows me all their chats. Till recently when she camee home, he repated same thing not via chat this time, he told her he wants them to hang out over the weekend.

My problem is I really want to make a mess of this guy like 4k m up big time I know ways but I need more suggestions please. I mean in a really really disgraceful manner

hatchy:
https://www.google.com.ng/amp/www.zambianobserver.com/i-do-not-support-cheating-not-in-anyway-but-this-leaves-matters-to-be-argued/amp/

BrainnewsNg:
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the condom is designed for the tongue and will prevent the tongue from touching the female organ during mouth action.

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shortgun:
make una help me judge this mata abeg.

I met this girl 3 days ago through her uncle who is close to me. He told me that he will like me to be close to her as the family wants her to settle down soon. I started laughing when he said that but he said he was serious I should give d girl a trial.

I later met with her parents that same day, we went out for some drinks together with her uncle, she chop full roasted catfish, dilute am with juice.

she keeps telling me how she likes d way i dress, how handsome i am,how neat I was, how good I smell, I also complimented her.

It got late and she wanted to spend d night in my place but I objected and told her that it will be better she sleeps in her uncles place, since she can't go home that late.
She thanked me for making her day, that it has been long she had such a nice time and I dropped them off.

Fast forward today, she called and I went to see her in her mother's shop, we had some drinks,she chop full vegetable chicken, we talked and d rest.

She told me she was not happy I didn't allow her spend d night in my place d last time we met and I told her not to worry that we will spend d night 2gether she agreed.

I took her to an expensive cool hotel, cos Power supply in my area not reliable my gen also decides to misbehave.
When we got to the room she immediately undressed and lay on d bed, we kissed passionately, for long and all, she even allowed me to remove her pant which was d only thing I removed oo, she was d one dat undressed herself oo, then suddenly she stood up, started saying that i should stop she was going home, she only followed me here to make me happy, she never expected what I wanted to do from me, that I can go and look for another girl that will sleep with me in d room since I have d money, that is what desperate men like me do, that because I have money I think I can have my way with her?

I became confused, I told her not to worry cos I won't touch her again if its a problem she should just sleep and go home in d morning. She refused and started insulting me that she rather sleep outside than to sleep with an animal like me and left the room n it was already late. I later learnt she called a cab to come and pick her.

I've never seen this kind of witchcraft my entire life.

sinaj:
Wow! This is lovely.

But with time their eyes will get accustomed to it nd the speed will continue.

DanielsParker:
Nigerian ladies.. smh

she really humiliated the guy.

Lol

Ge0grapher:
So a married woman can't infect her husband with HIV?? think! �

Charmerbeautylooks:
How are u sure u are d only boyfriend she has,, cos I made my boyfriend believe am his only girlfriend

Officialkenshin:
Thank God. I now have only one gf o. I nor they wahala.

Ogaezy:
I succeeded in purchasing a good laptop at ikeja computer village last week after a long time saving up. My sister helped me waybill it down to where I am which caused me a lot of stress because I had to stay up all night waiting for the waybill to arrive which did around 12:23pm late in the night. I actually got the laptop at a good price and mind started telling me to play smart by reselling it and make profit, I was also encourage to do so by my uncles too, maybe I can start trading like that, who knows. So I concurred, took pictures of the laptop and advertised it online, and almost immediately a call came in from Mr ACHO NDUBUISI who alleged he's a military officer serving in Enugu (Army).

After negotiation, we agreed on a price which I was happy about because of the profit I was going to make out of the deal. Mr ACHO wanted the laptop same day the advert went up which was on Friday 13th but told me that the nature of his job won't permit him to meet with me but rather suggested we meet in the evening of the next day been Saturday 14th at Okigwe which I agreed to. I got a call from him on Saturday at about 4:45pm that he's on his way to okigwe and that I should start coming. I went to the park and boarded a bus going to okigwe, before my bus took off it was almost night at about few minutes to 7o'clock, I wanted to cancel the appointment but I didn't want to disappoint this man I took the risk and arrived at Okigwe at almost 8pm.

I meet with Mr ACHO who went through the laptop(Hp 4530s) and asked if it's in good condition and I said yes, he paid me, I counted the money, it was complete and I hurried to board a bus back home because it was getting late already. Inside the bus I was having the feeling to check the money again but who counts huge cash if up-to 75k in a public transport when it's night already. I shook off the urge and got home, I didn't check the money again until Monday morning which was my mistake.

Monday morning, I hurried over my bath, and rushed to the bank to make the deposit into my account only for me to hear the cashier ask HIA, WHO GAVE YOU THIS MONEY OGA and WHERE DID YOU GET IT FROM, immediately I was confused, it was all fake currencies except for one note which was good but was placed ontop. I felt hot sweat leaving my body as I became so uncomfortable, I was referred to the branch manager who inspected the money all over again and affirmed to it FAKENNESS, I felt something like tears trying to obstruct my sight when I heard I was going to be arrested for circulation of fake currency. I explained everything to the manager who took pity on me and allowed me out of the bank.

I had to start calling Mr Acho only for him to deny that he never gave me fake 1000 naira note currencies in 75k pieces. I was shocked, after explaining everything to about my innocence in our deal he started threatening me, that I should come to Enugu so he can deal with me with his colleagues (Army), that I'm accusing him a Federal officer for giving me fake currencies.

Right now I'm in a state of mixed feelings but I decided to write this so that my fellow Nairalanders can learn from my mistake and also for people seeking their wares online to be mindful of MR ACHO NDUBUISI and his likes who goes about to dupe people with fake Nigerian Currencies.
As for Mr Acho, I leave his case with GOd who judges rightly.

Attached is the picture of the receipt and laptop I sold to him.

Plz moderators help me move this to the front page so others can learn. I don't know which forum to post it.

Homeboiy:
Who raped her?

jairusben:
Dude take her to any good state or government hospital...so she could start postexposure prophylaxis...hope its NT been more than 48hrs?