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optional1:
we said ladies say no to broke guys, you guys said we shouldn't say so that no guy is broke...




Now a lady wants to marry her boyfriend of 8years and you guys say she shouldn't marry him, cos he is jobless and lazy..

Didn't the lady see all that when she accepted the guy's proposal..

Is her life and her decision, if after marriage the guy is still lazy and jobless, she should stick to the guy cos there is no room for divorce...

Khodorkovsky:
This thread is giving me nightmares , I met my babe by luck and we are just like the temi otedola and Mr eazi kind of couple , girl is far richer than me , even goes with her family abroad most of the times , lately my girl attitude towards me has changed. I am fearing that word 'breakup'

I am just imagining , so this is how I will share my story.

HERSLEY:
if u see mine... Na die b dat

optional1:
who knows what tomorrow holds..


He might be jobless, lazy and sleeps all day but do you know if the lady is the one with the key to his wealth tomorrow...

If he doesn't have anything why will he plan to get marry??

MissRaine69:
That is your problem right there. What has she ever done for you? Stop trying to validate your presence in someone's life by getting them expensive gifts. If you start to do that you create exepections and dependency. Learn from this otherwise you will always attract the shallow women.

ivolt:
Another cave man spotted, as a christian with "foundation" you are not
supposed to be on the internet, since it was invented by demonic powers
to make you backslide.

Fortunately, your kind are going extinct!

Nma27:
Well, we need to take cute pictures that will grace our walls till our last breath. So please allow us look our best on that day biko. Must one b an mgbeke to make heaven?

ivolt:
I understand his pains.
In the 90s, Bamiloye can easily convince women not to use
wig, wear trousers or even paint nails using the fear of
evil spirits.
But his job has become difficult nowadays, most women no
longer tolerate nor allow such sanctimonious and baseless
doctrines to control their lives.

MissRaine69:
You have much to learn about life and relationships. Date someone who has something going on for her not a woman who always has her hand stretched out to receive. And you also need to keep most of your money in your pocket. Spending should be two ways.

MissRaine69:
She did not know why she accepted? Silly girl.
How old are you both?
You cannot threaten suicide as a means of expressing distress. You gave her a directive not to contact you so why are you upset she did not?
She hurt your feelings now you know. Life is about experiences this is one of them, some people have 1 relationship and that is all they will ever need. Some will have several and never meet anyone life is about the unexpected you can't prepare for it adequately. You can learn from experiences that's how you manoeuvre the ups and downs.
Being emotionally unstable is not a good trait relationships will come with turmoil, relationships end you need to learn how to cope and how to be emotionally mature.
Move on, but don't be histrionic about it. You can't buy affection it never ends well and you will just feel ley down and bitter.

WeNoGoDie:
Did you care to check my profile to see any trace of scam there?

Many nairalanders have met me face to face and transacted with me.

I challenge you to a bet and you win if I fail to provide proof. Let's meet face to face and be kind to come with police.

deanoffaculty:
Oops!! The Man wanted to KEMEN but he was disqualified by BigBrothers in the bus.

vicfuntop:
They should have thrown him out of the bus while it was still moving

7footre:
You told her you are suicidal, customs, bank credit, told her not to bother checking on you and she has done so, why crying over spilt milk?

It's not every relationship that leads to d alter man, learn your lessons and move d F on. Self pity will do you no good

ZeroUnity:
Nwanne the right gurl will appear, kindly manage your state and thank me later.... We all have been there.... Dissatisfaction upon disappointment still we love... Be soft on ur self right now cos life is the greatest blessing.


"she just masked off, chase a cheq and never chase a chic"

obataokenwa:
Bro, move on. The best is waiting for you. Don't try to force the relationship. it's over.
In your next relationship, don't put money first and avoid DISTANCE relationship. My babe in school those days was already engaged with one dude in Lagos and I was the main engine operator. Owerri no lack girls na. IMSU and Nekede babes dey there to give u the best.

iamadonis2:
Same ol'. Same ol'. He's probably upset he "spent" on her.

eph12:
Abeg somebody should close this yeyethread jare. Mstcheww!

You told her not to call you again but you're here complaining. Better face your business if you can't be the man in your relationship.

Olanrefront3355:
Amaka abi


OK, joking.....

OP, I'm not a seer, I'm just some random dude that understands little about life.

So you think babe will just call it off with the dude? Are you convinced she will?

Nothing ends so quickly n easily like that, If she accepted in the first instance without thinking bou you, then ending it FOR YOU is a NO!

She wasn't even bewitched when she gave the other guy a YES.

just saying, what do I know.

VargasVee:
This must be some strong weed

Ab025:
Chairman, take heart..... She will play you. Face the reality now, if she loves you, then she will prove it...but I don't think that's the reality now!

unofficial:
I'm still yet to grab the moral lesson of the whole story

NaijaElba:
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow
with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. You might still not succeed
at your target year. So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.


My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love
of my life very early, But my fear was, can i
really take care of her? But right now She's married with
Four grown up children. The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together. I
failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..
Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.


Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_


Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.


Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink,
with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God grace....Amen

*Ladies, please try and pass this across to Ur boyfriend or fiancé* *Guys please have a re-think and tell other guys about it too... And consider this advice*°°°°°°°°

kinkybunny:
you no fit beat am??

muller101:
So what should we do

muller101:
So what should we do

TarOrfeek:
Bros, please why not use 990k to collect the 1 Naira. Abeg borrow me 10k. I don't have attitude. I swear.