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A woman abandoned her husband & her four (4) year old son for her rich boyfriend & they both (woman & boy friend) eventually travelled to the U.S.A Out of frustration & desperation the husband went & married another woman. Unfortunately the 2nd woman couldn’t bear a child for the husband. Despite her inability to bear a child, the 2nd woman took great care of the boy & treated him like her own son. Few years later, the husband died in a car accident. The 2nd wife did everything in her power to educate the boy, she engaged in petty trade such as pepper, maggie, salt, palm oil, onion, tomatoes, etc, in the market square in order to sponsor the boy’s schooling. The boy only knew his step mother as his real mother & there4, he called her Mama. The real mother in the U.S.A did not for once find out about the wellbeing of her son thoughtless of sending a penny for the boy, even after she heard that her x-husband (son’s father) died in an accident. Some years later, this boy grew up into a very intelligent young man waiting for his B.A Hons degree in Petroleum Engineering from the University. The real mother who also could not bear another child in the U.S since she eloped with her boyfriend, realized that she had made a terrible mistake by abandoning her own son. She decided to return home to look for her son & present to him all her wealth acquired over the years in the States. She eventually found her son battling between life & death in the hospital for kidney failure. The Doctors demanded huge amount of money for the operation & the step mother couldn’t afford it. The real mother stepped in & paid all the hospital bills & donated one of her own kidneys & the son was saved. Shortly after, the final results were out & the son got a distinction & also got a five year (5) scholarship to pursue his Masters degree in the U.K At the presentation of the certificate, the Vice Chancellor gave the mic to the son to call his mother to come up stage & receive the certificate. The moment the Vice Chancellor made the statement, the real mother got up & arranged herself
waiting to be called upon whilst the step mother sat down & looked at the boy with tears running her chick.
The answer is suspended………. Assume you are the son, who would you call on up stage?
A) Real Mother
B) Step Mother
Remember only one person you
should
call.


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I have a problem with my manhood. Am 34 in age and It's been happening like this ever since before I got married to my wife. it made me very scared whenever am with a woman so I always keep to myself and always shy to tell anyone my problem. Am married man now and been married for two years now, she is 27 in age we have been doing it and I don't even take up to 5mins to come whenever I make love to my wife, and she does not even worry or complain and has never since we got married.am really very scared and worried because my problem worries me a lot but it does not seem to worry my wife is it that she's okay with it or what am scared of loosing her don't know what to do and we don't even have children yet. I need an advice on this please


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I have a problem with my manhood. Am 34 in age and It's been happening like this ever since before I got married to my wife. it made me very scared whenever am with a woman so I always keep to myself and always shy to tell anyone my problem. Am married man now and been married for two years now, she is 27 in age we have been doing it and I don't even take up to 5mins to come whenever I make love to my wife, and she does not even worry or complain and has never since we got married.am really very scared and worried because my problem worries me a lot but it does not seem to worry my wife is it that she's okay with it or what am scared of loosing her don't know what to do and we don't even have children yet. I need an advice on this please


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Lol @ strawberries growing in sokoto.


Meanwhile...

KELVINXY:
Stupidity I've always wanted to ask you this question
How stu¶id are u

Lol... Do what you gotta do man. Awoof de purge tho

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I am a 30 years old woman, married to a 32 years old man. I have two kids, one is 6 months old and the other is almost 3. I need constructive and matured advice as I am in a dilemma right now. Pls don't judge me, as I have judged myself over and over. It started some years back when I decided to move back to Nigeria from the states. I had gotten married a few months earlier and my friends were threw a party for me. It was the day before I flew to Nigeria. I was tipsy and one thing led to the other and I ended up in bed with a friend. He pulled out before ejaculating and I felt really bad afterwards and very guilty. I made up my mind to let it go and move on. I got to Nigeria the following day and had sex with my husband. As we were not ready to have kids then, I took emergency pills the next morning .One month later, I discovered I was pregnant. I thought about having an abortion, but I didn't want to kill my child. I also thought that since it was my husband that came inside me, it must be his. The boy is almost 3 now, and he does not look like me or my husband. I think he looks like the other guy. Seeing him gives me goose pimples, as it reminds me if that unfortunate night. I don't know what to do, I don't have rest of mind and no peace either. I can't tell my husband to take a DNA test, as it will destroy my marriage and the other guy does not have any idea of what is going on. If I tell him to take a Dna test and it comes out he is the father, he might start blackmailing me. Pls help..


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This is a cry for help. Pls make our voices heard. Medical doctors, pharmacists, and medical laboratory scientists are wasting away years at home due to difficulty in getting internship placements. Please kindly post this cry for help on your blog to bring wider attention to our plight.
My name is Dr R.E, a medical doctor who graduated from one of the federal universities last year 2014. It's mandatory that we embark on 12months uninterrupted housemanship in various approved hospitals within Nigeria. However due to high number of medical graduates, few number of hospitals approved plus some shady activities of some Chief medical directors of various hospitals, new interns find it virtually impossible to get placements. This has lead to large number of medical doctors staying at home for over two years (the time-limit for provisional licence) without getting placement. Our regulatory organizations have abandoned us including the NMA and MDCN especially after collecting exorbitant dues. I must add that not only medical doctors are affected by this developments. Also pharmacists, medical laboratory scientists, radiologists and physiotherapy graduates are affected too. We want a regulated and efficient method for internship placements in Nigeria. An informal association of these group of individuals (me inclusive) have come up with some solutions which could help ameliorate this situation. It's in the Microsoft Word document I have attached below.
Thanks a lot
Yours faithfully,
Dr R.E.


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Am 24,few months to my wedding I tested positive 2 HIV/AIDS nd my boyfriend is running away 4rm me,where start from? He has 2 many excuse,he doesn't have time for me anymore,I feel he is no longer interested in me.pls advice me.


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Dear Confessionsnigeria, I am really confused as to what to do in this situation. I met this guy online about 3 and half years ago and we got chatting.

After about 2 months of steady chats and calls and I thought this was my perfect guy, he invited me over. He paid a return ticket for me to come see him in his town. We had agreed on no intimacy as I had decided then not to do it till I get married, then share it with my husband. On reaching there he was very nice and caring no doubt, he took me to all the nice places and seemed really normal. We later ended the day in his house and I felt safe. Then he offered me tea to go to bed with and unknown to me the tea was drugged. That is the last I remember of that night. Only to wake up in the morning to find myself Unclad on his bed and obviously raped. I have never felt more betrayed in my life. I felt like I betrayed myself to just trust someone based on a few chats and calls. I began to cry so badly, but thanking God for even sparing my life. Could have been a ritualist.

That was the last day I saw him. I travelled out later that year to run a master’s program and returned middle of this year. Only to catch up with my best friend and she’s all happy that she’s getting married and wants me to be her maid-of-honor. Showed me their pre-wedding pics and it’s this same guy that raped me about 3 years ago. Their wedding is in 2 months and I’ve been thinking. I don’t think I should dignify that bastard by even attending his wedding but I don’t know how to tell my friend about him, or if to even tell her cos I don’t want to come across as an enemy of progress. Please if you were in my shoes, what would you do?


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Dear Confessionsnigeria, I am really confused as to what to do in this situation. I met this guy online about 3 and half years ago and we got chatting. After about 2 months of steady chats and calls and I thought this was my perfect guy, he invited me over. He paid a return ticket for me to come see him in his town. We had agreed on no intimacy as I had decided then not to do it till I get married, then share it with my husband. On reaching there he was very nice and caring no doubt, he took me to all the nice places and seemed really normal. We later ended the day in his house and I felt safe. Then he offered me tea to go to bed with and unknown to me the tea was drugged. That is the last I remember of that night. Only to wake up in the morning to find myself naked on his bed and obviously raped. I have never felt more betrayed in my life. I felt like I betrayed myself to just trust someone based on a few chats and calls. I began to cry so badly, but thanking God for even sparing my life. Could have been a ritualist. That was the last day I saw him. I travelled out later that year to run a master’s program and returned middle of this year. Only to catch up with my best friend and she’s all happy that she’s getting married and wants me to be her maid-of-honor. Showed me their pre-wedding pics and it’s this same guy that raped me about 3 years ago. Their wedding is in 2 months and I’ve been thinking. I don’t think I should dignify that bastard by even attending his wedding but I don’t know how to tell my friend about him, or if to even tell her cos I don’t want to come across as an enemy of progress. Please if you were in my shoes, what would you do?


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Honestly I am tired of living. When I say this I know people would think that maybe I am going through a dark phase in my life but in fact I am not. I am 45, male, married with 3 lovely kids, have a beautiful home and I am doing really well in my business thank God, so my family have all they need, all I never got growing up. To my friends and family and people that know me or have read about me I am doing really well, I am actually living the Nigerian dream I must say but honestly I am tired of living. Life to me is just one boring and routine strip. I have traveled to almost every interesting corner of the world and I don’t see why some people get so freaked about travelling out, especially my wife. I am really tired and sometimes wish I could just go away. Death seems sad, not to me but to the people that I will leave behind. I wish there was a button I could just press and disappear and be totally forgotten. I am tired of living because life is so boring and tiring. I have never told anyone about this though, they might think I’m delusional but I am just tired…

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The story I’m about to tell is a true story. This might be long but I appreciate all that would take the time to read through. The incident I am about to tell you all happened 12 years ago, all this while and even till date I have never spoken a word about this to any soul. It is my dark secret, that has been eating me up every day for 12 years and I have never had the courage to tell anybody, until I discovered this site, so I thought to get it off my chest here because it is too heavy for me. Please judge me, I have been a bad person. It was never my intention, but I have killed 2 people. It all happened back in 2003 when I was an undergraduate in the university. I am not going to mention names of places or anything that can be traced back to me by family and friends, or otherwise. I was in 300L then and still a small boy that knew little about the real world, then it was all parties, drinks and girls. On that fateful day, I and my friends were in a neighboring town to our school, about 1 hour 45 minutes drive to our school, and we were drinking heavily, we had drank heavily the night before also, it was kind of a routine then. I now got a call from my parents that my younger one was on his way to my school to deliver to me a laptop I had requested from them and that he was close already, not wanting to miss this (I couldn’t anyway as my parents wouldn’t expect me to be anywhere else) I asked my friend to give me his car so I could rush down, pick the laptop and be back as soon as possible. He asked me if I could drive as I was tipsy, I bragged that even if I had 10 more bottles I could still drive perfectly so he gave me the keys. I rushed to school and picked up the laptop successfully. When coming back, I started to fall asleep on the wheel. I tried my best to keep awake but it was futile as you wouldn’t know when you doze off, only to realize I had dozed off after waking, all this in high speed. I finally woke up to the loud horn of a large trailer I was almost having a head-on collision with, I immediately swerved and held brakes but the car was uncontrollable then I ended up knocking down two people by the road side before the car stopped. I rushed out of the car to see that it was an old woman and a young boy both carrying firewood. The car had climbed and completely crushed the boy and he was instantly lifeless. The woman was badly disfigured but still managed a few shakes on the ground. This is a somewhat lonely highway with no houses around. I looked around and no one was close just some more people carrying firewood but still far off. As they made to run towards me, dumbfounded and scared for my life I got in the car and sped off back to the town where we were drinking and returned the car back to the owner. The way that woman was injured and her age too I doubt she survived and the boy was already dead on impact. I didn’t know what I could have done and so I kept it a secret and never spoke of this to anybody but it haunts me every day to this day. I have always wished I had that head-on collision instead. I see pictures of that day every time I close my eyes and wonder how different it would have been had I not lived a reckless life. God help me


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