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25omega:
so.... this is not something that happened to you but you found it on another blog?

I didn't find it on any blog. It was sent to www.confessionsnigeria.com Nigeria's first anonymous portal

Couple of months ago, this charming man asked me out on a date. He happens to be a regular customer at the bank I work. He has almost all the qualities one can ever ask for in a man. Rich, handsome, caring, romantic, everything. I love him a lot, but he is gay. As in, I couldn't believe it too but I noticed he doesn't make moves for sex anytime we are together, even though we do romance and smooch. I am against premarital sex myself, so I only thought he was waiting till marriage like me. Until I discovered some unusual text messages and whatsapp chats between him and one of his close friends that always behaves like a girl. The messages seem too romantic and sexually-suggestive to be for just friends. I haven't asked him and he hasn't told me anything, but I already can tell he is homosexual. He keeps saying he wants to marry me and that his mom wants him to marry soon. I've met his parents, and he has met mine. We are about fixing time for the introduction, though he is yet to officially propose. I am afraid he won't be able to behave like a normal man sexually if we eventually marry, though I want to risk it since good men like him are hard to find. Can he change if we start having regular sex during marriage? Is there any way I can make him straight? I don't want to lose him.


I just got this. Any expert opinions?

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Couple of months ago, this charming man asked me out on a date. He happens to be a regular customer at the bank I work. He has almost all the qualities one can ever ask for in a man. Rich, handsome, caring, romantic, everything. I love him a lot, but he is gay. As in, I couldn't believe it too but I noticed he doesn't make moves for sex anytime we are together, even though we do romance and smooch. I am against premarital sex myself, so I only thought he was waiting till marriage like me. Until I discovered some unusual text messages and whatsapp chats between him and one of his close friends that always behaves like a girl. The messages seem too romantic and sexually-suggestive to be for just friends. I haven't asked him and he hasn't told me anything, but I already can tell he is homosexual. He keeps saying he wants to marry me and that his mom wants him to marry soon. I've met his parents, and he has met mine. We are about fixing time for the introduction, though he is yet to officially propose. I am afraid he won't be able to behave like a normal man sexually if we eventually marry, though I want to risk it since good men like him are hard to find. Can he change if we start having regular sex during marriage? Is there any way I can make him straight? I don't want to lose him.


I just got this. Any expert opinions?

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At where I work, promotion is only every two years. I've been working for six years now and I've gotten promoted only once. I'm happily married with kids. But my boss is divorced. And the boss is in charge of approving the final promotion list. I think it is because of the fact that I've not given in to the demands of sex from my boss that is costing me my promotion. Do I give in and get promoted? My wife mustn't hear about it. She will let all hell loose on my boss. Ever since my boss got divorced, she has always pestered me for an affair. She is a sort of Margaret Thatcher: never stopping until she gets what she wants. Today she's at it again giving me no rest or peace of mind and she keeps telling me my promotion is ready anytime I am ready to give in to her demands. And that the promotion will be double. I can't resign as there are no much jobs in the labour market. Help me out!!! I don't know what to do.

At where I work, promotion is only every two years. I've been working for six years now and I've gotten promoted only once. I'm happily married with kids. But my boss is divorced. And the boss is in charge of approving the final promotion list. I think it is because of the fact that I've not given in to the demands of sex from my boss that is costing me my promotion. Do I give in and get promoted? My wife mustn't hear about it. She will let all hell loose on my boss. Ever since my boss got divorced, she has always pestered me for an affair. She is a sort of Margaret Thatcher: never stopping until she gets what she wants. Today she's at it again giving me no rest or peace of mind and she keeps telling me my promotion is ready anytime I am ready to give in to her demands. And that the promotion will be double. I can't resign as there are no much jobs in the labour market. Help me out!!! I don't know what to do.


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At where I work, promotion is only every two years. I've been working for six years now and I've gotten promoted only once. I'm happily married with kids. But my boss is divorced. And the boss is in charge of approving the final promotion list. I think it is because of the fact that I've not given in to the demands of sex from my boss that is costing me my promotion. Do I give in and get promoted? My wife mustn't hear about it. She will let all hell loose on my boss. Ever since my boss got divorced, she has always pestered me for an affair. She is a sort of Margaret Thatcher: never stopping until she gets what she wants. Today she's at it again giving me no rest or peace of mind and she keeps telling me my promotion is ready anytime I am ready to give in to her demands. And that the promotion will be double. I can't resign as there are no much jobs in the labour market. Help me out!!! I don't know what to do.


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At where I work, promotion is only every two years. I've been working for six years now and I've gotten promoted only once. I'm happily married with kids. But my boss is divorced. And the boss is in charge of approving the final promotion list. I think it is because of the fact that I've not given in to the demands of sex from my boss that is costing me my promotion. Do I give in and get promoted? My wife mustn't hear about it. She will let all hell loose on my boss. Ever since my boss got divorced, she has always pestered me for an affair. She is a sort of Margaret Thatcher: never stopping until she gets what she wants. Today she's at it again giving me no rest or peace of mind and she keeps telling me my promotion is ready anytime I am ready to give in to her demands. And that the promotion will be double. I can't resign as there are no much jobs in the labour market. Help me out!!! I don't know what to do.


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almostFamous:
Op..u wanna use us catch groove abi
My worst lie... "I will click on dat link"

Just click it dear. You might wanna say something anonymously. There's lots to read also on Nigeria's first anonymous portal

You can comment anonymously through that link. Not everybody wants to put their name to a story you know

Worst lie i have said, I love you. Cost me a lot

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What is the worst lie you've ever told? Or heard? Remember, you can always drop your answers completely anonymously on http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/41/worst-lie Let the fun begin!!

austine4real:
Bloggers sabi lie o

confessionsnigeria.com is not a blog. It is Nigeria's first anonymous portal where you can say absolutely anything completely anonymously. Thanks

Thanks to CN, I can tell my nutty secrets here. Ok, there is this neighbour of mine that I like how he looks. He is built, handsome and hot. He moved in six months ago. I am married with a kid. I am a full housewife, and my husband's job requires him to travel a lot. Some times we only see thrice in six months. And he doesn't even stay more than a week on these occasions. I've told him to change jobs, but he likes his job so much. He gets paid well and I don't lack anything, except for his constant company. This next-door neighbour of mine is always around. He finishes work 3pm daily. It first started out as a friendship between us. Until I started frequenting his place, and we will watch movies into the wee hours of the night. He will always fast - forward the erotic scenes, but I used to seize the remote from him. Our bodies will touch and I'll feel moved to warm up in his arms. Before we knew it we started making love every now and then. He is good in bed, and even though I know what I am doing is wrong, but I can't seem to help myself. What can I do? I'm beginning to have feelings for my neighbour already, but he doesn't talk about feelings.
AbujaChick


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ideology:
You are a learner in spreading propaganda, @op

It was an anonymous post sent to confessionsnigeria.com it is a portal where you can say anything completely anonymously

Hello confessionsNigeria. These things I am about to share here are 100% real. I hope you will keep my identity secret. I am a close personal assistant to one of the popular politicians in this country. I have been working with him for more than a decade. We have been through the thick and thin, good, ugly and bad together. What am doing right now looks like a betrayal. Of recent, we had to hire some thugs to disrupt one rally like that. During the process, two lives were lost. They weren't instructed to kill. Just to disrupt. I was the one specifically assigned to hire them. Even though no arrest has been made. But I feel like the blood of the dead people is on my head. It's not like I do have nightmares or something, but my conscience is not just at rest. I've kept this secret and many others to myself, and it seems I'll lose my mind if I don't let them out. I am at a crossroad; I can lose my political appointment and career if I start opening all the cans of worms, or if I keep mute and stay loyal, I'll continue to move up high in the hierarchy. I pray for a CHANGE in Nigeria


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I just hope this weed won't ruin my life though. I love it so much and there is no day I won't smoke a joint. It all started from my university days. Me and my friends will smoke it often and even put it in our food. The feeling is second to none. It didn't affect our studies. Rather, it helped us assimilate well. I kept it away from my girlfriend, but she recently saw wraps of it where I hid them. She still doesn't believe her eyes till today. I do have pains and difficulty breathing at times. I am afraid it is cancer or some other bad infection. I don't want to go to the hospital to check what it is. Even after all these, I still find myself loving weed more and more. It helps me to ease stress after the day's work and I just can't do without it. Though I wish to stop, in order to save my relationship and my life. But it's even getting harder for me to put efforts into stopping. Anyway out?
from Warri


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I'm under this pressure at work from my boss. He is married and am single. He is not the m.d, but he is influential. He is the head of our department at work. Although he is nice, caring and gentle, but I don't want to be the reason why he will be cheating on his wife. The thing is that he keeps saying he wants me, but that he can't marry me since he is already married. I just got the job like seven months ago and I think it is too early to quit. I spent five years looking for it. I can't report my boss to anyone, as I might have accepted his proposal had it been he were not married. But I don't want office romance this one that I just got a job. He keeps giving me special treatment all the time. I am really in a dilemma as to what to do.


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Hi, I hope my identity is truly anonymous. I attend this church in South-East region in Nigeria. I have been a regular member for like 3 years. Around last year, I noticed the pastor started to like me more. He will give me money to take care of my siblings. I thought it was just normal liking at first. I respect the pastor a lot, because he is anointed, jovial and prayerful. But his wife is too harsh and strict. She is rude and shouts on people anyhow. They got married before the pastor got born again and turned pastor. The pastor do tell me that he wished I was his wife. He says he likes me a lot and won't mind having me as his second wife, even though it is against the Scriptures. It is obvious that he is not enjoying his marriage. And to make matters worse, his wife hasn't given birth after fifteen years of marriage. Pastor keeps telling me he sees me in his dreams and visions as God's ordained wife for him. I am really confused, afraid and at the same time happy because pastor is a good man, but I don't want to be the reason why he will leave his wife for me. He has told me to go and think about it, but I just don't know what to think about. Any meaningful suggestions?


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Keep loving it. Its your body

Some people are insane

I have received from both PDP and APC with Nigerian numbers and UK number as well. I guess its mobile-campaign

Jega is just one man in an office. Inec is not his company and anybody can head the commission

The wall-like look. Apparently girls like walls

jargonzboi:
Be patient... I sure you'll get your call-up number before the day ends.

Cheers.

I agree

Lol...Really funny

Follow your heart bro, in the end your happiness matters most

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