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Wow

I got discouraged at reading but it's not thrilling anymore, if them even carry shovel pack dirty gutter with water inside e no concern anybody now.

Only a born fool would waste his vote after what Buhari showed us.

IamGreen1:
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@bolded is the reason you must talk. I must damage anyone intend doing that to me more in such a way that after months or years sef she or he go still dey think about it, that's my aim. The person only saving grace is for him or her not to come for me. No word would be left unsaid.

Wahala Person.



I stopped that when my elder sister fell into depression because of what I told her.

Wahala

It's a good thing you realized your mistake, now you can get another savings and pay up your rent, tell your landlord to be patient but if he's reluctant then you have to borrow and pay huge interest then you will feel the pain of paying for a loan for money already used then you will curse yourself and swear never to play bet with big money again.

Don't even take about suicide, that's a stupid thing to think about, I once gathered money to buy phone, na for road them take steal the phone, I no even use the phone for 4 hours sef, I felt very bad but I had to retrieve the SIM, now I have phones.

I have lost money to betting too, well I can't disclose the amount but I emptied my account then like you, somehow I drank Garri and Salt for 4 days and now I no dae use pass #200, nothing is sure in sports bro, even the bookies don't play bet because they know anything can happen so if you want to bet just use like #100 and #200 take bet to win below 10k then use the money flex or don't play at all because I don't even play some months sef.

You no fit use betting gain financial freedom, forget those idiots talking about sports trading, no be their money them take dae play na people dae use their money then the people go give them share from the winnings.

IamGreen1:
This is me in you, I only forgive when I've retaliate or say horrible words to you to your face, you must be hurt like you intend doing to me. Forgiveness my foot!

Lol

I am not verbally expressive, I do more of actions because I don't even like talking sef.

But I prefer the actions to words because my words cause more damage than my actions.

anu3:
Antyxx


Friends, you'll keep hurting yourself more. I was stuck with that for years... It was so bad that my friend nicknamed me using the word malice to form it.

I heard that anger or unforgiving attitudes are possibly linked to some ulcers and health issues.

Strange right? When we get angry certain hormones are released and when it's get too much in your system it's trouble. Also nervous disorders and bad dreams.

It was when I got converted to Jesus that I learnt to Forgive even before they ask for forgiveness: many don't even ask, might just use smiles and jokes to make up.

Today, by God's grace it seems people get frustrated trying to get me offended.

No! I still love you even if you Hate me! For peace, I may avoid you, but deep down I'm willing to help if I have the slightest opportunity. Hence, I Love even my enemies.

God bless

It's good to love everyone, but I can't love everyone, I hate people who hate me, that's just the truth, the anger doesn't hurt me in anyway except I take actions against that person, that I will begin to have guilt in my conscience because the person or people involved would be facing extreme pains and I imagine myself in their shoes, but if I hear that God uses someone else to punish then I feel a special kind of happiness.

It's not my fault, I have forgiven people too much when I was much younger and everytime they just find a way to put me in pains and I still forgive them and they never stop, suddenly I changed after I drew back from reading the bible and people became wary of me and learnt how to behave around me.

At the moment I don't let anyone take advantage of me unless I allow it, I don't feel any friend or person is too special to let go.

Idadurun:
You're right my dear. Do you know that most of the criminals unleashing these evil act on indigenes and non-indigenes are locals from Ohorho and Agadama villages. Some notorious youths even dress like the fulani herdsmen, join them to attack/kill innocent indigenes, kidnap for ransom, harassing and extorting motorists operating Bomadi route, etc. I think those Ohorho boys around the Bomadi junction are informers. They monitor activities of individuals and give information to their collaborators in the bush. They should be arrested.

Yes.

Agadama Village is the hotspot, same way people betray their friends, colleagues betray themselves and brothers betray themselves is the same way some persons betray their tribe and culture, it's everywhere.

That's the main reason I am angry with Buhari for carving an English name called Repentant Terrorists, A betrayer is always a betrayer even if you take him to the North Pole, he's still a betrayer, they should be hanged to death.

I am not in support of splitting this nation, we are better off together with our flaws, it can't get any better if one region is cut out of Nigeria.

Chrismania100:
Do you have any evidence?

if I have, it's the police or the military I will give it to and not you.

There's always collaboration.

Even the Killing of Youths in Ohoro Village in Delta State close to Patani, it was one of the villagers that called the Army that the youths are killing innocent Hausa Men whereas they were Herdsmem with guns, that's how the military in conjunction with the Fulani Herdsmen killed 20 youths.

A Foreigner can't come and do shit in your homeland unless he has bribed a local otherwise he would get killed very easily.

Nawa

I want you to know that it's not your fault that she's behaving that way, some persons are just like that, ungrateful and wicked.

Well I think she has no money to rent a new apartment and buy properties neither does she have anywhere to return to other than home( where she came from).

I think you should tell the vigilantee in your area about your predicament so that they can help you evict her or make her change permanently but if you have the guts you should put her things outside very close to the time when she normally returns home and then you change the padlock of your house after that you tell your neighbours to keep an eye on her and let one of them give you updates via phone call, once she's gone just come back and sleep or probably lodge by a nearby hotel if you she refuses to go before midnight.

Abstinence till marriage is the best way.

Finding someone you are sexually compatible with takes having sex with numerous people and moreover you can't even tell if that person thinks you are sexually compatible with them.

If not for promiscuousity, people won't be scared of marriage.

Lol your Dad is like my former boss.

He only goes after widows, he would help them and show them that caring attitude but na hotel dae end am.

Whereas he has a wife at home, there's nothing you can do to change him, na only him go tire.

Oblivionz5:
Keep specs on sheet apart
Google pixel and Nokia have their glitches
I haven’t used one plus so ion know

Lol so there's a perfect phone out there

Your head no correct gan.

For performance I give it to Google Pixel.

Oblivionz5:
There are only 2 types of phones
iPhone
Samsung
The others are just slightly advanced calculators and power banks
End of discussion

Some of una go just dae form oversabi when una know nothing

Do you know Google Pixel, Oneplus and new Nokia Phones.

People buy IPhones and Samsung because of popularity, there are Phones with mad specs that haven't broken into the market.

Antyxx:
Hmm
It's true that children can lie, everyone knows that. It's Oyinbo people that started the Children are plain innocent rubbish, some children were born devil
I remember when I was 3years old, each time I go to learning place, there are this children that would use her fingernails to wound my neck, without doing anything to her.
And she would deny it to the last, infact,children deny things the most

Then in my primary school, I'm primary 2, many of my classmates have sex with each other,and press their boobs. Infact, everyone knows them as onisekuse
Then I have known about sex since primary one, sometimes I used to wonder if adults used to forget their childhood, at 5-10 years, all children know about boyfriend's and sex from their peers, it's not just the main core of their plays
But also, many of my classmates that have sex, would have been probably abused by a man at home, because each time I think about why Bose, Aina, Cathrine were having sex at primary 2, that's the only excuse I can give. This is in in early 1980s. Most of them are grand mother now and great grandmother

Also, the males understood butts,breast etc as early as primary 2. I remember how Yusuf will slap some girls butts and everyone would laugh,we all knew the meaning

About Lies
One girl lives in my street, she's around 5years old, this girl can behave like witch, always fighting,and have blade mouth,abuse anyone,where did she learn it from? I will say from her mother but the truth is her mother doesn't do as much as she does,from her sisters? Her sisters are naturally quiet and cool headed
Hereditary is real, some people were born wicked and this they need training to become better
Me myself,since childhood,I don't forgive people,and till now, I still don't. I have intense hatred for anyone that hurts me right from childhood,no matter how small. My mum would wonder why I get so unforgiving,right from Childhood,age 3.My sister would forgive immediately,but quarrel often.
Infact, all my behaviour right now,are same things I exhibited during childhood,as well as my siblings
Meanwhile, my brotherss are very quiet right from baby. My nieces are quiet and mom troublesome right from baby, they hardly cry and laugh often, they exhibit the same behaviour after age 5, and I have one niece that behaves just like me. If you offend her,till next year,she go remember,she no dey forget

The work of parent is to learn who your child is, and mould her to something better. Some children like sex right from childhood,and they will like it till adulthood. Meanwhile,some like sex due to abuse

I have been trying to learn how to forgive people but I still can't oh, I heard marriage is all about having a forgiven heart but if someone offends me very badly I can't forgive them no matter how hard I try.

apatheticme:
Ha ha ha ha ha ha

You got me at "step on my ego".

So correcting your error means your ego is in the mud since it's coming from a female abi?? So you are too big to accept simple correction because you're a "man"?? Wonders will never end.

You youths of nowadays have a lot to learn when it comes to life issues! Many of you are full of too much pride. Imagine being an undergraduate and you're this puffed up?? What exactly have you acheived that you can't be corrected?? Yet many of you drag your president or governors in the mud if they make the slightest mistake in public.

No wonder an elderly man wrote a beautiful thread, instead of y'all to pick sense from it, you're busy attacking him with insults.

FYI, For you to be an undergraduate by now, then by the time I finished my first degree, I'm sure you were still in your mother's womb!! You think everyone is a teenager here??

You can correct someone without mocking them, if you did it in a polite way like I was communicating with you earlier, instead you decided to bring toxicity into the conversation and act like you know better than me in a bid to massage your ego.

I may not be older than you but I am glad you see me as a teenager, I have no time to argue about age, it's not a criteria for living, I take it that way but I can tell you that circumstances didn't make me enter school at the time I wanted.

If I was the one mocking you now, I am sure you would have been raining insults on me now, somehow it's not all about how old you are but how reasonable and mature you can be.

I accept corrections if I see it as genuine and unlike yours, your saw the argument/debate as a means to mock me but I take it that way, if you can buttress your skin glow then what can I do, I want the best for you.

apatheticme:
Wow, so it's now a mere factor, care to tell us the main factor

Oh, it's 3 Roosters, not '3 hens'.
There's also nothing like "female hen" Biko!
Hen already implies a female domestic bird

You should spend more time with your "Brighter Grammar" and "Mastering English" than you spend online speaking on Marital issues here since you're unmarried and still feed from Momma's pot

That's the reason men here insult you women all around, you talk too much, I am familiar with the word cock and not rooster but somehow I felt you would understand and be reasonable as I even had to tell you about a comic scene I saw that's nor related to the topic, instead you decided to pick out the errors and use it as a means to step on my ego.

Moreover for that part where you said I live with my parents, I find it funny though and I assume you are foolish because ASSU is on Strike and I have been at home now for months, moreover I pay everything for the house from rent to cable subscriptions except clothings for my younger ones, at this stage of my life I have no serious girlfriend so I spend all my money on my parental family and my personal investments, their encouragements and motivations took me this far so I made a personal obligation to spoil them.

I work and I am student, just so you know I didn't want to rent an apartment at my home because I have one at school and I can't chase all the women coming to me nor can I escape getting one pregnant but since I am at my parent's house they can't come and be forming madam of the house.

Born2winKingOG:
legal advice needed please

Find a way to stop him from selling it even if it means sueing him to the village court, if his father sold all the lands and left him just one plot, he wouldn't see any to sell now to satisfy his selfish needs, family lands are transferred from generations to generations, it's a generational wealth and it can only be sold in serious cases when a forefather hasn't been given a befitting burial and it's getting too late, there's no other condition for selling unless you want to invite troubles for yourself.

My Uncle has sold almost all his plot of lands and he has just two left because he gave birth to only girls and he was just selling it all due to lost hopes, but 2 years ago he cheated on his wife and the lady gave birth to boy that looks just like him and now he's regretting it and cursing his first wife for encouraging him to sell them, he even chased his first wife out of his house, I am an Igbo incase you want to ask.

Don't let anyone deceive you that's you are feeling entitled, problem no dae finish, so if he sells all the lands he will still have monetary problems to solve, it's your right so also it's your children's right.

apatheticme:
I thought you guys always puff your chests and brag you're making all the money, so there can't be equality.

If the woman is also making money then why can't that be a condition for equality??

Money is just a mere factor in this cases.

Only those with poor mentality see money as a criteria for being a head, leaders are not made based on net worth but rather capabilities.

The Natural abilities and capabilities of a man is superior to a woman and that's why a man is not equal to a woman.

This evening at my mom's house I saw something very funny 3 hens fight energetically that I even had to video some seconds of it, guess what, they were fighting over who would mate with the only available female hen who was just there lying down waiting for the victor, at last they got tired and they all took turns in mating with her, I was like that's the best thing to do na. LOL

ednut1:
Dont be deceived alot of women are breadwinners in many Nigerian marriages

Is that a condition for equality?

Wow

Nature is Incredible.

Prettygirl200:
punish her for what reason exactly??

You lack basic comprehension

Fool.

Please do the needful, just to save the name of the guy.

Women now know the power of accusations and they use it for their selfish benefits.

If no punishment is given to false accusers, then I think men will be scared of relationships. Women will beg to be in a relationship.

Till Date I haven't seen the importance of female education but that reason you gave up there is not valid.

Personally I can't say no to female education because it's a now a necessity and it has gone too far to be stopped.

Well Said,

He was chasing clout, we all know that Davido can do anything for clout, he posts everything including those are necessary and unnecessary.

Take him serious at your own peril, although he's a man but he behaves like a woman sometimes.

thebosstrevor1:
Apparently, you are supporting the idea that it is normal for a guy to sleep with a 15 years old girl.

So you are telling me that you will see a 15 years old girl and not know she is 15 years.

So it is normal for a guy to sleep with a 15 years old girl because women are hypergamous.

Which guy in his right senses will write what you wrote.

It is a crime to sleep with a 15 years old girl.

My younger sister is 13 yr old

If you see her you would think that she's 20 yr old

Sometimes it gets to her head and she compares herself to girls around 18-20 yr old but a slap from me just do the needful.

Girls grow way above their age especially those with big bodies.

Moreover those guys impregnanting them are also teenagers like them, I live in Warri and I can give you a 90% assurance.

Lies

Blogger no fit make person marriage fail.

One of them was looking for a way out and that just happened.

Take a look at ASAP Rocky and Rihanna recent trends, it's all about understanding and trust, when there's nothing of such, how then would any relationship last.

Somehow that Linda Ikeji is a very bad woman, I can't forget how she lured many women into feminism and hating on me, raising their standards unnecessarily whereas she was desperately in need of a child from the gender she abhored, too bad the child came out fatherless, very evil woman.

I pity those females who listen to other females(bitches), when the problem come na only you go carry am.

I did YouTube Plan of #500 and I watched two Nigerian movies to my surprise when I checked my data balance I was left with 4.3gb while my YouTube data was untouched.

Since then I saw those plans as fraudulent and I haven't gone there since.

HardMirror:
I understand you sir. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

Sir?

Lol, that's a woman under a male moniker.

Awoist:
The shenanigans of our leaders must have messed up our brains. An aspirant is not expected to shoulder all these expenses. Getting sponsors for your ambition is legimate.

You mean sponsors who want nothing in return?

We all know that the Annual Salary of the Nigerian President is 28 Million Naira per annum and that the APC Presidential Ticket Form is 100 Million Naira while that of PDP is 50 Million Naira.

Now let's do a fact check; A Tenure is 4 years which is equivalent to 112 Million Naira in a salary view, the APC Presidential Form is 100 Million Naira, now a citizen who purchases this form has 12 Million Naira to gain in 4 years time excluding Campaign Expenses and Celebration Expenses if he eventually wins, for a PDP Aspirant, he has 62 Million Naira to make in 4 years time excluding Campaign Expenses and Celebration Expenses if he eventually wins.

Now let us view it the business way, We all know that an APC Prospective Candidate is in for a bad investment and will certainly run at loss if he purchases the form, while that of PDP still has something tangible to hold on as profit.

Now the only way an APC Platform President can personally enjoy his rulership and think straight forward is if he does some underground deals while that of PDP may decide to look it off, let us not even talk about patriotism because you can't do it on a empty stomach neither is anyone a lover of bad investments. As much as anyone wants to make a better Nigeria as a president so also is that person going there for the salary benefits.

Speaking of No Pain No Gain or Sacrifices it's not about the monetary terms but rather other things that are too numerous to mention which uprightness and truthfulness is inclusive, there are so many hurdles up there in which those qualities would help you overcome, an example is seeing billions and trillions of Nigerian Naira that you would be tempted to take from.

Pegging a form at that price as a professional and ruling body show no intelligence and absence of critical and insightful thinking for the APC, little wonder why Nigeria is in such a mess.

I believe you should now acknowledge the fact that whoever buys the APC Presidential Ticket Form is a corruption man and a prospective bad ruler while that of PDP has slight chances of ruling corruption free.

I am not clamouring for PDP neither am I telling you who to vote, it's just a fact check, everyone has the right to vote who they deem fit and worthy of a particular position.
It's Democracy.

Your opinions are welcomed.

Somehow no one sees anything wrong in him paying to secure a job.

I think the corruption has eaten deep into many Nigerians.