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Lifeinlight:
Reason why some women dey show men like you pepper for abroad. No any iota of sense

I pity the unfortunate woman that'd end up with you.

Insulting him for a statement like that, shows the kind of person you are.

Rubbish 👀.

ChatGpt work.

Sports Betting is the main cause of being broke in Nigeria.

Wainey:
Back in 2022, I raised money and started my first business. Everything crumbled and I lost everything, that year was the year of depression in my life, I hope to start allover again in 2024 with few lessons I have learned from my previous business.

I don raise half the capital and I plan to get everything next year

We are in this together bro, God is our strength.

Patosky4U:
This year is the most challenging year in my life. My investments collapsed, visa got denied, nothing was virtually working right no matter how hard i tried and above all lost my only son it was a year to forget for me. As I am now, I take life the way it comes.

Sorry about that.

I am glad this year is almost gone. All my investments crumbled within 2 months, almost died in a accident and I am still in debts paying small small.

I am only grateful for Life.
By God's Grace, 2024 will be fruitful.

warrifinest1985:
Jesus christ! Who do chelsea this one? Because the way chelsea are going down, they will soon discover oil. My best friend stake a game with 15k to win 200k with only chelsea game remaining and the gave the idiot cashout of 140k last night and i pleaded with him to cash out but he refused and am calling the idiot now to laugh at him and he is not picking his calls. Lol

Who be this Mumu 😂

Allthelight:
the guy will likely neglect the child in future....


If he won't why let the child stay at the mum's place

Have you thought if the girl objected to it, she looks razz enough to do it.

ihatebuhari:
oga say Southern Nigeria.

In the north they follow the teaching of their Islamic prophet who married and have sex with a 9 years old girl.


In the north you can even sleep with a 9years old girl nothing will happen. Even the useless hisbah will be happy you did

Oh Shut Up Please.

They marry them first.

This is what's happening to my younger sister currently.

This 22 year old boy has refused to leave my 14 year old sister.

Worse still I haven't seen him eye ball to eye ball, he runs everytime, I have reported to the street chairman and nothing has been done.

Once I get home next week Monday, na Police Station we go take settle, why can't he allow her get to 18 first instead of manipulating the young girl.

Acidosis:
Nobody will respect you because of what you did some 25 years ago. If your life turn out bad because you spent your youthful days trying to lift others, be rest assured that the people you "lifted" will someday become tired of your excesses. More often than not, they'll ignore you and your calls.

People (siblings inclusive) will only respect what you make of your life and career, not the school fees you paid 35 years ago.

Just make sure you don't become poor or a liability in the process, else...!

Oh Shut up please and read the rest of my post and delete this nonsense.

Follow the advice of immortal crown (the first commenter), your siblings will always respect you.

I am in similar situation like yours OP, only difference is that none of my younger ones are in tertiary institution and you are making a mistake by not engaging then in something to earn them money now or in future.

I work in a factory too and I take care of all the major expenses in the family, we relied on our parents and we were almost heading back to the village very hungry, I had to step up like you are doing now.

I enrolled my younger ones in handicrafts which they go to learn after school and the 16 year old is already getting small changes too from the tailoring he's learning, I patronize him too but na small money I dae pay 😂.

I did these things because I can't bear the burden forever and I hope to move out and start my own family in few years time after I graduate from Uni.

Mind you, I build myself too oh because I can't sacrifice my dreams because of anyone, I only delayed some.

DyingFetus:
Live with your parents, get a living either by acquiring a skill or profiting from others work



Employ yourself



Nigeria doesn't need more employees , it need more employees


There are forking areas in Nigeria that are cash cows ie tech , food, agriculture etc.

I earn $50k and still live with my mom , my gf visits me at home while my mom's around and we make out in my bed room

$50k?
Are you in Nigeria or Overseas?

StrongAlphMale:
My point is, why didn't they mourn the over 100 people killed in plateau?

Akpabio didn't mourn, atiku didn't, this ex gov didn't, hundreds of them couldn't mourn the over 100 people killed in plateau, but e reach this one turn they all came out in their thousands to mourn.

My point is , is he more important than those 100 people killed? No be the same grave dey go still bury am?

This is something you know the answer to.

They are social hypocrites and what importance does their condolences hold?

Nothing beats those who are genuinely close to you because they love you.

These are the people who would truly mourn you.

bennybuhari:
I read this online

The evidence we have so far is that human consciousness does not become annihilated," said Parnia, a doctor at Stony Brook University Hospital and director of the school's resuscitation research program. "It continues for a few hours after death, albeit in a hibernated state we cannot see from the outside."24 Apr 2013

You should read more online 👀, a dead man has never come back to tell his experience, it's always the ones alive dropping assumptions.

StrongAlphMale:
See the way everyone is mourning Aketi.

Now let's assume he was a poor man from nowhere, would anyone even remember him let alone mourning him? My brother, in all you do in this life, just ensure you make this money and have enough of it.

Money brings power and influence, and that's exactly what the late governor has. Supposed money fit buy life, this gov no go ever smell death

Calm Down.

He's dead and doesn't know these people are mourning him, so it's not important.

He can only be sure of those who are close to him and have shown to really loved him same as a poor man.

She can call him all she wants now and her freedom has been given to her.

Marriage isn't for everyone but everyone wants to get married.

descartes400:
My question borders on if the woman had help to be able to subdue the man to stab him not just once but multiple time to warrant his death.

Did she had help from her husband and the gate man apart from where they were involved in trying to conceal the body?

That's to say does the evidence points to her as being solely responsible for the victim's murder?

But of course, you would rather throw tantrums and revert to insults...

A 14 year old can stab you to death if you are unaware, I don't know the gibberish you are talking about.

descartes400:
How's the deceased not able to defend himself from the woman when the first stab came by running away?

How was she able to over power him to stab him multiple times?

The cover story holds no water.

Oh, just shut up, even Andre the Giant can't protect himself from someone he's trying to help.
You aren't sensible enough to know it's a surprise attack.

tuzle:
But why are u showing us thee house u built for ur aged parent? What is our business with the house. Do u need to show us so much details

People who know him well here don't comment under his posts.

DEROX:
why not anambra or owerri he is a tribalist

It's obvious you didn't miss Nairaland a bit.

Please I did, mind how you comment here.

People with a simple way of life.

Here in Nigeria, we do everything to pepper others even at our own detriment.

This story is just like mine and I am the boyfriend 😂

I had an ex who always misbehaved, she cheated but I didn't caught her red-handed though, during Xmas and New Year, she was no where to be found with her phone switched off, I already broke up with her in my mind but I didn't want to tell her it's over because I know she loves me but she's just a greedy woman 😥

We had a quarrel and she requested for a breakup which I didn't say No to ( I always wanted it to come from her end). A year later she came back acting all good, nice and caring, even buying meals for me 😂. But as your boyfriend felt too, it all seemed like pretense for me but it's been over 2 years now and she's still that way but heck, I can't date her again, we are just friends now.

bemagnify:
why dont u do arbitrage betting. UNA TOO DA LIKE TO WASTE MONEY

Which one be arbitrage betting again?
Is it the one you calculate odds?

post=127455369:
How Much Do You Have As Net Worth?

Do You Really Know What Is 2.5million Naira?

He's a mushroom CEO jare.

2.5m isn't enough to buy a decent car or build a house to nitre level.

If he had assets worth 2.5m or more, committing suicide won't be an easy option for him, some of us have lost much more but if think about our assets and people who depend on us, we give ourselves hope.

He must be among those who didn't vote for Osimhen in the Balon D'or Pool.

Very Bad from a presumed Elder in Football.

LivingSage:
If you're not joking with this kind of mindset, please, I take God beg you don't marry a man who get anger issue.

😂
She won't live long.

I just dae look her laugh here with her comments on Nairaland, her types are the ones that beg me regularly and I don't send but they go outside to make mouth.

The truth is that, they usually have nothing to offer other than sex, so there's no reason to take them serious.

Sayvick:
The earlier you know that an average European is poor the better.

The difference between us and them is that they have functional institutions and accountability in public institutions.

Make that present in Nigeria and nobody will relocate but go only on vacation.

The average European isn't poor, don't deceive yourself, an average African can't compete with an average European Financially, talk more of comparing the rich.

Finances are distributed over there and everyone gets a relatively fair share and the economy gets stabilized too.

Unlike Africa where a few persons will hoard finances meant for millions of people, then you have few rich people and a lot of poor people.

Whoever wants to leave should do so, enough of this Japa noise here and there.

We have over 250m Nigerians, if half the population leaves, people would still inhabit it, they are leaving because they are not proud of their country and have nothing meaningful to add to it, only few go out to bring advancement to this country.

Going to your neighbour's place to watch TV can never be the same as buying a TV and watching it in your own place, even if it's a smaller TV.

Samantha124:
Why must I be selfless when the person would be selfish

Because 2 wrongs don't make a right and for your own mental health you got to do better.

Some of us have stingy siblings who we still help when they are in need, we just value our mental health, instead of seeing them suffer, we just help them and hope they realize their foolish attitude someday.

Samantha124:
Even when she's busy

What's up with the comparative analysis, you can do better.

Reno is a known clown, taking care of the homeless, your colleagues and your cousins isn't a man's responsibility but he who has money does these things regardless.

Don't compare yourself with people and be in useless competitions, be the selfless type of person you are.

tsdarkside:
this is nothing new....
we all know that some of our police officers have no shame....

but to be allowin somebody from a race that put the entire africa in the mess that it is today is an insult....

send her away....!!

We can't blame them for eternity, they did same to Asia too.

We have to do better ourselves.

Bfly:
They were not really asking for bribe because they had not accused her of any crime so to say. They are simply hopeless opportunistic beggars.

A police officer isn't supposed to ask for tips from people he ought to protect.

Even Army Officers now ask for tips from truck drivers and these are the reasons no government is afraid of the armed forces taking power from them, so they all misbehave and everybody chases money.