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RomanceRe: What To Do After Rape In Nigeria by Convos(op): 8:36pm On Oct 16, 2017
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Christianity EtcRe: I’m Dating An Extremely Endowed Man And I Never Imagined It Would Be This Diffic by Convos(op): 8:33pm On Oct 16, 2017
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RomanceRe: The Night I Lost My Virginity by Convos(op): 10:08pm On Oct 15, 2017
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RomanceRe: Postinor Is Not Vitamin C – A Discourse On Safe Sex. by Convos(op): 7:56pm On Oct 15, 2017
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RomanceRe: The Difference Between I Love You And I’m In Love With You by Convos(op): 7:41pm On Oct 15, 2017
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RomanceRe: Can You Tell If A Woman Is Faking An Orgasm? by Convos(op): 7:41pm On Oct 15, 2017
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RomanceRe: I Cheated Because I Have No Moral Compass by Convos(op): 7:41pm On Oct 15, 2017
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RomanceI’m Love With My Bleep Buddy by Convos(op): 2:58pm On Oct 15, 2017
Hi Efe,

My boyfriend and I have been dating for more than 2 years now, I am 19 and he is 24. We have not had sex and I am a virgin. When we started dating, I told him I wasn’t ready and he said he was fine. Yes we kiss and do other stuff but not sex. He has never pressured me to having sex and I know he is not a virgin because he told me he was having sex with his last girlfriend

He just passed his final doctor exams and I was thinking of giving him my virginity as a present for finally becoming a doctor. I can’t ask my friends because they think I am not a virgin.

Do you think I should have sex with him?

Shalewa


Hello Shalewa,

Your virginity is not a price to be won, sex is not a form of reward.

You owe it to yourself that you are completely ready, mentally and otherwise. Eventually you will need to be happy with the decision to lose your virginity. That you are asking a question if you should says you are not emotionally ready to take this big step. Take note that while sex may deepen your relationship, it does not guarantee everlasting love. It does not foolproof a relationship against heartbreak either.

If however, you feel that this is the right person and the right time and you will have no regrets go for it. If not, then be patient with yourself and wait to be ready.

Just as important, is safe sex. When you do decide to be sexually active, be sure to practice very safe sex and protect against getting pregnant and sexually transmitted diseases.

Efe

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Hi Efe,

I am 22 and dating a 30 year old guy. Before him I was dating guys about my age and it was trash. The sex was...

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