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Kay17:
How many women does it take to make an exception?

The West still has gender biases, hence the emergence of feminists. The gender roles still remain, marriages remain. The idea that women were 'created' to support men remains. While men build careers, women are advised to sit at home for the sake of the family and supplement.

You still are not answering the question.

baby124:
Contempt, how?

macjireh:
.Does dat make united surpass Great Chelsea? NEVER!!!

Kay17:
Gender is a social construct. Gender is how a society forms a social role for each sex, expects them to play it out. If a society instructs women to play secondary social roles within the society, the women fulfilling those roles would have secondary relevance. Hence in African communities, men tend to be the astrophysicists, the politicians and powerbrokers AND the women end up in the kitchen.

However amongst the women trapped in the confines of the kitchen are gems and geniuses who would have made impacts in the world. Because the few women that have liberated themselves have become Indian female scientists were able to launch a sophisticated space program on Mars, established jurists like Lady Hope of the UK Supreme Court, and the female justices in the US Supreme Court, the former Chief Justice of Nigeria, Marie Curie who was responsible for the earliest research on nuclear activity, Hypatia of Alexandria etc.

Hence I asked, if it was courageous and worthy to overcome a divine curse. Which you have not answered.

Tval:
dead club vs reviving club

baby124:
My extended family is the same. I asked and I think it is borne out of culture and what they feel should be upheld. The expectations from the incoming spouse and how they respect those expectations to avoid conflict. Also when there is a problem between couples it is easier to resolve when both families come from similar backgrounds. Etc.

mikeywise:
Sorry mate, its 11 points. Lets just wait until after the match tomorow.

nateevs:
A Costa goal is rare these days. 3 points sha.

freecocoa:
Chai! So basically, you are more intelligent than all the women on the same level playing field as you? And any woman more intelligent than a man is because he was/is less privileged?

Papi, we done talking .

Kay17:
All humans are unequal -- true.
Our inequality is owed to our individual qualities not to social or racial qualities.

Kay17:
That's not an answer to my question. My question is 'isn't it courageous and more worthy to overcome a curse?

Kay17:
Wouldn't it be more courageous and more worthy to overcome such a curse?

SAMBARRY:
yes na.it itches some women during pregnancy

SAMBARRY:
Yeyenotu
belching nko?

freecocoa:
I thought men are generally more intelligent than women, so who are these women that are more intelligent then those men you called dullards?

freecocoa:
I don't like these kinds of debate cos its always very chauvinistic, how are you sure if a woman marries a man less intelligent, their marriage won't work? Who told you genny can't marry a village boy? How are you certain? Hypergamy is not gendered, it might generally be used to refer to women marrying up, that doesn't mean men don't and can't marry up.

You didn't answer my question as to how long they'll keep failing based on the man's decision?

baby124:
. Coogar, Ojo kan pelu. How you de

freecocoa:
Make I laugh small papi, you funny .

You are going religious on me with this your submission talk cos its religion that preaches 'submissiveness', I don't do religion.

And he didn't choose her out of the billions of women out there throwing themselves at him? Why can't he trust her judgment? If these two persons who chose each other out of many to become husband and wife can't agree on a thing, it is best to find a tie breaker my darling, that way, whoever fails, accepts responsibility and learns how to leave room for another person to make decisions cos no one can always be right.

The husband makes the decisions and they fail together, how long will they keep failing together based on one person's decisions?

freecocoa:
They flip a coin.

baby124:
Just stop and think about the good things in your life. You have life, you have good health and you have hope. Do you have a plan to use all these good things? Stop, think and plan your way out. It gets worse before it gets better. Just take time out to think and plan. But be very flexible just in case a plan does not work. That does not mean there are no alternatives, there are. You just have to find the right alternative. When you dig yourself out of what you think you are in right now, nothing in life will ever affect you so much again. Even if you lose it all again. Because you will understand that in any situation, you can get yourself to a better place if you just have a plan in place.

freecocoa:
Thats why there's a word like compromise, they meet each other half way.

BABE3:
Isn't "Love" a beautiful blackmail? No one should be forced to put up with excuses, all in the name of love.

freecocoa:
Coogar why is is so important that a woman accepts that she's lesser than a man? How is it such a bad thing that someone asks you to treat her the way you would treat yourself?

BABE3:
While her mates were having isi-ewu, bokoto and 4 bottles of stout for supper ....

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Chillisauce:
of cos, i will have his time when i turn 80. I hope he will still have young blood. even grandmas need their couchie scraped and polished once in a while . For now, its not in my agenda.

freecocoa:
Really coog? The man would win everytime?

Let's not even argue on that.

Chillisauce:
my dear see me see small small boys oh.

dem wan knack their mama

Timbuktou:
Brodaly, you won't understand. E don tey wey e dey do me gis gis.

freecocoa:
And for people that don't believe in the bible?

Timbuktou:
Don't mind Chilli, she loves all this public chasing. And being quite the savvy fellow, I'm willing to oblige her. You know what they say about the chase and the meal.

BABE3:
Bruhh, have you seen Ciara's body post-baby? . She put in the work before and during her pregnancy and it showed.
A healthy lifestyle (fitness and a good diet), solves most of these "problems", all things being equal.

freecocoa:
Female is not Male, just like Male is not female but they are both human beings.

The problem now is, how do you decide which is superior?

moca:
A man can't stand which sight coogar?
All d women wey dey stand pot bellie sight nko? Stomach d smelling mouth and 2minutes lv making eh kwa?

Don't u know hollywood sweethearts we admire do have them. A laser work will clear all. Na ur money.

U guys dey fall my hand o.
Is it her fault?

Chillisauce:
This is what marriage is all about, you come together and work it out not buying ticket to Australia while, she sits and raise your kids.

If you cant stand such sight, several option exist
1. DO NOT have kids.

2. make sure she uses shea butter and eat moderately during her pregnancy. Dont scratch.

3. get her a laser treatment.

moca:
Why I no go vex my sis?
Most of them erupt in seconds leaving a frustrated woman and they r here opening their mouth.
Some can't even get it up yet ur woman is there for u but a woman's body changed because of what u put in there and u r here saying disgusting, may double thunder fire them.
Idiats.
And yes,men hv stretch marks. Have u seen a bleaching dude with stretch marks b4?

moca:
No, I'm talking about those stuck with it for d rest of their lives.
They precondition their mind and accept it as it is.
Mind u, not everybody is so into sx like that. Provided it can give me belle, shikena.
So also men should precondition their mind if they see things like this associated with pregnancy.
Like I said, it is treatable.

moca: Its just like seeing ur wife with flabby bwest and u r complaining.
May thunder fire such person.

freecocoa:
You are the one making some twisted comparison here, amongst primates there is human, is ape human? Guy abeg, this is boring.

Timbuktou:
You see your life? So, it is my village people that are now on your level? Babe, park well. If you're not solipsistic, my post doesn't apply to you; unless you're feeling like a reetard?

By the way, happy descending, just shaved my pubes and have a condom on. Turn around though, don't wanna see your 'stresh' marks.

sherina10:
I can't deal with the emotion and the stigma. That awful look they give me when they discover i'm a second wife at my age breaks my heart.