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Chillisauce:
I think about it when im hot and definitely not 24hrs per day.

I have been around pregnant women and mothers and when i look at their stomach, all i see is sacrifice a mother is willingly to take to bring a new life to the world. This one is a rare case and should be valued. and make a master piece from it.

I really see beyond the black strips. I see beauty, love , respect, value etc. Its priceless.
That doesnt mean she should subject herself to corset before she makes love to the man that got her in that situation.

This is a wake up call, incase your future wife gets to this point, buckle up and embrace her instead of killing her self esteem.
Everything is not about one person.

MARKone:
I know u and Babe3 are aware that missionary style is not recommended for pregnant women, for obvious reasons like crushing the innocent child , causing injury to the woman, and of course for people like you, staring face down at a "grotesque" stretch mark . So for a mutual satisfaction, you can enter from behind while she lies by her side, this will ultimately reduce staring at a "grotesque" stretch mark. But! You can take her to la la land by slowly running your fingers across the stretch mark while you gently pump from behind...ecstacy for both of you. I mean she is pregnant, petty requests like she wants to be boinked should be met by you, her husband, and you don't need to do it at nights

sherina10:
What do I need a faceless attention for? That's my life story. It took me a lot of courage to post this here because I really need advice from others who wouldn't compromise in doing so.

Chillisauce:
Thanks. Coogar is learning.

Now, this is How to catch a man and keep him.
1; Have your own opinion and back it with proof.
2. be comfortabe in your own skin esp when you know you cant change it. Its nature calling.
3. Value your self.

Not by hiding under corset and thinking about the pr1ck 24hrs.

Thanks coogar for the respect.
Some skin, no matter how you avoid it, stretch marks will still show.

I have seen some slimmi with strechmark, some fatty without stretch mark.
I guess its hereditary, and if you notice the trait in your family, make sure you use a lot of oil and butter to help calm the over stretching of the skin that would occur.
Eat less. Eat for one person, and not for two because you are pregnant, let the pregnancy grow at its own pace.

Over all, relax and enjoy the new life.

SAMBARRY:
It is when you constantly scratch your stomach during pregnancy that stretch marks show on the place you scratch

sherina10:
What I meant by comfort was that he helped me a lot when I moved out from my sister's house. Because he was practically the family I never had then.

BABE3:
And a corset, in case the blindfold falls off.
I doubt creams will reduce such marks.

Along the line he reconciled with his wife and he told me that he had reconciled with his wife and he told her about me and his intention to marry me and she accepted.
Note: they are muslim n i'm a Christian

When he told me about this I wasn't comfortable with it because I wasn't interested in polygamy in fact at the beginning I lost interest in everything when he told me he was married but I couldn't let go because of the comfort. He is not very rich but he is comfortable.

BABE3:
it's beyond evil. Those marks are potential home wreckers. Which husband/man will see such horrific sight and get an erèction?
if her husband wasn't cheating on her before, he'll start now.

Stillfire:
First of all, can men and women be genuine friends? Let alone men in authority who think they can have it all.

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Who was a threat to their kingdoms? Was it females or males? Why do you think the world is a terrible place to live in? Too much testosterone in power. From ISIS to bokoharam, Putin to Obama, Bush vs Saddam, Hitler vs anything not German, Should I go on? You'd better beg God to let me give you some estrogen before you guys finally destroy the world.

Naa, the likelihood is that I would never be bullied by any woman, but harassed by men for being prettier, having longer hair and possessing a smoother skin surface.

FrankTony: I follow wikipedia definition of feminism not
angry Nairaland women own. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

Feminism= equal right and fight against gender inequality.

A feminist can decide to be unsubmissive at her own peril.

Sweetlemon:
It's a man's world.

We women can only stoop to conquer. I won't lie to you.

BUT I would advice you to check the kind of man you are stooping for. Not all are worth it.

freecocoa:
They are equal, to be treated the same and different in function that they both have somethings peculiar to each party with which each, is to be identified by.

freecocoa:
Really coogar? Like really?

bukatyne: Biko read your Bible and let me be.

Romans stated that as long as we are in this body, we will still experience some pains so what's the P?

mutter:
There is no problem being under a man, my man! I even love it - wear the crown and carry the load- why would I want to struggle authority in a kingdom where there is just one other person to bow down for me and to wear that crown carry the whole responsibility of running that kingdom.
Yes! men do have a price to pay for their one woman kingdom.

What I have problem with is men who think that because they are men they can`t work under a woman or take instruction from her. Even when they have no choice you can smell the rebellion inside of them.
However a mature and understanding woman let`s them keep their over bloated ego- the same way you give a baby a pacifier.

Now Coogar be good

bukatyne:
LOL! LOL!! LOL!!!
If God's plan is irrelevant, then what it?

It was Eve that fell now? Not the both of them? It was the consequences of their disobedience and Christ died to remove that curse

Coogar, go and read your Bibeli.

*** Just saw the addendum: Now you are definitely trolling

bukatyne:
And you somehow missed the bolded...

Learn to differentiate God's perfect will from His permissive will cheesy

God let Balam go to bless the Isrealites even though it was not His will

mutter:
When your children get to that age you would understand.

A child you bore and raised, cried and laughed with, prayed for and hoped for. A child you accompainied every step of the way. Hoping that as the child gets older and you get weaker the bond will still remain and then a woman comes and wants to sever that bond not realising she too would one day be a mother -in-law.
Mutters suffer to raise their children that should not be forgotten. She losses something as you go to join with your wife, something more precious than a partner..

I started managing to tolerate my mother in-law since my mum told me why mother in laws are most times jealous. My mum said its because they love their sons so much and gets afraid that his new wife might not be able to treat her son with so much care as she has over the years. She Advice we the wives to prove our mother in laws wrong by doing our best to make them know they can count on us

Stillfire:
@Coogar
Passive aggression you say? Decline a male boss' favors and let's say if he won't unleash both active and passive aggressive behaviors to the lady.

As for the world perishing because of women ruling, have you men not perished the world as it is today? Rwanda boasts of 64% females in parliament today as a result of 70% of the population being females after the civil war. No wonder we've not heard of any wars from them. When there are less men, there would be peace. We are superior animals, we don't use violence to settle disputes like men. You'd better beg God to give you some estrogen!

bukatyne:
A woman inferior to a man in the Bible?
Well well, the Bible supports slavery too

Stillfire:
Are we to debate a secular view or a religious view? Which one?
Religion is indeed patriarchal and demeaning to women. That was not God's original plan though.

mutter:
Please the first and most important advice-
DO not talk much about your wife to your mother.
"I could have taken you there but I have to take my wife here...."
That is where the problem starts.
Mothers are very jealous, they don`t want to relinquish the number one position just like that.
So you need to make extra effort to be nicer to your mother now that you are married, then she will see that your marriage favors her.

Secondly tell your wife to pet her. If I hand you over my car I expect to be treated well, how much more my son.
No matter what happens, she should never be rude to her mother in law. Does not mean she looses her voice.

5minsmadness:
Once again, the devil at work through his associates. Destroy marriage, destroy the family unit, destroy mankind.

bukatyne:
The same Bible said we should not build balconies, wear clothes with mixed material (90% cotton, 10% wool), practice mixed cropping etc.

We should learn to understand the context per scripture

Acquilla taught Apollos the scriptures; she also taught with her husband in the synagogue

Besides, that particular scripture the OP referenced did not back up whatever he was proposing.

Ok then, whatever makes you sleep @ night

ojuetti:
Please I need some candid advice on some issues; I am separated with 4 kids from the father of my kids a few years ago. He brought me and my kids from Nigeria to UK but was very useless in terms of taking care of me and my kids, all he did was womanize, drink and stay late at night. I was working part time while he was working full time, but still, he spent his money on women outside. I could not do anything because then, I was not entitled to any benefit, but as soon as I got my papers, I decided to act, I was not ready to take all his rubbish again, so he had no choice than to leave the house for me and my kids. I felt what was the point in having a useless man around me.
I am now able to claim all my benefit as a single parent from the government, more so my pastor had told me that he was not my husband that my husband who will love me will come and find me at the right time.
Throughout this ordeal, I was seeing a guy who was with me throughout and loved me very much. We promised to be together forever, even though we both have kids. The problem now is that my pastor recently told me that, this is not the man for me, that another man that will take care of me is coming, but I am in love with this man, should I listen to my pastor and let this man go or just ignore this prophecy.
This man in his forties just like myself, so we are adults and know what we are doing, but this prophecy is getting me confused.

bukatyne:
Genesis 1:27 - Bible Gateway

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+1:27

So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them

I am trying to see from this verse where it talks about inequality. If the OP wants to quote the Bible let him/her make appropriate references.

@OP: no comment; the Bible passage attracted me

chaircover:
So where do you work that you dont come in contact with female bosses
So if your boss is promoted, do you resign?
You must be the problem
not the bosses
You are the one who cant work with certain people
tomorrow now you will say you cant work with French people

chaircover:
Not true
I am a woman and I ask my husband for the cause of some wars cos I dont really understand and I sonetimes dont even beleive what he tells me.
So fecking what over a peice of land on a desert border that noone even lives in. Just give the land away and live in peace with your neighbour.
Many wars are caused by ego. Ego is a word very familiar to men.

chaircover:
Thank you for saying all the things I was too lazy to write
Coogar hope you dey hear
Obviously he doesnt eat in the office canteen
The things I have heard men say

mutter:
Guess we will never understand how some people think.
If women ruled the world there would be no war. The world would be a better place.

Yes people differ but as a woman I know just how much you can depend on a fellow woman especially when in need of moral support. I have such close women friends and we stand together , advice each other and are there for each other. Women can have a deep sympathy for one another and understand one another better.

chaircover:
lo joko
If you did your work right, no female boss will bother you
I know your type

Yesterday I saw a man "F" ing a female police officer & giving her lip
When a male officer walked on the scene, he kept quiet
If the female police officer pulled her weight he would blame it on the female having PMT

Many of you just expect the female boss to bow down to you just becasue you are men .. full stop and you dont like being told what to do by a female.

chaircover:
Very interesting
. . .women bosses are bad; becasue they wont let them get away with not doing ther jobs properly

And since we are generalizing; however male bosses who demand sex from them before they can even get the job in the first instance and then chase them round the office for sex and oogling at their breasstss when talking to them are good.

obongproff: D worst part of it is dat am currently seeing a yoruba girl, and she resemble wife material. But she is d first daughter and only daughter to her parents. She has oda siblings but all na boys. So I come day wonder weda dis whole omo-igbo ish go surface again when boys don ready to marry, abi make boys begin to day reason back-up plan just in case?

Guys, pls wot do u think? Do yorubas still refuse to marry omo-igbos or is it dat my aunt just got into d wrong family? Me am worried oh.

RoyalRoy:
Monitoring Spirits....Viewer Spirits....all on this thread?

Can't laugh..

pickabeau1:
She is not alone
too many females who want to be men so bad

ELYMAXiimus:
she wants me to fight for her


serious, i have to battle you before the end of the year.. Watcha say?

ELYMAXiimus:
I call out coogar!