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topsyb: While I understand the benefits, i believe child needs the mother at all my times, and a mother cannot be substituted even if well intended.

Also, if my child is not with me, then how will I cope alone after work, it seems so pointless. The extra money saved should not overshadow the child's best interest.

On security, the whole country is not safe, whether the child is with me or with him. It is only God that protects. Moreover, who will protect me in Abuja? Shouldn't my husband be concerned about me too?

you are very selfish!
how will you cope after work without your son? how has your husband been coping after work since all these years?

the extra money saved is the crux of the matter & since you are closer to boko haram than your husband, it makes so much sense that the boy is moved to a safer environment.

jidowu84: Non of d above. It's. Important things.

what are the things? can't you say them?

jidowu84: Is it right for a housewife to put aside her hubby in things that her hubby can do for her to outsider? No quarrels, nothing ! And this woman is buying things without her hubby's consents via d hubby friend. Is it normal?

what kind of things is she buying? if it's fuel, engine oil, gas cylinder, fan belt, etc then it can be overlooked.

Fulaman198: Wow impressive, What did they do to prepare for CCIE? Do you think Security Certs like CCNA Security and CCNP security are useless?

they just studied it. practice equipments & loads of books. i stopped at CCNP many years ago. my attention span is too short to be going through that nonsense. besides, it's too expensive. the estimate is about $10,000 to be fully prepared for the exam.

CCNA & CCNP are still very good. CCIE itself na overkill. in the whole world, i doubt there are up to 10,000 people that can boast of it. the number of nigerians that have it can't be more than 12. it's a very difficult exam.

even after you manage to cop the certificate, there's a written exam you have to be taking every 2 years to retain it. if you take the exam without passing it after one year, they will revoke the certificate & you have to start again from the scratch!

cococandy: Oya stand well. Let me hide behind your broad back.
Just in case of any unseen danger.

hehe....
na me be human shield, right?

Fulaman198: Without a doubt, but I hear you need to be in networking for at least 10 years before even considering a CCIE. Most CCIEs I have come in contact with are all older gentlemen.

nah...
there are no requirements of such. from CCNA to CCNP then you are ready for CCIE. i have met 2 naija boys who achieved it & they are less than 30 years of age. it's an 8-hour exam in a lab. cost of exam is around $1500 & it excludes travelling & accommodation.

cococandy: Just peeping through the key hole.

you can come in now...danger has been averted!

cococandy: Coogar!!!
Oh darn! You eh

lolololol
so you have been lurking around since, eh? how come i didn't see your mat?

faakay: Yeah you are right.
I have studied CCIE and I have deployed solutions with it
You can write outside Nigeria, US, China, Europe, Australia etc
We have mobile labs, you can also write in Nigeria once or twice a year

i think your fastest route out of nigeria is writing the exam. if you pass, there would be a line of contracts outside the lab begging you to sign & whisk you away to any part of the world. CCIE is the daddy of all networking exams.

Even thou CCIE is the hardest exam so far - I can also set a CCIE lab exam for you

with VMware or CSR 1000v routers?

4tunebest: Faakay are you REALLY certified in CCIE? If yes, what's your CCIE number? I find it very strange that you are still hussling with your CCIE

he's not yet certified for that - he's reading towards it. CCIE is the hardest cisco exam...he will have to go to belgium to write it in a special lab.

baby124: Tell him Coogar. Because you are the one giving him fire on this thread. So tell him to get help. Or you are evil from now on.

you mean i should tell him not to get a wife? i am not in a position to say that.

Idowuogbo: Coogar!!!! U hen smh

sorry, idowu.
i really wanted you to start a family with fakaay. don't worry....as soon as i get another client, i'll let you know.

baby124: He feels he does not. But with all he is writing, it is clear he is not lucid. Coogar, please read the thread first before commenting

ok, you win!

baby124: So someone's brother and child displaying mental illness on an online forum with all his private information is funny to you. It is clear to everyone that he is not in a sane mental state except you. There is nothing wrong in telling him to get on his medication. It is honest advice not borne out of superiority of any kind. I don't see where I made fun of him or played God. I think you need to stop seeing it as funny because it no longer is

you don't get my point....
how are you sure he's not on his medication? how are you sure he even needs any medication? do you know him that well to know if he needs any medication?

baby124: He wrote this today. So what are you saying Coogar? Please stop encouraging him to go without his medication. There are some things you don't need to play devils advocate on. Advice him to seek help. He needs it. We will not be helping him by telling him he is ok, when he's clearly not

i am starting to think you take life way too seriously. let's even assume fakaay is a chronic mental patient like you presume, what makes you think he hasn't been taking his medications? you are just assuming & rubbing his ailment in his face - that's not cool!

fakaay has not hurt anyone here. there's no risk at all having a conversation with him. he came here with a genuine request & you guys are just scaring his potential mates away by trying to play God. leave him alone, he's here for something. i am here to give him what he wants. this is an online forum, let's keep it that way.

thorpido: Well coogar,he's not insane as you say.It's mental illness.
He shows proof with some of his comments.He has also admitted receiving treatment in the past.
Mental illness like some illnesses e.g.diabetes and hypertension are usually life-long illnesses.

He wants a wife though among other things.

judge each case by it's own merit. saying mental health disorder is life-long or usually life long is a myth. just like other illnesses, it could be a short term or a long term. you cannot say for sure......

fakaay has been examined & he's been passed mentally-fit. i don't see why anyone of us should feel otherwise. he's not acting like he's got a mental illness. the past is history, let's move past what happened 5 years ago.

Idowuogbo: Coogar, did you read that letter he sent to the president? Btwn, Faakay admitted he had mental issues he was taking treatments for. The dude needs help!!!!! Enough of the jokes na...

what's wrong with the letter he sent to the presidency? he had mental issues in the past. that was the past, this is now.

baby124: Coogar, it's not funny pls.

what's not funny?
fakaay says he needs a wife. he's been very consistent with his comments. i cannot see anything wrong with him from where i stand. i can actually say he's more mentally balanced than 90% of the comments i read on NL daily.

there's nothing wrong with him. he wants a wife. he's not the first poster to openly make such a request on this forum & he won't be the last. telling him to get help & show his family his comments here on NL is kinda rude. what has he said on this thread that remotely suggests he's insane?

faakay: I will fly out to go and meet her if case needed

All you folks saying I need a medical check-up, what's your problem, if you can't get a solution then stay off the thread

don't pay attention to all the folks saying you have mental issues. just keep your eye on the ball.......don't be distracted, keep doing what you do.

egopersonified: Hope this mental illness issue does not include violence, becos this would drive away d girl coogar wants to get u.

he's not a psychopath!

faakay: Even the lady you will be introducing, she will need to meet me physically - we can't just get married just like that -
atleast 6 month of courtship to know each other behaviour
Relationship past: I have only dated one girl during my life time and we broke up due to finance problem, during our relationship we met september 2007 and travelled out of the country 2008 so it was on and off

will you be meeting her or you want her to meet you in lagos? if you are really interested in someone based abroad, 80% of them will expect you to come over first before they fly out to lagos.

JigsawKillah: What is FFR without Jigs Raps?/ useless like FFR without chitchats/
its like teddibiyasi without bbitch raps/ like mikuz without his bbitch ass/
like Dinho without flipflaps/ like Demba Ba without offsides/
like Ramos with red cards, like coogar's posts without punchlines/
like Neuer with nice saves/ like robber-less highways/
like fuckyouhard without his rants/ like Limerick without his slants/
like Iceskidd's room without big rats/ and airmark's closet without big pants/
like Ibime's bars without his brags/ like RGA without cultists yaps/
like safarigirl without her nudes/ like gottoboy's gallery without cartoons/
like DJ Radafi with hard tunes/ like Nollywood films with part twos/
like Lil Wayne without ppussy/ like restaurants without toothpicks/
its like my former wears without guccis/ like Guykhena's home without bushes/



SAW

goddamn!
awesome concept! i like this!!!!

fuckyouhard: coogar come and see ur miyaki
ur closer is a killer! we shud get married and give birth to gangstas

miyaki is on a killing spree - i am starting to wonder if canibus is now her ghostwriter. in about 6 weeks, i see her killing a vet.

"go teddy, it's your birthday
you gon' write bars like it's your birthday."

faakay: @Coogar

- to add -

must be well behave and not rude! must be polite because I don't want a partner to come and jeopardize my career and my profile in the nearest future

i want to be your relationship manager. who exactly do you like on this forum? i can help you win her heart completely. just mention her name & you can have her within 72 hours.

FYH is a genius!

. . . . . i'll slay the dumb gee/ with rough jabs like games of rugby/
i forgive u cos u "know less" how i wreck lame dummies/ ask krone how i claimed his tourneys/
and forked his ladies for real!!/ i step on flow, and i don't need a ship to sail 'beyond c'!!!//

. . . . .doff ur hat for the best with the mad frees!!/ cos am the vet this beetch can't be!/
at 'mecca' they call me the "hard gee"/ while ur so 'forkin dull' . . .
like "sex with miyaki!!"//

fakaay, what are your specs?

height
age range
weight
skin colour
size
hymen status
occupation
educational qualification


can you manage a foreigner?

chic2pimp: smalling was simply solid/ok under Fergie nothing more. Rio's last good season was probably 2009 or 2010. If smalling was top class, he should have been pushing hard but he wasn't. He needs to improve!

your memory needs protein.
ferdinand was the best defender in the entire league in 12/13 season. he was in the PFA team. smalling's development took a hit when he was being played as a RB cos he couldn't get ahead of rio/vidic axis. as a central defender, there's no english player better than him sef. he's extra solid!

MVGT - FYH!

too lazy to break shyte down!

airmark: I partly agreed with coogar on this. Rules are rules , i was shocked when i saw guykhena's lines. But as regards coogars last statement, he also always said his bars were not meant for mediocres cos they will fly over them, now he's saying : ''if your bars can't be easily comprehended by the audience, what's the essence of spitting it''.

you completely misunderstood my message.
someone wanted me to keep dropping verses on FFR....i told him it's a waste of time cos my bars fly over people's head on there so i stopped spitting. however, there's a difference between good bars that are slept on & complete nonsense bars.

I remember some monikers always came to explain some of his lines after being dropped. Double standard? Yes. More verdicts please.
I have been so busy as i'm on a regional biz tour. Will drop verd tomoro. Pls lets stop derailing .

it's not double standard!
i don't spit my bars because it flies over people's head.......just like i am telling this dude not to spit bars people can't comprehend.

chic2pimp: We both agree that under a decent manager United would never have finished 7th last season. Still does that make Smallings (who was no closer to getting first team footy in his favoured position under Moyes than he was under Fergie) a better defender or does it?

smalling was a top defender under fergie. no young defender would easily displace rio/vidic. no defender in germany or italy could have displaced rio/vidic - it was the reason pique left for barcelona & became an instant cult hero there.

so what are you saying?

Guykhena: It was drawing a lot of unwanted attentions,basically unknowns were flocking in to witness the 'Coogar drama',and in doing so they started derailing,check the last 2 pages,peeps were basically Chit-Chatting.
The FFR thread should be meant for bars,nothing else.
At least as FFR is closed,peeps are getting use to this "Chat Thread",,,,
FFR should be opened at a latter time,not during this period.
https://www.nairaland.com/792526/re-flow-rank/1
You can use this for now..

tell airmark to open that thread & ban any troublemaker there.

chic2pimp: You must be talking about another smalling i have never heard off. Cahill i can accept. Think he is still that bit ahead but Smalling? Chris Smalling? Smalling formerly of Fulham? Certainly not. He should be more bothered about trying to get a game as a first team regular in his favoured position. Then worry about how to displace Jagielka in the England first eleven.

you still don't get it.....
moyes screwed up united players. under fergie, there's no way jaglieka would be chosen ahead of any united defender. moyes took us to 7th.....below everton & spurs. that automatically made all united players mediocre. even rooney was moved wide for wet-behind-the-ears sterling.

would that have happened had united won the title last season?

RoyalRoy: Well not really kicked out in the sense....but I really felt I sold myself for less..... Lolllz... u know how u suddenly wake up and realise you deserve to be treated better by your partner.

i know that feeling.....

Yea...some women dont compromise... they want a relationship to revolve around them alone. No man will last long in such scenario. Took me a while to get my head outa her butt

you are a survivor!!!

RoyalRoy:

A non compatible earthquake!!!!

so you kicked her out!
you are cold hearted o......

jokes aside, i cannot stand women who cannot adapt or be versatile to enjoy their partner's company.

chic2pimp: Per is a bench warmer when everyone's fit so that leaves just two places up for grabs since It's safe to say none of those lot would displace lahm or Mats.

Now of those two places up for grabs, let's say Cahill is better than Boateng(think he is still slightly better). That now leaves one spot. You telling me Jones and smalling are better than Boateng? Players that can't command regular shirts for club or country better than Boateng? You must be having a laugh mate.

Smalling

smalling is 100 times better than boateng! his stock dipped because of that useless moyes that screwed our entire season up. if the world cup year was the season we won by 8 points, virtually all the english united players would have started for england.