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passionate88: Maybe dm think say all household dey like their own, mama dey always complain say daddy do this, children see daddy as him dey beat mama, papa na drunkard, bt coogar, wetin b d solution na?.

not all men are bad and not all women are good. women can be as bad as men. what's the solution? modern feminism should fight for equality, not superiority!

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so amusing to know arsenal, liverpool, man city and chelsea spend more and achieve less than they should in the league.....

biolabee: not sure....need clarification from a muslim on this.... they also look at the emotional maturity

that's what any true islamic cleric would tell you...
the idea is to protect the girl-child from the cardinal sin called fornication. if she's married off before she discovers her sëxuality, the risk of fornication is technically nullified.....

carriecay: I'm beginning to think that I'm sending too much money to my people back home because on average, I send almost A million naira to them in a year. Meanwhile, I am not that financially buoyant but I think I should not let my family down because I know that they depend heavily on what I send to them to feed and sponsor their kids education. If you live abroad like myself, how often or let me say that how much do you budget to take care of your people at home?

there's no fixed amount - i send when my mind feels like it. sometimes when they don't even ask. i don't really think N1m is too much to support your family......you should be doing more if you can afford it

deols: It is scary, really.In your shoes, I'd run Op.

why run?

biolabee: Seems the muslims should come and let us know
The religion says if the woman is mature and ready for marriage. I dont think a girl below 17 is

maturity in islam means when the female hits puberty(menses)!

biolabee: is he not the dude that married the 13 year old girl and says his religion supports it

does his religion not support it?

He is a sex offender and should not even be around any person under 18 not to talk of girl only

sex offender by whose laws? you really think it's proper for some white men in new york to decide what laws should govern the people of northern nigeria? if at all, there's something wrong with the practise, let the people of northern nigeria(especially the women) fight for their own destiny!

biolabee: pervs hiding under religion

how's he a pervert for fück's sake?

jakeng: @ Coogar, she's 27. She wanted us to marry as soon as possible. She even told me to go greet her mother 2 days ago that she has told her lots about me.

the signs are good - stick to the scripts!

kulyie: a desperate woman is dangerous to marry o.at least you people should be talking about developing friendship first

you are the one seeing desperation, i can't see it! i have always admired women who know what they want and go for it. i'd rather be with this babe than a pretender with the slyness of a cobra. why play games in the matters that concern the heart?

kulyie: you better run for your life and dont let anyone deceive you to take your chance without knowing her.even if you like her,you should be friends with her first and develop friendship before love.kojubelo

they are not getting married next week - she is just letting him know she would marry him if he fancies the idea. what is the danger here?

coogar is a good political adviser but a bad relationship advicer,dont listen to him o,for your own good.ehen

siddon there....
i run a counselling service for people in failed relationships and distressed marriages in central london. the reviews are excellent! from the information the OP has provided on this thread, he's got a good chance of a long-lasting relationship with this babe.

99cent: women-hating men have been saying the same for almost 200yrs now and the family still isn't destroyed yet.

what a ridiculous and a disgusting thing to say, what's the rate of divorce in the 60s in comparison to now? has the new wave of feminism helped keep families happy or has it destroyed the family? there's a research out there that even proves women's happiness has decreased since the birth of modern feminism in the 70s.....

don't chart a territory you are clueless about, i'd advise you to shut up and listen!

"women gaining power to vote in elections will destroy the family blah blah blah.
women using birth control will destroy the family blah blah blah"
women working as professionals (doctors, lawyers, businesswomen) will destroy the family blah blah blah
women going to university instead of marrying at age 18 will destroy the family blah blah blah
women deciding not to wear white on their wedding will destroy the family blah blah
women calling the police on abusive husbands/wife beaters will destroy the family blah blah
*roll eyes*

you are a disgrace to formal education.....
there has never been a time men suggested women voting would destroy the family....that's bullshyte you contrived to pull out of your arsë....

i would endeavour to school you on the subject.....
women voted in some parts of the US as far back as 1869 in wyoming and that was aeons before the term feminism(1882) was invented. women voted all over the US since 1920, finland in 1906, UK since 1928 and they have been voting all over new zealand since 1893.....

yes, let's give feminism some of the credits they don't deserve, you asswipë!

ur problem with women having freedom of choice is that... your problem. there is nothing u can do about it. women aren't slaves or children. they can decide whether or not to wear white on their wedding. whether or not to keep their maiden name.

oh shut up your mouth, you mollusc.
who says women cannot decide what they want to wear or which maiden names they want to keep? women have been doing all this before feminism even started.....there are women out there who aren't feminists and they kept maiden names or shunned the white wedding......they did it because of their choices and not because they are using it to fight equality nor using it to denigrate the men....

there's a difference in the motives.....

if u don't like it, move to saudi arabia. have fun with the talibans. there u can wrap the women up in burqas and make sure they don't see the light of day if u wish.

yet another idiotic utterance.....
we are talking about modern feminism destroying the moral fabric and she's talking about saudi arabia, what's the correlation? how has modern feminism dealt with the fact that children are the primary victims of their cause?

let me tell you a secret: the only way to eliminate feminism is to eliminate education for girls starting at a young age. Education is very empowering. So next time, marry off ur daughter at a young age instead of sending her to school. I guarantee you 100% she will never become a feminist

i am so sure you have a virus-ridden cerebellum. the feminism that fought for education of the women has long won the war way before you were conceived - nothing can stop or reverse that and that's not what i am talking about - seeing that you lacked the horse sense of spotting the difference.....

the feminism(new wave) i am against is the one that is denigrating men, fighting for superiority and not equality. the feminism that claims all men are räpists(including your dad and brothers). the feminism that claims all the female prisons should be closed in the UK and converted into male prisons as no woman is dangerous enough to be locked away for years....

i dunno why you think i am worried about my daughter becoming a feminist. how can she? she won't be raised by an abusive father like you were raised. only women with troubled and disturbing childhood like yourself, raised by abusive fathers wear feminism like a bullet-proof vest.

women who were raised by good fathers in a loving and peaceful family unit do not need feminism as a refuge - they have trusted fathers that will fight for them if anyone tries to harm them. 99 cent, you don't need feminism, all you need is therapy by a good shrink to heal the scars of your childhood.

kulyie: nawa for you o.which kain advice be that.a man just met a woman recently,he hardly knows her character,temperament,weaknesses and stength,her sterotypes and ways of thinking and you are saying he should be happy and take his chance now.if he takes his chance,na people like you go dey abuse am say he just jump into marriage with eyes closed.

i said he should take his chance by making her a strong favourite, i did not say she should marry her tomorrow. you are the one jumping the gun. in due course, he would know all he needs to know and if her character is favourable then the wedding can proceed....

an example is funke akindele that just ended her marriage which obviously shows they didnt know each other well enough.

if funke akindele had dated him for 100 years before the marriage, the marriage would still have collapsed. she married the wrong partner - case closed!

not to talk of in this day and age where people are so viciously angry.any small thing husband will beat wife like tomorrow no dey,wife will pour acid on husbands john thomas.abeg all this bad bad news don do,lets not encourage all this try your luck kind of relationship.emi so temi to o!

whoever told you waiting for aeons before marriage guarantees a happy home lied to you. you can never know who you are marrying 100% until you marry them.

don't people pretend? you could date a man for 200 years and still not know the religion he really practises. so stop wasting your time waiting for a revelation to tell you if a man is good enough for marriage. long courtship comes with his set of problems as well......

jakeng: Seriously, from d bottom of my heart, I was happy about it, but another thing is am just not psychoplogically ready.
Thanks bro

is she asking you to marry her next week? how old are you? how old is she?

jakeng: Hello all,
I recently met this girl and the second day she was talking marriage with me and her having my baby. She claims she had loved me from the day she sets eyes on me and am her perfect match.
She's a working class living in her father's house.

she considers you a future partner! you should be happy she's discussing this with you. take your chance!!!

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/03/27/article-2300032-18F5C523000005DC-278_634x719.jpg

this baby is about 15 lbs....

i have seen a bigger baby......

how many split units in ooni's palace? - i am amazed at the quality education of these monarchs. kudos to them, may their reigns be long....

r231: Wet trouser front and back

hmmmm - that's appetising!.

shymexx: Bruv, NFL and NBA are defo. more interesting than EPL (esp. NFL).
I stay awake to watch most of the games.

#spits#
i despise watching grown men grab each other's butt!

r231: When they used to have freeknik........it's like a carnival for naked college chicks but they cancelled it in 2000
10 boobs per person.....$1 lap dance last you a whole album NOT one song you better make sure you have extra trouser in the car by the time she gets up

what's the risk of having one trouser?

shymexx: Bwahahahahaha
So ATL gatts the juice then.

New York and Miami strippers look anorexic for strippers!!

the reviews on ATL is generally good.......the ratio of babes to guys is about 8:1

r231: Lol
How bout down the road from naija........ When I can leave UK on Thursday to naija and be back on Monday morning

it's the free-pass to the EU countries that delight me the most. if the UK gets boring, cheap flights to other great european cities can come handy. apart from canada, where would you go outside america? cuba? mexico?

r231: Funny enough the high earners pay a lot of tax in US as well....

My friend got a job with chase in New York about 150k or so with a tiny bedsit in manhattan paying out of his nose....... And he said the tax is outrageous cus if you earn over 70k your tax will be from out of this world

Guess what he is back to UK now saying even if thy pay him a million he can never live or work in Yankee

i have never felt comfortable staying in yankee....people who stay there are just wowed by their big houses, big roads and big cars. there's more to life than 8-lane interstate roads. i cannot be waking up @ 6am to watch premier league games. NFL/NBA is shyte. how can you call that game football when they don't even use their feet to kick the ball?

lady gogo: @A-town. But seriously paying out of pocket for shyte is not the business, my teeth is seriously jacked up now just because i cant afford to see a dentist( those chaps are from the devil). So I can imagine what US citizens are going through.

come and fix your teeth free of charge here. dr patel would get it done for you without checks. just wear a chelsea football shirt and you are good to go......

armyofone: I mean loaded financially .
I will sha have ma Igbale ewedu with me , just in case.

have you started shopping for baby clothes? start preparing for motherhood, pataki must give you a parting gift.

50calibre: I think Afamforever has gone into exile, he has been conspicuously missing from this thread.

google cannot provide the information we have given here - afam's intelligence stops with google and hearsays!

[quote author=A-town]You win. Are you happy. Want a cookie? Silly bunch. There are other plans. You know what You WIN[/quote]i always win!!!

[quote author=A-town]We were talking about phones not the iphone but since you mentioned it. I have done your job for you. You can get the iphone 5 for zero bucks upfront as well. http://www2.t-mobile.com/cell-phones/apple-iphone-5.html with a 77 ollar monthly plan
Case closed.[/quote]few discrepancies -

you said it's $50, but you quoted $77
then this comes with just 2GB, mine is unlimited!
to get unlimited on this plan adds another $20...

so it's $97, for what i pay $80 for in the UK

you guys are doomed!!!

[quote author=A-town]But at the end of the day, don't you pay for it in high taxes? Don't get me wrong, even with the high taxes, it is still better than the current system in the US since a lot of people are covered but lets stop making it seem as if it is absolutely free with no cost to the taxpayers[/quote]which high taxes? how much taxes can i pay in my lifetime to cover for surgeries that are £200,000 worth? where's this notion that everyone is criminally taxed to death? only the high salary earners(£150k/year) can complain with their 50% tax.....

[quote author=A-town]You are the one embarassing yourself. You do know the IPHONE is different right? Are you aware that Apple didn't even make the phone available to Tmobile in the US until a couple of months ago? Your insistence on the iphone in this case is a waste of time.[/quote]so you agree the iphone is different? who mentioned t-mobile? was it not you? why not mention verizon when you know t-mobile just joined the apple bandwagon? you spread more falsehood than chukwumerije!!!

r231: Nope......

If your paperwork is right NHS will pay for your boob job sef

you heard about that woman that got free boöb job from NHS and she wants a reduction again because she feels the boöbs are too big? i am sure within 12 months she would get another surgery!

[quote author=A-town]so now i stay in america. you guys should quit your jobs and start doing comedy. I have links with basketmouth sha if you need am. It clearly states on tmobile.com on the very first page that you don't have to drop nada so i don't understand why you cant open it up[/quote]give up....you have been sussed out!

[quote author=A-town]stop being lazy. it's directly on the front page. the first thing they show you is the plan on both tmobile.com or simplemobile.com. You obviously didn;t check[/quote]you are embarrassing yourself.....

show me an iphone 5 with:-

no initial deposit
free minutes(anytime, any network)
free internet data
free texts
$50/month

[quote author=A-town]All i did is tell you how it works in america and yes i did quote tmobile.com and simplemobile.com[/quote]show me this payment plan.....you mean you cannot provide the direct url link to this amazing cheap phone plan??

shymexx: In this context, the phone is absolutely free.

Can you go to a store doing buy one get one free offer and tell them to give you the free item, for free, because it's free? Absolutely not!

You have to meet the prerequisite.

he stays in america - he does not understand the privilege of walking into a phone company and picking up a brand new phone without having to pay on the day......these things are strange in houston!

[quote author=A-town]Yes i don't stay in America. Satisfied?
In case you don't know how it works, the monthly plan in the US is your contract plan and it is fixed. It has nothing to do with your phone. THe only thing is the length of the plan which may be 1 to 2yrs. mostly 2yrs nowadays. Manufacturers subsidize phone costs for the US market so you pay part of the cost upfront 100-200 and the remaining is recouped by the cell provider with the assurance you'll be on their contract for 2yrs.
Your monthly payment is fixed.[/quote]can you read at all? i said i did not pay any cost upfront and i am 100% sure the price of the phone determines the monthly payment. who are you trying to run circles around?? this is the umpteenth time i have asked you to provide links to this cheap american phone plans and you have been evading the request.....


[quote author=A-town]Nobody prays for a life threatening illness. To make it seem like if you have the flu in america, you are doomed, is just plain ignorant. I do not know much about the NHS but i'm sure major surgeries will also come at a cost in the UK one way or another.[/quote]don't push it - it's free!!!
even if the surgery is £200,000, NHS will pick the bill. health is wealth, my dear yank! if you don't have free health, you are not wealthy!!!

lady gogo: Really? Just hope you dont get sick and you dont get told by your Insurance companies that you have a pre-existing condition.your life is in the hands of the health insurance companies.

hahahahaha - i would like to see his face when he gets told that.....A-town does not know what time is it....

[quote author=A-town]So now you've twisted it. You can pay full price for your phone. It's up to you. The 50 bucks is the cost of the plan.
In your own case, you are paying for the phone over 18months so how is that better.
You can chose to put down a deposit or pay full price.
What matters is the price of the unlimited plan. Phones are not FREE[/quote]i am not even sure you stay in america when you make wrong assertions such as this.....the value of the phone and the flexibility of the monthly plan determine how much monthly payment you are required to drop. if i am not paying any deposit, common sense dictates my monthly payment would be high!

so oga, show us this $50/month all-in-one payment plan with an iphone(no deposit) or forever tape it shut......

[quote author=A-town]Deregulation my friend. You have options. Verizon, Sprint use CDMA, ATT, Tmobile and a host of others use GSM.
Nowadays it doesn't matter anymore because they all have 4g and LTE which all make use of micro-sims so your point is nullified.
All na bad belle. I got answers for all of you. Bring it on

By the way go to t-mobile.com and you will see 50 dollar unlimited plans there. Simplemobile.com has 40 dollar plans. Their plan even includes unlimited international text messages so wetin?[/quote]don't embarrass yourself any further - show me any contract with the iphone that requires no deposit and you get to pay $50/month......

[quote author=A-town]Jesuuuuuu. You haff opened your yansh. 51 pon pon. Isn't that like 80 dollars? There are several plans in the US that will give you unlimited everything for less than that. Tmobile in the US has 50 dollar unlimited everything so what are you on about. In this day and age, must people don't pay to receive calls anymore. There are unlimited plans out there[/quote]the plan came with an iphone - not the useless CDMA phones you guys use in america! america - the land of mobile phones with no SIM cards.

chimoo - americans dey suffer!!!

All the costs you refer to are not free. You are taxed heavilly for it okay. If you work and have medical insurance in the US, you'll do just fine. And yes, there is social security my friend. I know you guys know the truth. You're just catching trips. ANyway i full ground for all you today

i am not heavily taxed - matter of fact, i am better off, you just don't know it. i get free health care whilst you pay thousands of $$$ on some bogus health insurance schemes that are largely rip-offs!!

what's more - you get the sales tax that varies from
state to state hanging over your head. a very disguised method of ripping off the dumb american residents - so tell me, how are you better off??

femmyb: You can get the same plan in the US for 40 bucks a month which is even cheaper than wat u got in the UK.

i knew someone is going to bite the bait....
show me the plan.....