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jennykadry: @coogar
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jennykadry: @coogar
Our parents told us same. I will be telling my children the same thing in due time. Premarital sex is bad and if they decide to go ahead as do it, na them and God go settle. If not.......
Like I said, the only reason why I mentioned bible is because the OP brought religion into this.

deols: The easiest things are not always the best. How about if she test drives and they dont end up 2geda? she would have test driven, accumulating sins with many people.

If the need to test drive arises, then the possibility of contacting STIs should also be in mind.

Trusting in God and having fears for Him can be so rewarding, I tell you. Divorce is hard and should be the last resort. A deceptive man is not deserving of a good woman.

I believe the Istikhara works wonders. People can rely on it

slimyem: What's wrong with Iriri Aye. Isn't that what op wants? Real life experiences and in the absence of none,stories that touch that could inform,encourage or discourage our choices and beliefs in test-driving or not.

By the way,there might be no known condition of anyone with 3 dickss but there have been of two.
Sorry if this picture's offensive.

deols: How else can a Christian woman make sure the commodity she is buying dey alright especially since we are taught that se.x before marriage is wrong.

*A man not alright down there, by Islamic principles is Not to seek a woman's hand in marriage.

*communication- I think she can ask questions that she deems fit. He is allowed to thoroughly have a good look at her and she's allowed same. But all forms of touching are disallowed.

*They cannot move near fornication. test driving is a no no.

*The couple is expected to have prayed and especially had Istikhara(prayer for counsel). With this, they can have faith, believing the best will happen.

*during Nikkahs, I have heard Imams asking the groom about the goodness . I assume it is a part of the Nikkah in most cases.

*zina(fornication, adultery) is one of the great sins in Islam. It can never be justified.

*Divorce is allowed on the basis of sexual gratification.

chaircover: I found it. Its called tough hymen and this is what I found on google . ...

Breaking of the hymen can be done by different measures like:
Doctor can dilate the vagina by inserting two lubricated gloved fingers and stretching. This can break the hymen.
By using vaginal dilators hymen can be breached.
In case of tough hymen, surgical methods like giving cruciate incision on hymen can be perforated. As it will be done under general anesthesia you will not have pain.

It can be done in any hospital where gynecologist and operation theater are available.

greatgod2012: they struggled for it for about 3 weeks, after which the bro decided to go violent about it, only to discover that the sis was a "lakriboto(i dont know the name, but its a va..gina without opening), the bro said he nearly fainted, and all that came to his head then was to come to the pastor.

Ishilove: Coogar, I'm not very good at long drawn arguments both on and offline, so the only thing I will tell you is:
YOU NEED JESUS

And I hope you embrace Him before it is too late because I see you are a reprobate.

babyosisi: Present the same scenario again,I will still chop the man again. In my heart I had already married him because we had agreed to marry

Na Internet we dey
Anyone that didn't chop will gladly so so
Anyone that says they won't answer chopped and rechopped
HO ha!!

Ishilove: Coogar, honey, quit judging people by your rock bottom standards, okay? Just cos you remorselessly engage in pre-marital sex doesn't mean every one is doing it.

Honestly, y'all calling folks who are against fornication hypocrites make me shake my head. People who hold the word of God as a standard are labelled hypocrites because people just need to assuage their already dead conscience.

Fvcking reprobates. The world has gone to the dogs.

Ishilove: Hm, many people have mortgaged their destinies on the altar of sex. All these marine and witchcraft babes on the prowl make me worried for my male relatives.

*shudder*

elampiro: My write up was not about Rooney or comparing players.

Lambert has scored 31 out of 31. He is currently all time best. He never missed for Southampton.

Matthew Le Tissier is all time best hitting 48 out of 49.

Mario Balotelli didnt score 22 penalties at City, I guess it is his all time record.

spoilt: Much ado about se.x or the lack of it thereof. Both sides to this debate are quite passionate I see.

montelik: Funny, Rooney has one of the worst PK conversion rates in the EPL.

donchris999: Id.ota! If you tested then why do you still look for small boys to fu.ccck? Abi you still dey test ni? Anuofia! Pervert of the highest order! You go test till eternity? Every time testing, testing and testing. Very soon you will start testing children. Anuofia!

jennykadry: Maybe I missed where people were being judgmental, please point it out to me. I used to have this friend in high school who started having sex at the age of 14. You know what she used to tell me back then?she used to say she knew it was bad, after the deed had been done she used to feel guilty, she said she knew it was wrong but just could not help herself. She also told us (cos we were like in a group) that in church on sundays and wednesdays prayer meeting she would feel so guilty cos she knew she had done soemthing she shouldn't have done.

No one here is calling those who have done it or not done it names, but the way you are going on about it, it's like you are justifying your action or trying to prove things to people when really there is no need for it. Some people have said it that even though they did it, they knew it's against whats written in the bible.

It does not hurt to say........Hey I did it cos I wanted to be sure but people I know it is not right.....No one is being hypocritical here but you just keep calling them names. Like honestly, I can feel the anger in your post and lawd hammercy on your keyboard.


Like I said , it would not kill any christian to say........Hey, I did it before marriage even though I knew it was wrong, I did it.....Don't justify actions that are completely against God and his words if your are christian. If you aren't fine, but if you are one please don't.

I read @admonition and @bellong's post and nowhere were they being insultive. The said things the way their religion has taught them. It does not mean they are sinless......they are no saints themselves and they are not claiming tthe title.

stillwater: I've heard this story before.

Nouveau riche will never marry average. Lai lai. Their kids know better.

jennykadry: Please people should not see my posts as being judgmental or hypocritical. This is not a who will go to hell thread and who wouldn't. We are all adults and are able to take responsibility for our actions, however, if we are to go the christian way, fornication before marriage is a sin.

The fact that all christians are hypocrites should not make you join them in the bandwagon. The fact that others are doing worse does not mean you should do same

butta: u can say it again nigerians in U k are leeches and scroungers and a drain to the Uk living in council flats and having babies every were nija peeps sha

toluene12: and for those of them that are british natives, what's their visa type?

toluene12: dont let us get carried away unnecessary.
how many british citizens apart from nigerian nationals apply for nigerian visitors visa? nigeria is not a tourist destination so foreigners dont flock here for vacation.
Most foreigners in nigeria are working for multinationals and either have business visa or work permit.
If these bond is to work at all, we have to apply it to all forms of visa application.

Freiburger: Wrong sir, 9 out of every 10 Nigerians on a UK visit visa is eyeing a change in status in every possible way.

butta: . How many british people come to nigeria and besides if u have 5million naira will prefer to come and waste it in a country like nigeria that I don't think so and even you brits do u even have 5million naira to drop as bond ? British people no get money abeg

babyosisi: What does alomo bitters do?
Is it like burantashi which they say is an enhancer to help men keep it up

babyosisi: We know that
Every man beyond 45 starts to experience some decrease in performance ( some worse than others sha)
That is natural
We can manage that one
If you could go thrice in one night and now your engine can only take one,that is still a pass mark
That is why people should try to marry a man when he is not older than 30
That way you get enough mileage out of him before the laws of diminishing returns set in

God forbid he develops high blood pressure and diabetes plus prostate issues ,maybe na look u go dey look the thing and remember once upon a time
Not my portion IJMN

babyosisi: The only test of impotence is to arouse the man and he is able to stand erect and stay erect for a reasonable length of time
He can have all the machoness of healthy testosterone like brother Coogar but if he cannot get blood down in his abunna and keep it there,his own is finished

chaircover: As far as I know the testo test will give some indication of libido and I think libido is the most important thing.

Size you can sort out with extender sexx toys. Premature Ejaculllation can be managed by wearing 10 condoms, but the libido has to be there to start with.

Im just pulling ideas out of my head so forgive me if im talking Jack, but I still believe that more care should be taken before joining 2 people together knowing fully well that any call for divorce will be frowned on later in the day.

vivianc: And the highesT rate of infidelity!

alutacontinua: Come on, coogar...you're too smart for that.
Don't tell me you believe all what google says when it comes to statistics.

alutacontinua: Coogar the coogar, where did u get ur statistics from?

Admonition: Many IDs I respected so much in the family section seem to be arriving at same conclusion(Chaircover, greatgod, debrief08,Jidegirl, Damiso and host of others). @ OP, I understand your stance and because you failed in one area of your christian race and you were not able to hold on tenaciously to the chaste principles of marriage demanded and commanded by God because of lack of faith/or because you can not walk with God like Abraham,who does not know where He was going but moved by the act of faith. Trusting the eternal God than the carnal sense of Man, doesn't mean you should generalized or undermine practically what God condemns. I understand God has Forgiven you but don't use that cloak to excuse others into it. Many may not have that second chance to retract and that may damn their souls. As a Christian, don't let your own weakness or mistake push you to teach things that are not motivated or that are contrary to the word of God because everybody is doing it. There is a grace that saves and there is a faith in God that can gives all intending couples what they desires to get but not through sin. The Flesh will always give suggestions, the devil will always try to make you defile the bed, friends will always try to push you to doing it but these are temptations. Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on eternal life, admonish younger women to be chaste even if you fail in your own time. Rebuke, exhort and encourage women to hold on to faith. Counsel them that they can hold on. Marriage is honorable in all but bed undefiled but whoremonger and adulterer God shall judge. It doesn't matter whosoever has done that, the standard of God does not change. The foundation of God standeth sure. Stop helping others or yourselves to excuse themselves into sin. IF we truely believe God can save and can give us all what we need while do we then rely on self. The way of self is the way of damnation. May God help us all to stick to the truth of Gods word even when we have failed in the time past. Strive to enter in at the straight gate, for broad is the way that leads to destruction and many therein that gooes through that part. I respect you a lot. please change your stance and enocuage intending couples not to follow your path or mistakes you have made. Help them to know that when they sincerely and truely serve God and did not work by sight or by calculation, God will give the more than the package they have been longing for. It will be so satisfying.