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etochi11: @cooger... Dats y d rate of single gals in IMO state is vry high...

goldfish80: Taaa mechie onu... Because ure marrying a graduate that's †ђξ reason one should buy a motor bike(ladies machine), sewing machine(butterfly) in some extreme cases pledging scholarship fø̲̣̣я̅ one of ur fiancees sibling to Tertiary level! Their fathers should marry †ђξm since he trained em to cambridge!
nonsense.

jidegirl12: Cooger is that really true the bride price? They actually collect that money? Cos Yorubas always return it. I thought it's film tricks only
I never asked my friends cos they might be offended ,
Educate me Abeg

babyosisi: Amadioha ma Jie kwa gi olu
Mbaise babes are the best
We are good loyal wives
And we are more fertile than rabbits too
Before you shout Okija we have popped out 3 hefty boys in a row and ready for the 4 th

jennykadry: Yes. If the teachers had minded their business, they would be no slap. I said it on this forum once or many times that in 2010, I slapped a teacher who slapped my niece, NIECE OOO not daughter. You don't hurt people close to me and expect to get away with it. I am not against disciplining a child and I have made that known here many times but when you decide to over-use your power of authority because you think the other person is helpless or isn't the right place to confront you, then you must be wicked.

Coogar, I did not marry my husband for any eediot to insult him directly and/or indirectly. The day any sister, uncle, aunty, father, mother, brother insults my husband, I will figuratively kill that person. I protect my own, I don't leave them out to be eaten alive by beasts and I expect my husband to do same and even more.

I repeat, there is only so much a human being can take. ME, I was born strong, tough and ready to send to hell witches and wizards in human form. I don't beg to be noticed and I don't expect an inlaw to do same. I am bringing up my kids same way. My daughters must have that spirit of a "tiger" and (Peaceful) in them. That has brought me so far, that was what attracted their father to me in the first place

goldfish80: Its marriage we ª̳͡Rε̲̣̣̣ talking about, not slave trade

shymexx: Bro, I have met tons of feisty chics... However, most of them are just superficial with no substance - and easy beat when the smoke clears...

But this chic is different... This is London and my CV is crazy, trust me!!!

When a chic tells you she's never dated a black guy because of some stereotypical crap, however, she loves Afrobeats and has been to naija clubs in Central London(Obviously, hang out with black folks)... Then you'll definitely feel a little bit intimidated because every black guy out there has some stereotypical stuffs, either subconsciously or consciously that they exhibit - and that might put her off completely... It's just that fear - and you also can't intimidate her with anything whatsoever because she's a top chic...

Educate me on what game to play? - I'm all ears, bro...

etochi11: Please, Α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ they 2 bad or what??

shymexx: Lmao.... The chic is feisty as fvck, trust me..

shymexx: I met this half-naija chic recently and she literally killed the pseudo-alpha-male crap I thought I had.. We chat like almost everyday and we've gone out together on a few dates.... However, the more I chat to this chic, the more my over-bloated ego gets deflated.

She's just 19 and not exaggerating, her body is super-duper crazy like Bria Myles' body(I just wish I could post her pics but I won't for privacy reasons)... Attended the top private schools in the UK from the nursery to college level and currently an Economics undergraduate at Cambridge University(Clare College)... She has like the poshest British accent I've ever heard a Black Briton speak - it's Princess-Diana/Royal-Family-esque... Overly intelligent, smart, and knowledgeable for her own good - and she knows about everything from religions(Taoism, Abrahamic, Hinduism, Buddhism, Pastafarianism, Ifa, Native South American religions etc.), cultures (Europe, Africa, far east, and remote places in Oceania and South America), Computing, Politics(from realpolitik in Whitehall, Washington, Africa, to the Eastern bloc), international relations etc..

I was jamming with this chic in the car a few days ago - and she started feeling my body and biceps... I thought that was the "green-light" - tried kissing her beautiful posh lips and she said; no... We continued our convo. and I dropped her off after that... Subsequently, she rang my phone and told me she has never dated a black guy because of what I did - and started ranting about how most black guys are this and that blah blah... I was just dumbfounded!!... God knows I have been around the "block" and I've met different types/creeds of people... I also graduated from a Russell Group University and I've met different classes of people - however, this chic is basically different... She's a rebel!! - I've never met anyone like her, to be honest...

We've agreed to meet-up again this weekend... Right now, I'm having goosebumps because I'm a realist and I've got some "niggerish" attitudes that might put her off completely... However, I'm also fascinated by this chic because of her rebellious ways and her level of intellectualism(she's darn too knowledgeable and intelligent for her age)...

Have you ever experienced something similar?? - share your story, I'll like to know the end game...

Ujujoan: LOl . . . reminds me of my friend's mum, who did her omugwuo from her office, via e-mail and phone calls!

Who has time for Omugwo when you never complete your work load for the year. wetin you go tell Oga Governor wey give you political appointment for Abuja? Say you waka go Umuahia for Omugwo . . . go and come back na, if your replacement won't welcome you!

You know Oga coogar likes arguing blindly!

stillwater: I know it's still a rude shock to you that the mama that gave you bre.ast to suck is not utterly blameless.
Me too, I'm in awe when reality suddenly hits me.

maclatunji: Sarcasm is diminishing Sisi's comprehension skills. This topic is not difficult at all for women with depth, your MIL will leave without you acting like a lunatic, just hold your fire and position. I tire for these new breed of women with their yanga, please what are you guys begin to the table of marriage? Sex?

Respect for the man is 0, his family you don't want to see. Life doesn't work like this.

Tiana155: Thank you all for your response, both the good, the bad and the ugly comments. The problem has been resolved thanks to my wonderful hubby, there is a sayin 'we disagree to agree' we are all at peace in my home now, my mil she is still with us and will leave anytime she wants. For those judging me you are all no better than i am. To madam Cc, jd, coogar, mac those who gave constructive advice thank you I'm sorry. i'm not crazy or a bad woman as some people said here, my mil said you are good when you make mistake and correct it yourself 'cos that what life is about. Cheers.

stillwater: @coogar
Do FILs go around trying to assert their authority or making snide remarks in another man's house? Nonsense

Continue crying for poor mummy, if the mama has respect she wont find herself in this situation.

stillwater: Abeggi, fathers have also done a lot (I will always love my daddddyyyyyyy ), and we don't hear them making noise or overstepping their boundaries in another man's house.

Mothers should have respect for themselves. There is no way I will support uncouth behavior from the older one who ought to know better than constituting herself as a public nuisance. I don't do sentiments like you buttered my bread, you sugared my tea, so that gives you the right to act like a witch? Rubbish

stillwater: I really don't get all these sentiments. My mama this, my mama that, she toiled for me bla bla. Who on earth was supposed to do that in the first place? Did you ask to be born?

2sexy: When I was stressing why I cant allow my wife do such people didnt understand. This is my own case. For instance, I was not out after 9 months. I did not believe initially till I heard other people having saying they too are the same. Infact my last lecturer said he too is the same.

My mother raised me up without my father. when I grew to certain age, she narrated how she sold Ogogoro, yam etc just to feed I and my other siblings and at this point, she was traveling from one state to another. she later got blessed and had the opportunity of being a major supplier of building materials for the construction of Teslim Balogun stadium in the late 80s to early 90s before the project was later abandoned.

From there she tried has hands on other businesses, transpotation, publishing of note books etc. This are just the few that woman sacrificed for me and my siblings just for us to have a better life.


And how do you expect me to watch a woman abuse her in my presence? How? So unfortunate that she never lived long to eat the fruit of her labour.

babyosisi: Don't worry,after you marry,we will talk
It will make sense then

babyosisi: This poster is currently living with her MIL
You can't possibly expect that she would chronicle the day to day run ins with her MIL on that short post
What she gave were highlights
Most people reading it know that what she did with the food was an action borne out of a long period of frustration

If you read the post well,you will see that she started by telling us the criticisms her MIL had of her cooking skills,her mothering skills,her wifely and home keeping skills
So her snatching and throwing away food which is what you choose to dwell on is quite minute compared to the big picture. I looked at the big picture and responded from that vantage point

The woman even devised a witch story so as not to leave
Can't you see mama here has issues and is part of the problem?
Read her again

babyosisi: Hahahahahaha!!
With this mindset you may get to your 4th divorce before finally finding the nut you can't crack that will use broken bottles to shave your head gorimakpa
Marriage is not by gragra my dear
It takes two
It takes wisdom and common sense
In as much as a woman should respect her MIL,a man also needs to respect his wife and know when she has been overstretched and recognize when his mother is being a total a$$ and kindly remove her from the situation.
Mother is not always right

armyofone: Interesting like something imaginary had that girl? Not a woman had the girl, raised her, trained her etc? The girl's mom didn't go through tears, pains of toasters disturbing her daughter, frequent prayers to see her settle with the right man etc...huh

People should be considerate of the other person. Remember, a woman raised that woman who became your wifey.

I will not disrespect mama but shall don't take side just because you walked the nostalgic lines of what Nne did. Afterall my Nne did the same now. If you do, I will gladly return the goat and bride price myself . I will add drums of upwine and all the fowls you bought back to you with happiness. that night, will get me ol' Remy Martins to thank the gods.

agabaI23: When your enemy becomes you will know that it is not going well with.

Coogar has turned an Arsenal defender.

babyosisi: This is the Sauron I knew

coded guy: So what happens when/if eventually Arsenal don't qualify for the money spinning champions league? I say this cause its getting tougher by the day, they managed to come 3rd last season by what many will describe as a result of the capitulation of spurs. Many taught they woludn't make the CL last year.

Now Arsenal are just managed to move to 7th position from 10th a position they have never been b4 at this stage of the competition. The likes of spurs, everton and even westbrom who are acting like spoilers are not smiling as they seem ambitious, but the problem is not how determined these clubs are but how Arsenal are letting themselves down with their play and result, they don't seem like a team playing with any conviction.

dayokanu: When Rooney had the chance, There were several options . He could wait for backup, hold the ball and try and get a foul at least it was in a "dangerous position" but he took the initiative and he took the shot and he scored Thats what Torres lack

dayokanu: The ball against Barcelona where he got a chance 60meters from goal and the nearest challenger was 10meters away? You must be joking

When Rooney got the ball vs Citeh he had at least 2 defenders around him

dayokanu: Does Torres have a role to play in getting these chances? Is he doing his own role in getting these chances? Is he making the needed runs to make these chances?

If the teammates pass to him but he chickened out of the shots, Would that have counted as a chance created?

Lets look at the goals on Saturday. First goal Hazard floated a ball in and Torres attacked it jabbin it in, If Torres didnt attack that ball would it have been a chance? No. So who is to blame in that situation? The Midfielder or the striker?

2nd goal, If Torres didnt step up to take that penalty, Would it have been recorded as a chance for him? So would we still blame the players for not giving Torres the chance?

3rd goal. Torres got a ball and turned instantly shooting on the crossbar before Mata turned in the rebound. When Torres got the chance, there were several options like laying the pass to an oncoming player assuming he did that would that have been a chance?

Torres due to his failures over the last two years has exposed his limitation and fragile ego has lost confidence that he won't even take chances when they are offered to him and If you dont shoot you dont score. Basically what I have been saying he is too timid to take shots