₦airaland Forum

ronkebp: Blame that on the leaders and politics, and just because we have a few bad eggs which will always be the case, does not mean that we still do not have our values. you should ask what the values were when young boys that have been taught in godly way, still join "cult" in the universities that will eventually take his life. Just because we have these ills in the Nation, does not mean that there are no good ones, infact a lot of good ones. which country does not ship out young girls for prostitution?. maybe (India).

ronkebp: Now lets talk about the dress-codes, hmmmmmmm!!!! in Naija, before you even step out of the house, you will here all these muslim fanatics (even those that are not fanatics) and some christians too, asking you if you have parents at home before you stepped out in that outfit? the little kids (especailly in the morth) will sing and clap their hands after that person. now you will call that "lack of civilisation", true, but we are not the westerners, we have our own culture and the ways we are expected to present ourselves in public. Here!!! OMG.....the kids cannot wait for "summer", you will see them wearing panties out all in the name of dressing warm. there was a time i was driving back from work and i just saw this two very young girls, say, 14 yrs of age, if you see what they wore all in the name of exercising, omo!!! that girl was lucky that she was not my daughter, just for the fact that she taught to dress that way; she will be recieving a nice dirty slap, without my spoken words, will know better than to step out in that manner, you will see them with their "cheeks" showing....hmmm!!!!! :

the average american teenager (boys) think about sex 24 hrs a day.....really?

claremont: They call it 'child abuse', we choose to call it 'instilling discipline'. Inasmuch as I'm totally against corporal punishments in this modern era, I still believe that the corporal punishments I received while growing up played a key role in making me a responsible adult today.

More research needs to be done on the benefits (if any) of this kind of punishments on the moral well-being of kids. Is it safe for us to posit that the reason why there is widespread moral decadence (drug abuse, teenage pregnancy e.t.c) amongst kids raised in Europe is partly as a result of the lack of corporal punishments whilst growing up. This is a delicate issue that needs further debate IMHO.

ocelot2006: You're totally wrong. Most Nigerian parents are very strict disciplinarians. But beating children with electric cables and hanging them is damn too much. And no Nigerian in his/her senses will accept that.

Esss: Atleast he wasnt breaking the world cocaine ingestion record...

ronkebp: it is best you taught the other guys that are complaining the advantages and disadvantages of using "materialistic babes". the benefits should be more. so that they will learn to grow-up and stop complaining.

Ola one: I like them very much. Easy peasy lemon squeezy ('member the commercial?)

ronkebp: Well good for them. that is what happens when you marry the men because of the money they have to "throw around" in the first place, they would always extend the charity work to others "in need".

montelik: does vidic have a delabilitating disease, he has yet to recover from? does this condition affect his ability to train consistently much yet play week to week?

totally different circumstances..

ronkebp: Yes...Dayo, it will always be like that because "men" caused it. you will pay for the hair, buy her BB porsche, whether you like it or not. men started it, what are they complaining for? a guy on the 'ROMANCE SECTION" talked about how another guy who is just wooing his girlfriend bought her a car for her birthday. so what will you say to that?, do you know how some of these guys spoil their girlfriends?, who wouldn't want to be spoilt or pampered?. please stop complaining and just marry your akata or oyinbo jejely that will not be leeches... boys/men with the dough to throw around ain't complaining.

chamotex: Vidic doesn't have a medical condition.

Muamba just announced his retirement on medical advice.

nateevs: Kakuta has stated he is leaving.

jay bee: Who get's the blame then?
If we want express fucking then we have no business complaining about feeding their habit. Very simple ya know......

chamotex: Do you know the last time he played before last night?
We can't consider him as a solid/consistent player to help us in our drive for success in the nearest future.
We should hope he gets over his medical condition completely first.

y me: My point exactly!!
Let the men stop their freelance giving just because they want to hit that and lets see if the women won't fend for themselves
Yet I got someone saying that it is impossible cos the trend will always be for some men to hit that hence they don't mind spending
We still have a long way to go indeed.

chamotex: Coogar, why mention Fletcher in that list?
There is no way he will be rushed back not to talk about hitting top form even when he does.

phraze: just look at you. You give more grieviences than a pitbul... Just look at that.. Yea she did. I am unhappy she joined the cult. All of you women. A war is coming Soon. Change or Die. My 3cents. WHORES!

ayikondu: Thanks a lot, It wasn't like I dint plan, at least a few months to the wedding I still had abt 6million Naira working capital which I assumed shld be fine for us to build on, Just had a deal that went sour and really affected a lot of things.
The real problem is dat I sometimes blame her for Leading me on to a point dat it was very hard for me to turn back before tellin me d truth. Fine life has to go on but since the baby came, I'v been doing most of the chores and I still have to go and make the money. Its always " I'm attending to d baby, go and buy dis and dis come if u knw u want to eat after a long day.
Tried setting her up in a biz abt 6months ago with 200k but she can't account for it now plus she forced me to get a house help around dat time (she insisted on a male) and dat one carted away wit 50k and some valuable just after a week so I decided not to get another one.

Babies definitely on hold for now. We both seem to av fallen out of love, communication seem to av broken down and I don't even feel aroused be her anymore and she doesn't care

phraze: I had a gud gurlfrend 5yrs ago. While we chatted i revealed to her then that she wil disown me. 5yrs came and she did. I love our women, strong and up to any task but the post traumitic emotional stress they face after a one break up or the other lingers with them forever. They need Physchological Pills and God Heals.

Mma4luv: Hello nairalander's,i am married and i ve' little girl of a year and four months.My husband met me through my best friend whom is somehow related with my husband,though far relation,the relationship b/w the families were very cordial.After i got married to my husband,my best friend was staying with us until my husband developed a hatred on her,he was able to keep quiet until i was about to put to bed then he told my best friend that it's high time she left the house cos the house will not contain her any longer and the girl left.One day my husband told me to reduce my relationship with her and that got me annoyed cos i wonder how my husband will select my friends for me even my best friend i knew before him,because of my reaction,my husband then said i should quit the relationship.I told the girl about it and we maintained our relationship but i stopped calling her in my hubby's presence and she stopped comming to my house but my husband was never satisfied with that.As a result of this,the relationship between my husband and my best friends family went sour.To cut the story short,yesterday my husband told me that i will have to chose between him and my best friend and i told him that i chose my best friend since he has no reason what so ever to quit me and my best friend,i told him instead of quiting my best friend,i will quit my marriage cos if i allow him,he may soon stop me from all my friends.He then told me angrily that i can go on with the relationship that there is no problem.My husband's reason is that i respect the girl more than him and the girl's philosophy about life and marriage is tottaly different from mine.pls do i have the right to say no in this kind of issue since i know the girl cannot influence me in any way,cos she would have influenced my life over the years i knew her before i met him.Pls advice me

oluite: Growing up as a young girl,it was unheard of to live beyond your pocket money,questions will be asked if your hairdo was too expensive or you have what my mum calls 'unusuals' in your wardrobe or amongst your stuff.Accepting gifts from guys,wahala!!!There must be an acceptable explanation.Talk less of actually asking a guy for money.It was drummed into our ears you must have values,be contented,work hard,be independent et al.

Recently i was so embarrassed when some guys in my office where complaining about todays chics, a guy travelled with his girlfriend for a wedding,he paid all expenses.Suddenly the girlfriend sister and friend appeared in the airport expecting the guy to foot their travel expenses as they claimed to be stranded.These are all working class ladies.Of course no plan to pay back and his girl friend didn't see anything wrong in this arrangement.Another time,a young working class girl ended a relationship majorly because the guy couldn't give her a specific amount for her monthly upkeep. Please she knew exactly what he was earning as well and it wasn't so fantastic?!

I heard and seen many of such from young working women,only to come across a thread here with something similar.Mothers can we discuss this? How did this become the in thing today,where many working single women expect the men in their lives to foot all their bills? Maybe some women are not aware that this is not a good attitude and there should always be balance,boundaries....

StarBoard: When do we get the CM signing?

Sagamite: The first bunch of kids I knew that were being raised using this youthful, niche, funkadelic parenthood were Queen's College girls.

In my time, they love to speak funky and were posh.

A great institution that used to churn out great alumni back in the days. Those were the old ones raised by proper African parents. Now, I don't even hear of their grads anymore, evident of the waste of the generation I knew, in my opinion.

Ah! Me, I am not funky o. I am your FADA!

Man TJ: How will you feel when your wife's ex- lover greets her in your front that how are my children doing? or your husband's ex-lover asked your husband in your present that you did not even ask after your children?

Will will just take it as normal greeting or get angry!

NOTE: this is a normal greeting in yoruba to ask after other people's children welfare as if they are your own. {Awon omo mi kan - How are my children? or Se alafia ni awon omo mi wa- Hope my children are in best condition?)

debosky: Fergie goes for the cheap option.

RVP too expensive = 'upcoming' South American signing. How Wenger-esque.

StarBoard: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-2188234/Angelo-Henriquez-Manchester-United-medical.html

Who's he? Never heard of em.