₦airaland Forum

MissBKsoul:
Start with sharing your mother's exciting experience with us... Also remember to gist us if you are a product of paternity fraud or you are part of the legitimate children.

Flawless

I always tell pple that feel this way, when its ur time to educate ur children, ask ur girl child to stay in the kitchen, groom her for a man and allow the rest of us that wants to give our girl child same education as our boy child do so In peace.

lionphil:
Your father and mother are mad, you're a true definition of "being born by mistake". Your LovePeddler of a mother and a bast.ard drunkard of a father didn't teach you how to respond in public, I'll teach you so that your stu.pid mum and dad can start giving you home training.

Do you know what marriage means? It seems you're from a broken home and don't know what marriage means. Isn't it too early for a

man that just got married to come and start crying on social media? What solution do you want to give him? He should divorce her? You're a big fo.ol when you come of age, you'd know better imbe.cile

You shouldn't reply him again, this complete transfer of aggression, I was so surprise to see how person go leave hin own load for ground carry another persin own for head like this. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion

I have had inlaws live with me, and am a very tolerating person . This pple showed me hell,when my mum comes over they quickly tell their mum who in turn starts getting angry that my mum was around. I endured till the day I said myself enough is enough. I reacted and asked them to leave this was after 7 years of tolerating shi...y asses. I can only advise any woman to allow inlaws to stay only if ur spouse sets boundaries and they respect it. Move out of that house when ur rent expires

It's very easy , if you feel women are the cause of a broken marriage, endeavour to send only ur boy child to school so ur girl child can be dependent on their spouse. I will use nigeria as a case study. A man wants you to support him sometimes even saying 50/50 contributions towards running the home. He wants to flex and do everything the modern world has to offer but will prefer his woman to remain in the 60's , how possible is that.

I hear most young lads talking about how they cant marry a woman who doesnt have anything doing in this very hard and demanding society and yet u expect the girls not to go ahead to do what it takes to get something to do knowing fully well it will land them a man.
A woman start working 9-5 job as a man and still expected to take care of everything concerning her man and also deal with his excessive emotions. A woman also expecting her man to provide everything for her in this economy and start comparing him to other guys. Marriage can be beautiful but the fact is very small amount of marriages are worthy of emulation, Reason" Trust. He or she might decide to leave me if i open up.

Chevronstaff:
Bloggers should learn how to respect people's privacy..

The day Gistlovers will make false allegations against someone like Ned Nwoko, the owner will be arrested and put behind bars..

These is the type of fear an oppression that the rich shows to the poor.but a faceless blog most times mean they want pple to know the truth. Once you make a post about you on social media it's no longer private.
You want pple to celebrate you when the going is good but dont want them in when it's bad, Nah. The only person I pity is her mum.

Your choice, there are younger girls with plenty body count, same with guys too. You see something about marriage is that all this will not matter when you get into it, what will keep ur marriage is commitment , communication and the character both of u posses. Dont go into marriage thinking ur wife should be this way or act that way. The example starts with you.

Anigreat:



The bond between Olu Jacob and Joke Silver is very strong.

It looks like their sex life was great, and seems to me baba still de bang that lovely pussssy.

And you too will grow old one day.

Acidosis:
You understand her very well. Do you cook for your own mother? How often do you do that?


Y'all put yourselves in @op's shoes. How many of you cook and wash your mothers clothes here right from your secondary school days?

Plenty people do, if I can take care of my husband who isnt my direct blood,why the would I not do that for my mum.....and even if you cant do it why bring it here. There hasn't been any meaningful advice on the thread on how he/she can handle her asides bashing the mum.

Chummynoni:
You said your mum is lazy, how did she manage to train you people singlehandedly? You are the lazy one here . You now brought out your mum dirty underwear to wash in public, so that some useless untrained bitter soul would have a field day insulting your mother.

As in ehn, I just wonder if all this youngsters know what it takes to raise a kid, there are some parents that left their wards to roam around searching for next meal and here you are crying bout having the meal and cooking alone, to the extent of bringing it to nairaland where their all sort of Ill-mannered beings.

DarkJeddi:
Forget it..

Multiple births..

After years of childlessness..

Is ALWAYS due to IVF or IUI..

Triplets and quadriplets?

Not one..

Not two?

Which kind miracle?

This is how pple conclude when you get ur breakthrough, they always imagine how it's impossible for you to make it just like that( in their terms) forgetting years of labour and lack. May God use our stories as wonders to even pple who dont know us like this.

There is one life, and if peace of mind is not involved in this life you will be miserable.
I'm a woman, and I will tell you the truth except you didnt spill it all, your wife is not a good person. How can u accept ur own family and push ur husbands family away without them intentionally hurting you.

You are a man take charge of ur home, sit her mum down and explain why you wont tolerate her daughter's attitude towards ur siblings again. They dont have to like each other to cohabit once in a while , but they need respect from both. Also dont choke her with ur siblings visit they might not know boundaries.

Lastly critically observe how they both treat each other when you aren't around( dont know how you will do this)because sometimes inlaws pretend when they feel they are loosing control/ grip on mostly men. Goodluck

HeroHero:
U re good to go

Okay, thank you.

Kingdemu:
He knows your full name and qualifications, right? It's a done deal if he really wants to help you. I know a special adviser in the presidency that was appointed with just former SGF Babachir asking him to text his full names.

Yes he does.... thanks, I appreciate this.

Good day all, pls can someone help you without asking for ur cv, he his at the topmost top and get it with just a call away but he didnt request for CV but knows full name.

You both need to work on the relationship, you are both abusive towards each other. My advice is that you call him and genuinely ask for forgiveness,whether he forgive you or not is his to decide.
Then go ahead and tell your family, they cant kill you they will only reprimand you but he will know they are aware of the slap ,incase he tries to play funny.

Lastly control your anger dont let anybody have that type of strong hold/effect on you.

Guyman02:
Single mothers raising sons is one of the biggest family problems among blacks in America and it seems we are now seeing it here.
Ms Oluchi allow your son to respond to his indictment, if he is found innocent he will be exonerated from the crime

Then fathers that are alive should take charge and raise them too, so all this single mothers brouhaha/slandering can stop. Some of this pple are single mothers cos they lost their spouse and because of physical abuse. Nobody wishes to singlehandedly raise a child alone, but life throws you so much sometimes.

You forgot to add, die when he dies. The nos 19 though....

Wow! Love now comes in different shades. As hard as it's to read ur write up, the little am able to put together makes me conclude you have anger issues.
So because your wife served ur mum a from the freezer,you decided to slap/beat her, you are doing well. Continue.....

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Respect pples beliefs and cultural orientation, especially when you are gaining a whole human. If you cant find another alternative. When you eventually give birth to a daughter now stories will change.

WhyAWhy:
Abeg who respect help. Wait let me take respect to the bank

What chore are we talking about abeg. Is your house Oshodi market abi who no get vacuum cleaner and washing machine/washer man in this present day. Even cooking sef, it is not as if you are turning out 30 different delicacies a month

Let us assume you even want to be traditional, it means your so called husband has the final say and you have zero opinion. You go like am line that ?

Easier said than done. If a man demands for shared Bill's he should also demand for shared maintenance of the house chores,afterall the so called vacuum,washing machine you mentioned wont operate by themselves. The basic thing is men and women should use their brain when going into marriage,if a man treats u right he wont have to demand for it...
Yes my husband always have the final say,doesn't mean I dont have an opinion of my own.

This is the reason alot of men have lost respect in the eyes of their wives. Every woman likes a man who can take charge/lead almost in all aspect. And If a man wants the splitting of Bill's then there definitely will be splitting of chores and all the major decisions. That's the way its suppose to be if we want to follow in the western ways fully.

malakaimoscondo:
mumu.. na the wife go take everything, what of the guy mama and papa if he. get them.. did u know how the guy blow.. u know if they give am one person destiny for the family... na when the wife even come the family no be wen they marry her... u know if the guy already mke money before they marry the woman..

A wife might not be related by blood to her husband but she is with her children which in turn is the man's children thereby making them immediate family. Am sure the man would already make a way for them to be taken care of. Parents at there old age dont even require too much wealth for them to start fighting the wife .you watch to much nollywood movies to feel they used one of the siblings destiny for another

mejai:
Nigerians no dey like truth. Always emotional. Minus death, every other thing in this write is pure truth.
Most women dey extra sluggish when preggy

One day you will be pregnant with a big dream, trying to actualize it, waiting patiently for it to grow/materialize and then.... wala ! Someone comes from nowhere will come and kill the dream/ idea. This is not been emotional,it is been human

The reason children choose their mother over their fathers mostly is because....despite the fact that men provide financially, they stop only at financing and forget the remaining attributes involve in training a child...Emotional,spiritual,mental. Most women are there all through. Mind you some children will choose their dads a million times.
You can work and also be involved in ur childs life....women are doing it so do it too.
Alot of men are out there sleeping around,smoking,drinking ,that wears you out quickly too. Not saying women dont but the percentage is very low.

If you are not a virgin ,you dont deserve a virgin.

Tintedglass:
there is NO A list(NDIC, CBN, DPR, etc) slot going for 500k or N1 million may be it was a few years ago. if that was the case EVERYONE in abuja would work in A list agencies...

sure there are scammers out there but lets be realistic of the times we are in, these slots are even fewer than before. Scammers exist but also lets be truthful to others here...

See you will be shocked what the original seller put on this slots, the only reason A list slots are expensive is cos of too many indirect sellers adding their own share . Am talking based on experience

Please does anyone have any information about OGFZA( Oil&Gas free Trade Zone Authority). Is it a good place to work? Does anyone know 'bout there salary structure

Iyajelili:
All I can deduce from testimonies here is that southern leaders are greatly useless and irresponsible. Before you say anything, like Moniker says, I'm Yoruba.

It is not only leaders, some of us have relatives who ain't ready to help simply because they dont want you to be at same level with their kids. I respect northerners anyday anytime when it comes to helping themselves. They easily pull out a very United front. Southerners loves it when they are the centre of attention. (Same thing goes for admission into a Uni)