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Dannyxy:
See, I watch football in viewing centers, different public places, forget racism, forget all that political shii

The biggest antagonist of Nigerian footballers, are Nigerians, now take this situation, I have observed the scenario, occurring over and over, in different places

Chelsea was playing a game, Mikel made the starting 11, and you here comments like
"see this one, make Im no play rubbish"
another
"we go score goal today at all, this one wey we Mikel dey play"

Now with this in mind, as the game continues , lampard makes a mistake ,you hear
"Lampido , nawa oh, pass well na"

Mikel makes same mistake you hear

"Idiot, e no sabi anything, make den carry am go back bench"

Moses, onazi, they all suffer the same insults, And I am like, wtf, our players suffer undue criticism from we Nigeria, like we are hating on them or something, any small rough patch, we start putting them down, when people who are optimistic try to encourage them, we label them as being blind..

Now, all your acclaimed "objectivity" and putting down our players, anytime they go through a rough patch over the years, has it made us produce a messi or ronaldo, even a hazard?.. Has it helped in anyway?.

No... Obviously

So leave us, let us hype our players to the heaven, we, II refuse to believe that iheanacho is not as good or better than aguero, my choice, I might be wrong,but that will not stop me from saying Alex iwobi is as good ozil..

I would rather hype my players and see attempt to live up to up or fail to live up to the hype, than put my players down at every opportunity, and accept that we would always be mediocre when compared to others

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Preach brother,preach. They will tell u it's cos they wish well for him or they want to see him play better but deep down it's to avoid the imaginary disgrace or disappointment in their 'patriotic' minds. It's just like a Nigerian parent who sees the huge amount of work and time his child puts into reading only to come out with a '2nd' or '3rd'. Instead of the parent to congratulate and encourage the child by saying 'u tried but I believe in u and know u will do better next time because u can' h/she will say 'just look at u,carrying 2nd. When I was ur age I was carrying 1st. Does the person that carried 1st position have two heads? Is it not the same teachers that taught u? Look at ur friend chima took 1st and u took 2nd. U'r not ashamed of yourself'.
The truth is Nigerians are one of the most hypocritical and judgemental people on earth with with wicked hearts too. My brothers and sisters pls let us learn to appreciate what we have the best way we can. If u could do it better than them,u won't be here analysing what we have. Criticize but do so with love. England no dey waste time hype their players oo,even those with naija origin. Let's emulate them.

Taliban:
Certain dynamics have worked against KC. One, the coach that signed him for a huge fee was sacked. 2) The club anticipated selling Mahrez which hasn't happened. 3) The new coach can't be patient with anyone, he has a short time to deliver. 4) Mahrez, Okazaki and Vardy have been playing together for a while now so you can't underestimate the understanding and chemistry they have.

My own conclusion is, KC should keep his head down, be focused as GoodJoe always says he should continue learning and getting better, the case of Niasse at Everton is a good lesson for players frozen out of teams. Sometimes a coach won't just give some players a chance, case in point, Mourinho with De Bruyne and Mo Salah at Chelsea.

KC definitely has quality and in due time his star will definitely shine very bright!!!

Jah bless!

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I just wanna see the guy play ball. I get to see others not matching up to his caliber start while he isn't even making the bench? Come on. Call me passionate and I'll accept but u can't deny there's some truth in what I said. Anyways,he'll just have to fight for a starting spot or just automatically turn into a super sub. I don't think a loan move will be good for him.

komekn:
I am not in the least bit shocked or suprised.

Donkeys ago I said the true test of KC will be when he dors not have the support system of top class players around him.

That has happened and at club level he is struggling.

He may come good next season or in the tail end of this season. He is having to adapt very quickly and change his style to meet the requirements of Leicester.

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Well,it's still his first season with them. Hopefully he'll get reasonable game time. What I will not accept is for the club to come out and say he didn't match up to expectations when he wasn't even given enough time to dazzle.

Clementoke:
It's like u don't get it. Iheanacho is not in the match day squad at all. Hard to believe nd surprising to the ears but .......the truth.

. The thing shock me oo

Can someone give me one valid reason why Claude Puel put Iheanacho on the bench? Apart from pace,wetin Vardy take pass Iheanacho? For me the only more technically gifted forward is Mahrez,yet Okazaki gets to start b4 Iheanacho? I don't get it. I'm trying my best to not call it favouritism or racism. He's not even on the bench!!!

[quote author=Dboyno post=62789569]hello guys am a new comer to this forum and I really enjoy ur comment hear when reading as a quest. Am really happy commenting as a nairalander today[/quote
Welcome Welcome Welcome

brosci:
The lady had better be ready for what is coming for her. She will have a whole lot of explanation to give in court. I bet she doesnt knw how lawyers twist cases. At the end of this all she's going to lose and may spend some time behind bars because her story betrayed her already and trust me when i tell u that she didnt say the whole truth in her write up.

You visited a guy and willingly agreed to pass the night with him.
You willingly allowed him cuddle and touch you in an intimate and sexual way.
He went down between ur legs and had his way with you via oral and you didnt even struggle a little.(according to her story) lol no intended rapist can dare that with a lady with functioning hands and feet
He had sex with you and when it was over guilt did what it does best and you cried your heart out.

From the above deduction every stage the lady and the guy went thru( from cuddling to sex) must have been a systematic breaking of the girl will power (i.e she gave consent even if she didnt want to due to persistence from the guy) rather than brute strenght from the guy And friends that isnt RAPE.

Note that all this could have been avoided if she didnt spend the night with a man u knw nothin about and isnt ur boyfriend. Who the fvck does that? Well maybe a girl that wants to get laid

. Thank you for this write up. I just wish a judge as brutally honest as Judge Judy handles this case. The girl will be dead meat.

fuckpro:
...i saw the video Banky meant well its like the guy was running a nature documentary from his bedroom but very unnecessary,how naive not to know what his media posting is doing is a wonder now they are out for him
...it just take one fiend to send his wife bra and panties through courier and see how love dey shake

. I don't know why but I still think it was an intentional move. Remember the saying:any publicity is good publicity.

fuckpro:
...better piken and you,you came here to take names of viewers hmmm

. Like it or not,90% of the people Wey full here na bad belle people. People wishing their new marriage bad luck,looking for loopholes here and there so that them go see wetin them go use talk.

Just look at u nairalanders. Hypocrites,Una just jump to look at a married woman's n a k e d n e s s. Yet u come here acting all saintly,blameless and judgemental. I spit on ur hypocrisy.

Gaddafithe2nd:
Women don't love one another. Friendship between most women is full of deceits. A woman sees her fellow woman as a rival. Women, sometimes I wonder why God created them that way.

. I don't necessarily think God created them that way. I think they evolved into what they are now.

elyte89:
WC I doubt,d 4 players can't all make it to d world cup,I feel we re only "sympathetic " abt dem bin a foreign born player, and To remind u,if we're to go by d new rohrs formation in 3-5-2, we av a moses and shehu as d two full backs already and a standing "experienced" echiejile at d left back position except if we want rohr to make his team 60percent of full backs,WC will affect oda department

. Let's just see what the coach will go with. We'll just have to trust his judgment

ceezarhh:
Not just hot water...she had to mix it with pepper!. Let same be done to her, except hers' will be melted aboniki balm and pepper...

. Chai,u wicked oo. Ordinary aboniki balm after bathing is something else let alone mixing it with pepper.

EEGA:
We really need a Left footed player as a back-up for Echiejile, if not as a replacement.

Taking Aina or Idowu to WC with the intention of playing them as LB's will limit our progress in the WC.

But we can try Ebuehi since Toyin said he can play comfortably as a left-back, the same way he did against Argentina.If he(Ebuehi) fails to impress as a LB, we should get J.Torunarigha.If not ,our LB will become our weak link since Aina is not that good as a LB and Idowu does not defend and join or link up with the attack like Ebuehi does.He only edges Aina in terms of positioning as seen against Argentina.

But, can he defend and link up with the attack,No No No.

Modified:Aina is more attack minded which resulted to the second goal we conceded, while Idowu focuses mainly on defending which puts us at a disadvantage because the best way to defend has always been to attack.

. I don't think u'r totally right. With what I saw against Argentina,Idowu is very attack minded. Watch the goals highlights and you'll see that if Iwobi hadn't scored that second goal,Idowu would have tapped it in easily. Look at the goal Idowu scored,he was so fast that it was as if he knew Iheanacho was gonna lose the ball then he put it in the far right. No matter what happens I just wish Aina,Idowu,Shehu and Ebuehi all make it.

usermane:
No. But since you ask, guess I'll try it.

. Also try 'Radioactive' ft Kendrick Lamar and 'thunder'. Still by Imagine Dragons

HeyCorleone:
Is that so?

. Yes. For me the problem is not just about singing about sex cos certain sexual songs have 'meaningful meanings' but are all ur songs about that and without 'meaningful meanings'? That's what gets to me.

Dandy1:
Yeah,that's the hypocrisy of Nigerians. They'd follow Jon Bellion and Khalid on social media and help hype them, but will turn blind eyes and deaf ears to Brymo and Bez. See? I don't blame guys who started out dope, but had to water down. e.g Praise. Money must be made. Like Dremo said, they are all trying to fix up their bank account.

. You know why I still like Praize? The guy's voice and it has just found a way to blend in. He sang one of the few songs that I actually like with this 'pon pon' beat that almost every naija artiste is using now and that was 'Me and you' ft Sarkodie. He still gives good songs like 'If I fall' and 'Folashade'. Dremo has one of the best flows in the rap game right now and there was a time he tried to sing but he switched back dishing out 'Who'. That song is fire.

HeyCorleone:
You right on bruh.

Kendrick and J.Cole don't do these childish things.

. I'm a big fan of Kendrick but the dude talks about sex too.

Dandy1:
All of you that are complaining, how many dope Nigerian singers/ rappers do you know or support? Folks don't practise what they preach anymore. Do you know Our own Blaqbones, a rapper that launched his career on Nairaland here? Do you know rappers like Boogey, Eclipse, Luluraps, AQ, Mojeed, Ozzy B (Santi), e.t.c? To you know singers like Aramide, Sir Dauda, Johnny Drille, Tomi Thomas, Tay Iwar, Nonso Amadi, Odunsi, Ric Hassani, Morell, Funbi, Aduke, and several other dope underground artistes? No! They remain underground because you lots don't appreciate nor hype good music. Y'all prefer pangolo music. Stop complaining. We the few little know these good musicians and appreciate them. Follow them on social media to encourage them. You are what you listen to. Music is a taste. Going through your playlist can give a slight insight into your personality.

By the way, I'm a music producer and a singer. I learnt everything all by myself. You can do it too. Visit my blog in my signature below for tutorials to get you started. I'll be dropping a new philosophical song on here before the week runs out, hope you'll support good music then.

. I can boast of knowing 14 out of the 17 u mentioned and being a lover of 12. Boogey is arguably the best lyricist in the naija rap game presently and I'm happy for his last year headies nomination. Ric hassani(igbo boy Wey dey bear hausa name,lol) has managed to do so much for himself even as an indie artist. Nonso amadi is just in another league. I don't know how he did it but he managed to find his way into the hearts of good music loving Nigerians with his song 'tonight'. Some Nigerians are beginning to open their eyes to the true purpose of music but that ain't enough. Go out there and support these guys,most of their shows ain't expensive and buy their music online too. That way you'll encourage people like me who's soon to hit the studio again. My own style of music sef doesn't sound Nigerian at all. When I listen to Rockstar by post Malone and Gucci gang,I'm like :Nigerians love these songs but if it were to have been Nigerians that sang such(even better),will they love them the same? They'll prolly say they're trying to sound foreign when in reality that's just how they sound. Most of them don't even know what Cardi B said in bodak yellow yet they love it.

vermaniace:
lol,I don't expect you to be humble though but I bet that was your beSt shot

. I actually thought the purpose of this thread was to write for the joy of it(rap). All of a sudden I'm now proud for doing exactly what u asked for(a diss)? Smh. Peace bro.

vermaniace:
is this your best shot?

. Lol,nobody wanted to write anything so I just decided to help u. My best shot? Homie u can't even handle one this good,talk more of a better one(get it?). Peace

I was 'toshed' to drop something. Let's go:

. Always on ur TV SCREENS
. So u can't ever SCREEN ME OUT
. Reduced u to a pet size
Now all u do is SCREAM 'MEOW'

tbaba1234:
Martins with a beautiful goal


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxkJdC02hhY

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Rohr gotta call back Martins mehn. What a goal,what a talent. Those backflips never get old.

kullozone:
The hatred I have for these pastors increases with each word they speak.
If only people go try get sense... If only....

. Don't hate them,pray 4 them.

Henitan24:
I reject that for him IJN

In many ways, religion in Black Africa is bad for people's IQs. There is something about the way a black man practices religion that is different from the way other races do. Some of the most inventive and innovative peoples in the world are highly religious folks. In fact, people who are trailblazers in science and technology in the Western, Arab and Asian worlds are religious faithfuls.

For many of these folks, their faiths don't seem to get in the way of reason and everyday logic. I know this because you can only be creative and innovative if you do not abandon reason and logic. God gave us capacity for both.

I believe the reason is simple. The brand of Judeo-Christian faith we practice in black Africa kills brain cells. It renders people dumb. That's why so-called Christians would buy the picture of a man who claimed he took the selfies in heaven. That's why they'd eat grass and drink petrol at their pastor's instructions. That's why they'd defend tithing even without solid scriptural backbone.

There's something about the mind of a Black African Man that pollutes Christianity. Still trying to figure out what it is.

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I got two answers for you. 1)FEAR:They're so afraid of being caught up in their own trap. Afraid of being proven wrong over their long-held beliefs. 2)DOGMATIC:You can also call this close-mindedness or being resistant to knowledge(not ignorance cos most of them know or at least are aware of the possibility). Well like the popular saying goes:Pride goes before a fall.

gsainttrinity:
Very Nice Story

You see I have always thought about what one may term rape or at what point can one say a lady has been raped considering the subtleties girls adopt when it concerns sex.

Besides the cruel forcefully induced intercourse, rape can be very hard to define.

The type of rape where one party the female especially just says "NO" and considers it rape when you proceed especially when the mood has been mutually set is nothing but deceit and blackmail.

Consider this story to that from the other thread where a Unilag babe is shaming a guy for rape one she had encouraged subtly.

In the End only a lady can tell if she was raped or not and it is unfair to the male folks.

. Word,bro. Word.

Laveda:
I get you, but going by what you just said. All men are potential rãpists.

I understand she's got her blames for going to a stranger's house at night and even agreeing to spend te night and not go with her friend or a trusted person, slept close to him on one bed and received hëad.

But we can't deny the fact that sex without consent is rape, as as she didn't accept to it, then it's rape.

I understand a woman's No is No but then again:what exactly is 'consent'? Let's say w'r both about to get down. I'm busy touching those sensitive spots on ur body,right now u'r heading to cloud9 almost tearing off all my shirt's buttons. I try to stop ur hands from doing the inevitable yet it happens anyway. I Finally get u n a k e d and on the bed still kissing and caressing those soft sensitive spots while I remain calm still in my briefs. All of a sudden,I quit touching u,I withdraw my hands and say :Do u feel like having sex today?. I don't even need to ask what you'll do cos it's obvious. You'll have mixed feelings of anger and pleasure,wanting to pounce on me like an angry bear cos at that point in time that question will sound so stupid and irrelevant. I hope u understood the point I came from and see the necessity of the reevaluation and definition of the term 'consent'.

LancelLogan:
I have chronic OCD coupled with other mental issues like ADHD, chronic depression, extreme anxiety, bipolar, Low self-esteem, Perfectionism(OCPD similar to OCD) and the Fantasy Disorder (i waste hours fantasizing about a character rich fantasy world i have created in my head for almost a decade now) and (i don't know) i think i'm autistic... It kills me inside... I have contemplated suicide but i'm afraid it will be too painful or unsuccessful (since firearms are not sold in this country)...

My mental issues started when i was around 5 years (or maybe since child birth)... My depression heightened during my secondary education at a military secondary school (Nigerian Navy Port Harcourt).

I stay in Port Harcourt and school in the University of Port Harcourt (Uniport)... I'm repeating my final year because my mental issues did not allow me focus on my project and two difficult Maths courses.. i find it hard to focus (ADHD) and study... If i am not battling with that ever present inner OCD voice, I'm fantasizing about another world inside my head...

Everybody thinks i'm rude because i am never smiling and i don't know how to talk to or reply people (I'm always anxious even when i'm familiar with the person trying to talk to me)... no matter how i try i will always say something awkward or I wouldn't be able to say anything at all (my heart will always seem to be racing and my speech stuttering)... So i just detach myself from people generally to save myself from embarrassment...

What my OCD and OCPD has obsessed and compelled me to do over the years is just so much i can't write all about it here... It's more than the regular "wash your hand before and after you touch anything if not you will be infected or fall sick" or "if you press the wrong letter while typing a document, you must clear the whole page and start again if not the document file will be corrupted"]... If ever i try to resist the OCD voice, I'll feel so uncomfortable, anxious, disturbed and drowsy... i won't be able to concentrate on anything at all...

Also, it has made me abusive to my younger brother... If he does something I(or the OCD rather) don't(doesn't) like ... Example, if he doesn't wash his hand before touching things in our room or doesn't follow a couple of sequence i normally carry out while cleaning our room... i get so angry, i yell or sometimes(rarely though) physically abuse him... Any little thing he does irritates me even if he is just playing music, making a call or even laughing at a joke he read on his phone... This makes me hate myself but i can't stop this behavior...

Side note:[I have nothing against Christians or religious people... Please, don't be offended] I recently stop believing in religion (Christianity in my case)... I see it as a mechanism implemented to make people behave and make people be motivated to live and enjoy life... I also don't identify as an atheist because most atheist these days are just religious about their non-believe... They will undoubtedly support theories like The Big Bang Theory and yet criticizes Christians for believing in the Creation Story... I don't believe both of the aforementioned theories(stories)... I can say I'm agnostic because i do not know about the origin of existence.. Although, when i was still an ardent Christian, my OCD voice will compel me to give large portions of my personal savings to "God" so that i'll receive a specific blessing or answer to a prayer request... lol...

I have not talked to anyone about my issues because i know they will not understand... during my secondary school days, i told my parents i was contemplating suicide... they beat me up and took me to church for deliverance... lol... so there is no point talking about it to my family...


I will appreciate talking to someone who understands... Please reply or email me...

Thanks...

. I won't say I totally understand ur pain but partially,because I've had my fair share of depressive moments. I'll focus on the religious aspect since others have dealt with the other necessary parts. I say it's necessary because you've most likely been misinformed on the issues of Christianity which to a large extent is the fault of the involved churches. Christianity isn't a religion. I repeat CHRISTIANITY IS NOT A RELIGION. It is a renewed relationship with God our father through his son Jesus Christ. U'r not meant to do anything before God does anything for you. The blessings of God come naturally to anyone who BELIEVES and not anyone who tries to compel God to help you. You can't ask Him to do what he already did. He won't do it. That's the whole point of being separated from the law and being brought into a lifestyle where grace abounds and princes live. Anyone who tells u otherwise is lying to you. Pls try joining a FAITH BASED church like Christ Embassy or House on the rock,let them teach u the word of God,even places u never knew existed,the way it's meant to be taught. If u have time u can also watch Creflo Dollar and Bill Winston every night on the 'FAITH' channel. Ur life will spin around remarkably in the best way possible. U'r blessed bro. It's up to you to believe and stay that way.

IamKashyBaby:
When twitter is being flocked by fictional story tellers...

#StoryForTheGods....

. I don't know if you were actually trying to crack a joke but I'll let u know that not all guys are the same. If u'r among those who think that at the sight of a woman's b.o.ob.s or Kitty-Cat,a man suddenly becomes numb or idiotic,only acting on impulse thereby thinking with his 'third leg',then u should really have a rethink. Let me tell u something,i'v been seeing b r e a s t s and p u s s y s since I was born(YES) and till this very day my house is filled with proper women who go about their chores stark naked. So,definitely u can't expect someone like me to be moved to the extent of taking advantage of a drunk naked girl thereby defying my own moral codes. I would only do that if she got 40-60 DD boobs ,an ass 3* bigger than nicki minaj's and a p u s s y that glitters like gold. So dear,change that mindset. Have a nice day.

ArchangeLucifer:
Na you dem dey follow talk?!

. Na wah oo,see the way him just put mouth for another guy parole.

A big kudos to you for your enlightening write-ups. Hopefully people will learn. Last month,almost everyday I heard about a new case against Weinstein and deep down I just felt pity for him. I don't know how true the stories are but if he's found guilty he'll be punished but I hope for the true cases cos I definitely don't believe all of them are real. That aside,keep up with the good work,exposing the hypocritical nature that has burrowed its' way so deep into our everyday society. Kudos

Joebie:
yea. same one. he has already played competitively in a Euro qualifier

. Alright