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victorian:
Not all women do well in Buisness.

Education is the key

Except he's scared of loosing her, immediately she becomes a graduate and a better man see her and marry.
Cause that Will definitely be the scenario.
He scared of loosing her to another man

Anyways whether he likes it or not.

She wil fulfil her destiny on earth . If Op likes, he can assist and get her trained.
At the end if he doesn't do it. Someonelse will.
Thats just life.

Las Las she go get to her destination with or without the Op support in her career. Next time she won't be gullible believing men and their sweet mouth.
Men are deceptive, I pity girls opening those legs.

Well said bro but the fact remains that i've seen women like this after suffering enjoy the fruits of their labour even if she doesn't achieve much in life, those kids will and i wish the young girl safe delivery and God's grace/mercy on her and the kids.

Seriously i feel for this lady and i will put her in prayer for safe delivery and will love to see her kids someday, women with husbands and all the support they get go through hell giving birth to twins but her case she has to carry her cross alone and for the family i know they will have pity on her when they see the pains a girl of her age is passing through, her mum especially.

For those saying she can't get married mind you i have seen/heard of cases of people worst than hers but still smile at the end you're not her God and her destiny is not in any man but God. Let her just impact good principles on the life of those kid and they'll do great things.

God help her

theButterfly:
You're on point with that analysis, Coolcentbigman. I didn't want to quote the entire post but well done.

Thanks bro, i judge matters d way it's presented, hope he makes the right decision by moving on and keep supporting the poor girl, i feel for her...

victorian:
Education is not a waste of time.
You can't tell me, everybody in Nigeria is jobless and we are all surviving through biz and skills .
Do u feel everybody's calling is on bizness? Because to bring any skill alive in order to create wealth, the lady must know the intricacies of what bizness is all about , surrounding any skill u think she may need.
As for me, education is number one skill anybody can give to their kids or wards or invest in people they truly care about.
Not just skill alone.

With education, she wil be empowered to go for any other skill she desires and with education, she can be able to start with nothing or little and become big in future.

That's the power of education, if you know how to use it to your advantage.

I'm sure this girl is not dumb or a stark illiterate, it's just that the guy said she's not as smart as he wanted and can't manage his business if he's not around but come to think of it she's working for someone already making her have some working experience if she's well coached she'll do well because women do very well in business. You can mold your woman to your taste a friend of mine did it so it's possible.
The problem is that the guy never wanted to marry her.

martinskelly:
Bro, only few will advice you and majority will castigate you.
Just stick to your own decision afterall we no dey dere wen u impregnated her so also we no go dey dere wen u go take your decision, its your life and future that matters JUST DECIDE WISELY!

The guy deserves all the negative comments or blasting he gets from this forum. He never wants to admits his wrongs but came here just for justifications and not advice because to him he did nothing wrong because you asked the girl to keep the pregnancy or gave her money you're justify from all wrongs and she's the one to be blamed because he told her you wanted out but she keeps coming back.

Here your wrongs..

1. You know too well she's not your type and from the place you 've vowed never to marry from..because they led to the death of someone very dear to u - Why not end the relationship at once and you even know this girl because she work close to your shop and may've done some findings before making your move but you still went ahead..

2. You went ahead building a strong connection/relationship with this girl and later you started backing out - Research/experience 4rm any expert can tell you that girls her age can do some craze stuffs if emotionally connected to you which you started yourself by dating her after you don't like her for marriage.

3. You Quitted the relationship but each time she comes back to you, you gladly accepted and you did these for three consecutive times and the last one resulted to d pregnancy - Why not stand by your No!!! and you said she's easily controlled wot of u bro

4. It was clearly stated by you being the one responsible for the raw sex which she was acting in your command because of the love she has for you and now she's cheap while you're the saint despite you know how it all happened.

5. How sure are you that she got that infection by sleeping around because you were even suspecting yourself and not her which shows you are have been exposed to infection before or still have it.

You're only self-centered and don't care what she's going through right now after all you send her money and claimed to have lost a lot financially,emotionally and otherwise, please is it actually in the country you are actually hustling Lols... or you think money is all that matters??

Do you even know what she's going through herself Public shame, Abuse from family, Disappointment to the entire extended family at large, Giving up her career/work and many more challenges to come... Please just forget the children because they can never be yours if you don't marry her which i will advice you never to do because it will only end up bring more suffering to this innocent girl besides how many young girls date these days without demanding so much?? All the bad side you mentioned is she acting on her age and the way she was brought up always free with people and believe me more years to come you'll just keep thinking about what you missed.

sirdouglas:
Bro, my experience with [b]anambra women [/b]is personal and it's cost the life of someone dear to me. If I should tell you the whole story, you wouldn't be saying all this.

Oh!! i eee, Anambra women led to the death of someone dear to you, Please kindly explain...Briefly or don't worry let me go and ask my mother she's from Anambra state or my sisters because they never told me, I'm surprised .. how can they be these heartless? I better go warn my dad. though he's old 79 yrs now and always happy or maybe he has been faking it.

Oh God some people are just too senseless..Proudly 4rm Anambra wit beautiful sisters all happily wedded remaining my last born who's still schooling at Funai...

Damn!!! i don't give a f**k about wot you guys are saying rit now, She's damn hot!! why wouldn't she/her kid be the favorite of them all or is wizkid mad not to give her all the attention she needs, so she will not deniel him s** una plan no go work(bad belles).
Damn see fitness!!!

I don't know why once a woman report a case, she's being justified without hearing from the accused. We've seen similar cases of men of God accused wrongly of rape even men in general and so many of them are innocent but the fact is that almost all the women in Nigeria as a story to tell about being raped and i'm surprised. I have seen a lots of rape cases earlier this month before her's which is very bad and calls for serious concern.

Women now generalize these rape cases to females alone. I heard a Lady saying men are very wicked and don't deserve the ladies/women. The truth is that even men are raped and faces the same trauma at times but are ashamed to voiced because their fellow men will make fun of their misfortune, a friend of mine in Lagos was raped when we were in primary school by a senior student in SS2 back then and he never voiced out because he was scared and he's mum was the one who noticed is change of behavior because he wasn't active as usually and loves to stay alone and when the mom asked him to confided in her the boy(my friend) opened up and narrated his ordeal to his mum and next day the mum came to the school with the boy's father who threatened to lock her up it was her junior sister who called and ask her not to come to school because there's a problem in school and that was how the girl left school and never completed her education(info from guys in her area) and the boy was withdrawn-ed from the school even after the school authorities pleaded the parents didn't agreed that was how i lost contact with my best friend.

I blame some ladies at times when you receive gifts from most guys knowing their intention and laugh at the him each time he drops you off and when with friends he call him all sorts of names mugu, fool and so on and forget on day him mumu go do, when he starts demanding for sex you keep coming up with all kinds of exercises but keeps accepting his gifts just prepare of getting rape and he might even invite his friends because he only can't enjoy all he spent on you. My senior brother happened to rape his babe then because of this i felt for the girl badly but to him he was not even concerned and i went to speak to him and he told me after all he has been spending on her which was true because i'm witness what the bae was eating only not to talk abt the phone, jewelries and so on he bought for her but that still doesn't justify his actions. What annoyed him was she going to tell her friends she will ran him dry and he wouldn't even see her pant and that got him angry, it was even one of her friends crushing on my brother that came to tell him and trust my brother is a gentleman but was shocked because how he reacted which many of my brothers and his friends supported him.

Please the ladies you can avoid these situations by what you wear(decent clothing), by not accepting gift from a guy who is not your brothers/fiancee so you don't feel you own them anythings yourself and lastly the parents always spend quality time with your children irrespective of your tight schedule and they will easily open up to you even their secrets, I'm very proud of my parents for these and i don't even keep secrets from my mum till date and i remembered when my sis told my dad she has a boyfriend when he was joking with her to find out the truth and she thought he would beat her but instead he advised her to desist from that she wants a better future and she obeyed, now she's married and a graduate also.

God bless us all and help fight for the weak and poor who can't voice out...
God bless Nigeria...
God bless our parents.....

Mk12:
Is it not same Catholic church that was recently hit with scandals of priest abusing kid and covering up act of sodomy against kids? Is it not same Catholic
church filled with pedophile priest?
All of them are same

Bro use your senses he never said the catholic priests were saints but the Catholic church has a way of handling these kind of cases which is true, once such cases is presented to the church the church join in finding out the truth and once the priest is found guilt he resigns from his angelica/missionary work immediately and not the church or it's parishioners defending his evil deeds.

IamD18:
It is not impossible for a sharp dullard to graduate with first class in some universities in Nigeria.

Those jobless first class graduates you are seeing are jobless because they can't defend their result.

Your comment just surprised me a lot, the truth is that companies or govt. organisations don't value the so called first-class anymore because it's useless and because you are not employed doesn't mean you are a dullard like you wrongly said. If job 100% of job vacancy is available in Nigeria statics shows that 20% of the above number get employment and the rest on recommendations or connection and those qualified for such jobs remain unemployed.

A friend of my got a job recently through recommendation by a Rev. father after finishing her Nysc program though he is brilliant and well behavior and that's the priest helped him. you will be ashamed/shocked to see some of these working in some of these offices don't even have cert and some can't even read or write well.

The truth is that many undergraduates or graduates don't even want to be job seekers anymore that's why many of them create room for creativity after graduating the likes of brodashaggi and many other celebrities and entrepreneurs.

Here's proof(img)...

lefulefu:
after buhari and boko haram fear nigerian pastor

Fake news even if guilty he can't publicly say this but what did i even know just saying sha.

lumide533:
guess I should increase its price

Samsung products are really losing price value and i don't know why maybe it's because of their rivals selling cheap especially that of s series from s3-s8.

Increase to see wither you go get buyer even here in Abakiliki it's very cheap, i saw a guy sell for 35k here in AI no scratch or fault 100% working.

Fountainofyouth:
Are you okay? You quoted me diick head out of nowhere saying rubbish and I replied you accordingly, do you forget things easily or you have brain damage? Go check your previous comment asshole, if you were supporting females instead of the guy, why did you quote me with insults just to prove your point? Don't quote me again.

Sorry dumphead i never knew i quoted a lunatic, brain damage fall on you idiot! i can't even get your point "if you were supporting females instead of the guy" bye bye asshole.

Fountainofyouth:
Your point is useless to sane minds, even if in time past no one care about male virgins, does that mean y'all can continue to whòrè about because it really doesn't matter? Cant you keep yourself? Will you die if you dont diick about?

There was nowhere i statement that i dick about, see why i said you should use your brain while typing! I never quoted you, i only quoted the person saying the males are also included and that was who i responded to and not you senseless skull bag! I repeat; the world doesn't give a damn about males being virgins even here in African, i didn't say you should lay around don't misquote me dick head. Women have been the only ones looking like the devil to the world and i feel for them.

When you hear the word "Bitch" "Slay Queen" " Prostitute" etc what comes in ur mind the females rit?? but we the males are righteous.
Whatever we men do, we are justified and that why that fool blasted the lady with such words feeling like a saint.

AllenSpencer:
Baba forget.

If the money dey and you dey with smallie, she go glue you die and respect go too much without nagging.

Dis types go tell you, "Baby, you got me angry". Not all this over-ripe ones wey go dey nag and end up shortening your life span.


Smallie will do anything to satisfy you and dem appreciate die. 100K for her account monthly, smallie go build house on top your matter and wont ask for anything else. All this oldies, give them 500K sef, dem go ask you money for wig, 2 weeks later

Guy i wish luck, Omo your plan too set but mind you not all smallie will obey you because these our present world now even the smallie dey give problem pass. When you travel you go see things even small girls don dey rush cult like nightclub. Just be careful bro

Fountainofyouth:
So you are waiting for the bible to tell you not to be promiscuous, you don't have brain to think abi?
Nonsense and brolosho.

No lend me yours to think asshole, Like if the society of then and now care about males being virgins. It even difficult telling in males than females. It often focus on the female because their body is very easy to understand than the males even in south Africa why don't the males participate in their tradition of helping virgins remain virgins on youtube, use your brain and Understand my point.

Elder0001:
A lady on Twitter got more than she bargained for after she tweeted that “No man can take whatever God has given” a male Twitter user replied in a hilarious way . See his reply below






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What an epic response, the answer isn't related and moreover your virginity is a gift and it depends how you use it and whom you chose to give it up for which is also something of misery because you get tied down with that person emotional and otherwise.

Fountainofyouth:
What type of stupid question is that? The fact that all males at that age range are not virgins, doesn't mean we don't have a good number of virgin ladies.

; Hahaha virgin male?? was it even recorded in the bible?? Nonsense and ingredient.

AllenSpencer:
5year course!

And you still marry the girl

Whats left to explore after 5years

Person wey suppose go find one sexy year one girl for Unilag.

@op E go shocked you when that supposed year one babe go chase you commot for your own house because the oyinbo says what! "a devil you know is better than the one you don't know", Seriously marriage dey fear me because babes plenty both few are wife materials, the knows what he wants and went for her wish them the best in their marriage.

I don't believe that figure because i think the numbers are above that, Buhari administration has always been associated with so much killings even suicide rate is becoming terrible. Don't compare nigeria with other countries because our old ancestors will never step down for the new generations to take over until the youths stop fooling themselves and take over power by force this country will still remain a shithole, you can never compare Nokia 3310 nd the new generation of phones we've today(Smartphones).

God save us all.

I know many of my friends who wants to apply for computer science and i also want to take a program at atani myself. I've been hearing of some sorts of ill comments about the school campus of which all are negative.

Please if you're still schooling at atani campus recently or you know someone there pls help drop your findings or experience here, I heard of the community stealing,harming and raping of students in campus which were done by their youths.

Pls share your story here

onlinetomola:
Divine Help from above will surely locate you before this month runs end. IJN. (Amen)

Amen, i believe the Lord to touch my life once again. You guys just lighted my spirit that's why i love christendom, God bless you too.

erifeoluwasimi:
First step to getting delivered is forgiving yourself first. Now that you know what you did is bad you need to forgive yourself and silent the condemnation in your spirit by making your way right with God.
When ever you try to pray charge up with use of tongues. If you get the condemnation again remind the devil that it wasn't him you offended it was God. Since God has forgiven you why is he taking the issue personal. It works

Thanks alot, i really appreciate and i will put your word into practice.

Thanks.

GistMore1:
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Mothers love for their children can't be bought just imagine this woman not putting an end to that marriage the daughter would've become the victim, the poor woman just met her early grave.

The world is becoming more cruel by day... God save us from evil.

Rip to the dead.

fibonacci2526:
Oga the redmi 7 can't be compared to the note 7 and stop derailing this thread.

Oga i'm not actually saying that both phones are the same but there wouldn't be much different between them and Yes! they can be compared watch youtube and see yourself both are great phones. I was only replying the guy who asked if redmi 7 has 4gb ram & 64gb rom which i answered yes they come in different specs though some don't.

see yourself
https://www.naijatechguide.com/2019/03/xiaomi-redmi-7.html

gidieberry:
and that redmi 7 has full hd display with 4gb ram and 64 gb internal storage sey?

It's looks like note 7 and has amazing features. Yes redmi 7 come with different rom storage like 16GB/32GB/64GB, it's a nice phone and can be compared to note 7.

gidieberry:
still available

When redmi 7 is sold for almost that same amount on jumia.

uzomarinze11:
Armed robbers today stormed FCMB at Admiralty Way, Lekki Phase 1 Estate Lagos Nigeria,killing at least 6 peiple.

Eyewitness said the robbers were dressed in military uniforms.

See photos from the scene of the robbery attack.

Source

I just keep scrolling back to the pics of that beautiful lady, she has plans like everyone and plans to achieve her goals in a genuine way by hustling in the streets of Lagos instead of engaging in prostitution and so on but those dreams of hers died along side with her corpse .

What i know is dat no killer will ever go unpunished, these hoodlums don't really know the value of life because if they do it will be difficult to even hurt a fly. They do not just killed that lady but generations yet to born not to talk abt the policemen killed most of them have families to care for and even in as much as i hate the police force no one deserve to be murdered in cold blood, i pity them for the calamity abt to befall them.

Nigeria is getting worst no place is safe for now, please Lord intervene before we start living like animals in our own land before they start using people for point and kill.

Rip to the dead.

Tocynone:
Which of the boko haram again now. The news is fake because FG says boko haram have been defeated

Na you defeat them bah? omo naija which levels... Sometimes i wonder why we nigeria don't see what is going on around us because we've gone into modern slavery, i pray for Nigeria restoration before now but now all i pray for is to leave this country for Good.

jared007:
u didnt state why its too expensive

True bro but i have seen these phones before online and it's expensive because they were made with rare materials like pure Diamond and Gold, of course they are super expensive for those who like to show off.

LLobiorah:
Bros!
So all these rants nah to pull down ebonyi state. And since when have you seen an average Joe from ebonyi hating on Anambra? Ebonyi people that celebrates and rejoice over the success of the igbos, is now the pain in your ass?

Why do you guys keep thinking overzealously? Whipping up state rancour over nothing? A right thinking ebonyian has no time to compare ebonyi with anambra, coz the differences are clear. Ebonyi is like a baby learning how to stand.

If you wanna talk about hate and una useless muddy comparison.. Biko imo, lagos, abuja, enugu, ogun, kano are there.

They kill at any slight provocation? Oga this your lie get comma sha. Since this year, how many ebonyians for anambra don kill person over a slight issue? At least, we should start from your homebase right?

Most times I wonder why una dy reason from una anus.

Don't ever quote me again bro if you don't have anything reasonable to say, you guys started it read the posts above and that's why i replied. I've stayed in Abakaliki before when i visited my family house and i stayed for almost a year, Ebonyi people are very dangerous and i wouldn't even mention the killing going on between them regularly killing themselves because of land & irrelevant issues which sometimes make the govt intervene because innocent travellers turn victims.

You think every killing must appear online oh! No! I remember when a guy was killed by an ebonyi man because of little issue b/w them in Anambra state and ran away till date he has not be found by the police. All state have black sheeps but in your state it obvious you guys are naturally wicked and born killers, you guys shouldn't have been included in SE because your language and behaviour are totally different from the igbos and that's why you guys and hausas relate very well.

Most time i wonder where you guys came from very timid and wicked set of people, go to Ai and see how they make house owners from other state suffer in their hands all because they're not indigenes.