₦airaland Forum

see as yoots they vex for Audu, so everybody don get plan to leave this country already. ..chai! 9ja we hail thee!

abeg b4 una leave us make una drop me small cash to pay my hospital bills here first o. Plz don't leave a brother to die here oo

I like the way they hold hands always.
congrats!

I like the way they hold hands always.
congrats!

jombo21:
Easy sir/ma, there is nothing like ogbanje

honestly her issue just make me vex, don't mind my choice of words, just literally...
Op pardon please.

my family.

u wife has ogbaje.
an unforgiving woman can kill! + a prideful one at that.

LordsApostle:
Hello my fellow brothers and brethren.

Please, I'm tired of fvcking various girls, I have various call girls on my dail, and countless FWB, but I'm tired of living such a life... I feel lonely sometimes, I believe I need a serious relationship.
I happen to have a friend(we were initially FWB, but grew to love ourselves) I want to get serious with her as she understands me very well, the challenge is, she does runs; has some sugar daddy and all (all in a bid to pay her bills, as she literally caters for herself) I'm just tired..
Getting a nice calm chick that will understand me seem an impossible task!!! Port Harcourt chicks all done cast; u can rarely see any sensible girl in PH, almost all are into sex for money, and you can't get any head way with anyone at all.. Na wa oh!!!
I just tire.

Please I need serious advice from well meaning individuals please, serious advice pls will be appreciated. Thanks.

-Apostle of the Lord.

who cast the port harcourt chics? ...dem dem grand father?

u done cast dem finish u dey cry foul.

I tot some of u guys say singleness n or friends with benefits is d real deal.

Ok

Auxigen:
Now OP has dropped it let me say my own oo
She says she's a Virgin and she's 22
We've been dating for like 9months now, all this while we do engage in pre-intimacy.I've not penetrated her be4 oo
Cos I don't want to pressure her to give me the Cookie
Sometimes she calls me and tell me she needs IT and we'll do just pre-intimacy... The last time she came the pre-intimacy was too hot I actually penetrated her.. I knew I was inside her,and I was expecting a reaction.. You know for someone that says she's a Virgin.
Nothing! She was just there while I continued.
Later that night she texted me that she doesn't want to have sex with me or anybody again till marriage and that she's always not been herself anytime we met...etc.
Now I'm wondering if she's been playing me all along while giving it to another guy

That's a childish behavior. Funny enough it's girls of that age group that are deceptive with their sexually not the 30s.

A 30s lady will tell you what she's after and is being real. Atleast she will let u know her sexual history (if she's a honest type) and it's left for u to accept her and her stardards or not.

Putting myself in a ladies shoe I don't see why i will tell a guy that I love and I'm into that I don't want sex, all because I want him to see me as holy or clean girl. In a relationship that we are planning to be permanent isn't there supposed to be openness?

Most of the guys here that are saying otherwise are only unfortunate to be meeting the pretentious ladies just as the ladies were unfortunate to meet the wrong suitors during their 20s.


If you are a ready-to-settle-down bachelor here plz don't use most of these NL boys here comment as ur guilding lamp! They only come here to paint ladies as horrible. They are quick to tell u the worst ladies they av met but not the best. Who dey spoil the ladies, na their ancestors? who dem dey commit the 'crime' wit, my grandmama? mitchww!

I can only support that if a lady( u think u love ) tells u the 'no sex till married' mantra , study her very well to be 100% certain that she's true with it and not getting d sex elsewhere, yes that's d only issue. If she's not, be proud of her. And know how long she's been celibate. Knowing her celibacy period will help u in building trust with her.


abeg i don tire to type.....

Spygadgets19:
Oga I don't understand how this is your problem ohh. Can't you respect people's opinion. Asides religious beliefs, premarital sex has too many problems, so peeps would rather abstain. It is your type, that if one of those girls got pregnant for you, you won't agree to take responsibility and eventually you won't marry her.

nor mind the guy

Dickson44:
The truth is, wisdom comes with age. Before now, they have been giving in to anything whether serious or not. At a time, they feel it's time to settle down and it dawns on them that sex is not love, hence the decision. After so many experiences and heart breaks, hence the decision.

Exactly my thoughts

Dickson44:
The truth is, wisdom comes with age. Before now, they have been giving in to anything whether serious or not. At a time, they feel it's time to settle down and it dawns on them that sex is not love, hence the decision. After so many experiences and heart breaks, hence the decision.

God bless you!

bethyz:
When a woman is ready to settle down looking forward to meeting Mr right abstinence is one thing the walk towards. They decide to keep themself clean. They cant bring back their virginity so rather they choose to abstain for the right one. A woman cant say she is ready for marriage you are not sure if the person you want to date will marry you why waste time again. Having sex with him and he keeps pretending before you know it two years is gone you break up start again. How many relationships will the woman go into untill she finds out she had slept with more that ten different men in the name of relationship. So its better who that cannot stay without sex now that am ready isnt ready for marriage but just to waste their time. Thats why women at that age dont want to indulge untill the know you have come to stay. Especially when a man makes sex an issue .

I think u have said it all. For the sake of body count a sane woman that still has some dignity can't keep fvcking till marriage wen the said relationship isn't a guarantee yet. The fact dat you put a ring in her isn't still a guarantee u will marry her.

The teenagers can still have fun n experiment with sex becos they are young, most are naive and probably not ready yet.

It's like setting a goal for ursef n being focus on it. Me personally will advise every late spinster n waiting-to-be-married not to jump into sex with their found man (at this case bf) because u may end up hurting ursef. No relationship is certain these days until u see ursef signing the dotted lines oo .

Yes u can say why didn't they keep themselves then in their early days....hmm some might think 'this is it' (I mean any relationship they were )then but indeed that was it, and they r marking another r/ship again and again. Most times all these circumstances isn't their fault and it's beyond their control .

It could be with some male folks too.



My opinion#

Reminds me of that Indian film 'kaabil' abi na kaabii sef ...can't remember d title buh so touching n intriguing.

ewoooh ! they have started polishing her nails...
lemme go b4 sum1 will say ''and so does it stop her from being educated?"





plz don't hijack her innocence/childhood

cool dude!... in Mordecai's voice.

Praise be to God.

Thanks be to Jehovah. Hallelujah!

alhassanyusuf29:
Na nyamuri flat.heads, they deserve it. They have been causing a nuisance wherever they find themselves since B.C!

remember we all have our day

alhassanyusuf29:
Na nyamuri flat.heads, they deserve it. They have been causing a nuisance wherever they find themselves since B.C!

we all have our day...that's all I will say to u.

htt

SuperSupremo:
Jealousy go kill my ghanian family,that our 'cat ,cat' English we dey speak as if we dey chop shit be British English abi

British English kill svpersuprem0 him generation !

chai! see painment!!!

take heart bro, we are not the cause neither d solution to u predicament right now. ok?

Nackzy:
You can imagine Ghanaians are too stupid if so
They cant even learn From thier sister country Nigeria, how MMM crashed and how people died, how families were shattered
All they know is to speak stupid English and claim they are speaking British English
Theresa May
John Champion
And the rest that are the owners of English don't even speak that rubbish Ghanaians speak

I'm telling u! I wonder hw their English is British English .

EastGold:
Medicine after death

Show us the picture of the killer cop behind bar.

The way I fear police these days ehn.

Na so I go my friend papa burial, one of his brothers na police. So police full the area.

We come dey reception dey chop, as one of them dey try make him adjust im gun make e fit balance well chop, na so I hear gbooooah.

Na God sey make the gun face air

anytime I see a uniform man with gun( mostly hanging on their side) umm na so I dey look where d mouth of d gun face o, to avoid passing dat direction...I don't even go close . if I must pass dat direction omo my eye nor dey comot from d hole ( yes using corner eye) till I finally pass.

same wit wen their vehicle dey pass our own. dat shiit scare me!




May kolade soul rest well!

the person that carry out d execution (the head flinging) how does he sleep at nite...hmm God please don't let any one of us fall a victim of false accusations. In Jesus name, Amin.

make sense glasses

OSUigboKiller:
Lol
What people go through when they marry a bitter girl that has been used and dumped by many and probably, one of her ex is doing very well and she's jealous and bitter about it.
The bitter truth is that, it can only get worse.
Chao

hmmm suspect this your opinion is the case with her...uhm yes yes

so him nor fit open door himself

ReneeNuttall:
Why do u sound so pained?Must u take everything in life so personal? I gave my own opinion based on past events mostly carried out by teachers and there u are throwing insults.all those rubbish u typed calling urself a 12 or 13 year old were totally uncalled for.pls be guided,u ain't feeding nobody here.

YOU ARE STUPID, JUST ACCEPT IT!

efavour:
Hellen Keller wasn't born blind and dead. A childhood illness made her so at a young age.

oohhh ooooo k! now I see. Thanks for this.

Mr. bad influence... lol

tetralogyfallot:
Some blind guys are gifted. This guy often makes me remember the story of Helen Keller, the first deaf n blind person to own a college degree.

I still find it beyond words to Imagine how she was being communicated with...since she was deaf n blind. How she taught? How did she learn her first alphabet when she can't see it nor hear how they are pronounced? Lord! it beats my imagination! Wonder God indeed!