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Check your mail please

You can get me what's app number on my profile here too.

Hmm... thank God for His grace o.

I dropped a link on your mail.

Just drop your email address and get informed.

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Haaaaaaaaaalleluyahhhh!!! Amen!

God be praised! Amen.

Wow! May their home be blessed in Jesus name.

May their souls rest in peace.

Gwan2:
Smart of you to know even the booth ain’t safe if these men of the underworld are at your heels…if you see the fastness our car booth was opened by these guys to steal our fund, you will understand that once you’ve got such money with you and these men trail you, the only succour, to some extent is them seeing you entering a bank and transferring the funds right away in the bank. Even at that, pray you don’t get visited by them in your residence

You see! The best is to do cashless. Car booth sef requires lesser effort and noise to burgle. Eyes around won't easily suspect the thief, they will think he's the owner of the car.

There was a day I went to withdraw only 40k o. I'mmediately I came out of the bank and boarded a bike heavy rain started. We drove a small distance and the bike man decided to park cos the rain and breeze was disturbing our visibility. So we had to park. Where we took shelter there were other bikemen and passengers taking shelter too.

Mehnn i remembered I was just leaving the bank with cash I became uncomfortable and told the bikeman that we should enter the rain and continue our journey o (who knows who must have saw me inside the bank or leaving the premises and must have trailed me to that place), yes even if it's just call 40k sef. It's better I get drenched than to have a story that touched.lol

Bikeman was on rain coat already so he's covered.

It pays to be extra careful when you are carrying huge cash.

1. Boiled

2. Fried.

Manny21:
What kind of carelessness and negligence is this, you collected 22million naira and kept it in a car knowing fully well that someone could have trailed him from the other banks where he collected the money from. This is gross stupidity.

VERY GROSS stupidity!!!

He even told the security he has money in the car. Why did he have to divulge such info to someone.

Why put the money inside the car instead of the booth (not like it's safe there either though) .

Always keep every bag inside your car away from eye view when parking your car anywhere! Because even if na garbage dey inside the bag, your car glasses are at risk.

Chai! NIGERIA!!!(insort the WORLD as a whole!) I'm speechless.

Indeed the end time is here.

What a calamity! How do you expect her (the wife) to take all these.

Preach!


We are here waiting....for the Benediction.

Absolutely No! I don't want to become a cowife of any sort self.

May your soul rest in Princess. I'm touched!

...we leave your killers for God to judge.

May your soul rest in glory and Peace of God dear.

Exedyne:
She's going to be responsible for the child. I'll only support.

It's going to be her decision, not mine.

Hmm... alright.

Exedyne:
If she insists, adoption. Other than that, no children.

If you accept adoption, because of wify, it's the same as having your biological child too na. Same responsibility. Same 'complications' . Same expectations.

Whatever rocks your boat sha...The most important thing is a happy home.
Happy home, happy society. Kudos!

Thanks for giving your time for this topic. Have a great day!

Exedyne:
You won't understand. I've seen the ugly side of having children. People paint it as something rosy. It's not rosy. Some parents tried and it never worked out. I've seen enough. Joy, connection, love and companionship? Why do you have a wife or husband in the first place? The first purpose of marriage was for the above, not for procreation.

Ok. I'm not in your shoes though.

Does that mean you won't go for adoption too?

Just you and your spouse alone forever?

Exedyne:
I mean, children come with massive responsibilities. Children can be a blessing, but it can also be a source of complications.

Children are a massive responsibility. You have to cater to their financial, physical even spiritual matters.

These responsibilities can impact a parents life negatively. Certain Decisions can't be taken, because you have to consider children

Ok. Well I quite understand you now, I was drawn to the 'complexity' you mentioned about childbearing. But in all procreation is a beautiful phenomenal order. If you look at it from the positive perspective you will see that the blessings outweighs the negatives you fear about.

Think of the joy, connection, love, companionship and fulfilment it brings. We Africans see child nuturing too much as a give and take affair. The " I'm taking up your responsibility now so you will take up mine later" kind of logic . This will now lead to unnecessary competition and pressure on the offspring even from tender age.

Whether some offsprings brings responsibly or complications, procreation is a circle of life. It's a natural responsibility, lol.

Yes some parents failed. (Lemme not go into this). Still some parents tried.
NOTE: I strongly support that whomever cannot do it should not venture it !!! Parenting is not for everybody!

I believe you ain't a parent yet and it's ok if you don't want to do it since you see it as
bothersome.

Exedyne:
For me, God has answered my prayer. I'd be open to meeting a good woman who can't have children. I don't want children. I can't add another layer of complexity to an already complex situation.

Hey friend, what do you mean. I am super curious.

Awwwrrrh...To The all mighty God be the glory!!!

Yes oh. If not for Hawking I for nor know many places for my town...I still nor know much places sef.

sukkot:
you are not as intelligent as you think you are. intelligence also involves being able to compartmentalize people and to meet them where they are. meaning you can get down or rise up to any intelligence level and vibe on that intelligence level. how do you think these billionaires are able to maintain over 10 year relationships with their wives ? you think their wives have anything intelligent to say ? but you have to meet them at their level and learn to enjoy that lower level of intelligence too. THATS CALLED COMPREHENSIVE INTELLIGENCE IS THE ABILITY TO ADAPT TO ANYONES LEVEL OF INTELLIGENCE

Excellent! This is very sound.

Must celebrities always video EVERYTHING SELF!!! Hiannn! Irritating!

My style of dream wedding. No time for stress. Where one, two or three are gathered the Lord is in their midst.

Happy married life!

Still not enough, you see that grey color pipe, they should make it transparent too Biko. #rolls eyes...

Amuluonyenaego:
I fear that fair apostle standing at her back on the first picture..... Still surrounded by the enemies.

he is her daughter's husband.

Iyaebe:
Kiss and tell man,vile and wicked man,unfaithful and stupid man,I know Tonto get wahala but this man is the worst thing that can ever happen to any woman

Tonto is a kiss and tell woman too (Churchill's case), so karma too has come for Tonto.

Somebody should tell Georgina this.

Jesus!!! I'm speechless!

Candidlady:
Overated state



They should please convert the whole Lagos to a beach

So we can go there to have a nice time...

The so called Lagos that won't let one hear word

Mumu talk. So the global warming nor reach ur side n who says it won't reach there. So the flooding is now 'the lagos thing' while the one of Germany is the real climate change. use ur brain biko.