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I myself I'm not really into fair and dark problem. If a girl has all the qualities of a good wife, I would go for her regardless of her skin colour.

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@AMAKA.
Do I have to wait for your green light before I know that I have to teach you your native dialet?

@patwizkid.
I've been quite busy lately; hope you keep yourself busy also?

@Africhika.
I won't approach a girl that dresses indecently so the issue of how she has been dressing before we met is totally out of the question.

The only reason that might just make me take my chances is if the girl is quite attractive and I just feel like succumbing to the temptations of the flesh; but trust me, that relationship would be nothing but a mere fling.

@Donvilo.
Ibu nwaa-ama'ala. Jisi ke na olu oma gi, ubo chi na bia iga eri ugwo oma gi.

@Uju.
Adezemu, so gi na echu mu ula. Buru ifunanya nke ndum. Agaghi mu arapu gi

@AMAKA
I won't mind teaching you ibo for free.

@Patwizkid.
Long time, how are you managing.

Ok.

Well, there are many ways you can let her know how you feel regardless of your shyness.

I would recommend the easiest method since you're new in the game (the use of phone). This method is very easy all you have to do is to keep sending her lovely text messages. (Be sure that you make it 100% romantic). When she begins to get flattered and all that, you make your move.

My dear, don't be ridiculous. No one looks for a wife on the internet.

Why can't I see it?

Thanks

Good luck and search cautiously because girls are dangerous.

Wetin you want make im answer again

That guy is simply using you to satisfy his sexual desire when he's done with you, he would remind you that he has a wife and family to carter for; and you would be left lonely and heart broken.

I would therefore suggest that you look for someone who would love and cherish you for whom you are rather than waste your time on this guy.

My dear, move on with your life.

If she truly loved you, it shouldn't have taken her four before she realises that. Her long delay simply shows that she had exhausted all her other options so she had on other choice than to come back to you.

Suppose you got married in the space of that four years, would she be disturbing you?

I believe that if she's given a second chance, she would definately fail so look for someone else to settle down with.

She's simply not interested in you. The earlier you realise this, the better it is for you.

Are you waiting for him to murder you because of jealousy before you know its time to call it quits.

Sorry dear, I don't understand what you're saying.

If he can't call, then call him (hope I answered your question)

If my family members can't give me any sensible reason why I shouldn't marry the girl of my dreams, I would have no choice than to marry her regardles of how they feel about her.

I will keep the money hidden in a safe place.

Then when I die, I would it to bribe the angels at the gate so that they would allow me enter heaven

My dear, I won't advise you to sponsor her; girls are one of the most ungrateful creatures on earth.

Let me share a little story with you.

I once had a friend (this happened some years back) he's chemist. He fell in love with a girl; the girl was so beautiful that I envied him any time I see her. He came one day and told me of the marriage plans he has for this girl; being a guy, I reasoned with him because the girl was the definiton of beauty. He even told me that he's ready to sponsor her all through her education until she's through (she was in SS3 then and she comes from a poor family).

Then the story begun; my good friend began to play the father christmas role on this girl; he paid her WAEC fees, bought her JAMB form, and PCE form. Fortunately or unfortunately, the girl was admitted in a polytechnic. My good friend was so happy and promised to cover all her expenses. (which he did)

Her first year in school was cool; he would visit her, spend time with her, and play the jealous role whenever he sees her with another guy. (that was the begining of their problem). The girl began to complain that my good friend asks her too many questions and is always in the habit of treating her and dictating her life as tho she were his property; she went on to say that she has the right to go out with whoever she wishes regardless of how he helped her financially in the past. (this was a girl that was raised in the slums)

My good friend told this to me, and I advised him to give her some breathing space; he should limit the way he visits her, and reduce his marathon calls to her phone.

The idea seemed to have worked until he saw her in a car with with some guy. He called and she admitted that she's actually seeing someone because she isn't going to sit down and allow someone run her life, she also told him that she can't marry him because marrying him would be slavery for her since he would keep reminding her of all he did for her in the past, and she isn't ready for such sermon. He reported this development to the girls parents since they were aware of all that he did for her; and like birds of the same feather, they danced to the tune of their daughter.

My good friend was heart broken. I knew that what he was really grieving for was all the resources he wasted and not the girl. To cut the long story short, the girl left him and ran away with her new lover.

So my dear avoid investing on a girl; because no girl is ready to enslave herself for you.

@Poster.
And just how much do you think you can get from that welding job that would be able to sustain you and your family.

Aim for something higher, and I can assure you that the beautiful ones would come calling,

I would definately monitor the way my girl dresses; because I can't picture myself going out with a girl that dresses like a LovePeddler. She definately has to put on something decent or I'm out.

When people have nothing to do what else should one expect?

And the ASUU strike isn't really helping matters

I believe she's hiding something because I find it difficult to understand why a girl would have sex with a guy she claims to love, yet she hides her unclothedness from him. I disagree with those that blamed her attitude on shyness; fact is if she's really shy, then she won't have had sex with you in the first place

She's definately hiding something.

@Uju
we're fine; its nice to have you here

@all
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