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BIZNess123:The BBC reporters are Nigerian investigative journalists. Fisayo Soyombo and co. |
damosky12:What about this variant?
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MrPresident1:What makes Trump a born again Christian? Do you live in America at all? With all his fornication, lies and fraud? |
BigBelleControl:Have you listened to her new album - there are nice songs on it like Wale, Africa, Litty Litty, etc |
sammieddi:She's both tho. That's why we call them Nigerian-Americans. In others, people in her category are Nigerians who were born and raised in the US. Put differently, they are Americans of Nigerian heritage but most people here in the US see them as Nigerians. |
reccy:Have you visited those places before? Most of the places you mentioned are nowhere near Abuja. Not even Kigali. |
madjune:So, what makes you think that Nigerian American girls despite their educational and career achievements, their Nigerian heritage, family values and the likes are not different from the people you compared them with? |
madjune:Lol bro. I’ve been in the US for a while and I can tell you that Nigerian Americans are culturally different from Akitas. It depends on the personality tho but many of them(Nigerian Americans) do possess great qualities. The only BUT that you may have is that they are largely independent minded and they usually have high expectations - career, physical features, finance, spiritual life and stuff like that. |
madjune:Nigerian girls in the US are culturally different from Akata. Their worldviews and upbringing are different as well. https://www.nairaland.com/5953751/dating-nigerian-american-girls-united-states |
flyingpig:Lol bro. Hello @Trumptweet, I'm a Nigerian in the US and I created this thread some months ago about this topic. You may find it helpful. https://www.nairaland.com/5953751/dating-nigerian-american-girls-united-states In all, it depends on the personality of the girl you are talking to but over 90% of Nigerian-American girls are independent-minded. Just go through the thread. Cc Trumptweet |
nairavsdollars:The same LASU that was ranked the second best university in Nigeria and among the top 600 in the world by Times Higher Margazine(the best world university ranking) some weeks ago? |
ubunja:Chineke! But that's bullshit. The same agreement she signed and didn't complain afterward. She will now turn around years later to claim she signed it under duress? Why didn't she come out to make the claims immediately? Na wa oh |
ubunja:What about prenuptial agreement? |
larryking540:There is no dialogue that can halt the proclivity of people to commit crimes. We Nigerians need to hold ourselves accountable. You can't go to other people's countries and be scamming them and expect them to tolerate it. Nigerians need to stop this ”get rich by all means attitude”. This is not about the government here -I’ve seen many Nigerians misbehave here in the US for greedy and stu.pid reasons. |
Kubernetes:There are many Nigerian doctors and engineers in Dubai. The issue here is the Nigerians who go online to justify internet fraud. This creates the perception that Nigerians support internet fraud and the integrity of the average Nigerian will hence be questioned. |
Nwaide01:Blame fool..ish Nigerians who go online to justify the activities of Hush Puppi and co - neglecting the fact that foreigners read their comments. |
asunmoGGMU:My brother, God will bless you for this comment. I’m a Nigerian in the diaspora and I can tell you that until Nigerians stop this behavior of greed and getting rich at all costs, we will continue to face this discrimination. People will blame bad governance in Nigeria - but they leave Naija and still come to the West to do fraud(instead of working legit) because they want to ride Benz and live lavishly. And some morons will still blame corrupt leaders as if Nigeria is the only country with corrupt leaders in the world. Nonsense! ![]() |
anonymous1759:The issue here is that people in those other countries don't come online to justify fraud but many stu.pid Nigerians will come on social media to praise Hush Puppi and other greedy miscreants that have ruined the reputation of the country abroad. When the news of Nigerians getting arrested for fraud trend across the world, foreigners will think it’s being perpetrated by just a few Nigerians but by the time they see the comments of many Nigerians justifying fraud on social media -then they will begin to look at Nigerians from the same lens. Until Nigerians stop justifying internet fraud under any guise, we will continue to face this unfair discrimination. |
Babathanks:These have nothing to do with the government but the fool.ish citizens who go online to justify fraud. Foreigners read those comments and they take note of them. Which other country do you see their citizens justifying fraud online under any guise? |
MARKone:God will bless you for this comment. They keep blaming the govt but the issue here is greed and impatience. If it's about government and opportunities, then Naija people abroad won't engage in fraud. It's the urge to drive Benz and buy a house in Lekki overnight. |
strangest:The issue here is that Russians don't come online to justify fraud but many stu.pid Nigerians will come on social media to praise Hush Puppi and other greedy miscreants that have ruined the reputation of the country abroad. When the news of Nigerians getting arrested for fraud trend across the world, foreigners will think it’s being perpetrated by just a few Nigerians but by the time they see the comments of many Nigerians justifying fraud on social media -then they will begin to look at Nigerians from the same lens. |
Tatashi:Smh. It’s hard to find a white guy who will be romantically attracted to a newly arrived Nigerian girl. |
thebosstrevor1:So, every Nigerian who dates outside of his race needs a green card? I’ve been in the US for years now and most of my friends who married whites or African Americans are already US citizens who don't need any freakin green card. So, if I marry a white girl now, it automatically means I need papers? The issue here has to do with the way Nigerian girls abroad treat guys during their lows. |
azmanaty02:There are hundreds of thousands of Nigerian men in North America. How many of them have killed their wives? 10 incidents out of over 200,000 scenarios is statistically insignificant. |
Mbdovey:What he meant was that if you tell a Nigerian girl that you don't know how to drive yet or that you just arrived here, she will stop chatting with you because she thinks you are below her standard. But a foreign babe will still try to accommodate you and grow with you. |
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Petyprincess:Madam, not every Nigerian who is dating a white or AA girl in the US needs a green card. I have friends who have been here for decades(with a US passport) and they will tell you that they can never date Naija girls and their condescending behavior. As a Nigerian in the US, I’ve always preferred ending up with a fellow Nigerian because I just love that Naija aura; spirit and energy but most of the Nigerian girls I met when I first arrived here were so cocky, condescending and unapproachable. However, I think age plays a big factor. If you were born here(a Nigerian - American) or you came here at a relatively young age(below 23), it's somewhat easier to find a life partner. Maybe if you came here for college or grad school - you can easily find a partner while in school. Nevertheless, many Nigerian girls in America tend to waste their chances by being unrealistic when they are still below the age of 25. Many of them easily look down on people and they play themselves later on. Let me tell you a story. I have this friend of mine who lives in New York - he was born and raised in Naija. He came here for his Master’s and when he first arrived - he wanted a Nigerian girl by all means but most of the Nigerian girls around him then looked down on him. They saw him as a ”fresher” who had a thick accent, weird dressing, and all those kinds of stuff. I had a similar experience with some Nigerian girls too but his own experience was worse. When the guy was struggling in the US - none of these girls offered any friendship/support because they all felt he was not within their illusionary standard. The only people that supported him were the foreigners in his graduate school. But the guy who was talented. He worked hard at Columbia University and he eventually got a top investment job with JP Morgan. This my guy earns ridiculous six figures amount almost every month now. But do you know most of the Naija girls who looked down on him all tried to be friends with him after he was featured by Bloomberg business report? Can you imagine such nonsense! Why did they suddenly find him attractive now? Well, the guy is currently dating the white girl that stood by him when he first arrived in New York but he still told me last month that he had always preferred a Nigerian babe but life happens. What if those Naija girls had even given him a chance of being their friend? What if they had tried to know him and not just judge him based on his looks as a struggling freshly arrived immigrant? Nigerian girls in North America keep looking for finished products when they themselves are not in any way ready-made. They want guys that are 6-4 tall, beards, cars, houses, and all of those fleeting things at the same time. It's a wrong mentality to have and that's why most of them are still single. Life is a process. You don't expect men to have achieved 90% of their life goals when you meet them. People grow! A guy may not be muscular today but he can look like Anthony Joshua after spending some months in the gym. People need to understand the fact that life is a process. Then, we can take it from there. Many of them are also intoxicated with this whole feminist stuff. See, as I am, I can cook by myself and I probably don't need a wife who knows how to cook. But do you know what? I’ve had female friends who are East Africans, black Americans, and whites who cook Nigerian food and give them to me. My friends who date these foreigners enjoy Nigerian food made by these foreign girls. Yet, our Nigerian ”sisters” will be shouting up and down that it is not their duty to cook in the family. I know how to cook but I also want a wife who is homely. If I don't see these qualities in any girl of Nigerian descent but the qualities are present in a Kenyan girl or a white girl, why should I marry a Nigerian girl? The incentive is not there! Some foreign girls even embody Naija qualities than the so-called Naija girls. Cc lionlee216 |
Mbdovey:As a Nigerian in the US, I’ve always preferred ending up with a fellow Nigerian because I just love that Naija aura; spirit and energy but most of the Nigerian girls I met when I first arrived here were so cocky, condescending and unapproachable. However, I think age plays a big factor. If you were born here(a Nigerian - American) or you came here at a relatively young age(below 23), it's somewhat easier to find a life partner. Maybe if you came here for college or grad school - you can easily find a partner while in school. Nevertheless, many Nigerian girls in America tend to waste their chances by being unrealistic when they are still below the age of 25. Many of them easily look down on people and they play themselves later on. Let me tell you a story. I have this friend of mine who lives in New York - he was born and raised in Naija. He came here for his Master’s and when he first arrived - he wanted a Nigerian girl by all means but most of the Nigerian girls around him then looked down on him. They saw him as a ”fresher” who had a thick accent, weird dressing, and all those kinds of stuff. I had a similar experience with some Nigerian girls too but his own experience was worse. When the guy was struggling in the US - none of these girls offered any friendship/support because they all felt he was not within their illusionary standard. The only people that supported him were the foreigners in his graduate school. But the guy who was talented. He worked hard at Columbia University and he eventually got a top investment job with JP Morgan. This my guy earns ridiculous six figures amount almost every month now. But do you know most of the Naija girls who looked down on him all tried to be friends with him after he was featured by Bloomberg business report? Can you imagine such nonsense! Why did they suddenly find him attractive now? Well, the guy is currently dating the white girl that stood by him when he first arrived in New York but he still told me last month that he had always preferred a Nigerian babe but life happens. What if those Naija girls had even given him a chance of being their friend? What if they had tried to know him and not just judge him based on his looks as a struggling freshly arrived immigrant? Nigerian girls in North America keep looking for finished products when they themselves are not in any way ready-made. They want guys that are 6-4 tall, beards, cars, houses, and all of those fleeting things at the same time. It's a wrong mentality to have and that's why most of them are still single. Life is a process. You don't expect men to have achieved 90% of their life goals when you meet them. People grow! A guy may not be muscular today but he can look like Anthony Joshua after spending some months in the gym. People need to understand the fact that life is a process. Then, we can take it from there. Many of them are also intoxicated with this whole feminist stuff. See, as I am, I can cook by myself and I probably don't need a wife who knows how to cook. But do you know what? I’ve had female friends who are East Africans, black Americans, and whites who cook Nigerian food and give them to me. My friends who date these foreigners enjoy Nigerian food made by these foreign girls. Yet, our Nigerian ”sisters” will be shouting up and down that it is not their duty to cook in the family. I know how to cook but I also want a wife who is homely. If I don't see these qualities in any girl of Nigerian descent but the qualities are present in a Kenyan girl or a white girl, why should I marry a Nigerian girl? The incentive is not there! Some foreign girls even embody Naija qualities than the so-called Naija girls. |
NwaNimo1:Buhari is the immediate past chairman of ECOWAS. |
SmartyPants:Don't mind many of these people who have not traveled across Nigeria and the world in general. There are more opportunities in Nigeria than Ghana. I’ve worked in many of these countries before as a consultant and I laugh when I see Nigerians throw their country under the bus. Nigeria is struggling in different areas but it still has the greatest economic potential in Africa. Most parts of Ghana(apart from Accra and parts of Kumasi) cannot stand near most Nigerian cities. There is high rate of poverty and inequality in Ghana as well. |
Torture2020:There is no way Ghana is 1,000 times better than Nigeria. I was worked as a consultant with a Ghanaian firm before moving to North America. Nigeria is still the largest economy in Africa. Based on my experience working as a consultant in over 20countries, the Nigerian environment is volatile but Nigeria has more to offer than any other African country. Check World Bank data. |

