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Ningen:
When it comes to cheating, IT IS.

But what do I know, after all... Some of you have been brainwashed to totally condone cheating.

She divorces him and then what? She stays alone all through her life or probably finds another man who would cheat on her?

Men who wouldn't flirt or cheat in this life while married are very few.

Sir, you will be a fool not to sack her immediately.

There are lots of reasons, professionally and otherwise to relive her of her job.

Don't listen to people who are saying mind your biz, of course, it's your business and you have to mind it very well.

Michelle55:
The earlier we learn to mind our business, the better it would be for us all..
Op, simply turn a blind eye like nothing happened, you don't have any right to snoop around her like that.. You are only her boss not her parents

Alright. Let's hope ur daughter won't be in her position in years to come and everyone minds their biz as she snuffs the life of her away.

Good right?

Amotolongbo:
We should learn how to separate business from personal life.

She is your sales girl, relate with her strictly on business and show less concern on her personal life.

The way I’m reading your message, there is already a growing emotion in you already towards the girl, the reason you felt so highly disappointed and wanna lay her off, not because she is underperforming but the way she chose to live her life, which should be less of your concern.

In as much she is performing her responsibilities to your satisfaction and not using her “wayward” life to affect your business like she did the first time she went for abortion, leave her alone.

The only reason why you can lay her off is if she goes on abortion again and that makes her to take a time out of work and underperforming.

Learner. Do you know she can die in his office one day as a result of her abortions and the owner of that shop lands in jail?

Ningen:
Life isn't complicated. Divorce is a choice.

Neither is it the first solution to every marital issue.

You people here just love recommending divorce to every marital issue like it's one grocery you get off the shelf in a supermarket.

abdsamad:
He didn't rally back
He was always a favourite in many of those places, period. It was kudos to his rivals, esp Bernie, for making him sweat.

In the end, the centrist Democrats stepped down and he beat Bernie with ease.

The man has no message and no plan except for "more of the same".
He's only there as white obama and even obama did not campaign for him

True, he lacks that depth people like Hillary and Obama have.

Nooil:
If you lack understanding after reading the Bible, pray to God to give you. I don't have the strength to argue. Bye!

Lol. You want to gaslight me, mba! You can't.

Did you read the previous verse that led to the discussion?

You picked out a verse that didn't correlate with the topic your post in an attempt to justify your own personal opinion and when questioned you japa!

You truly have understanding, typical feminine behaviour.

I don't like this guy but what inspires me from his story is; he lost the first primary at Iowa and New Hampshire, but rallied back to win the Democratic nomination. That's a champion stuff.

Hear him out


"It is important that Iowa and Nevada have spoken, but, look, we need to hear from Nevada and South Carolina and Super Tuesday and beyond,"

Never give up, even at your first trial, keep pushing.

Nooil:
Matthew 19:10-12

So my dear sister in the lord, who is an eunuch?

I have been to about 20 states in Nigeria, been to 5 Geo-political zones except the N.E and I can't tell you that Nigeria is a beautiful country.

But her leaders have soiled it with hate and tribalism and had/continues to use it's followers to stoke the polity.

She was pregnant.

She was single.

That's motive to kill.

Her bf should be questioned asap.

Nooil:
Pray to God to give you your husband. If He doesn't answer, it means you're destined to be single. If you force yourself on a man by getting pregnant for him, expect the worst.

Putting God and destined to be single in the same sentence is out of place.

For the thoughts he has for us are thoughts of good, to give us an expected end.

Why are people always scared to let people know that they are the ones in the story where they use fictional characters?

To your question, if I was the one, I would withhold the funds, it's for his own good, if not, he is gonna self destruct and lavish it on those girls.

Lol. OP is pulling you guys legs.

He never did such, he is a good fiction writer though.

Lol. You are still bothered about what people say in this 2020?

My dear, give no f**k as long as you live a responsible life.

PresidentBuhari:
Can anyone advise which Investment I can go for with a cash sum of N24 million currently laying idle in my bank account, I am thinking of buying this egg below, it has always been my dream to own it, the current cost f the car is N23 million, is this a good investment ot what do you suggest?

Yowa!

You don get am for Mercedes, get am for private jet, Aboki, carry go!! Your fi-full are solidy behind you.

My own concern is how to invest in your feed mill biz and become a shareholder/Partner.

These days I'm even scared of my fellow men.

The heart of man is truly desperate and wicked.

OP, you said you are 22, damn!!

That's a head start, don't panic, you are right on track.

NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!

Barrytone:
Don't look at the amount but rather look at your lifestyle. Always remember that someone is earning far less than you yet survives. Go learn how he does it and rebrand your lifestyle. I work in an oil company but prefer to live at the rate of a civil servant except that I own properties and drive good cars and do philanthropy, the rest, am a "low life nigga" (I don't know what it means) but am enjoying myself and live is fun. If a civil servant can build a house, feed family and even drive car with a hundred thousand naira salary then I can use 100k and save whatever is left. When I was in school and during my jobless days, I was designers freak but as I type, the last time I went shopping was 2016 in UK, till date I still have clothes wrap up in their packet. Set your priorities right and you will start saving effortlessly.

You mentioned a civil servant, that's one person in over 200 million people. 200 million people with different scenarios and situations, you can't lump them all together.

What about those spending 70% of their income on transportation, with dependents not even including utilities and rent and still gets owed.

You are talking about lifestyle, have you been to the bus stops and seen what people wear? Worn out trousers and shoes still trying to get to work.

Many people don't even feed well, see them looking all tired skinny and emaciated, is that the people you are asking to save?

People don't even live in Lagos anymore, yet come from the outskirts of Mowe, Ibafo, Sango Ota to Lagos and collect 30-50k, what's left to save?

Theconglomerate:
Poverty capital no mean say you no go save.
Everyone cannot save 10k a month.Even if na 2k,it is something.

May God continue to bless us to go higher.

That's just my prayer for everyone.

Talk is cheap. Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world and many more negative stats.

I don't want to say much, those who can save should save.

rationalmind:
The only reality I can see is, whoever wants to save will save.

Like many others have mentioned, the worker in the example you gave will still survive on a monthly wage of 25k.

I overheard "my house" security( a boy of 23 years) tell someone he wants to open another bank account because the one he has is not a regular account and it just hit a threshold that prevents him from depositing any further money. I don't know how much he has in the said account but a similar account with Diamond bank back in the days had a maximum of N500,000

His salary? N15,000 naira monthly.

Alright then.

You have decided to see it from your lenses only.

EricSmallz:
You think say Masters na Montesorri ? Or Nursery school? Somebody not get money, you dey talk of Masters, I no understand Nigerians o. Because God bless some of una with parents wey dey okay, una no dey see life from another angle at all. You expect somebody like me that was doing brick molding job to go through university, to now be looking for masters when I haven't gotten any reasonable thing to do abi? Na by force to advice person?
OP I pray you find a connection. My biggest regret is not balling properly in the Uni, just because they said I should try and make 2:1.
After the 2.1 nobody has ever asked me what my grade is when I submit my CV. Na Shango go punish our leaders wey turn Naija like this

You took the words from my mouth.

Savings is good, it's important but not necessary, why?

Savings can be defined mathematically as:
Income less Expenditure.

If income isn't sufficient to take care of expenses (basic expenses like food, shelter and clothing) then savings shouldn't be expected.

Let's face reality, how much can the average worker save from a monthly wage of 30k?

deleson:
Wikipedia isn’t the best reference for issues of factuality.

It’s a open-source platform that can be edited and perhaps manipulated by anyone...No serious researcher relies on Wiki.

All the best!

Wikipedia isn't a good place to source statistical data. The CBN's website is best.

C505:
Good morning

Please I need the gurus to help me settle this matter.

With the help of a member here, i'm trying to delve into octafx and then this came up

I have 5M and a colleague equally has 5M and we're trying to pool funds together to get a 13 ton trailer for logistics purpose. Made inquiry and we're likely to get one for 6.5M.

My colleague has an old school mate who works at boulox. After an appointment with her, she is eager to help us once we get the trailer and then she'll put us through. Although she made mention of 4 criteria they require which I honestly can't remember. But I'm very aware one is insurance of 2m per trip if my memory serves me well

My question is what are the challenges we're most likely to face owning a truck? Is 10M enough to start up without downsides?

Drivers!! Drivers!! Drivers!! Drivers!! Drivers!!

Maintenance!! Maintenance!! Maintenance!!

Modified:
If you don't mind I can send you a PM. We were once into Haulage as a family biz and I'm currently working with a top Transport/Haulage Co. in Lagos.

jahlove4jah:
He did a good job to realize that this post was just cooked up to seek attention. Because if his quoted post. I decided to dig deep on sagna profile and realized a lot of foul play. Like he was advised, he went a deleted his diary post that sold him out. He deleted Hus post on health but he couldn't the qouted parts. He is just out to chase clout.

True, his story didn't add up.

And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart.
Genesis 6:6 KJV