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taio luv:
@ poster, let me tell me my experiencce. I like a guy very much n he too like me bt I wanted more from him, I invited him to my house and explain to him hw I felt abut him n want a lover, d guy wz so matured by letting me know dat all he wants from me wz my friendship, I felt so bad but afta dat day my mind wz at peace wt our friendship,I had to let go and I finally move on to get anoda date, we are still good friends up til now and no akwardness btwn us, so pls make your feelings show to him, it is either a yes or no, and dos word can make u stronger in future.cheers

Thanks for sharing your experience. There is nothing wrong in making a mistake, no one is perfect. Having a matured discussion is different from asking out. At least the issue is not sitting on your throat again, you have moved on, he didn't take advantage of you becos there was friendship first so there is a little loyalty & trust amongst you 2. You are still alive, that is the most impt thing.

Scash:

*crying seriously*
i got no one!!!
Baaaaaaaahhhhh

I see you are very nice around here so I give you the matured & responsible one that might lead to marriage if handled properly. You would so buy me roses later. Guess what, he is single

Scash & Roland17.

May these 2 be the next Xyner & Sky in Jesus name, Amen.

Hmm for real. There are Sa Go To and there are Le Te Ye. So which of grps?

^^U don't like

Ok whisper who u want & I will edit asap.

[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=768654.msg9226106#msg9226106 date=1317075023]cuddlemi in the making, [/quote]Its bed time, im feeling sleepy. early to bed, early to rise. come back tomorrow. sleep tight & let the bugs bite.

bhusayor:
Lol @cuddlemii, I love the 'pick and drop' line

Bhubaby,

Inspired by the hairstyle O. I loved it back then . How are u? its been a while

^^Uncle ke. Before it enter grandpopsy cuddles, let me go wallow. Good night mentor & stay off drugs

^^^ It happens all the time, I forgive u. I have even been called daddy too

@mrbrownjay, did u refer to me as bro

MRbrownJAY:
again you are misunderstanding my location. . . . . .  . just because i love me some killa coochie, doesnt mean that A) any sexy looking gal has one or B) that i will automatically believe that a sexy dressed woman should hand over the toto (just because thats what i like)

we all know that some of the "lesser" fine women are some of the more rewarding in the bedroom. their lack of fine exquisite beauty will have them work EXTRA HARD in the bedroom to compensate the difference. lol

I don't think you know how the bolded sounds, I almost fell off my chair. Please abeg don't put word like that together again, cracked me up.

Hmmm A line from the second poetry I wrote here:

You come hurting, I keep watching

The person knows itself, someone warn someone O!!!!

Dyt:
Mthchew
she did nottin
i 4kd Reality on d 1st few sec we metMthchew
she did nottin
i 4kd Reality on d 1st few sec we met

No one can beat your record, Its platinum & a best seller till date

^^specify xyner, biko who are u referring to before I shakabula u right this minute.

This thread was calved from hallucination,  I must say. Men have got some nerves. Its not bad enuf that you do it now you are telling us how to get you to retire from it. Do you think its all ladies that center their life around men, no work or lucrative things to do? Who has time to be montoring a man's pick & drop when I can wear it on my hair.

If 2 adults love themselves & want to be together then thats cool but when you have to play too many games to win a guy from other girls then that is stupidity, just be you & if you are meant to be, you will be. What if you act up all what the op listed above and the guy picks the chick that fights on the main road so all your pleasing was just a waste. Enough with the rules bullshit, lets talk about ladies & business for a change & let men bother about their crotch distribution.

So we should act like saints to keep a guy , then he should be diving into chicks till we win, yeah right what is the guaranty that the other ladies won't win. Let the guy's too try their best to please us too for a change and the best man win. Trim my lawn, do my manicure, give me a massage and check the meat on the fire, I might consider u too, still don't know mother nature won't switch roles for 1 day, lets see if men can condone a taste of their own medicine.

Are men God? Why so much power  arrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhh (Now I am beginning to sound crazy, please I am not a psycho neither have I ever been in a psychatric institution no was I stood up at the altar or was I molested at 2 months old. Please Im normal )

tellwisdom:
Oboy eyeh!. e serious dy

Norrin do u, chop knuckle jor

Jamisi 

Mo weave it, some matrix sturvs. Just keep it real dawg!!!

trodon:
@all, I arrived in canada on the 24th of Sept. I received my TRV on the 20th and I travelled on the 23rd. It was so sudden and i was to busy moving out of my apartment and booking my flight.
Prior to this i hardly ever contributed in this forum ( cos i didn't know wat to say) but i did share in the joy of those who received their TRV. For all those still waiting, i pray dat may de good Lord cause is to arrive speedily in Jesus name, amen.

@cuddlemii, how far? Looks to me they are processing according to start date. Mine is 26th of sept.

@tolyem, i sent u another mail

Ehen its now you are telling us abi? After 7 days? Anyways congrats dear, I am happy for you. Still waiting on the Lord but I am a little relaxed, what will be will be jare. Take care of u and please face ur studies & look less unlike the rest.

Basildon1:
this thread should be cancelled, 3 pages of shyt posts with nothin relating to the topic!! Good Lawd!

You can stand out be writing something lucrative & worth reading rather than insult happy people. Just be you & do your thing. Do justice to the question!!!

Goldieluks:
What's Jamisi? Big head.

Break it down for. Tell me whats up? Tell what time it is? What is happening in town? Give me the infor, the 411, the latest/ Whatagwan? Whats popping? Show us the way etc. Its a Yoruba word or slang.

^^We love you for her and on her behalf dear.

That is the problem with marriage-predetermined events & assumptions. There are no rules, laws or secrets to marriage. Problems might spring up from other angles. Just live your life the best way you can & leave the rest to God. You can't please everybody but you can live life easy. A marriage should be a learning institution on its own, the expectation is the problem. The only thing is that all individual irrespective of whether they are married or not should have a good behavior, a good heart & the fear of God. Don't because of marriage start acting a certain way, if you have always lived a good life, it would reflect in your marriage as you are not forcing it, its already a part of you.

Thank God for bringing two mad characters to this place Lefulefu & tellwisdom, thank you for the entertainment, I always look forward it. Your broken English makes it real & fun, keep up the comic relief on here. One love Una 4 much!!!!

Goldieluks:
Is he really married? The Op,because he seem not to have a limit in women.oooh antelope sabi jump well.

I tire O. Its 25th century marriage. Anyways its better to speak than act
How are you dear? Missed you, its been a lonely night

@op

I swear I got lost & forgot the topic. Your use of words can distract a reader from the true message of your topic. I love the way you put it together- simple but rich. I don't even know if you are a man, woman, counselor or an unbiased stranger.

We also don't know if its about you, a general question or about someone you know. I really like it & I think you should take up writing.

@op

Na open marriage u dey. Leave the road for bachelors to scope na haba. U dey live for lekki & not ajegunle, u make history by marrying a sexy babe from nland, u come show us say your testicles dey intact by forming baby junior. wetin again u want. Bros, I hate tortoise o, na everything u want ni, leave show 4 d boys, u don old abeg. u no fit give sis maris from love parish catholic church lift ni, na crazy babette u wan carry, take your time. she saw your ring & waka far, babes wan marry, chuk days r over.

As goldie sang it, "i see u wanna touch my body, don't touch my body, jojo"

hmm what class is that pls, I want enroll in it asap. Hope it doesn't teach flings. I wld prefer kickbacks.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=768107.msg9219644#msg9219644 date=1317010132]I dont mean to blow my own horn but. . . .[/quote]

IZUKWU:
why are you hiding your face.

^^ U r a married man, u cant be paired dt would mean extra marital affairs. sorry all u can do is grab a bite or eat pop corn while u watch

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=767337.msg9216687#msg9216687 date=1316964856][/quote]I got ur back twinny

rokiatu:
LOL that was a joke oo.
Please I am not a home breaker.

You guys are the perfect couple.

Wise cat, you just don't want to take that fall, hmm ok will come back prepared next time.

He has been stalking u ever since. U might wanna tone down ur pix, it has distracted my man final final oooo

lefulefu:
you and your mouth sef

wetin? my mouth swallow u

u go church today so? u need to commit urself to the almighty so he can wash away ur sins and ur thinking towards women.

harakiri:
Another reason why I keep hammering that there is nothing like "just friends" between an adult male and female unless he's man-lover,impotent,she's hideously ugly or deformed. Apart from that, it's only a matter of time before the inevitable happens. People just prefer to delude themselves all in the name of being "civilized" and "enlightened". Study broken relationships and marriages and you'll notice that the individuals they start seeing are the "friends" they had all along. The way and manner human beings choose to delude themselves never fails to shock me.

Well I used to have male friends and we had nothing for each other. The advantage of having friends of the opposite sex is to learn about the opposite sex and how to apply that knowledge to all your dealing with the opposite sex. I was able to get trick & tactics of guys, how they think, what they like & dislike, their slangs, their runs, paroles etc. So I don't 100% percent agree with you.

I still have few male friends though, I know their chick well & they knew my bobo too, some even graduated to marriage with their chicks and I didn't try to spoil it in fact I inspired them to take the babes seriously.

But ever since I started browsing Nland, I started thinking along the line of what you are saying. Most threads, stories and generalizations only show that there can't be any platonic relationships amongst adult male & female because the human mind now is weak, possessive, greedy, self fish & lacks loyalty & trust. Some don't even mind dating their close friend's partner and they do it in the disguise of friendship. No true friendship these days because all union have motives and self interest, what we have is a fallacy or decoy to achieve goals/wants/desires.