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Roland17:
@cuddle
Am sorry pretty, i have been busy with my xams, but thank God am through now, i have also been looking out for u, i trust u are doing great. cheers.

Pretty, I wish! Anyways best of luck with your exams dear. I am doing great, its good to have u back.

Roland17:
Samuel had been in a relationship with his girl for 3 years, she was a virgin and wanted Samuel to wait until they got married before they can start Being Intimate, my friend was true to his promise, he never asked for sex for three years, this does not mean he did not feel the urge, but he was in love with her and wanted to marry her, so he respected her opinion and was able to hold himself.

Both were very dedicated and committed to the relationship as they could vouch for each others faithfulness and loyalty, everybody around knew them very well. Problem started when he was issued a visa to pursue a 5 yr degree course in the united states, distance punished the relationship severely, to cut the story short, they parted amicably, not without tears, grief and sometimes anger.

she was getting older, she ended up getting married to another guy as she could not wait, the guy played along well for the period they were dating, after they got married, she said the guy changed, she describes the guy as an animal. she already has 3 kids for her husband and has vowed to remain in the marriage.

Now all she says is Samuel deserved her Virginity more than her husband, because he was a rare breed of man and wished she allowed him disvirgin her before he traveled.

So ladies i ask, is it every husband that deserves a ladies virginity?

hello rowland, its been a while. Just checking up on you. take care.

nofran:
@ All

Praaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiissssssseeeeee the Lord! I got it today ooooo; God has shown that He is never late and I speak to everyone that is in the waiting list from the faith I have in Christ Jesus that your time is already here. Hold on to God, He will come through for you! Its a GIVEN!

That's what I am talking about! Yessssssss God is good. Y'all should BE OVER AND DONE WITH FOR my unique start date abeg. I ain't sharing my Oct month with anyone. Congrats and pay dues cos I always pray for the week. I can imagine your dance steps right now, let me leave u to do the creep walk. take care

Hmmm. No latest news yet. This wait is really scary but God dey sha.

pendo89:
chop its head off. Find a way. People are writing essays now and this thing might crash.

U are referring to me? I am out of your air babes. I was just doing an epilogue [b][/b]

lovedgal:
Maybe read through the thread properly before coming from nowhere and basing your perception from maybe just the previous post before yours.

Actually I saw your first post before you edited so I was advising based on that, only I didn't quote. So now that the story has changed, I will just observe & digest so I won't come from nowhere again. My bad. Sorry!

mirob:
This said guy might not be her dad but he is the man that says he loves her and he's suppossed to know when his girl needs support and help her out, after im papa no dey bleep am naa,and if d girl says no sex till after marriage he will start to complain. Nairalanders face reality here please.

Quit giving so much power to men. Bleeping takes 2 to tango so it’s a mutual thing. Who makes more noise? F Who does more of the sweating? M. So if a girl is not enjoying it she would not participate in it. Some babes even date a guy to wear him out in that department. That is not a yardstick, a lady can't touch herself or use plastic even the ones that deceive themselves that it’s pleasing, if you look closely they always look aged. The right thing is sex between man & woman. Ladies Be Intimate because they want to and not like they are forced to. Some ladies know from day one who they are going to hit so leave all that.  The only thing is the emotion, feelings & energy involved in making a relationship work that a woman plays a vital role in. So that invested effort from women hurts them.

It’s still not compulsory to be in a relationship. If you feel you are not getting preferential treatment, you step!!


I like that song though.

No romance without finance
U got to have job, if you wanna be with me
U look good to me but your pocket looks empty  

I am even dancing cos I downloaded it after I saw your comment. I have to get up and groove to the beat. Nice beats.
But babes this song is old school, that school of thought has faded.

@op

I hate it when women tie their advancement or achievements to men. What is wrong with the term, "Yes I can"? Must your man be your soul provider? What is wrong with your own independence? Fine I am not supporting a man to be stingy but sometimes men only help women who can handle their own or who are independent & hardworking. I think your man is holding to his money because he sweat for it and he probably knows you won't do proper justice to that money. It’s even wrong to collect petty money from men, so that when you need help with better things they have no excuse.

Secondly, when you knew you needed a CBN guy, why didn't you date a cheerful giver? Or the fowlers, Sanusis or Ibrus. That's the problem with incompatibility, people date out of desperation or a bid to feel among or belong. When you knew what you wanted, you should have gone for that rather than complain later. Ladies would never tell you when the going is good, it’s when things are cut short that they start complaining to the world. Is it by force to be in a relationship? Is it by force to worry yourself about a man. Don't you have your Self development to work on?

Thirdly, how long do you want to depend on a man for money? God forbid if he is no more what happens? You would go to his grave and rip him off his jewelry & even sell his coffin if the need arises. Women need to find a way to make their money. If you get extra from men then it’s your luck or a bonus from God. And if you are lucky to marry a money bag, fine but remember all hands are not equal & everyone's destiny is different. It’s possible your own head is to attract stingy men, you should Thank God in all situation. Some babes attract men that they feed on them & their household, pay their bills & still lay their back down for 4 rounds daily.

I will let you on a little secret; men don't spend on cheap babes. You have to be independent & self sufficient to even attract a generous guy. The poor babes that get lucky and get a rich guy, it’s as a result of their hustle & hard work like selling pepper, sell food stuffs in the market for their parent, they weave hair by the road side, make nails etc & they compliment it with a homely & domesticated character. The rich men are impressed with their hard work & struggle as it shows they would be good managers of funds & a home well. Even prostitution as bad as it sounds is a job and they are better than an educated babe waiting for her guy to spend on her. If he is not spending, kick him to the curb and spend your money, period.

Some babes go to juju men to be able to secure a man with lots of money. Fools, why can't you ask the juju man to get you a business of your own & make you rich? Everything must be man related with ladies. I blame it on the naija society that taught dependence & not independence. This is even evident in all other genres of the society ills like Mentorship & Protégé (Godfatherism in politics), Oppression & Gender Discrimination/Limitation, Cultism, Peer Pressure, Aristocratism (Exchange for Exchange theory), Fraud, Human Trafficking & Disparity between the Bourgeoisie & Proletariat, False prophets exploiting the masses because people think their miracle lies with a man that climbs the altar & doesn’t give alms to the poor or give back to the public or even sick people. Instead of people having a relationship directly with God free of charge, it’s even better to depend on God and give to the starving populace.  

@claremont, huh what r u doing in travels. Wow so evil be it stories or rumour does spread.

@topic
I was out all day so no calls yet and nothing wrong with me. Is this suppose to be boko haram inspired or just Naija promoting backwardness as usual.

@pendo I like the length and breadth at which we go to pass our messages across. But I also learnt these few days on how to manage pple here and have fun. So you can't outrightly say there r no single girls here even they are just 3. I have been fine jare and you? So are you engaged or married? U know u always avoid this question.

@Mr cork

Hahahahaha.U are battling a lady, U must be small sized. Thot they called you a gentleman, does that apply only in bedmatics. Didn't know nayah was ur girl oh, was just passing a comment to her. Sorry Sir!

@Cipriani,

I fall into that category because I have like 2000 and something posts so mehn I have been single since the first decade. But recently my post dropped, I am single but researching. You dt has been insultive in all threads just joined the singles club rather than rebound sex, you have been exhibiting rebound bashing on we that are even clueless of what is happening to u. Get it off your chest, let us help you rest, feel free to cry on our broad chest.

@nayah
I am so eager for u to get that old to be where I am oh. Will trade my 4 boys to u, lol. Cerelac is not enough, u have what I don't have. Oh they chuckle at ur sight already. Have u met their god father sexkillz and god aunts pendo, goldie and dyt.

@chukie 94
Where did u get that info from? You guys and ur negative talk. All these bad talk can even contribute. Wait till u get ur application. Is anyone at the embassy? For the only good point amen to all the Nland applicants but I won't lie I didn't bargain for all these but nothing good comes easy even that which u hv been seeing.

Forgive my typo, I am using a phone so I will edit accordingly when I get in front of a PC.

@pendo, u r my friend and I love you so much so don't be offended by my comment. I will be real. Quit your assumptions that babes on here are not single or searching bla bla bla. I have ignored romance second but ur comment attracted me back. Babes, when ladies are in a relationship, they won't be here all the time. They would want to be with their men or at least do good by them or look good for them. Do a research at the babes that come online all the time, the ones that keep uploading pix etc. Trust me a lot of searching ladies just that ladies from africa are very deceptive. As for men, trust me not all are single cos their body system was built cleverly so that they can even come online whilst on top of their women. No lady would prefer typing keys to the mere touch of her man except for boredom, loneliness etc. Any lady that constantly denies these facts is in denial. What the heck its a faceless forum so let's call a spade a spade, at the end anonymous beings don't care. Its ok to be single and its ok to find love on the moon as far as you are happy and good. I am also always on the defense but the truth lies within my heart. I think Nayah is the only lady who doesn't deny or accept anything,I like her open nature and accomodating way. Op, nayah is the answer and you can never go wrong with a cuddle from those babies.

@dennyflex,
Dunno but I am sure you would get a response soon from others.

@all
Any updates. Anyone at the embassy?

Congrats lee baby. See I am always saying it that this week would be a testimony and then pple start coming online and declaring the word of God. My mouth is blessed. God is great. Sept peeps shld do abeg so I can get mine too. I will keep up with the week wld be blessed talk but my time everybody better say the same. Ask and it shall be given unto theem