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bekay911:
ME, MYSEF AND I IS ALL I GOT AND AM GONNA BE MA OWN BEST FRIEND wen it comes to OWO

Tosinville:
Fukc extended family, i'll conceal it and share it only with my nuclear family.

9dynasty:
why in the world would i share with her family extended for that matter. . mind you i found the money my self. . .i'll make sure she's properly buried, take 2 weeks vacation in hawaii and live happily ever after. . .lol

Na wa oh. $100m is too much. Why can't you share it to their extended family

This story is not quite realistic. Are you saying for 6 years both of you were never in a relationship with others. I mean the guy was single for 6 years. Just be sure he is single .

Anyways let me find a way around it for you. After being in a friendship for 6 years then you should be able to address anything with that person. I suggest you have a matured discussion with him, not necessarily asking him out. Just tell him in lay man's language that you guys have been friends for a while, you adore & respect him a lot, you have fallen for him and wonder why both of you are not in a relationship considering the special bond you already share. Ask what is his take on that, does he feel the same & what do you both do about the feelings & tension building up. Trust me if he is as intelligent & matured as you paint him to be, he won't mock you or gossip about it because you are his close friend. He will take it up from there, just start the paragraph & let him finish it then both of you put the full stop together. But don't write the whole paragraph so that he can express himself & you can read between his lines, body language and actions. If he is my kind of guy, he would kiss you for expressing your feelings and say "shhhh, my angel don't talk too much, I feel it too, you know I have always cared and you know, you are my baby". If the emotions are too much, you can start crying cos 6 years is some deep stuffs, you might wanna get handkerchiefs around you. Find a romantic place to do the expressing or do it where both of you first met, just do it right.
Don't get carried away O, just a kiss please, remember you have gotten his attention, now you have to keep it .

please disregard the romantics and work on the advice & location of the discussion, if possible if a place that is not close to a bed, or chair, do it on a stool, something you can't rest on. please I'm a clown so take not of only relevant stuffs. Best of luck with luv, lola luv.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=766680.msg9204290#msg9204290 date=1316775910]ok ma. whats the topic? [/quote]You are indirectly a pain in the ar/se.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=766680.msg9203985#msg9203985 date=1316773421]Cuddlemii. sweeery did you fall off a chair this morning? [/quote]dearie, nothing to inherit here. stick to topic

Happy Birthday. Happy Birth. Happy day. As in Happy Birthday. Happy Birthday etc, Happy Birthday or, Happy, Birthday, You are happy because of? Birthday, thats it. Happy Birthday Bye.

Since when did this place become a market place. I suspect op is a guy trying to mess up the female gender. Op, you have failed. It might even be Lefulefu, Tell wisdom & yeye4 life. Or he is part of them, quadruplets. Please just ask you parent to leave the rest behind or avoid each other, the breeding is too much.

JUO:
please brothers and sisters take your time to read through this write up and remember this Bible quote Matthew 24:9.
these people are fulfilling Bible prophecies gradually

Who are you? How did you get this material? I am so scared, I need to be held before I break down.

lamide11:
loll ooo ok,

When is ur start date?

lefulefu:
Being back to naija is always the best time of my life.Me and my white girlfriend sometimes would take a stroll out in the streets and i would wear my starched jeans and expensive suit with blings on and omo just see as all the naija babes go dey chew their mouth with jealousy .Some of the guys would be tripping for my white girlfriend and offering to buy drinks for us on their tab and the naija babes would just be eyeing me and giving me da evil look when i am in a hot kissing session with my white babe .Damm it yoo! life is so good

Akuzurumba 1 of igodomigodo kingdom,

u suppose put your pix on Nairaland so we can see the swags. Dis guy u sure say you dey ok so, make him no be say you steal blackbuddy for under bridge, you wan exhaust all the BIS before im expire so you just dey open thread anyhow make you sef tell ur agbero sey u be nna in the making (okoro wanna bubble), u don arrive, very soon na kiwi u go use dey shine ur swede. sofily sofily O, u go wound o.

lamide11:
@ cuddlemii, really, wen did u get urs??, nd no i wasnt ask nythin, jst told me to precipitate bck on monday

They havent given me yet O. I meant the correspondence I got from them my first name was wrong. They called me Evelyn. Abeg change your post O

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=765179.msg9199635#msg9199635 date=1316709265]Cuddlemii. Sweeeery you want me to post £3 (Cash) to you? Am a nice guy, actually![/quote] Send it to charity. I don't know if Little saint orphanage is still functioning. But that change would go a long way for their candies .

lamide11:
@ Epicwin, hv been to the embassy, actually wat happned was that i was given a wrong file number,  so i was getin info on another persons file. Anyways dey gaven me my own file numba now sha, and then told me to precipitate bck on monday,

summited  2nd june, medicals 19th august

That is the same way, they refered to me as Evelyn the reply I got that time . CDHC, it is well. When is your start date? Did they ask you to submit another start date?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=765179.msg9199460#msg9199460 date=1316707965]Cuddlemii.  Sweeeery what can I get if I spend £3 (CASH) on you?   [/quote]You go back home with your user name missing, would trade ur username to boko haram & buy u a house afterwards. If you need to please ur babe, u get a helper with all the pounds u wld reap from our transaction dt u invested just £3 (cuddles wonder bank). So choose one, the easy way, a saw or the sexy way, a plier.

agitator:
Nigerian girls now sell punny, some come to nairaland and pose as independent, complaining all the while about broke ar/se guys.

What has broke ar'se got to do with independent women.

Don't you think that was rather too harsh for a thread that has so far been peaceful & educative. How dare you speak in that manner and affiliate your vomit to Nairaland. Why are you here then? It means you are also a broke ar/se who buys punny on credit for you to conceive such nasty talk. As your name implies, I am not surprise. I blame it on your foolish supplier. That is why you have the audacity & impetus to degrade the female gender, you couldn't even limit your comment to the ladies that inspired you. Another cheap generalization coming from a cheap man.

Pharoh:
Lol i get your point now and it was just little bit difficult for me to separate it from the whole write-up initially. You are really funny  . . . .but this topic is something else . . . don't actually like to get into it that much. Been reading some interesting stuffs on this thread and good to put your ideas sometimes on the table for others to analyze.

P.S  . . .[size=1pt]Hope you are doing good and your admission stuff is now through?[/size]

Thanks for your concern dear.

cantell:
Lol. Of course you didn't. You're on net for crying out loud!

Tell wisdom, quit telling & apply it

Pharoh:
I always like your intelligent write-ups, kudos to you for that but let me step in at this point. You are right that it is not a do or die affair but the last sentence which i bolded goes against your earlier stand. First an alternative to not dropping the partner in front of a bank to rob means that the second coloured sentence becomes a viable option.

The partner is then pressured into stealing or doing whatever it takes to satisfy the demand because your last statement confirms the norm within the soceity. Your last statement implies that there is no alternative to being in a relationship without spending because you gave the only option of stepping out. Most guys in nigeria now take it as an obligation or one of the compulsory requirements to be in a relationship.

If the low income of a guy is not sufficient then it is actually a do or die affiar which must meet up to the ladies expectation or you step out. On one hand it is not a do or die affair but your statement implies that a relationship will not work if it is not done. Hope am not getting you wrong but let me know if i have just done that.

A lady should look up to her parents or be self sufficient either in a relationship or not because nothing is better than spedning your own sweat. Spending for a lady does not qualify a guy as the better partner than he who does not spend. I am still begging for the question, why do ladies go into a relationship and what are they expecting from their boyfriends?

Hahaha dude, thats how I address stuffs oh. You didn't get the joke. I meant if your partner is pressuring you into giving him or her money, let them go, you can even drop them in front of a financial institution to rob the bank instead of killing yourself & then you step. The person no go get liver na, its just an insult to people who bastardize the issue of spending . Its like saying: "come kill me chop now shebi you said you are hungry, where make I see the money, I told you I don't have, Oya take knife & knock yourself out". You get my drift?

M M M:
cuddelmii

u know u re free 2 come 2 my mansion any time u want

R u looking for a maid? Tell wisdom to hook u up

tellwisdom:
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[color=#000099]   cuddlemi, is a BIG GURL, Her eyeball will not rotate your house, she wont even ask you for T.fare

But I will like to eat the meal your agency's girls would produce, hope your maids are clean & have good culinary skills. After u supply MMM, I need to eat some manually made pounded yam.

^^ U r beginning to sound like a broken record. Its either you upgrade you so you can mingle with sensible babes or you degrade you so you relate with 155naira, 50kobo chicks that way you save us the headache of listening to your analysis of "The life I live in the ghetto & the women that passed through me"

No one is saying a guy should spend a million or give out cash. Spending could be a candle lite dinner, movies (for heavens sake fishermen even go to the movies), romantic outdoor activities to appreciate your lady. Even if a guy wants to spend a reasonable amount of funds on his lady, I don't think its wrong, regardless of if she is independent or not. What is wrong is solely depending on a man for your upkeep & wellbeing or petty things like sanitary towel e.t.c, a lady should be able to handle her own. You saying a guy should wait till marriage sounds ignorant & self-centered, so single decent babes don't deserve good things too. See what you are all are saying after when guys break hearts you would be complaining. Why is marriage over-rated, some relationships are even more solid & true unlike some marriages. How many hubbies take time to appreciate their wives or even remember their birthdays, anniversaries etc. This is so because it was not practiced at the dating or courtship stage or its not their lifestyle. So how do you expect magic in the marriage if the loose ends were not tidied at the very beginning.

A lady is not left out too, you must reciprocate & surprise your man every once in a while.

Now spending is not a do or die affair, you do it when you feel comfortable or feel your partner has earned it or you can afford it. Its not an avenue to  get pressured into stealing or fraud to please anybody, if you don't have, you don't have, if your low income is not sufficient, drop your partner in front of a financial institution, ask him/her to rob the bank & you step!!!

rokiatu:
Thanks Cuddlemii I always appreciate your replies. Very intelligent.

Guys take note.

Babes, your profile pix is serious oh. Na wa oh. You don't make it easy for them guys, you just keep unleashing curves, Ok Ooooo more spending to your elbow. I just love your confidence not everyone can show it off .

When a guy doesn't spend on his girlfriend, he is definitely spending on another babe because his money is going somewhere & sincerely, he doesn't love the babe or the babe just assumes they are in a relationship. Its only justifiable when the guy is broke, upcoming or managing then you understand why a man is not doing his role. But there is no excuse for a comfortable guy not to spend on his lady even if its a pen, it shows appreciation & care. It is also important that a lady is independent and spends on her man too even if its in gifts of such as tie(s), shirt(s), perfume(s), belt(s) etc. I don't really like handing cash to a guy except in extreme emergencies.

In some relationship, the couples don't hang out like to the movies and all, they just stay indoors all the time & have intimacy. What is wrong with a dinner date or other romantic outdoor stuffs, is sex all she can offer you? When a guy doesn't spend or give his babe a good valentine treat, he embarrasses the babe because she starts having doubts, feeling insecure & starts cultivating lies & tactics to get stuffs so why put your babe through such knowing her friends would make mockery of her. 

T[b]he classics are guys who escort their babes to the salon or drops them off to pick them later, the babe gets everyone's attention. "OMG your bf is so romantic, I wish mine was like that bla bla bla" .
I also love when a guy comes to pick out a sexy dress for his girl  in a boutique when for his company dinner or something & approaches me & some other chicks & ask,  "do you think she would like this bla bla" then chicks help him select a perfect outfit for his babe and we are all like "awww, that guy is so nice, even if he is cheating, he sure loves his babe bla bla". I also love during valentine, when guys go to get sturvs for their lover and ask ladies to choose what ladies would like. I also like it when guys pick up lingerie for their girls with a shy expression when they walk into an all girl's lingerie store, every lady winks at him, chuckle  & smile in admiration. All these are commitments on the guys part, that I find very sexy & romantic.
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There is no such thing as a stingy man, no one is asking for a million, even with your hundreds still make the ladies smile once in a while. Some men just don't know the act of romance & spontaneity .

tomiwaoluy:
@Cuddlemii,
     Please provide this info for me now I can see u re online.The embassy email add, nd d info I need to quote on d email I'm sending,I juz want to be sure I have d correct info.expecting.

Oh Sorry I was busy.

Email: lagos.immigration@international.gc.ca

Email Format:


Name:

File Number:

Contact number:

Passport number:

Date of birth:

Date of submission of application:

Courier service used:

Waybill no:

Visa Type:

Additional Information:

tomiwaoluy:
@All, Please ooo I need your advise/suggestion,I completed my medicals on 24th of August and my School resumes on d 7th of this month, I submitted my passport and a letter to process my application against Jan state date since I knew I could no longer make this September.I contacted my school and they said my acceptance letter is designed for 2 start dates, Sept nd Jan so I attached a letter to my passport and directed it to d embassy.

I will like to know if it was ok for me to do so and to know if I need to contact d embassy by sending email or anything juz like @Monie has done.your response will be much apreciated.

To all of us waiting on d Embassy for visa or medicals or juz abt processing for Winter, let's put our hope and trust in God that everything will be fine, Ciao

Your best bet is to send them an email asking for your status update & not about deferment cos its possible your package has already been sent. They would tell you want you need to know themselves. Best of luck!!!

emofine:
well good character traits are not only/primarily detected by the eyes, when one is alert to their other senses it may be suprising just how much one can analyse in the absence of sight for example.

I didn't really mean it like that but ok point taken still.

Babes Its a good diversion from the usual thread. This what romance is all about not drama. Some soothing revelation. My name connotes touching too

Don't mind Sexkillz, he is newly in love so accommodate his new mode.

monie:
@ paddyman, ,i got the email this evening to defer my admission to an alternate start date,nw i can both email them another admission letter,and then send thru dhl the hard copy when it comes.thank you so much.

How dearie. I am not happy with this your new development but I know all things work together for good to those that love God. Update us on any recent happenings

tellwisdom:
Lefu,d tin tire me o .  Cuddlemi just dey fight hard. Wwweetin gannn

Its war against bditches . Until you 2 learn to respect women, I would be ur nknightmare. Stop disrupting what I am doing abeg, I need to focus.

^^^^U r definitely the brief one

tellwisdom:
Have you taken your drugs

lefulefu:
OP naija women and their wahala too complex to solve

Twins. Which 1 of u is Arnold Schwarzenegger & Danny Devito?

silibaba:
i will continue to forgive her as long as i go dey run my own package too

That one is easy na, its not a serious relationship. Its called an open relationship (Feel free to test the waters).