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BossKratos:
Wabara? Impeached for corruption! Evans enwerem? Impeached for corruption and currently dead!



Pius anyim? Was not only an ineffective senate presido but was also part of the worst government in nigerias history with no track record of any sort of achievement in igbo land whatsoever!


Ken nnamani? A stop gap senator who had no real power to influence the wishes of his igbo people during his short time on the hot seat due to his self preservation priorities?



These are YOUR POLITICALLY RELEVANT IGBO HEROES? You sir are a glorified IDIOT!

What a pathetic slobbering little man. Time after time, we have to deal with two bob bits just making things up on this forum.


It is interesting you persist with this argument as you are simply not grasping the concept of having no political relevance.


It is wasting my time and everybody else's time to keep grizzling about something you just don't understand.

I am done with this as you have nothiing to add, just pulling up same crap.

BossKratos:
the fact that your igbo people have not made any political headway of note since after the war is due to whose incompetence?

Is anybody listebing to this douche bag?

Adolphus Wabara, Ken Nnamani, Evans Enwerem, Pius Anyim - All Igbos and former Presidents of the Senate. Quit talking about stuffs you simply have no grasp of.

Hmmm Northmen everywhere

Apparently, Tinubu's pistol is no longer firing from all cylinders and you know some of these women, when they want to swing branches, they'd be shooting off IOIs to suggest they want their lower mid section savaged with the unrelenting tenacity of a hungry bulldog.

Dino may have picked up on this scintilating hint and is now behaving like a sex starved stallion, which explains why he so much wants to ravage another man's wife. Its obvious his hindbrain has been massively ticked off by Remi's dangerously effeminate vibes.


Before things get out of hand, I'd advise Tinubu at this stage to work on his obviously rusty 1860 revolver or sit and watch Remi trade up on a replacement unit, albeit an ill tempered legislative bull who could end up blowing her throat from inside out.

The wailing is real. Anyway glad to see Afenifere haven't sold their consience for a chance to drink fura da nunu with the Daura misfit.

The youths can't get a job.
The poor people living in fear because of insecurity.
Power sector still lies comatose. Arm bearing militants wrecking havoc on public infrastructure. The naira falling faster than the speed of light. Now Bu.bu wants to establish grazing reserve on our farmlands f
or his brothers to remain in business, not minding if we go off it. Hmmm. Me too I want palm wine tapping, shoe making and auto spare part dealing reserves. Hell even cassava planting reserve.

Its no coincidence that all of the past leaders have been adjuged to have failed. If Osinbade can't see this for what it is - a structural problem, he may as well quit trying.

But on a lighter note, it matters very little if a man is said to have succeeded or failed as a leader in this country nowadays. Forget the faux indignation. The valour is in stuffing your back pocket with the naira and greenback for life after power.

Haba OP, are there no single, hell even married women in your social circle who are shooting you IOIs and hinting they are ready to get kinky with you inbetween the sheets?

If other women aren't as much as suggesting they they want to fvck you regardless, then it could be a sign that something is wrong, maybe you have let yourself go and this could be a wakeup call to take a hard look at yourself to find whats wrong so you can reinvent yourself.

It could be the case that you have lost your masculinity either in mindset or through your actions. A man never begs for pvssy. If the wify isn't ready to serve it on a platter with a smile on her face, then it has to be gotten elsewhere. Don't mess with this.

But you have to be that man that women want to bang as opposed to the boy who is told he can only have sex twice a weej. If you took a good look at Cr7 when he came off versus france last night, I bet that dude will smash the wify more than 5 times daily and still have her begging for more. You don't have to be him but you should try and improve your physique. It really does work wonders.

The last but also effective nuclear option is to throw all caution to the dogs and become the polyamorous beast that you were created to be by hooking up with other hot women, hell even hookers. You can even bring them to the house occassionally and get real careless to let your wife know she cannot control you with sex. The trouble with this however is you'd be addressing the symptom and not really the problem. But who cares? Life is short.

It is time and effort better spent moving on to a new relationship than trying to salvage a broken one. So, it's best not to look back once you've closed your heart and moved on. But if kids are involved, you just might have to keep some contact. The degree however is for you to decide.

This a perfect combination of political blackmail and witchhunting of the first class order.

It shows the FG is only interested in getting its perceived political opponents out of the way and replacing them with stooges who will be too happy to do their biddings.

It works both ways. You could do this to give your ex the gift of missing you and possibly rekindle the flame that once burned between the two of you.

But why would you want your ex back when there is every likelihood history would still repeat itself especially if the factors that killed your love are still very much active.

Whatever you decide, you need to first and foremost, do do an introspection to see if there are areas you could have been a better person and if they are within your powers to change.

For instance, if you are overweight or couldn't cook or didn't have a job, you could get someone to put you through, hit the gym to lose some weight or dust up your cv and hit the job market.
This way, you're getting rid of the barriers that suffocated your love and making yourself a better package.

On the other hand, if you left your ex because he or she was too toxic for a healthy relationship, i.e. lacked impulse control, didn't have well defined life goals or lacked the ability to pair bond due to factors you didn't contribute to, then you could do as the op has pointed out in order to avoid the temptation of wanting to get back together.

The bottomline here is youre trying to close your heart to the possibility of ever having your ex back in your life because you are convinced beyond doubt that you are better off without him/her.

This lady has been extremely generous to you by revealing in good time the template on which you should build this relationship. She doesn't see you as her equal and this explains why she was annoyed when you were acting as one. Even the bible says man is the head not the tail. You are her superior and you must show this at all times to keep her happy. Why would you leave your place to go visit her when she should be the one coming over? Do you go to see your boss or is he the one who comes to you when situation calls for it? Hmmmm! So much for men of nowadays.

Anyway, my candid advice is if you love this girl, then you must be comfortable with bossing her around to keep her happy. Women have no leadership cues and they look unto men to provide this. Feminism has us all believe women are our equal but they are not. They can only love you if you are superior - aka physical appearance, more famous or richer than she is. Manliness is also very attractive and and in my humble opinion, the most fundamental.

Lastly, sell off that ring and get yourself some nice outfits and perfume to keep you smart and sexy. She needs you more than you want her and she must demonstrate this beyond every reasonable doubt before you bring up the issue of marriage again.

The man is deceiving himself... I don't see how any sane person would agree to ride in a car that's been tooled up by someone without even the basic prerequisite.

If you're rich, exclusive and cohabiting with her, providing her with all the comfort she desires, she'll stick around for much longer, giving you robotic/dutiful sex in the process. But that doesn't mean her hypergamous pozay wouldn't be aching to be pumped by another hot 6'2 alpha co.ck who catches her fancy.

Enahi:
It's obvious you didn't read what I wrote or perhaps you just don't understand. My thread is not about sex please it was about a short relationship I had with a self centered man.
I was with him for just two months and two months is too early for me to have sex with a man, there is more to a relationship than sex don't you think.

Ok. Should have told us you have fukced up boundaries that are not permitting men to stick around for a sequel.

Two months too early to have sex? Are you frigid?

l know logic is not something your familar with. So i'll put it nice and sweet for easy understanding.

Try hanging out with men who are challenging and macho enough to give you instant gina tingles. Not every run of the mill who leans on a 1988 Harley Davidson he cannot even fuel.

Enahi:
Wow lol your comment made me laugh, just because I said I didn't have sex with hom doesn't mean he didn't beg or cry for it. I am the definition of a well endowed young woman and that's part of the reason I hardly give into to sex with men because I always feel they are after my body.

I have a body to die for and I am young.

But you said he didn't care, I'm trying to understand how one wouldn't care for a body that others are ready to die for.

Or could you by chance be overestimating your sense of self worth?

Or perhaps your just trying to cause another flutter in the dovecoat with these obvious self contradictions.

Enahi:
Huh are you ok what do u mean by I should fvck myself? it's not about sex ok and if you must know I haven't had sex with him yet.

He takes money from you...

Eats your meal free of charge....

Hasn't slept with you - I understand this to mean he doesn't find you physically attractive.


In conclussion, you are just the female version of maga...eew

Sorry to say this, but men nowadays only want to rescue damsels in distress.


They want nothing with twats who are past their peak fertility years...


Neither with plain Janes who are low on the attractive scale...


This is the harsh reality...


You are in decline and you should try to find someone in your league.

Every dog has its day. Buhari enjoy your time in the sun.

Please, ow much his Ishiewu being paid to move this to the front page has I know hother journos and photo heditors get paid andsomely to plant things like this one hin their papers. I hope oga is not missing out on this bounty...

Elowinner:
Thank you sir. So far, this is d best motivative talk I've heard. I guess you are a counsellor n if ure not, u shld think abt bcming one. Thank you sir.

Acknowleged and as you navigate further into the emotional minefields of relationships, try not to repeat the mistakes you made previously. Never invest too much time energy or resources on a woman you are not married to. These are the biggest love killers as you are demonstrating the woman has higher sexual market value than you and we all know women like to date up because of their hypergamous nature, aka the need to upgrade and preserve the best genetics.

To you, being nice to her could be considered as making sacrifices but in her eyes, it is weakness and women have a dogs instinct at sniffing out weaknesses. This is why they friendzone nice guys. They think you are weak and can't protect them. Yes, we all know this is a big fallacy but what really does it matter. It doesn't change the fact this is how she feels. It is factory fitted.


So, do what works and not what feels right.

Bros, attraction cannot be negotiated. Ive seen this play out far too many times to not fall for the lame crap about trying to talk sense into her head as is being suggested by some cringe inducing posts above. This will only lead to more tears by the time you see her looking lustfully at your friends/relatives whom you know are by far below your social and economic status.

Even if she decides to return after so much prodding by you, she'll just end up overcompesating, a diluted form of the genuine desire you once knew, leading to mental torture for you and her and then another painful breakup, loneliness and dry spell.

You really need to move on but try to always keep two or more in the kitty. A MAN WITH OPTIONS IS A MAN WITHOUT NEEDS. Women by nature love tension and drama and if you don't give her one, she'll create one for herself and you are once again a dead duck.

You may not agree with this but there are many beautiful women out there that you can still fall in love with and I guarantee you that the moment you go out well dressed, nicely perfumed and start approaching, you'll be drowning in more love than you ever imagined was possible.

But have it at the back of your mind that woman's love is conditional and opportunistic. In other words, it is based on how she feels, vis-a-vis competion, jealousy and the good feelings you are able to bring to her. She is not capable of loving you unconditionally in the manner you imagine is possible. That kind of love is only reserved for her kids and this is activated by maternal instincts.

According to the sixteenth commandment of poon, You must Never be afraid to lose her

"You must not fear. Fear is the love-killer. Fear is the ego-triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear. You will permit it to pass over and through you. And when your ego-fear is gone you will turn and face your lover, and only your heart will remain. You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her."

Naira could still fall to as low as N700 to the dollar, but this in essence could help spur industrialisation and bring about the very much needed boost to local production, of course with the right policy frameworks.

The only downside is without basic infrastructures like power and good road network, the economic recovery could be much slower than it should be.

Hopefully government realises this and place greater emphasis on infrastructural development, rather than investing billions in the ridiculous search for oil in the Lake chad Basin.

But thinking of the bigger picture, I'd say the biggest risk would be the damage incurred in the transition period. The future however is potentiall very prosperous.

Short term boost for a massive long term slump, except of course we start producing more and importing less.


Next is to consider the rights of a people to make choices for themselves which is not happening now that power is placed more centrally. You have much less say when you are under an overlord, which is what our situation basically is.

I see the snake oil salesmen are desperately working round the clock to score Bubu high, even though this should be hardly worth anybody's daily hight - except maybe their fellow yes men.

And it came to pass that the people of Naija did wander in a political and economic wilderness for a time and time again. They wailed and rend their garments calling on the God of vengeance to send them another Moses who will take them to the promised land.

And the God of vengeance, seeing that it was their earnest desire to proceed, did take pity on them and sent them a Jonathan whom he blessed with Goodluck for the people.

But the people began to murmur and wail again, saying the man whom God hath sent them was clueless, shoeless and kwarupt.
They called on God to send them a fighter and a warrior who will strike their enemies in a frankly aghast way.

And God took pity on them again. He sent them a Bullharry, a man who was famed for his for his intolerance to kwarruption.

But it came to pass that as the man Bullharry began to strike the enemies of the people with ferocious generosity, they began to wail again calling on God to intervene on their matter.

But God took no further pity on them, seeing that it was their way to wail.

My fellow Wailers, how una dey?

him no get fridge ni?

hmmmm

This so laughable it is no longer worth ridiculing.

It aptly captures the mental thought process of an almajiri.

These zombies have always been known to over estimate the size of what they have in their quivers but im sure that this time, they have met more than their match.

Ratcheting up that partner count leaves you with too many sexual frames of reference and makes it extremely difficult to pair bond

Gay lord

Fulani herdsmen need not apply....your safety is not guaranteed