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Lizabeth25:
Lol....its normal! Because we still trying to know each other!

You could as well assume every other thing he does is normal......

Proudly a name checker and I'm not apologetic.

Lionsclaw:
Silly Nigerian government. Helicopter ko flying boat ni.
A wise govt will initiate a referandum in order to create peaceful coexistence of previously independent tribes.

Mumu-ness is when you think a people who were on their own but amalgamated by britian for their own selfish interest have no right to call for independence

Please give this man 72 virgins here and now.

There is no point in hating on the op as this is female hypergamy at its best. The op is fully within her limits to not want to marry this unrelenting schmuck that she is not one bit attracted to.

Female hupergamy it was in the past that helped ensure only the best specie survived, aka the strongest, cutest, toughest or whatever order the given ecosystem predetermined. But with the advance in medical science, every Tom, Dick and Harry, including the ugly duckling now have a chance of survival.

But trust nature and its way of ensuring that only the best specie is preserved which is why our lady feels nothing for this small time Charlie. Attraction is nature 's way of taking over you for sometime so that you can copulate. If this doesn't happen naturally, there's no point forcing it as the whole thing'll just end in bucketloads of tears. My humble submission.

AJaylee:
If they have a reasonable work doin in the U S, they won't be deported. Welcom back my country people, enjoy, it's ur country.

O boy na UK them talk o, no be US okay?

Chai! So the Tor Tiv will no longer makwa, yakwa and kpakwa again eh....isokey o. RIP joor.

Another taco short of the combination plate.

Op needs to come off his high horse and face facts for what they are. You are not the best looking guy in town, neither are you the wealthiest or the one with the highest social values. There are men who are better at seducing women than you and if your chick falls for these sort of guys, there's really not much you can do, other than to bide your time and hope things get better or you move on with your life. Attraction is not a choice and girls do not decide who they are attracted to at any point in time. It is really not logical and love is not a switch that you can just switch on and off. The Oxycontin hormone flowing in your brain is some sort of chemical which bonds couples together and it takes a while before its effect wears off. So, if a guy decides to stick with his girl for reasons you may consider inappropriate, it is simply his choice and it has nothing to do with you whatsoever. You haven't walked in his shoes and you shouldn't come here with your ill informed opinion like it's some kind of policy on how we should all live our lives. Relationship is not a one size fits all routine please. People and situations are different.

If you are the sort that find it hard to bond with others, that's your business. But don't come here and look down on others who who enjoy this perfectly natural phenomenon.

Ask Bubu

Shouldn't this read 'may never marry you'?

Name - Segun Adeleke - Checked


Verdict - Admirably consistent....

Tee blaq, Vasashi
Faz ft Phyno, Karishika
KC Press ft. Uhuru, Talk and do
Orezi, Shuperu
Inyanya ft Lil Kesh, Okamfo
DJ Jimmy Jat, ft Kesh, Olamide and Victoh, Dayamo
DJ Shabzy ft Kiss Daniel, Raba

All I see for now is the delayed and in some cases, non release of appropriated funds which which means a lot of economic activities are at a standstill this very minute. Could this be how Buhari is saving the billions?

Not hot enough in my book

Abeg shut up Mr. Recruiter. What are you recruiting sef and how much are you being paid to saddle us with this your rambling twittle tattle?

larion:
Its rather unfortunate.

I weep for the country. Buhari was the best man for the job during the last election.
There was no doubt about it.
From my abode that morning, I jumped for joy as I sang d national anthem with INEC on TV as the old General was declared.

I said to myself, welcome to a new Nigeria.

Fast forward to now, its not just appalling, its disappointing, its shameful.
Buhari has been more than useless, to imagine this was the first president I ever prayed for in my life. I believed so much in him but not now. He is a disgrace, and has betrayed all those who trusted him.

Don't quote me and say I shouldn't be insulting adults or d president.
Cos if obasanjo was called all sorts, GEJ was labelled anyhow, nothing stops us from tagging PMB as deserved.

Let's leave trabalism or politics out. Buhari so far has Failed!

Two questions for Mr. Photography President.

1) If you appoint me for a position and I take 6months like u have taken to set up my cabinet with no immediate momemtum and/or result, won't you boot me out?

2) We know Nigeria was really messed up before you came in, but we expected that you Mr. President knew that but when you know you couldnt perform, why did you force yourself on us?

Yes you forced yourself when you kept coming out and even cried on national TV when you last lost.

My pain, anger and worry is, if d election was to take place again, I will still go for you Mr. Retired General despite how old and useless you have proven to be, so the question is, which way Nigeria? shey none of us get sense ni? Haba mana!

You do realize it takes an upward of 50 years and even more to completely diversify an economy right.

Truth is we've dug in our hills and now we are stuck in this mess. So quit bleating and deal with it.

Oil is our mainstay, but, sadly, even that is not being adequately harnessed. For instance, we are still flaring gas despite that we cannot meet local and international demands.

Girls and money are like bread and butter. I never used to have problem with them till I started witholding my resources after listening to silly advices from so called pick up artists. Just give them money and all problem is solved. Quote me if you like.

.Nice move?

Not quite.

If anything, all what these appointments does is create added incentives in the public sector which in turn fuels corruption.

And until we begin to see private sector oriented policies
in this country, the Change mantra will remain what it is, a mere slogan.

Another of our lesser brothers with an incomplete cycle of metamorphosis.

What really do you expect from the Federal Republic of organized chaos?

Most women have no conceptualization of the scope of masculinity, outside of what they stand to benefit from it. This is why a women will feel no guilt in screwing over a dude who is not her dream guy because they all have this huge sense of entitlement.

They tend to look for a provider, a protector and a lover all fitted into one man but we know that is like trying to find a needle in a haystack.
So a girl will keep you as the nice guy, aka Mr provider while she is busy banging that hot dude across the street because she is incredibly turned on by him. its simply biological and playing her own game will only make you look silly.
You will eventually be found out.


The way I deal with this is I stop trying to figure them out and just go out there and live my life, take whatever I can and move on the moment she starts to misbehave. . . when eventually her emotions start to fleet.

Your girl has a personality disorder or simply put, she is a sociopath. You ain't even seen nothing yet cos she will stop at nothing to ruin you financially, physically and emotionally. You could be her hero while you are playing the sugar daddy role but wait till something goes wrong and see how you'll drop from hero to zero in less than 10 seconds.

She has what is called the jezebel spirit and you are her willing Ahab. These sort of people can take on any man and reduce him to cold impotent ashes within a short period because they have no empathy at all. Remember how Delilah ruined Samson, the supposed strongest man in his time. Remember how Jezebel made Elijah almost quit his mission for God. Yes, it is that bad.

Best you could do for yourself is to flee from her and block her off completely from your life before kids start to come into the picture. Trust me bro, you want nothing to do with a sociopath because they are no shade better than the devil in his fiendish candour. You have been warned.

tut tut

Princepioneer:
wow wow wow..!! All you wrote here is the truth about their traits.... Currently battling with one now... A cheat, a liar and secretive prostitute who calls her lifestyle ."as having fun" .... A choirister for that matter ...

Bro it is who they are - soulless beings lacking in empathy. It is said that they have no oxytocin receptors or do not produce enough of the hormones to form the bonding that is seen in the majority of normal people. They live a boring life and would do anything to escape boredom, including substance abuse, promiscuity, gambling, arguing and outright violence. The best you can do is to cut your losses and bail.
Try doing some research on sociopaths as this would hasten your recovery process.

Watch it bro cos that girl you claim to be so hung up on might just be another sociopath on the loose. They are so good at getting you addicted to them that you'd start to assume something is wrong with you when you begin to question their credibility. But in the end, they'll alienate you from your family and friends, destroy your life and dump you for another victim. They are compulsive liars, very manipulative, promiscuous and whimsical as well. They are cold and emotionless but have a marginal propensity to display rage when you try to call them out on their lies. But they are very charming and charismatic and know how to work on you to break your defences. To them, your are just an object to be manipulated for their own benefits. They're only in it for the thrill or for what they can get from you in the immediate terms. They have no long term goals and all of your games mean nothing to them because they are incapable of having emotions. No guilt, no remorse. Nothing.


I once dated one but since I had a cousin with similar traits, I found her out very quickly but remained diplomatic and professional till she left me to prey on another loser. We still see every once in a while but now I am two steps ahead of her every move. The song Karishika comes to mind here. That Phyno guy and the other lad know what they are on about. You are hooked on a Karishika and you need to break lose as fast as possible or remain in it and lose your mind. I say this because however smart you try to play with them, you'll always get counter intuitive responses which will further depress you. This because they will process your words and body language as neutral information and will never give you the desired response. When they do, it is to further lower your guard and prey on you even more viciously. You are just an object to them and not a fellow human being.

Now this is not what you want from a relationship. You want to be loved by someone who will reciprocate your affections and not some stone cold pathological liar. I'm not trying to bash them here because it is who they are and cannot change. I'm talking from the point of view of someone who has lived with one of them for several years. Goodluck.

Another tarco off the combination plate.

Make them kukuma go die with honour...

Hardly surprising.... it's Zoogeria nah

misspicy:
Those broke niggas are coming for your head OP...hope u can take d heat
Pple like [s]BlackrulesDworld[/sk]

Extreme dumbness

Propaganda in full swing


I will believe only when I see the response of our in-house myth busters....

Source please