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moneyshop:
From people's experiences, most marriages do pass through this stage. After first child, there's always this rejection by the woman in MANY marriages.

I don't want you to see this little challenge as if you're passing through hell... No!

It's a phase that will soon pass. Whatever you do or plan doing, don't cheat on her. That will cause the main problem that you think you have now, and then it'll rain brim stones and fire. Be patient.

Don't follow the advice of any unmarried little kid that will come here to shout "SIMP," overlook them, they'll understand when it gets to their turn.

Keep treating your wife well, don't take the car away from her, don't punish her in any way, so long as it's only sex that is the issue, it'll soon pass.

Try and control your sexual urge, whatever you do at this trying time, will decide how peaceful your home will be. Be cool and handle everything in a matured way, she'll change by herself.

Hear me again bro, this too shall pass. It only needs patience.

AlexBells:
I help people Sir, I help both men and women within my very little capacity, just that today it is about the prostitutes, I don't want to talk about the other times I support young hard working people, but it feels nice also when you don't always follow the norm,

70% import duty on vehicles creating bottlenecks

Speaking with Daily Sun, former member of Presidential Taskforce on Reform of Customs, Lucky Amewiro, said that the Nigeria auto policy has failed when compared to other countries auto policies.

According to him, the auto policy is creating transport problem because there are a lot of auto policies that geared towards making vehicles unaffordable. The vehicles are very expensive and most of them are no longer affordable.

“We have policy on papers but we are not seeing the reality on ground. This policy has been there since 2013. We are making our position to be able to make things right but we find out that the government is not interested in anything at all or in any changes that is just the truth.

It is now obvious that every sector of the economy is having problem and the government is not ready to make any changes. Nigeria is no longer what it used to be when one will write the government, and it would look into the issue and resolve it promptly.

Look at Ghana’s auto policy and you can see it is quite different from Nigeria’s. Nigeria’s own is expensive. Most of the vehicles are not affordable and are not vehicles a common man can lay hands on,” he argued.

He said an accidented vehicle is a different thing. While the auto policy is talking about manufacturing new vehicles and bringing them in, the policy has virtually made the vehicles very expensive and unreachable for the common man.

“The impact of the policy, if you look at our trailer, our own policy is always done on revenue generation instead of investment. Our auto policy is extremely faulty. You cannot see the relevance of the policy.

“If you see Ghana’s auto policy, you will be shocked. The Ghana auto policy is for the middle class to own cars. But our own policy is working up to 70 per cent and is increasing everyday. You pay duty more than is necessary. Our policy is not designed for the poor; it is just a policy on papers,” he said.

For his part, the President, Shippers Association, Lagos State, Mr Jonathan Nicole, said Nigeria should take it one after the other because without these cars people are bringing, transportation would have been something else.

“The accidented vehicles are covered by insurance companies. So when cars like that get accident, instead of them going for repair, they write off those cars. Insurance companies will write them off and Nigerians will go and buy.

“So when they bring it here, take it to the workshop, replace the damaged part that will last for another three to four years. That is the way of helping the Federal Government with their transport system because Nigerian transport system is epileptic,” he said.

However, he said the auto policy should be something that Federal Government should have given about 15 to 20 years masterplan and in between these years, they can begin to bring the cars in, as government can’t do everything at the same time.
https://tbiafrica.com/2020/11/18/70-import-duty-on-vehicles-creating-bottlenecks-for-nigerian-transport/

theophilusj31:
Don't you guys taking this your red pill extreme,in here you preach so hates against women,I know you guys gonna pour on me and start calling me a simp,let me educating you guys a little,the key to attracting women is confidence,social status,and non-neediness,when you respect yourself,put yourself and your purpose first b4 any woman,and have a willingness to work away from any woman ,women are gonna love and respect you,not all this red-pill trash you do here,the truth is that many of you so called red-pillers don't have to the balls to walk up to a woman in real life and ask for her number,but you come here to rant apha males,.....let me recommend some books and blogs for you that are far better than this red-pill garbage

1-develop attraction blog by Christopher canwell,
2-red pill theory blog by Avery
3-models by mark Manson
4-attraction is not a choice by David DeAngelo

my favourites of all this is develop attraction by Christopher canwell,go to his blog and read all his articles,you not gonna regret,he will give you step step guide on how to handle your girlfriend in relationships,but if wanna learn the secrets of attracting women,read red pills theory blog by Avery,you gonna enjoy........all this are better than this hateful redpills

stanliwise:
you simply escaped the simple question and wrote long episode of stories.

Do you know that Alpha also means the oldest/parent??

You claim the female gender are manipulative but time and time again, male gender aren’t doing any better.

ImaIma1:
One doesn't need redpill to know these things. It is common sense. You know when a woman is into you or not. You try to love yourself and have confidence and charisma and women will love you.

It's not only 6ft handsome and rich men that ladies fall for. I am talking about the real ladies and not those shallow ones that just want to leach on rich guys.

But it seems the target of redpillers is the leeches since their aim is to play the game to sleep with them. But if you are dealing with decent, responsible ladies, all that game.playing will only complicate and spoil a simple thing.

stanliwise:
Sorry to ask but do you also know that Alpha means Parent
Like most alpha in animal are usually just the oldest or the parent??

Do you?

Shortcut2life:
This game can be tiring .. to really enjoy this girls Na to make them free small ..

LoyalHustler:
See!!!! Whether people like it or not.

I still maintain the fact that some of the most stupid people on Earth are Nigerians. (No Cap) You need to see the mess they are doing In places like Turkey, Spain, Italy, Malaysia.
It has become a National disgrace.

If Nigeria were to separate today and we go our different ways.

The Northern part of Nigeria will be more welcome and appreciated by Europe and the rest than the southern part.

The criminality in the South is what is denting the image of Nigeria.

I am talking about the youths and not the government.

djon78:
Exactly
Did our forefathers fear women?
When they married them plenty


Like you said
Many men don't have a respect for themselves
So they take shi.t from women

When a woman knows that you are a no nonsense man that has great regards for himself
They themselves will tow in line

In addition
Many men are very needy
In relationships
So they become suckers

Regex:
To an extent, your statement is true. But there are people like me who never knew what a father love is despite he's still alive. My siblings and I were abandoned by my father, thought it was the usual women being bad and all, till just last month I observed that my mum fell for a bad guy/a player and is reaping from it. My dad is a typical player, though may not be educated, but he sure is and he may not know it. I used to hate him before, but after finding out this reason, I became indifferent with him.

Not all men who don't love their fathers are simp. But men who don't value the presence of their fathers in their lives are the simps/foools that should be stripped off their manhood.

drealcivilceno:
¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #8
Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.

@ Dpsychologist, Can you elucidate abeg!

Dpsychologist:
– Women need their ex’s to be losers to feel like they made the right choice. If even one is a winner, her hypergamy will realise a glitch in its optimisation and thus the afflicted woman becomes awash with regret.

thebosstrevor1:
you are the provider and protector of your family, you supposed to be strong, reliable, rational and logical.

The responsibilty of being a man is much, most of these men here shouting, do they think if they go broke, their wives will come to their aid, No she wont, once she takes the position of provider, she will resent the man in her life, then these men will run to nairaland typing all sort of nonsense about how she disrespec them.