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@ D Truth

dear, of coures you can skip today. We have all the time in the world on nairaland to learn norsk

have a nice rest

for starters:

god natt (good night),
ha en fin dag i morgen (have a nice day tomorrow)


@ jbuoy
good night, this is the millionth time you're off to bed. Hope you mean it this time lol

hello dearie

you're most welcome to nairaland

i love your statement up there, but it just goes to prove the saying that in every twelve, there must be a judas

please have fun ooh, and don't forget to tighten your seat funbelt while you're at it, so you don't fall out lol

eeeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnnjjjjjjoooooooooyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ D Truth

so where do we start from??


@ jbuoy
don't mind mummy, she's just pulling your legs

D Truth:
@ cute-ass. OK then, i really don't want to be popular. i am shy, shyer, shyest. But if u insist. i would not disobey ma tutor. lol

you don't have to ooh, if you don't want to. ok dear? i just thought maybe . .

Dime:
@cuteass.


Am sorry sweety, i have been so busy with school and all. How come this thing of your friend called J or whatever is name is has grown wings. And i am just shocked to hear him call himself the king or whatever he says he is

well i'm happy you're here today, how's school Btw
and please forgive jbuoy, yes he's the king of this royal palace thread, many things have changed since you were away ooh lol
i'm sure he didn't know you belong here, don't worry, i'll let him know

jbuoy:
@cutie, i love that prayer there, yeah i just hav to be really careful sha, am smart in many things ohh, seeing your pics i can tell who u look like,dad or mum.
well for now i guess i shld be on ma bed because its going to be a long day,taking the ship out of the port.

well have a good reast, and sleep tight. You really need it for tomorrow.
talk to you later
Btw please eeh, Dime girl belongs here
she's a close friend to the queen and princess, and the palace in general

Omo Eko:
Too many strangers in my thread, oya people everyone got to go now.

hello my cute-ass

And D truth u now , but hey anyway

hello mum
please let[b] D Truth[/b] be, please, he's here on invitation from the princess

kamura:
peepin'

_{relaxin' wit a glass of gin n juice}

so how is the glass of juice going? Btw, is it orange, apple, mixed fruit or mango juice??

kamura:



_{still peepin'}

since that time, you're still peepilng, don't go blind ooh lol

jbuoy:
@cutie, yeah we are leaving today, well its an interesting job having to go round the globe at no cost at all, but the cost is that u are away frm loved ones for a while sha. well we are on our way back to nija and that means we hav to pass tru so many places, its tourism u knw. Well as per hw u look, if u say that is your kid bros, then of cause u must look like him or close to that,what do u think?

you are lucky sha, just be careful ooh, we won't want to loose our king.
But as they say, if God does not watch over a city, the watchmen watch in vain. I hope God guides your going out and coming in _AMEN

and yes you're right, i suppose i look like my brother, you're so smart

D Truth:
Well it ok by me. but what tread should i start? for norsk language? i bet no one would be interested.lol

lol . .not norsk thread

but you see when you're new, you get to start a thread, to maybe introduce yourself, then lots of people would come and say welcome, and things like that

its not compulsory sha, i just thought you would want to, i didnt have one, because before i noticed it, i was already an old cargo lol

here's a link to how others do it: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/board-27.0.html

ok, now i'm here (the princess)


@ jbuoy
so you're leaving Turkey tomorrow? so where are you guys off to from Turkey? i mean after you've been to naija
you're really enjoying ooh. Cruising the whole world all in the name of work. Maybe i should start thinking of a change of course ooh lol

Btw, you said you can still tell or guess what i look like, you must be a wizard. Ok, lets hear it!!

@ D Truth
so you're my long awaited student . . Eyaaa, welcome to nairaland ooh
hope you have lots of fun in adiition to the norwegian course lol
Btw, maybe you should start a new-comers thread, so you get to meet lots of people, then we can do the language thing later.
what do you think?

How i wish i knew who this girl was, so i can free her from her misery and talk some sense into her. Is marriage by force?? see me see trouble ooh

well like you said richylaw, if she succumbs to their advice, then she's digging her untimely grave, because yes they'll use it against her in the future and who on earth will gang up with some not-yet-in-laws and battle against their parents, leading them behind the light

if this lady knew what was good for her, she better wake up from her sleep, before she'll be in water while soap eneters her eyes hmmm

Now i see where your friend got his desperate and selfish and forceful attitude from, his parents. No wonder *sighs*

@ jbuoy

he has?? that's lovely

well i'm just fine. Stayed indoors today because it was terribly cold. But tomorrow, i'll be doing some fun activities

So what's up with you, where are you right now?

Btw is he so interested in learning the language, that he's going through all this trouble??

@ Dime
i've missed you too

but i'm happy you're here now

so where have you been at all this while?, you've been real scarce ooh

hello ! hello ! hello !


the princess is here to settle all conflicts

now what's the confussion all about??

Like i always say, two people in love that come from differnt worlds (in your case, religion) have to weigh prons and cons and take a decision .
Whichever way they choose to go about it, someone will definitely get hurt

Its knowong your priority that counts, are you ready to give up love and your partner for the sake of family and relations, or does your family worth more. Who means more to you??

the only thing you can do is to talk, convice them; convince them, talk. You can't force them, neither can you kill them to make them see things with you

so there's actually little or nothing you can do, just hope they'll change their minds, get to know you and accept you for who you are and what you mean to their daughter, give their blessings eventually. Some give in, some do along the marriage, and some don't at all. Are you guys ready to take the risk??

at the end of the day, if they don't then you either go ahead marry the girl against all odds, or part and go your different ways and avoid family misunderstandings.

Very few families are into the idea of allowing their kids go into marriages with different races or religions, so its actually not a new thing

You should also be thinking some years down the road ooh, if your marriage can cope the difference in religion, love is just a tip of the ice-berg compared to what you guys will need to succeed but its a very important factor too, so you have to make sure you have all the ingredients to make the soup a good one

Some of them work out, some don't there's no guarantee to love but a destined noe sure will lead you through

Like i always say, two people in love that come from differnt worlds (in your case, religion) have to weigh prons and cons and take a decision .
Whichever way they choose to go about it, someone will definitely get hurt

Its knowong your priority that counts, are you ready to give up love and your partner for the sake of family and relations, or does your family worth more. Who means more to you.

the only thing you can do is to talk, convice them; convince them, talk. You can't force them, neither can you kill them to make them agree

so there's actually little or nothing you can do, just hope they'll change their minds, get to know you and accept you for who you are and what you mean to their daughter, give their blessings eventually. Some give in, some do along the marriage, and some don't at all. Are you guys ready to take the risk??

at the end of the day, if they don't then you either go ahead marry the girl against all odds, or part and go your different ways and avoid family misunderstandings.

Very few families are into the idea of allowing their kids go into marriages with different races or religions, so its actually not a new thing

You should also be thinking some years down the road ooh, if your marriage can cope the difference in religion, love is just a tip of the ice-berg compared to what you guys will need to succeed

Some of them work out, some don't there's no guarantee to love but with the destined one, you're sure to pull through

Well here is one and only Fe_mi

the pic.will not upload, so we'll take it some other time sorry for the inconviniences

halloaaaaaa

well to be updated, try and "notify" on the sections you find interesting. That way any new topic on those particular sections will be sent to your box

with that said, just be ready to have fun, because there'll be lots of it coming your way. Btw welcome to nairaland

eeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjoooooooooooooooyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

my sister you're so so right


well i'll be going to bed now, take care dearie. Hope to see you around tomorrow ooh

@ omo eko
yes maree7 is right or i can still recommend some very good ones

war game
games women play
mummy's daughter (ghanian)
girl's cot
the widow
divine love (ghanian)
pains of the heart

and many others

i'm still here sha

achô ka-afu anaghi akô na-akpa nwa dibia
no matter what, the native doctor's bag, is never empty

ônye aka na uch ya yi
the mad man has his senses with him (in his pocket)


back before you know it _{youngies, expecting you}

lewa:
Cutie!'sup?

i'm fine ooh, sorry i missed you on line

youngies:
Cutie no need to abscound now, _{seriously missing you} because,   

don't say i didn't warn you ooh

ôkpa aku eli eli, nee ka ônu di ndi nwulu anwu
he who gathers/achieves wealth without spending it, look at the mouths of the dead

o ji ôfô ga-ala
he who stands for the truth, will be set free

ôny ndidi, na-eli azu ukpo
the patient one, eats the "precious" fish

@ maree7

so you watch movies on onlinenigeria too lol

i just watched "pains of the heart" yesterday. It was very interesting

@ omo eko
hi sweetie

well dear, nothing much ooh

just enjoying my free week with some pleasant activities

maree7:
glad to have u back,

the riddle just helps u to think don't stress your self out, lol

lol . . you're right dear so what's up with you anyway??

maree7:
Hi cute-ass how are u doin?

yeah you're right ure turn to give a riddle

my dear i'm fine ooh, missed this thread ooh, only that some riddles are so brain twisting that i just keep away

@ lalaboi

no . .yes

well like i've always said, you can take the horse to the stream but you cannot force it to drink

Like whitelexi said, all you can do is try to advice her and talk her out of it. I assume she's an adult, which makes her capable of making her own decisions even though in this case a dishearthening and wrong one. But at the end of the day there's little or nothing you can do about it its not like you can force her out of it

is it that he's the only guy in town. or that no single ones are available or is it that she just likes sharing someone else's remnants or that she doesn't think she can do better or that she isn't worth more than a "hide and seek" relationship (which is what it always is when your so called partner isn't totally yours and you're the one that came late to the game )

all you can do is to talk some sense into her, and let her consience do the rest, the guy too should be ashamed of himself, because it takes two to tango
if after you've talked to her, she continues then she should either be ready to remain single the rest of her life, or be ready for what is coming her way

i'm sure she doesn't expect to go free in her marriage, after being a "party of destroyal" in someone else's. I'm not wishing her evil sha, just that i was taught that what goes around comes around

hi there Maree7, i'm back

answer to ya riddle : NOTHING!

Well of cousre he did justice . . it takes two to tango, and when there's just one we call that solo

if your friend had continued, he'll only have been decieveing himself thinking he's doing tango, while in the actual sense, he's soloing lol. what good would it have done him, to be in a relationship that means nothing or less to his partner but i still don't blame the girl either

Now i can't actually say one of them was at fault, because obviously they come from different worlds, and it would take the extraordinary to make "them" work.

Not everybody is cut out for a long-distant relationship, and not eveybody that starts the journey, gets to the end of it. I admire your friend's courage in calling a spade, a spade and not crying over spilled milk

Now both of them can find hapiness, each on his own. They can remain friends, since they obviously didn't break up with long faces,

Something your friend should know in case of next time is this, even while in a distant relationship, you can still make your partner feel as if you're there with them the whole time. Maybe that was what the girl was asking for, and though it might not have been his intention to hurt her, he couldn't read in between the lines. Its not his fault, because not everybody has that "thing" which it takes to make it work.
Maybe he'd be better off getting someone around him

The girl might have loved him too, and some would say "why didnt she now remain in the relaionship out of love?", but love is actually not all it takes, when partners are thouands of miles apart, then they have to come up with something, solutions and devices to make up for the distance
Despite the distance, don't allow your partner to feel neglected and ignored. Being frustrated in a relationship is the worst that could happen to someone, and not having the other to pull you through, is even worse

love is like a flower, when watered, it blossoms; when neglected, withers

davidylan:
Why the sudden rise in the number of men begging women to date them? Are there no more fishes in the river? Even if there are none, must we have fishes for dinner?

Leave her alone and move on!

yes ooh, there are many fishes in the river, but only one of them is his fish, i'm sure he just wanted to find out if she was the right one.
and no, you don't have to have fish(es) for dinner, but what if its a fish-dinner that was planned on his behalf/head

tascoray:
She stays in Abuja presently with her Aunt, so I can't see her

ok, thanks for the update. Well there's actually little or nothing you can do now since its almost impossible for you to see her. Your chances of proving yourself, are slim so what you have to do is move on with your life without her. There's no point in calling her, cps that does not erase the picture she has already drawn of you in her mind

They say there's no point in crying over spilled milk, which seems to be the case here, if it is meant to be, then someday, somehow your parts will cross, your continous calls at this point will only tagg you desperate, and remember you guys weren't even in a relationship in the first place.

Go out there and find someone who would appreciate your looks, and appreciate you the way you are regardless of what the friend says or doesn't say
and next time, be careful not to fall for the wrong person, i don't know how you could love someone you barely knew but all the same, she seems 2faced, she doesn't seem to know what she wants

and for the mean time believe me, you don't need that

my sister, i feel you on that one ooh

its ridiculous growing girls are reaped off their self-esteem and confident. They no longer think they can be beautiful without being model-skinny. Its so dishearthening to watch what's going on in the midst of youths

the number of bulinmis and anorexias is increasing by the hour some youths are resolving to sucide just because they think the girl next door who is skinnier than they are, and is more popular and accepted by the society  . . BULLSHIT

I'm slim, but i know i've tripped for some not-so-slim ones ooh, some of the "so called slender" ones are not even happy in their bodies sef

what they tend to forget, is that most of these models and stars don't really look all perfect in real life, they get hypnotised by what they see on movies and magazines.

you'll be surprised to find out that Angelina Jolie, as tall as she seems on screen, she is a short person in real life, i'll never stop being grateful to this actress _{can't remember her name}, who appeared on "ellen's show" to talk about "life as a satr". She revealed that their pictures are being perfected, and they look nothing like that. And even when they seem extremely good-looking, it all comes from the make-ups and camera tricks.

The sad thing being, why would our girls be beating up themselves for something that isn't even real, something really has to be done ooh, before it gets out of hand

I know that none of them (the plus size) on the ANTM have actually made it far, but its all because they loose confidence in themselves as time goes on, then the judges have noo option than to wave them good.-bye

But an achievement has been made though, because one of the plus size girls that was on one of the seasons did appear on Tyra show, to announce her numerous contracts, some bi girls got inspired by her. I was so happy

Tyra Banks is trying sha, more people should also join in the battle of making the "bigger ones" acknowledge their beauty

jbuoy:
@cuteir princess, yeah your student said he wuld register into this site just because of u,for the lekchors,but he hasnt yet, or do u prefere it tru mails?

well don't you think it'll be fine if we did it on nairaland, at least he'll be having fun on other topics as well, at the same time, making new friends

@ omo eko
sweetie, just holla when you get home,ok??

Omo Eko:
Where is my sweetie i missed her today @cute-ass

darling i'm fine ooh why haven't you been replying on IM

@jbuoy
dear, i'm fine ooh, preparing myself for the norwegian tutoring