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_{one of the elders hailing back at you here ooh, lol}

but seriously, you're highly welcome to the land. Hope you catch lots of fun, share your views, be a good listener when you don't have a view to share don't be a stranger

eeeeennnnnnnnnnnjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjooooooooooyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!

_{*peeping and chuckling*}

this particular topic has been discussed and discussed and discussed on this forum until there isn't more left to be discussed

see how we feel about "abortion" : https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-44116.0.html

another list of views: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2149.0.html

and if you continue searching, you'll still come up with a 1001 other threads like this!

hello damsol, missed you
how are you girl?

@ omo eko
saw you just came on line
which movie did you finally watch?

unpredictable

puker:
What is wrong with meeting Nairalanders.

whatever floats your boat hun

who said it was wrong? a human being? well you're a human being too, so if you get lucky, why the hell not?

some have met ooh, i know of a couple, you might be our next "mr. lucky"

Btw dear

i forgot the saying "first things, first" where are my manners?

just want to welcome you to the nairaland "family"

hope to see you around for a loooooong long time, catch fun, get enlightened, give someone who needs it your 2cents, and try as much as possible to ignore peace-breakers

eeeeeennnnnnnnnjjjjjjjjjoooooooooooyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

Of course you do . . there's hapiness evrywhere, you create your own hapiness, no one else. Whoever said there aren't a 1001 single, extremely happy mothers?

but then

dear i know you went through hell in your family, many others before and after you have witnessed the same. That's just life but honey let that not blind-fold your eyes to all the numerous happy homes. You can't tell me you've not seen or witnessed happy couples with happy kids. Everything in life has a good and bad side to it

You'll never get to find out what your own story would be like unless you dare to try, and do not forget that no two destinies are the same. The fact that your mum was betrayed and back-stabbed, should not determine your hapiness
I understand that the suddenly-withdrawn love your father gave you will make it difficult to trust a guy, but believe me its not impossible

for that to happen you have to fight the pains from childhood, let it out, face and overcome your fears, then open your mind. Let life come to you, then enjoy it. Love "love", maybe give it  chance.
I know you'll be fine

For some people the experience you went through will weaken them, for some, it will make them stronger

If at the end of the day you still want to be a single mum for the rest of your life, go for it, give it all you got but before you've dealt with your past and beaten it to the score, you might still not find the hapiness you seek in your kids.
You might even drive them away from you due to the past

You have to be happy to give your kid(s) a happy home

comm'on girlfriend, you can do this Good luck hun

ThiefOfHearts:
lol some are hence why look for younger women.

you're right dearie

Going to bed now, after a long night lol


Good night @ all

chiegemba:
@ cute-ass; nice! Glad u enjoyed yourself.

@ chiegemba
enjoyed myself where?
omo eko is the one that watched movies, i was just asking her if the "girls cot" i recommended was ok

i've been working a night-skift, believe me, i'm not enjoying myself

@ omo eko

girls cot was da bomb abi??
i told you

my sister love?
remind me of the starring (with some details), maybe i've watched it

star01:
hoNEstly i didnt see the post u said that, but regard less do u think i care or give a shyt about anybody on Nairaland, hell no men, i don't benefit from anybody neither do they, if anybody think STAR would apologise for being INSULTIVE they re freaking mistakened, am a STAR i do my thing
   in as much my BABY gat attetion for me , then who the heck is omo eko n all(excluding you,marre7,9eja4eva,chiemgba and my homies), don't give a shyt girl, am INDEPENDENT

i rest my case


it would just have been so nice if evrybody got along, but guess that's not how the world is meant to be

Omo Eko:
U people no dey sleep

look who's talking, retired "nairaland addict"

sweetie how are you?

watched some movies?

@ chiegemba
how are you hun?

maree7:
okai i am about go sleep


goodnite

no hun, don't ok?

@ maree7

one minute?
its been 3 minutes since you said that
but never mind, its weekend so you should enjoy nairaland

star01:
and what u doin either?

@ star01
what can i do you for?
i asked you to apologies to your friends that you wronged, you signed out on me. Notcool at all
and then you came here to give maree7 a wrong version of the story, still not cool
you asked omo eko to cut you some slacks, before she could say st . .a you were at it again, worst of all not cool
you push your friends away and that is sooooooooo not cool

@ maree7
you haven't gone to bed?

do so ooh, before i announce you the "latest nairaland addict"

BlackMamba:
Keep your boyfriend so that your dad don't commit suicide, and f*ck your ex on the side to get your 110% satisfaction.

wrong answer (she said and i quote "constructive replies"

spoilt:
cute-ass wetin be this long thing wey you type.? cool down oh!

ma sista, i jus wan make im understand am well well, i feel so bad when it comes to relationships, love and matters of the heart, that i write as if i was talking to the person face to face

you know the keyboard is your mouth here, and you don't need to ask if i'm a talkative ooh?? lol

davidylan:
gnite m'ladies. white, black, green, blue. . .God is in control.

spoilt:
goodnite jare. im turning in now too. see y'all tomorrow? bye.

well nature is to blame

its 8.00am here and you guys are turining in lol

sleep tight sha, and sweet dreams

yes ooh. . i forgot one more thing about some of our abled black brothers lol


when a black girl now decides to settle for the white ones, come and see jealousy climbing each other

when you walk past a midst of the black brothers, just the way they'll throw annoying glances at you and respond reluctantly to your heart-sent greeting and whisper behind you will tell you how much they dissapprove

and then a black girl would ask" what the hell do they want us to do?? hang in the air?"

but seriously, they should know that what is good for the gooze, is good for the gizzard

spoilt:
my sister. you nailed it. na real microphone. THANKS

i just finished what you started because you were reading my mind

davidylan:
here comes mummy with another sermon on the mount.

I don't necessarily agree with most of it though. Not everyone who dates a white chic is merely trying to make a statement.

well, son lmao , thats why i said "some", generalization is not allowed in my dictionary lol

but honestly here in Norway ooh, you'll be forced to say all. You'll br frienndly with the so-called  guy ooh, but when he's moving with his lower-your-shoe white girl (didnt mean to be harsh ) he'll pretend not to see you sef, as if you've suddenly turned to a grass-hopper. he'll be doing the "big boy shakara", as if he was walking side by side with God *sighs*

well my tactics is this ooh, when i see you, i'll be the first to throw way face. Infact then you'll be forced to call my attention and say hi. Come see the face of the white girl, if looks could kill well i would have been sent to my untimely grave by now ooh.lol

@ topic
the same goes for "girls in naija" wanting abroad boyfriends, for some its love, for some its the money and for some, its just the ability of saying "my boyfriend is in spain, infact he called last night, we talked and talked, he's even sending a new hand-set to me from over-seas" lol

davidylan:
Truthfully many black guys i know would pick a white girl in a heartbeat before they consider a black girl.

spoilt:
they just want to be seen in public with these girls. its like an endorsement or validation of their arrival. its like "see me . im with a white girl" or "i can be with a white girl".

exactly what i had in mind, since i started following the discussion.

in one word: INTIMIDATION

Infact, its all a triangle, or should i say rectangle

some black girls, want "their" strong black bothers, somewhite girls too want the black one because they know their own guys are nothing compared to our "black brothers"

but some of our "so called black brothers" want and need the white girls to "belong", to feel among, when they're walking on the street with a white girl, its as if they should be given a microphone so that no soul will fail to notice his "promotion"
sorry to say this ooh, but atimes when you look at the white girl that your black brother chose over the ro-die-for black sister, you can't help but cry at what "being black" has done to your brother.

and the some of the white guys, don't want the black girls, why? afterall their fellow blacks do not want them, why should the? and you come to see that when a white guy eventually dates a black girl, he takes the prttiest amongst all unlike our brothers

as far as the black brother is not dating a white girl just to be "one of them", then its ok,but if its the other way round then its a critical situation ooh!!!

@ maree7

yes ooh . . and what shocked me most is that they even have latest movies

see ya all

@ femi

you see, i told you that the next one might be just for you. I wasn't lying, was i?

@ chigemba

now is your turn ooh, hurry

yes maree7, alluc.org is a really nice one

not just for movies, but music videos too. I'm there like 24/7 listening to good songs

@ omo eko
you can also try www.peekvid.com

@ fe_mi
why can't you just register to it?

Omo Eko:
U know i didn't mean it that way u are still my # sweetie on Nairaland .

are you sure? ok then, right back at you
anyway take am easy ooh

sweetie, duty calls, talk to you later, aight?

[quote author=fe_mi link=topic=47717.msg1054186#msg1054186 date=1177033667]what
why are u coding[/quote]coding ke? lol .  dear don't be mad , the next one might be for you

@ maree7
i give you the honour to post up one on my behalf, my brain is not that brainy now

Omo Eko:
@cute-ass

Leave me alone oh

i should leave you alone? just because chudy entered the building? girls sef . . ok sha i'm leaving!