Nigeria police is shameless, i never knew they are this mean till my brother had issues with them last week. its like they are under a curse to always extort money from people.
police can turn an innocent man to a criminal if you have no one to speak for you and they will still collect bail money after one is proven innocent. i fear police sha

Redoil:
When go to sars what did they say

they took him there yesterday and they have estorted upto 15k from the other of my brother that went there so that he will not be tortured

I don't know how to go about this but my mind tells me I wiĺl get help from this forum, my brother was arrested on Monday in front of a crusade arena (pastor Suleman crusade) as he was waiting for a lift after dismissal by Independence layout police division on account that someone complained his car has been stollen, he was detained there for 2 days as they said they were waiting for the complainant, the only thing found on him was his bible.
The complainant later didn't show up and instead of granting him bail, they transferred him to New haven police station and on getting there, they accused him of being among the gang that snatched a car from an air force officer and it's different from the previous car he was accused of snatching, the airforce man came next day and said he is traumatised that he doesnt know if my brother is part of the gang or not but that police should do their job.
From all the reports the the 2 police division gave, they couldn't find anything against my brother but still transferred the matter to SARS department and my brother is in detention suffering for what he knows nothing about.

please I don't have anyone to run to neither do we have the resources to pursue the case as I just put to bed but I believe I can see a good Samaritan here that has someone who can help me with this matter here in Enugu.
The victim's name is Ani Emmanuel and he is in SARS detention now.

God have mercy! I have always said it that kids are not suppose to start school till they can speak very well.
If not that the child's mother has a good relationship with the child, I wonder how long this would have lasted and to think the accused has children.

Who knows what will be happening in all these public schools that most parent don't have time for their kids/ward.

I wish we (the youths) can start using our brains. We sell ourselves over peanuts from these old men. Mind you that if we sell our rights today, that our children will suffer it tomorrow.

Hofbrauhaus:
I didn't read everything but from the little I read....the person talking said we should pet Buhari out of office..He said we should stop insulting and abusing him else he would punish us for another 4years...He said we should call him sweet names and beg him to leave us alone, but we should do it nicely...

Ngeneukwenu, is that okay?

Oh sweet Buhari, our messiah, the king in the north, we beg you to show us mercy, leave us alone...We your children are tired of the suffering that was not caused by you. The suffering was caused by us Nigerians. But we ask that you leave us alone to take care of our own problems. You are too good for us..Thanks SaiBaba.

Oh my God! This really got me laughing really hard

Just look at how the guys are shouting that the man be given a death sentence as if they are all saints. I have heard so many stories like this in real life and I wonder if some men reason with their anus. The truth is that most of you criticising this man is like that.
Few months ago, a friend of mine has to send her house girl of 12 years packing because her neighbour told her that her house girl confided in her that her hubby(my friend's) has been asking her to kiss him each time she is not around.
And last year, my neighbour had the same issue with her hubby that she also sent the small girl packing and now she resorted to bringing in another girl that am sure is not up to 7 years just so her hubby won't abuse her but the little girl is being over laboured.
I don't know why some men can't train their penis, what joy would they derive from a minor when they have a full blown woman at home? Tufiakwa

The owner of the properties is relocating from Enugu to another town and needs to sell them off. contact me for more details

My dear, just relax till you are independent. My Dad's case was worse than your father's own, he even sleeps with the ladies staying with us then while my mom gives them space and pretends like she doesn't know what's happening but my elder brother condoned all till the week he came back from his youth service. He confronted my Dad and there was war, my father ended up taking the matter to the police station and the way people insulted my Dad made him change abit.
He later turned to a saint before he died, I remember back then in the hospital when he was sick, he would call my mom all sorts of sweet names asking her to forgive him that he was carried away by worldly things. That she is a good woman that God blessed him with but that he started mishaving. My Dad could just sit and cry for the whole day after remembering all his wayward life while he was sick.
Do not worry yourself, God will judge him. Just tell your mom to still be submissive that God will reward her. Ur Dad will later come back to his senses.

Bede2u:
This n-power stuff is for northerners really. U would be surprised that SE and SS states have not received february pay. If ur in SE or SS and u have received march pay, click share.

Enugu Npower has been paid too.

If only u know the number of women wishing they had married their love instead of wealth. Your mother and others may not be there at nights when you soak your pillow with tears because you will definitely miss your love especially when the wealthy one fails you.

baby124:

Lol very good. Na wa for that man, I know you still want your marriage so there is no need advising you to leave because you won't. Tell your uncle to insist that he buys you the sewing machine as soon as possible. Insist that you must get that sewing machine now to provide for yourself and you are not waiting for any project because you know where his money is going.

Yes, u r right. I don't want to leave the house cos I know it will be difficult for me to survive if I do leave with my kid and my pregnancy. I hv told my uncle but he said we should reconcile 1st. That by June he will call him and insist he must buy the machine. But am sure that it's just a way of telling me to relax till I put to bed cos he knows I will surely deliver around that time.

Thank you all for your advice. Let me give you an update. I went far this time, I broke our wedding pix, hide our marriage cert and told him I hv cut it into pieces and also told him I hv sold our wedding rings and will still sell mor of our properties since he swore he won't be contempted me. I asked him to settle me with the machines so I could leave him and find my way with my kids.
Packed out of our room to another room. So when he saw a different me, he ran to my uncle and told him that I hv gone mad. When asked what he did he said I found a condom he left in his pocket since his Nysc and then siezed his car keys and documents when he asked me to return them, that I harshly told him I won't, that he should trek with those women today(I admit telling him to trek to hotel with them but that condom is a new one) is it possible that a condom that was in existence since 2008 that he served will expire in 2019?
I will attach the pix. He didn't want to mention other cases I caught him at all.
I have to open up to my uncle and his wife and they were asking why I didn't keep all my evidences that he showed them the texts I sent him calling him a womaniser, that it was all those text that provoked him.

To my surprise, I have been asked to go home and plead with him. My aunt said that all marriages are like that including hers. That cheating is in men's nature. But the worst of the advice is that I should go and apologise to him. That some women are looking for a place where they could just call their home even if it means beating them 3times a day. Talking about the machine, he told my uncle he provides everything I need in the house that he doesn't want me to stress myself for now. That he will do that once he is done with his project.

obyrich:
Are you the only child of your parents? This is a serious issue that should not be swept under the carpet. Doesn't he have someone he listens to whom you could run to for support?

I have met the woman who trained him on several occasion about the to me and asked me to endure and that she doesn't want me to involve anybody. she gave me 'War room' movie to watch and pray.
And told me that it's not neccessary for her to call my hubby and advice him. But this time around that he raised his hand on me, I didn't tell anyone

I really don't want to raise my kids as a single mother neither do I want to continue sleeping with him because am just 30 and don't want to die leaving my kids as a result of diseases. I need advice on how best to get money from him and establish myself. I don't want court because the case will linger for long and after everything, we will be divorced and he will be asked to be paying a stipend for the kid's upkeep which I know won't be enough for the kids to be comfortable.
Moreover, I really don't want to publicise this for I know people will just start using me as a reference point for failed marriage. My uncle who raised me has asked me to come and am sure he went there to report the issue to him.
And this is one thing I have begged him not do, that what they do is just to start laughing and joking over the issue after you report a matter to them.
I don't know how best to dodge going to see my uncle because if I get there and tell him all I have been passing through in this marriage, he ll only ask me to endure and then mock us once I leave.
And if I don't go, he will consider it as an insult

Joavid:
How your mum convinced you to marry someone you don't love and barely know in this 21st century is a mystery to me.

If she's so skilled in the art of persuasion, why is she crying instead of speaking up for you?

what advice is she giving you now?

smh

I'm seriously restraining myself from typing ill of your mum.

Please you don't have to type ill about her. She is crying because she talked me into the marriage. She is already regretting why she did that.

holocron:
Madam, u have no problems. Your husband loves and cares for you. Give him his private space. Stay off his phones and stop snooping around him. Eavesdroppers never hear good of themselves. You are 7 months pregnant, and such can hardly satisfy the sexual needs of your virile husband. At least condoms confirm that he practices safe sex, and nothing is lost. Things will normalize when you are fit again. Create a conducive atmosphere in your home and watch your marriage flourish. Stop making your home a hell on this earth.

If you know me, you will know that I do all I can to make my home conducive. I see all these because sometimes I use his phone if I don't have data in mine.

I have been a member of this forum for long but hardly comments on posts but I do read to learn from people. Please I need your advice as to know what to do.
I got married in 2013, my hubby is a civil servant. We didn't date. It happens that I finished my NYSC and worked in Lagos for about 6 months before coming down to Enugu because my Dad was ill and I came to take care of him. He later died 11th September 2012. My hubby after coming to see my Dad at home(that's before his death) took interest in me and asked for my hand in marriage which I refused but he kept insisting, my mom wanting me to stay close to our home town insisted I must marry him. She cried to me that she knows the guy and his family since he was little and that he is trustworthy.
When my Dad died my hubby participated in his burial very well that the whole family started saying he will make a good inlaw.
Sept 2013, we wedded and I gave birth in 2014.
My problem started in 2015 when I saw a text message in my hubby's phone by a lady telling him they won't be seeing each other again because her circulation started that night. I woke him up that night and showed him the text, he pleaded that he was sorry which I forgave him.
Few weeks later, I got another text by another lady on a sunday telling him that if he doesn't come to see her now, that she will leave the house. I kind of chatted the lady as if it was my hubby and was saying stuff like she didn't cook anything that she was waiting for him to come. I still wiped the whole text and pretended I didn't read anything.
Most times he comes back with hotel receipts and when I ask him, he says he just hanged out with his male friends.
On wednesday this week, I saw 2 condoms in his pocket and when I asked him, he said I don't have any right to ask him that I should know that "ofu anya ikpu n'egbu amu" it's an Igbo adage which means that sleeping with one woman kills the penis. That if I don't like it I should pack out of his house.
Meanwhile, I didn't say I learnt sewing after our wedding and am very good in it. This man doesn't give me money, he started building his house in the village last year and I asked him to just channel whatever he gets to the house so that we can move in there soon and stop paying rent, since I get little money from sewing and his work place is close to his village.
But since I discovered he can't do with women I begged him to buy me an industrial sewing and weaving machine so that it will make my work faster. He refused that I should wait till he finish his house. On thursday I waited for him to apologise for the condom I saw in his pocket, he said it's not possible. So when he left for work, I took his car keys and the land property and hide it in the house. And when he asked for them, I told him that he should buy me those machines and then continue whatever he has with women since I have seen that he is not willing to change. I must confess that this is the first time I raised my voice so hard on him. The next I heard was slaps on my face and am 7 months pregnant and my mom was in my house that day and all she could do was to go into her room and started crying. He later got dressed and left for work. He saw me wiping my nose with his singlet because blood was gushing out from my nose and yet he left.
In the evening he came back and locket my and my daughter out. I later called one of my aunties who called him and he opened the door and said he was leaving the house for me that night. But my aunt asked me to hold onto him and plead with him not to go out that night which I did. When I tried to beg him, he said he ll make sure he beats my baby out of my womb if I touch him. I just took the bag he packed and hide it. That's why he stayed back that night.
I went for scan yesterday and I was told my baby is breech that I need to see a Doctor. I haven't registered in any hospital aside a maternity home run by a woman. I have been begging him to give me money to register and that if he says I should leave his house that he should buy my the sewing machines so that I can atleast be using the money to take care of his kids but he refused.
He is doing all this because he knows I have nobody to fight for m and I don't want to involve my kinsmen because they will mock my family and my mom is hypertensive.
Pls do not mind the long post
I didn't add that I later give hhim the documents after the beating because he swore he will kill me and go to jail if I dont

I haven't heard anything on verification from Enugu state. Any news from Enugu Npower body?

MMM haters should just keeping wagging their mouths, I have just been called for the 100k I pledged and am on my way to make the deposit now. Expecting to smile home with my 130+ in less than a month.



I also deposited 20k for my mom n she called me 2days ago that she got 34k alert.

This country nawao!! Why make the unemployed graduates waste time and money queuing up in cyber cafe when you already know you are not willing to employ them as promised? Anyway, let me just keep my fingers crossed because I have called most of my friends that wrote the test and none of them were short-listed. I just hope this won't turn out to be another lie.

I just wish that those of you chanting for war can watch 'half of a yellow sun' that will make you realize that war is bad.
Am even going far, have you guys watched the pictures of the refugees in various camps both in this country and outside. I suggest you Google these things before clamouring for war.

Please, let's just be hopeful that one day, this country will get better. In the mean time, think of what to do to better your life than thinking that Biafra as a country is going to be all Rosy as some of these Biafran sponsors tell you.
These politicians are using us(the youths), their families are not in this country to face the consequences of war with us. Some of us don't even have transport fare to the nearest country, should there be war now not to talk of an international passport. These men inciting Biafrans can leave this country once they hear any rumour of war. Please BE WISE!

Please is it possible for determine strip to give a positive result when someone is ill and then give a negative result after the illness stops? I have a friend that tested positive on determine strip while she was sick and weeks later she tested negative on same strip and even negative on unigold strip. Can anyone explain what this is to me?

2BB591D2. Please add me

I don't know why men forget that they can ruin their life and that of their families when they cheat on their partners.

Op, I will advice you not to discuss it yet with his family members because it won't solve the problem. If you guys do pray together, keep praying against any man or woman that is out to destroy your home. And always discuss the implication of adultery with him. You can also share these passages with him; Ephesians 5:31, Hebrews 13:4 and proverb 6:32.

Don't worry, God will see you through. I have once been there and I know how it hurts. You have to intensify your prayers, and do not leave night vigil out.

Nice story.

All I can say is that if you don't like the maltreatment, try and leave his house and since you can't foot your bill in school, pack and go home. I see no reason why some parents will send their children to school with just school fees forgetting that the child needs to feed, buy handouts, even accommodation. Some parents are the cause of all these.

And please ladies, to avoid all this insults from men, kindly find out from your parent or guardian before seeking for admission if they can provide all your needs in school because I have seen some girls turn to prostitutes because of a similar case to this. Please higher institution is not like they tell you 'that all you need do is to enrol first then everything will fall in place.

If your parent or guardian doesn't have enough to train you, please go and learn handwork or even trading, be serious with it and then you can take care of your education when you are financially ok.

myvic70:
Nigerians will just sit and frame stories to criticise all in d name of politics. Mind you all the so called politicians children are in abroad cooling their heads off. We are here fighting E war.
Both APC and PDP na 1.
God bless Nigeria.

Honestly, I don't know why the e-war is going on. This politicians are just using the brainless youths. Some of us even forget that we don't have an international passport should this country become a mess. I was talking with a brother of mine that is a politician the other day and from all indication, he doesn't like the presidential candidate of his party but his money.
Bikonu, my fellow youths, let's stop all this abuse cos this people we fight for may be reading this and then be mocking us.

People no longer see the truth because of all this politicians. Let's be sincere, if Goodluck isn't gaining anytin from all this fraudsters he is working with, he would hv let them face the punishment for embezzlement. I supported him in 2011 but this time around, I will have to be careful in choosing who to support. Let us the youth stop attacking ourselves because of all these old men, it's our future they r toiling with. I wonder why APC didnt give us Rochas, a man that has really done so well for his people as a Governor.

I doubt if free and fair election can be achieved in every part of this country. For instance is Cross river state where pdp share money to villagers and on the day of election, they will ask the presiding officer to just hand over the ballot paper to about 2-3 people to do the thumb printing. That's what I witness then as a corper in 2011 election.
And the officer incharge will have to submit the ballot paper to avoid assault. And here in south east, people around here are more interested in voting based on religion rather than voting for the right candidate.

Who knows when the contest will be aired on telly, the time and the channel?