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missimelda01:
Try to get a partner for what? To burden her with his addiction? This is not a good advice. Don’t go into a relationship looking for someone to fix you, fix yourself before getting into a relationship.

Go for therapy instead.

God bless ladies thinking this way, the more we think like this the more men will realize we are not babysitters so they need to fix themselves, grow up, and deal with their issues before going into relationships.

Islandlady:
What is your problem miss! Well that's your opinion tho, but you start knowing a responsible man by his haircut, dressing!

So how do you know a responsible man o! Becos it's seems that you can see through a guys heart from afar and conclude he is responsible, since you don't judge from outer looks

There are many psychopaths, serial killers, wife beaters, etc that appear decent. Many very good guys are covered in tattoos and have bushy hair etc. Like she said, character matters most. As for how to know, use your intuition as a woman and watch the way he treats other people that will tell you how he will treat you on the long run.
If he has passed character test, you can talk him into passing the looks test. You can't change someone's character just so you know.

Terrier99:
A happy woman cooked for her husband, see what you are saying.
Well, if you like, don't take care of your man because you feel he will cheat. It's probably your pessimism that will put him off.

May was a happy woman at some point, what is happening today? If anyone told her the same man will be humiliating her after all would she believe it?
I'm not asking anyone not to slave for a man if they want to, the point is some of them don't deserve it.

To each his own.

Angelfrost:
Breathe sister... Take a chilled glass of juice, and breathe deeply!

Life is not that hard ma!

I'm breathing very well ma, cooking all the delicacies does not keep them if they want to stray. it is more hurtful after all the sacrifices they will move to someone that can't even cook. Just saying! Enjoy

Nice! But will this make him not cheat? Yul's wife married him when life was difficult for him according to him yet he is online humiliating her everyday now.

Good to see the youths taking over the helm of affairs.

prospero5:
I'm sorry I saw the mail, but since I couldn't recollect how we crossed paths before yesterday, I chose not to respond. My bad! Please forgive me.
That you mentioned 'old-time friendship', can you enlighten me a little on our life paths.

Please don't feel bad about this.

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prospero5:
I have a friend that left for the US since 2018 and till today most of our friends do not know except his sisters and a few of us. No photos on FB, nothing!

Na man you be. That's how that thing is supposed to be. I can't condemn you for blending game back then but I hope you are done with it by now. Paul said he behaved like a child when he was one. Be good, bro.

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Way to go!

Prospero01:
What kind of priest did you people visit? Never did God promise to lead his children through dreams although dreams could mean a lot. For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. The primary way God leads is through His Spirit in your inward man. What you trying to do is unscriptural and will open you up for demonic activities. Your mind will be so polluted. Now to dreams, any dream that you dream and you don't have the interpretation immediately you wake up, forget about it. God will not confuse his children. He speaks plainly. This is coming from a man who God began talking to through dreams, trance, visions, audible voices and his word. So I know better. Get Kenneth Hagin How You Can be Led By The Holy Spirit. There is more I would have told you but let me allow you to digest this.

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If Nigerian Government starts paying child support, majority of Nigerian men will be just sperm donors. Most women stay in bad marriages because of their children's upkeep.

JosephXavier:
Wike should understand that the world doesn't revolve around him

He has made a lot of enemies up north, South East, South West and even in South South and shouldn't go further making more enemies

Tambuwal, Sarkai and Atiku were in the ballot but you'll never hear nay of them call themselves names nor threaten each other

But Wike has insulted Umahi, Peter Obi, Ifeanyi okowa, Obaseki, Ijaw elders, Atiku, Saraki and si many others and even threatened Goodluck Jonathan

Wike is like Trump.
Can't take defeat graciously like Jonathan
Does not have presidential charisma
No emotional intelligence
Loud
Arrogant
Etc.
He is an epitome of what a leader should not be!

oldtruth:
No need to even banter words with you. It is glaring you voice without so much thinking. Don't you know the said woman also gave birth to *children*?

Bye

The said woman should move on, no one should be made to go through insecurities in their marriages or better still the man shouldn't have committed to a monogamous marriage. You can't eat and have your cake in life.

Pero herself wouldn't allow Annie sleep with the man if she was married to him, so the problem is the man sleeping around not "blame the woman" for speaking up because she's fed up she's the victim here.

oldtruth:
Anyone either the male or female that brings his/her family affairs to the social media is irresponsible. You can ask anyone older and more reasonable than you. To your opinion that men sees women as object; that is your opinion and you can live with it forever if you like.

A responsible woman respects and honors her husband and vice versa. Your opinion your life. No one cares

A responsible man honors his wife and respects her. He respects his children too, you shouldn't be too bothered about her bringing it to social media, as you should the man cheating on his wife.

He who brings ant infested wood home, invites lizards.

There was no where you condemned the man's act but rather blame women, is it because oppression makes small minded and low self esteem men feel like men? "Saying blame the woman" says so much about your opinions.

oldtruth:
Enough! Blamed the lady though. What is your own there? Cho cho Cho... What did you know about their family?

Do you hate women this much? "Blame the lady though" so it's normal to just blame ladies for anything in marriage to make small men feel like men? This is a very absurd way of thinking. It baffles me how some Nigerian men see women as objects.

dominusgai:
OK, stupidity will never leave your house. Since you are incapable of critical thought, let me analyze something else for you.

This is Trump's first stint in Politics, Now reason properly if you have the little capacity.

Do you believe it will be possible for Trump a first timer politician to buy a nominee form, talk less of be a president without having straight tax records?

Do you believe if Trump's taxes were dubious, the likes of Adam shif that could get someone to spy on Trump's presidential call would not have sniffed it out and tried impeaching him for it?

As for class, that is how the likes of you are deceived in Nigeria, you place class over delivery, so a classfull idiot would deceive you and waste 4 years of your life without achieving anything. However, a classless achiever would get the job done. And he has been getting the job done.

Trump achieved everything in life, and became President, tell me, what was Obama's achievement before becoming president? Oh, he was a black man, that was his only achievement to become president.

No policy achievement, no business achievement, nothing. And because of his uselessness, no black man will be president of US for another 50 years.

It is the kind of insult you spewed at your generation up there, that makes you incapable of seeing anything wrong with what your lord and saviour "trump" does. Everyone must not agree with you, but in your warped mind just like Trump that uses military to faceoff with peaceful protesters, you think otherwise.
You have no decency, nor decorum. Your sentiment and emotion gets the best of you, grow some emotional intelligence please!

@ the bolded, what has buying form got to do with releasing tax records? You asked me the response of Obama to his tax records, i gave you verifiable links to download his taxes, then this poorly thought out line is your response? (Faces palm). If all is well "in the garden of Eden" like he claims, why is he fighting tooth and nail to hide it?

@ second bolded, Adam Schiff sent spies to spy on Trump's calls, seriously? What are you reading and what are you smoking, please? Now i see why you're a trump supporter, I give up on your IQ.

I don't worship money, i probe anything i deem fit, it is people without values like you that think anything wraped in money should not be questioned.
I don't expect you to understand class, because you're obviously as classless as Trump.
I'll choose Obama over your trashy morbidly obese Trump anyday. If that gets to you, you can jump into the river and drown.
There's no point discussing policy with you, because you're empty.

I don't quote idiot's or reply them, so I'm not going to dignify you with any more responses.

dominusgai:
Please can you tell me Obama's response when asked to show his tax record?

It is not my duty to educate you, however since you're obviously mentally and physically lazy to check for yourself, I'll help you.

Also check fact.org, there was an isolated claim that he didn't submit his tax records, it is false. Just as Trump claimed about Obama's birth certificate and was put to shame. Obama's tax records are available to download, they have always been and will always will.

You can't buy class with money, Obama is the epitome of class.. Don't just support or hate anyone (Herd mentality) because others do; research, read, observe then draw your conclusion.

Smartypant:
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Filed for bankruptcy more than 4 times. Yeah successful indeed. Dying to hide tax records. Lol

Trump is just doing what Putin really want him to do. He's a Putin's PUPPET.

6 times actually. A billionaire that is fighting tooth and nail to hide his tax records.

https://www.thoughtco.com/donald-trump-business-bankruptcies-4152019

Trump is a kid throwing tantrum in the white house.

Psychiatric evaluations should be done on all their future leaders to prevent electing adults suffering from
childhood developmental issues, arising from lack of proper psychosocial development, according to Eric Erikson.

AllenSpencer:
Steve King has lost his seat in Iowa

All Trumps racist squads are going down!

From your lips to the Lord's ears.�

Righteousness89:
Lord JESUS please Heal Madam Pelosi ! She needs all the Help she can get

People that hide behind the name of the lord to support evil.

Aaronsrod:
Christian Trumpanzees are already attacking the Bishop! But really, our gods are extensions of ourselves. Their blond Jesus Trump is a reflection of themselves.

Trump is a white supremacist - so are these slaves.

He is a proven liar & a backstabber - so are these coons.

He is barely literate - so are these morons.

He is sexually incontinent - so are they.

He is materialistic and idolatrous - as are they.

Their fake religion covers up their lack of virtue, morality and empathy - Just like Trump.

How can we stop producing such violently gullible people Serious question.

Nicely put, Dude. Unfortunately you can't save ignorant, egocentric adults who behave like obstinate children. They take the sides with everything that's an aberration, either as a form of rebellion or trying to create a false sense of strength.

Some most definitely suffer from "Oppositional Defiant Disorder" they'll need professional help.

Jokerman:
Shut it.

Fake Cynthia

Keep supporting your sleepy joe

Keep seeking my attention, I don't dignify 5 year olds with responses.

Jokerman:
Someone called Cynthia should know that Trump Is the chosen one... Well except not Cynthia, maybe Cyndi or Simbi

And in your mind now you've made sense? You should be ashamed of yourself for this post you put up here.

Righteousness89:
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At least his so called Christian life is more Righteous than your Full Holiness Life

God!! Why're you people easily deceived in the name of religion? So because he held a bible he's now God sent? Why're Nigerians so gullible? I watched it live, it was a photo op. Like someone can just collect a friend's purse or eyeglass when they want to snap a pic, that was how the bible was handed over to him. Learn to have the spirit of discernment, it's not everyone that calls the name of God...... also Mathew 7:15

Even the bishop of that church was angry, she said she can't believe what she just watched. Is she an antichrist now for saying the truth? This below is a direct quote from her this morning.



"I'm outraged. The President did not pray when he came to St. John's, nor as you just articulated, did he acknowledge the agony of our country right now," Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde of the Episcopal Diocese of Washington.

"Let me be clear: The president just used a Bible, the most sacred text of the Judeo-Christian tradition, and one of the churches of my diocese without permission as a backdrop for a message antithetical to the teachings of Jesus and everything that our churches stand for

The Diocese of Washington distances itself "from the incendiary language of this president,"

All the leaders that denied and deflected the Coronavirus, ended up with the highest number of casualties. Ask USA, Brazil and Russia.

Masking ignorance with arrogance has never helped anyone.

Homeless, yet a mother of 4. Why give birth to children you can't take care of? I think it's time we adopt strict birth control in this country.

We haven't been able to deal with the Almajiri issue at hand, these kind of mothers should not add to the problem.

Raydos:
The thing is by the time corona virus starts fully in Nigeria, Even NCDC won't be able to contain it!!

We haven't even flatten the curve yet now they've eased the lockdown

Look at what's happening in Brazil now!

BRAZIL is overwhelmed
Over 13k graves has been dug already!
People die Every 5 minutes
They've given in to Covid-19
They no longer test
You die, you get buried


I hope Nigeria case won't be like that!!

I feel for the innocent ones but the president and others like him deserve what they are getting. He was on television 2 weeks ago along side protesters holding rallies to tell the people that, Coronavirus is not as bad as it is being publicized, in a bid to ease the restriction that he enforced late compared to other countries.

I wish i could see the look on his face, now that the situation has jumped from bad to worse, to ask him "how market"? Arrogance, ignorance and illiteracy in a single person is a bad combination.

God heal our land... please stay home if you can, and stop the spread.

The more people are infected, the more the health workers are at risk. They're mothers, brothers, sisters, fathers etc. They've loved ones, and deserve to live.
Whatever you do wrongly during this pandemic affects them.

Slow and stop the spread!

Please Stay home.... if you can.

seunlayi:
This is worrisome

Please I advise all my friends and family to think twice b4 joining the multitudes that would jump into the street by 4th of May, we can't come this far to go back fast...4th May is not the expiration date for the virus, you can still contract it, so think twice before you make the decision of going out and if you finally decide to go out please be more careful than you have been.
Spanish flue of 1918 killed over 50million persons reason been that when the isolation was relaxed then, people rushed into the street to begin their normal life without been mindful of the fact that the flue was still around and within the first three weeks of the relaxation,over 35million persons lost their life's. Let's not give room for history to repeat itself... Extend your own lockdown beyond 4th May if you can.
While countries like America, Italy and China were in lockdown, their government were busy disinfecting the streets of their nation. While Nigerians were on lockdown, our government were busy stealing and looting funds made for disinfecting and putting measures to checkmate the spread of the virus, now America, Italy, China are relaxing their lock down, our copy copy government are also relaxing ours. The citizens of the above nations will go into a disinfected street while we will carelessly rush into a highly infected street....think twice.

America, China and other nations began to think of relaxing their lockdown when they started experiencing low record of Coronavirus case but our myopic government chose to relax our lockdown even when we are still experiencing massive increase of the virus.
If wisdom has eluded our leaders in aspect of decision making, let wisdom not also elude us in making our own personal decision. Be guided, think twice, stay home and stay save, Those who will tell the story of this Coronavirus are those that took painstaking measures to stay indoors, the choice is yours!!As for me and my Family I don't want any visitor and I'm not visiting anybody till this pandemic is over
I hope you understand

Well said! Learnt some people said Corona virus is a scam... Lol, hope from the number of deaths in the north these days, they're convinced and not confused that Coronavirus is real.
For those shouting how do we feed, it is those alive that feed.
For those that are anxious to visit beauticians, morticians also dress the dead, so they should choose their poison.
6ft apart, or 6ft below the choice is yours.

Stay home stay Safe.... He who has ears...

nanauju:
OH poor baby cry me a river

Whether you are female or male, if you're showing signs of silliness, I'm going to help you fix that.

U actually sound more pained than I think and trying to look for a way out. No come and engage in gutter talk with me foolish fool, u must really think highly of yourself.

U comment stinks of stupidity of the highest level, how much far low can you go to prove a point u don't have? How low can ur worthless self esteem be?? Oh let me guess, ur type cannot make a point without throwing insult, and then try to find a way of running away. Coward!

For the love of christ fool, don't you ever give me a mention when u have nothing tangible to say or any u don't have any evidence supporting ur foolish claim u rotten piece of rag.
Useless pig, come back let me drag you in the filth of your stupidity. BTW u can go fvck yourself on a dog's preek

read what you wrote up there again if it makes sense to you. You're very pathetic! I see the lockdown is taking it's toll on you, and i just got under your skin by making you face reality. The frustration is obvious.... you need help dear.
Drag your already dirty self in the mud, that is obviously your habitat.

By the way there's no such thing as "how much far low" , you're welcome guessing you'll have enough decency to look that up before crawling into the gutter you said you live in...