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Flytefalls: Drake pisses me off.
Nicki Minaj/lil Wayne/young money piss me off.
But ultimately, Jay-Z pisses me off.

These people telling me their lyrics are deep know nothing of depth.

I don't see the hype about that dude. I still think Nas outclass JayZ

Make I no go talk wetin I no sabi.

Mystiqme: You say we should put ourselves in your shoes...Have you tried putting yourself in the guys shoes?
A security man that gives book gifts ? Respect!

+100.
I tried the above with my ex and she sent me a lengthy text, abusing me and blah blah blah.

Why are people advising this guy? What nonsense!!!! If Someone in 2012 can reason like this, he's got no hope.


Well, thanks for your story once again. Nobody will ever discuss something like this about me in a forum. Never.

heavy g: You people are just descending on my head for Nothing. My sister is educated and she's always been tops in class Since when She was small. She's a decent, pretty girl.

Everybody talks like It's so easy to break even in naija. what type of graduate will even pick up security job sef
I just don't want her to suffer. And I shouldn't be castigated for that Because There's nobody's sister suffering in my house.

Clap for yourself. Well done.

What the hell?


That is why I believe respect should be the foundation when considering marriage. You will learn to love her later.

I hope we now see what our girls want ready-made men. Guys wey never make am, you are on your own oh. The society, including your fellow guys, is against you. If poverty no tire you and you dey find motivator, read the op tori again.


I must make it and I will make it legally. I get rich or I die trying.

It tells you the calibre of songs we prefer out when silly artistes like Iyanya sells when people like Styl Plus and Mode IX didn't.

vivianc: Ewu.

I'm not surprised, you know?

vivianc: What a world we live in! A world where goodness is called weakness, f....oolishness, etc! Where help and generosity is called s...tu..pidity and muguness. What a world we live!
So being compassionate and sensitive towards others is now a crime? OMG!

I guess the bible is right all along! The heart of man? Who can tell?
Trust has been killed!
Friendship has been murdered. And
Kindness has been shot!
Love aborted!
That's it!

Let us make the world an unbearable place to live! Let wickedness thrive and know no bound!
Let that brother who is standing by the road with a heavy load be given more heavy loads!!! Let that candle be broken into pieces instead of being lightened!
Cos indeed, kindness is for the weak!!!!
cos whoever that is kind is dead, so dead, and dead indeed!
smh!!!

Someone's been 'magaed' and you are here giving us Oyedepo's motivational speech. No just let me vex.

freecocoa: And what does this mean?

Since when do I support eveil?biko respect yourself o.

Omo, see vex nah.

Alright, sorry.

ghettodreamz: You really don't get my drift. Now, do you?

More like, they got there with the assistance and help of their partners or spouse as the case might have been, in conjunction with every other factors.

No. They got there themselves. The women only married them because they saw prospects, possibility of being a billionaire's wife. They did nothing, just come chop attribute.

Coldfeet: Abegii!! Na india this tori happen where woman they pay her own bride price? Anyway relationships are a win lose situation. Tell your friend sorry and better luck next time. I don't know why some peeps are cursing the lady in question its not like she killed someone o! She only took money from her boyfriend PETER to have a sweet life with her husband PAUL!! Albeit dubiously! But hey! He is an offshore guy chicken change if you ask me. asking for a refund is just too comical I must say was it a business transaction?

Wonderful!!!! Clap for yourself. Imagine this nonsense.

After satan, hate women.

Billyonaire: You started by saying that your friend works offshore and is rich. And you also stated that the lady in question dropped out of school in the event of her relationship with your rich friend.

Firstly., 200k is NOT money even for an offshore worker who derailed her destiny.

And the school fees he expected the funds to be for, was he supposed to get the money back ?

Tell the guy to laugh it off. its no biggie, that money no reach to spend at a club any good weekend.

Skillful braggart.

eagle,eye:
Ahhh..... , the bolded is very sad coming from you.

I'm telling you. I was disappointed

Gabriel_sylar: Dat girl marraige won't last 3 weeks....but thank God sha na jim iyke act the movie

Omo, see swear nah. If na you this thing do, she for don face eternal judgement since

Soferkizzy007: They are eventually gonna break up again...LIKE IF U AGREE WITH ME**

beggy beggy.

life_style: After God, I fear women...

After satan, hate women.

greatgod2012: I do not and will never support what the lady did to the guy, infact, its very bad and should not be encouraged at all.


However, i want to look at it from another angle. I see some "what ifs" in this relationship.


What if it was the guy who first scammed this lady in one way or the other before, i meant before their first separation and the lady has been looking for a way to revenge?


What if it was the guy who first broke this lady's heart in a very hard way and the lady thinks this is the best way for her to pay him back in his coin?
Many what ifs...............


Since we are not able to hear from the lady's mouth her reason for her action and also we dont know what really transpired between the two of them, i think its better to tread carefully when judging the lady.


Once again, i do not support her action, but its only God who sees what is hidden.

May God help us all.

Coming from you, I am surprised.

Had it been someone like freecocoa, I for bone but you?

Guys still dey para?

Who have time, society/reality has a way of tightening some loosed nuts.

I no send una.

This cheat still dey? Abeg, helep is nah

mondi_cheeks: lmao chai
Seriously NLers are wicked

falls from palm tree

ghettodreamz: I'm I the only one that noticed one common feature they all shared?

Marital status; Married

More like being married also helped them got where they were today..

God, let your will be done in my life.

And the poorest men in Africa are not married, huh?

Chai!!! See gap between first and second.

ariseandshine: Why should you be a spinster at 30 years when over 10 guys have shown interest?

**DIES**

I need spinsters. You know, you give me kids, nurture them thill they are grown and then I pay you off.
#GodBlessTheSpinsters

Cleft Events: Some ladies are not ready to work sha,they just want ready made. Am not saying dat u shud accept rubbish but with dis kind of attitude u will remain single and divorce will be on d increase. If U don't want to end up tasting all d guys then note dat Marriage/relationship is all about give and take/compromise. No guy will beat u if u do d right thing(pls am not supporting abusers) just do d right thing and be ready to always give and give at all times.

Also I will beg u to stop spreading dis attitude because its not everybody dat can extract d right message from it,some girls/ladies will only pick d wrong ideas and start sending defiant signals to their partners.

Remember our mothers were able to sustain their relationships/marriage because they were submissive,try it,it doesn't hurt. It will save a lot of proceedings in court due to divorce. We always quote d bible but it seems ladies of dis days skip dat part.

And for d guys out there,wots happening,u guys shud step up,some of u need to change your attitudes towards us. Remember one only accepts defeat by punching and if u know u are too powerful pls try punching men like u. People respect u more because of d way u treat your wife and I have found out dat spiritually u gain more by treating her right because u get an additional person to pray for u,remember d saying dat whoever finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from d LORD. Or would u like it if u find your father beating your mother or another man beating your sister all in d seek of marriage. Give your woman her space if dats wot she wants. Always give and give until she gets tired of receiving believe me if u do dat u will be among d happiest men, a lady's attitude towards u is a reflection of how u treat her.
God Bless.

Alright, 1 like from me. I agree with this post especially the highlighted part. Guys wey go soon marry, read this post again and again and again.

Okija_juju: The Op made it look like a Man that gets angry and throws things against a wall is not the ideal man for any woman to marry.. Or that a Man that insists that his wife pounds yam for him to eat when she is pregnant is not that Ideal man..



Like seriously?!


The OP just made out all of Our Grandfathers and Great Grandfathers to be Bad Husbands

Hey okija, are you just knowing that?? They've been telling us this for over a year now.

crackhaus: Instead of money over everything, it should be your happiness and sanity over everything.

Instead of paying her off, offer her the choice of remaining a loving, loyal, dedicated and trustworthy wife or taking a walk without the kids.

But your head dey there sha!

My guy, you dey talk your own oh. Why should I? They come with hell lots of trouble. All the emotional pain arsenal don cause me never do?

trolling: And I can authoritatively tell you that without a head(man), no woman and I mean no woman would make it into the kingdom or why do you think scriptures say in that day seven women will hold on to a man,mind you its not going to be happening in Nigeria, go figure out where the kingdom is then you can talk , don't allow pride and feminism to deceive you also, at the end of the day its all about salvation and eternal life

I was about to say something sill till I saw your moniker. No need.