If mother mary can humble herself and gave her love to ordinary joseph the carpenter,I don't see reason y dat sister can't date or marry an educated security

I find it interesting that so many men always complain about how picky and how unrealistic women's expectations of men are. You are doing exactly what so many men complain that women do to them. If you were in this guy's shoes, and the lady in question has your mentality, you would be here castigating all the women in the world.

I think I get it now. If we are ugly and broke, then women shouldn't judge us based on looks or wealth, but they should judge us based on our character. However, if any of our female relative is trying to get with a man who is broke or not so good looking, then they must be crazy.

Do unto as others as you would have them do unto you.

afdynamic: hmmm....... Why wil u fall in luv wit sumbody dat is nobody.

don't tell me its bad to be a security.

Nawaooo! Several post and no like.....End times sha

osahonmk: Ops first of all.... wats ur occupation

I bet he has non.

Oga, life no be rubber stamp. Its not where u are but where u are going. Thank God for some women who do not allow money define their emotions.

Before u condemn ur sister, pls find out who the man really is.

I wish i can tell u my story. A beautiful story of stones turned into cakes. It is well.

The most importatnt thing to consider is happiness, if ur sister finds hapiness in him then let them be

I hope we now see what our girls want ready-made men. Guys wey never make am, you are on your own oh. The society, including your fellow guys, is against you. If poverty no tire you and you dey find motivator, read the op tori again.


I must make it and I will make it legally. I get rich or I die trying.

Money without happiness is noting. Gone are dos days we choose men bcuz of wealth

gboso1ne:

k

U quoted all dat to say 'K'. Check my signature, u are one of dose dat are mad but nt roaming

YOU DONT WANT YOUR SISTER TO MARRY A SECURITY GUARD WHY DONT YOU MARRY HER NAH? THE SECURITY GUARD IS NOT THE BEST MATCH, SO YOU ARE THE BEST MATCH

BIG BROTHER, I believe that God is the giver of anything and everything. The guy in question, I know that deepdown, he really wants to be in a boardroom turning around on a leather chair and sipping cappuccino. But unfortunately, Gods plan is different to our plans.
If you think you are better wherever you are, you are wrong, its only by GODS grace that you have what you have. In a blink of an eye it could be gone.The security job that the guy does is what his God has given him for now. GOD may turn his moaning into dancing

If you judge his character, I would support you. But judging the work he does, is not fair, especially when its honest living.

Let your sister make her choice, while you get busy looking for your partner who will keep you busy, that you will not have time to dip your long nose into your sister's biz.

So it has become a crime to marry a secuurity man, eh. He gives your sister gifts and encourages her when she goes throgh tough time and you don't see he will make a good husband. Ok, tomorrow don't come and tell us how her wealthy husband from NNPC is abusing her

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Guys, I just want you to put yourself in my shoes. I can't even process that she's actually thinking of marrying this guy.[/quote]

heavy g:
Guys, I just want you to put yourself in my shoes. I can't even process that she's actually thinking of marrying this guy.

Put urslf in her shoe ;Ds

tell us what your own boy friend is doing, that will help us to advice you properly
kindly allow your sister to follow her heart

You people are just descending on my head for Nothing. My sister is educated and she's always been tops in class Since when She was small. She's a decent, pretty girl.

Everybody talks like It's so easy to break even in naija. what type of graduate will even pick up security job sef
I just don't want her to suffer. And I shouldn't be castigated for that Because There's nobody's sister suffering in my house.

THE MAN BEING A SECURITY MAN DOESN'T MEAN
FIND OUT IF THE MAN IS LITERATE OR ILLITERATE.. IF HE IS ILLITERATE, DON'T ALLOW UR SISTER TO MARRY HIM....
NOWADAYS, IN NIGERIA, ILLITERATE PERSON DOESN'T HAVE LIFE.
EDUCATED PERSON IS FINDING IT HARD TO SUCCEED LET ALONE OF ILLITERATE PERSON...
MARRIAGE IS NOT WHAT ONE CAN RUSH INTO... IN MARRIAGE, LOVE N MONEY IS IMPORTANT FOR THE HAPPINESS OF A HOME...
HOW MUCH WILL A SECURITY MAN WILL EARN TO HAVE A STANDARD OF LIVING IN NIGERIA THIS DAYS...
TELL YOUR SISTER NOT TO MARRY HIM AMICABLY.
THE BEGINNING MAY BE ROSSY NOW BUT THE END WILL BE SOUR...

Ladybianca: If he is loving, not Abusive and a graduate....I dnt c y she shud not marry d love of her life....provided he is hardworkn n will sooner or later get a better job....i prefer to marry a man who is hard workn buh is nt yet rich(we will struggle together n make it together)to a man who is rich now n is nt hardworkn....(God forbid tho)wat wud now happn wen sumtin hapns to his riches........@op allow ur sis to marry her love provided he has dos qualities I mentioned above.....my 2 cent

Easier said than done.

Hmmmmistic

Happy wedlock

What do u do sef OP

Well Michael Ealy was a cook in Think Like A Manr

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heavy g: You people are just descending on my head for Nothing. My sister is educated and she's always been tops in class Since when She was small. She's a decent, pretty girl.

Everybody talks like It's so easy to break even in naija. what type of graduate will even pick up security job sef
I just don't want her to suffer. And I shouldn't be castigated for that Because There's nobody's sister suffering in my house.

Clap for yourself. Well done.

My dear my advice to u is to free ur sister for the guy,so long as she is happy with the guy u called security man,just let her follow her heart,there is dis wealthy guy in Delta state called Ayiri Emami he didnt even go to school,no good educational background,but today in Delta state he has voice in terms of Egtl project he made lots of money from dat project,what are my trying to S̶̲̥̅A̶̷̷̴̲̥̩̩̥̅̊̐͠♈̩̩̥ is for u to let ur sister follow her heart,she doesnt sees dat guy as just security guy,but someone who we be great 2moro.

afdynamic: hmmm.......
Anyway, 4rm my own point of view. I would want 2 to find out d potentials d security guy has. Who knws, he may be a graduate wit a gud potentials n a brighter future bt tryin 2 meet ends meet wit is current job cos of d situation of unemployment in d country. The guy may even be the CSO wit gud pay n less work. but if d guy is d otherwise, talk brain 2 ur sister's head. No woman on earth deserves 2 suffer. If a lady's father is poor, it is nt her fault but her husband is poor, it is her fault. Why wil u fall in luv wit sumbody dat is nobody.

i am highly disappointed, did i hear you say. Marry to nobody, i cant blame you, for saying such an undiluted word. One of the issue we have with some nigerian. No rich one want to associate with poor people. THANKS

Let her qo o jor or is the security man not a man aqain?

I cant help but laugh but dont know how to laugh.ok let me try spanish laughter haaaahahaaaahabaaaabahahahaa!!!.ok am coming back to coment after am done with my fufu and onigbu soup.goodnight folks but remember love they say is blind

@ OP ...I am really surprised at your level of thinking. What makes you think you will be a better husband than this security guy. Have you taken your time to know about his educational background, are you gainfully employed as a graduate (provided you are one), and if you do...how easy was it when you got the job.

After being in and out of jobs for almost 6 yrs, I went with my friend to take up a job as security guard with salary above 50k, which was even better than those days when I was working as a marketer and living on stipends and commission. At first i was ashamed but my supervisor encouraged me. We saved some money and enrolled for a professional course in Security Management and I am even working towards my Masters in Crime psychology and this is a career path I never considered.

My friend was lucky because he now work as a security coordinator in a bank with a monthly package of over N500K. I am also waiting for my turn to come and coupled with the fact that my bank is now converting people with university degree to full staffs.

A man without a job is an irresponsible man....

Its obvious dat d op has low self esteem and he doesn't really understand d world he's living in. A security man today can become the bank regional manager 2mrw, I have a testimony to this effect. Rome is not biult a day. Aliko Dangote was not the richest man wen he married his wife likewise GEJ wasn't d GCFR wen he married DPJ. We should learn to be realistic to life. No ready made food anywea anymore, every1 shud be prepared to make stuff dat will satisfy dem by demselvs. @ op I want to ask u dis question WHO ARE U?

Lif am for am n face ur own life joor. Ogini?

allow her to make her own decision, she is not a baby.she is of age to a make choice.