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Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 2:30pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Okija_juju: Oh so you will advice your darling sister to scrutinize? That is what the OP is doing. There is no perfect man or woman; there is however that person that is ideal for you. There are some things I cannot cope with and some I can 'manage' and vice versa for a guy too. I might be able to cope with being disorganized but can't stand a bad cook; a guy might manage a bad cook as far as she doesn't nag; another man might not care for all of the above as far as she is good in bed; another man might not like s.ex and does not give a damn if she is a one time woman. My point, there is a man/woman ideal for you. She or he will NOT be perfect but you both will be willing to make things work out for the best. Like they say, she is not perfect but we are perfect in each other.... 3 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:32pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ariseandshine: EVE was created for many reasons although the reasons, some of which includes As man's companion As man's helper To help man multiply and bring forth more children Because man(ADAM) was lonely and needed someone to cure him of his loneliness But EVE wasn't created for her to be a slave. Marriage means TWO becoming ONE. Your wife is your partner, your best friend. Both of you are one, abusing her, making her carry an 8 month-old pregnancy and yet work in extreme conditions is devilish and not biblical. If you really love your wife/woman, harm to her, will be the least on your mind if you really have a conscience 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:33pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: All i actually need from my lady is that feeling that she is there, sometimes i find her too inquisitive, but then she always knows when and how to present the issues, and that is all i need, not some Nagging women who brings up issues anytime and anywhere they like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by ghettodreamz(m): 2:34pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Make I go join them for back seat. I de expect this thread to enter 20th page soon. All the single ladies.. Oya make una come comment nah.. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Allenkee: 2:34pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
You people shouldn't persuade or empower young ladies to go out there and challenge their husbands oooh, if you do na koko go full them faces the following day. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Okijajuju1(m): 2:35pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
bukatyne: The Op made it look like a Man that gets angry and throws things against a wall is not the ideal man for any woman to marry.. Or that a Man that insists that his wife pounds yam for him to eat when she is pregnant is not that Ideal man.. Like seriously?! The OP just made out all of Our Grandfathers and Great Grandfathers to be Bad Husbands 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:36pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
lekpalicious: They become so desperate because they failed or are failing to use the chances when they have them, they will tell you they need a submissive husband, but deep down in their heart that is not truly what they want, what they actually want is an already made man. and because of this they get old without being in a steady relationship and thereby become desperate for just any man that comes her way with the fear of living the rest of her life with a Lonely Old congos |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 2:36pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ariseandshine: Eve as a wife is different from Eve as a woman just how Adam as a husband is different from Adam as a man Which Eve are you referring to? |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by UjSizzle(f): 2:37pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk:Some men are good at pretending, and there's the love bug. She may stay with him because she thinks he can be 'fixed' but some people no matter how much we love them can't be fixed. She'd be doing herself a favour by walking away. That brings us back to the Societal factor--Pressure. A desperate woman will still marry him anyway cos she's probably thought to herself "If i don't marry him, who knows when next a man will take interest in me". That's why we need women to have more confidence and pride in themselves...and yes 'fix' themselves too. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 2:37pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk: What has submission got to do with been 'made'? You seem to really be mixing up issues 2 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:38pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
bukatyne: Eve the woman. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by dbride: 2:38pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
carujmonella: Not so easy, only if that career success comes with HUMILITY no man will look your way for marriage |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Okijajuju1(m): 2:38pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
If you 25 years old and you still walkin around talkin bout niggas aint shit you need to get a handle on yo mutha fuckin life and take some responsibility bitch. What you mean to say is all the niggas you Bleep wit aint shit. You need to figure out what it is about your pussy that keep attractin aint shit niggas. - Katt Williams |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by b03liberty(m): 2:38pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
carujmonella:Not totaly agree with you. Everytin has its own time..Intelligent women are more concern of dia home b4 any proffession |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by crackhaus: 2:38pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
dabrake: LMAO. Who is even looking for a wife?Instead of money over everything, it should be your happiness and sanity over everything. Instead of paying her off, offer her the choice of remaining a loving, loyal, dedicated and trustworthy wife or taking a walk without the kids. But your head dey there sha! |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by dbride: 2:40pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
carujmonella: Not so sure, only if that career success comes with HUMILITY no man will look your way for marriage. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 2:40pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Okija_juju: Well well, whatever rocks each persons' boat Some women do not like soft husbands... We all know that they were not model husbands anyways.... Only few (extremely few) women will pray to marry men like their grandfathers 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by helensharpay(f): 2:40pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk: Orisirisi topic, now you will see all the Ada beke's and Olosho popping up to commend the OP, like someone said, so many women are single today because of their pride to be submissive to their husbands, Marriage is not a competition of who owns the best things, some are not married but they are happy, and only their Pillows knows how much pains they feel each night. Nobody should quote me shathanks nah true talk b dat |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:40pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
bukatyne: You are the one mixing up issues, in essence what that statement means is that Girls LIE just to get into a favorable relationship and when things doesn't work out the way they planned, they will then label the husband as being too controlling |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by UjSizzle(f): 2:41pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk:You want a wise woman. That's normal. But i think you're all over the place. You are yet to state where you disagree with the OP or if you even understood her post. You have just spent the past few minutes discussing everything she hasn't talked about. 2 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Charles12000: 2:41pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
which kind vessing be this,abeg take am easy oh.passing sharp sharp with speed |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 2:42pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ariseandshine: Then she owes no one nothing. She is any individual walking the earth just like any random Adam out there. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by dabrake(m): 2:43pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus: My guy, you dey talk your own oh. Why should I? They come with hell lots of trouble. All the emotional pain arsenal don cause me never do? |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:43pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
dbride: True that. I love a woman's inner beauty(character of which humility is among). You didn't read my first post on this thread or else you wouldn't have missed the below words of mine carujmonella: |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:44pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: So in essence the women should fix themselves first before considering settling down with a man, because 70% of relationship issues are actually started by a woman, a man barely has the time to be doing all these policing and all that, plus a man cannot marry a woman whom he finds fault in while they were dating, only a woman can do that with hopes of him changing, and when he doesnt seems to be she makes it look like an issue and there you have a cause for some serious situation |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by dabrake(m): 2:44pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Okija_juju: Hey okija, are you just knowing that?? They've been telling us this for over a year now. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Truckpusher(m): 2:45pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
All the feminists in Nairaland will have a field day taking jabs at guys that dare to come here and say otherwise As for me , i'll just pass with my two hands in my pockets watching frustration take a deep final plunge into oblivion. Abeg ,make una no beat me eh, i dey waka pass jeje |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Ishilove: 2:45pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Akin-David:So u have four toes? 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by lekpalicious(f): 2:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus:Just because you are taken does it mean we should sit down and fold our hands because what the op has said it's true. There are many kinds of desperate women(some may have caused their own downfall). The ones who were waiting for the perfect guy(rich, good looking etc unfortunately a lot of them are players) so she may have refused a lot of marriage proposals and now thinks she is running out of time so will just settle with any man. There ones who stayed in a relationship for many years and ended up ditched and now they feel they are too old and are desperate for any man to marry( I know a girl who dated a guy for 10years and he left her and 6months later got married to someone else). Honestly if a man does not marry you by a certain time, he will never ever marry you. Thirdly unfortunately some women have bad luck in relationships, always get the wrong guys, so they keep dating but the men never propose so she gets so old that she now is desperate for any man. There are all kinds of desperate women(it may have been their fault or not why they are unmarried) but they share the same desperation and are willing to settle. Lastly i think sometimes some women need to be more open minded. Sometimes we are struck on the idea that the man we must marry must be of this tribe or Nationality but if it is not happening and you feel your "clock" is ticking then give other "men" a chance. For me personally i will rather be unmarried and single and be desperate enough to marry someone who is an abuser/serial cheater. It's not worth it. IMO |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Catchfire1: 2:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: I hear someone's biological clock ticking and tocking It will soon turn to alarm |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by naptu2: 2:48pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Ishilove: Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Charles12000: 2:49pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
bukatyne: |
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