Red_Card: you only show up on spinsterhood related topics. Don't tell me my guess is right. I hope say you get pikin sha

lekpalicious: Lmao. When did i say that all men are bad. Secondly keeping a man is no problem. I have a good man who loves and respects me and he is type of guy i always wanted and its not out of desperation. The only reason i am unmarried yet is because we are not there financially yet. So dont worry your lil head about me. I am fine. But why you so bitter though lmao. Dont worry no matter what there will always be stupid girls who will be desperate enough for the likes of you.

eddiebruk: Orisirisi topic, now you will see all the Ada beke's and Olosho popping up to commend the OP, like someone said, so many women are single today because of their pride to be submissive to their husbands, Marriage is not a competition of who owns the best things, some are not married but they are happy, and only their Pillows knows how much pains they feel each night. Nobody should quote me sha

lekpalicious: It seems a lot of men have misunderstood this topic. Its not about preference as every one has a different preference and what works for one will not work for the other. This topic is about unmarried women being so desperate that they settle for someone(who they would not normally have) just for the sake of getting married. When a woman is very desperate, a man can see that and will treat her anyhow as he knows she wont go anywhere. Whether it be cheating, abuse etc. What op is trying to say is women should avoid this. Its not then end of the world if you are not married. Your friends may have gotten married at 23, perhaps your time is 30. This is not about being too picky and refusing good guys. This is about not just settling with a bad guy because of desperation.

dabrake: LMAO. Who is even looking for a wife? Money over everything oh.

All I need from a woman is to sign a contract with her. She will bear me 2 kids, train them till they are 5 and then I pay her off. I am happy, she is happy, everybody are happy.

eddiebruk:

Tah common gerraway, who dey find Orisirisi woman like you

carujmonella:

Bible told women to be submissive to their wife but at the same time admonished the men to love and care for their wife. But some men choose to see the "submissive" part and leave out the rest. God is not dumb and knows some people will play the "submission" card.

If you love and care for your woman, a WISE lady will naturally submit to you unless she's daft, and I'll expect you to kick her azz to the curbs if she is

bukatyne:

Like it is said, if you do not have a destination, anywhere becomes your end point.

dabrake: LMAO. Who is even looking for a wife? Money over everything oh.

All I need from a woman is to sign a contract with her. She will bear me 2 kids, train them till they are 5 and then I pay her off. I am happy, she is happy, everybody are happy.

trolling: And I can authoritatively tell you that without a head(man), no woman and I mean no woman would make it into the kingdom or why do you think scriptures say in that day seven women will hold on to a man,mind you its not going to be happening in Nigeria, go figure out where the kingdom is then you can talk , don't allow pride and feminism to deceive you also, at the end of the day its all about salvation and eternal life

carujmonella:

You've said it all. Women are their own nemesis. They have made marriage their ultimate goal and it's sad. If they have certain goals set out and they pursue that goal, and become successful in life, MEN will troop their way. Nobody hates a GOOD thing

Rather some women will be pursuing marriage instead pursuing career success that will guarantee MEN their way

eddiebruk:

First of all when it comes to Discussions that will better a Union, the woman is supposed to be in charge, i.e if the topic is about how their relationship is going to move forward the wife is supposed to be in charge, because as a man these things actually dont come into our head that much because we already have pretty much too many things to handle, so a wife in this sense becomes both a mother, a sister and a friend, she should be able to raise topics when she sees things not going fine in her relationship, let me tell you this, Men get scared when the woman they love call them on the phone as says "I need to talk to you" this phrase alone sends cold down the spine of the husband, because first he would be forced to think that his wife is in danger and feels insecure, and for this reasons he gives more attention, if you are a woman that knows how to get your man always interested in your conversation rather than constant Nagging, then you are on top notch of your game as a wife

lekpalicious: I see i struck a nerve. Truth is real men wont have a problem with this topic. Only little boys. Keep being a little boy as you will keep attracting little girls.

bukatyne: A female poster opens a thread to advice ladies to avoid abusive and substandard men.

Male posters are ranting and talking about submission, competitiveness, reasons men cheat etc.

If your sister brings a man you know is a potential abuser or cheat home, will you advice her to carry on so that she will not hug her pillow at night or walk on menopause street? Will you tell her to be patient and pray or run for her dear life?

The quality of some men is really pathetic.

Just as some women are not wife materials, some men are not husband materials.

Yoshi-Master:


Good points, I never saw were the OP made points about women being too choosy.

I mean what gal would wanna be with an abusive guy?

Just the same way us guys shouldn't be desperate and end up with the wrong type females.

Being choosy, is not being able to make your mind up when you have many 'suitable' options.

eddiebruk:

Actually i enjoy the Aunties more than the little girls, and i like how they keep disturbing my line, it makes me feel important, No be me send them to waste their youth waiting for submissive husbands when truly what they were waiting for was a husband with Range Rover. of-course they wont tell you to your face.

eddiebruk:

Actually i enjoy the Aunties more than the little girls, and i like how they keep disturbing my line, it makes me feel important, No be me send them to waste their youth waiting for submissive husbands when truly what they were waiting for was a husband with Range Rover. of-course they wont tell you to your face.

My scotch don finish, but manage this Chelsea dry gin..

uj_sizzle:
I agree with you here, but you seem to havw totally eliminated the factor that some men just can't keep their legs home.

Anyway the OP is simply saying that women shouldn't get too desperate to settle for just anyone. Women need to work on their self esteem and take pride in themselves.
Even still i recognise the fact that some peoplr aren't married because they have attitude problems that can't be overlooked by any man. These ones need to work on that too.

So basically,attitude building and self confidence should pull a woman through, and not what pressure society/cultural mounts on her.
Everyone deserves the best for themselves.

kroosx: Nice rite up..but @ op wot kind of man will u recommend since u can neva find a perfect being

ariseandshine:

LOooOOooooOOOOOOol. Are you talking from experience?

eddiebruk:

And when the men try to make the women see that they are not being submissive the woman labels the husband as being too controlling and monitoring.

helovesme: wow. so some men do all the things in this write-up?

i thank God for my man.

sweetheart, know that I love you and you are indeed a rare gem

caramelll: Madam OP "Mz vox",saw dis write-up on FB a month ago,it wont hurt 2give credit 2d original writer•#jst sayin#

eddiebruk:

First of all when it comes to Discussions that will better a Union, the woman is supposed to be in charge, i.e if the topic is about how their relationship is going to move forward the wife is supposed to be in charge, because as a man these things actually dont come into our head that much because we already have pretty much too many things to handle, so a wife in this sense becomes both a mother, a sister and a friend, she should be able to raise topics when she sees things not going fine in her relationship.

eddiebruk:

Actually i enjoy the Aunties more than the little girls, and i like how they keep disturbing my line, it makes me feel important, No be me send them to waste their youth waiting for submissive husbands when truly what they were waiting for was a husband with Range Rover. of-course they wont tell you to your face.

Mrs.Chima:


It bashes dumb women and those with no commom sense...at least the women that agreed with OP isn't fake and phony when it comes to the truth.

Can you say that about the men on this site?