abeniagbon: It is very annoying to see woman trying to put mouth in men's business and investment.
I don't know know if one need to carry them along. But most time they want their wishes granted against man decision.
I don't know if I am the only one experiencing this.. what actually happen is I have a bus and my wife ask me to sell it on scrapt and give her the money to start up business... I told her we can still fix the bus and get it back to normal. But it sound very unpleasant to her...
Now if I intended on selling the bus while she start up a business..the next is is that you see her family kepp asking her for help and assistance before you know the whole money will be mystery.
Kindly advise:
She just trying to help I guess, because she found out that the bus can damage more if you don’t sell it out ASAP! and make use of the money for another business, just an idea nothing wrong if she has an idea of other business idea as well , she’s your wife and sha can contribute to the growth of the family. Guess the bus is just there doing nothing , all what you need to do is do something quick about it that’s what she want and not just waste the bus just like that. If you wanna sell , sell it and if you want to repair it , do ASAP no time to waste oooo.
We sell food stuff like �Garri ijebu �Yam flour �Honey beans �Dry snail �Smoked fish �Crayfish �Palm oil �Ogbono �Melon �Ponmo �Dry ewedu �Ofada rice Additional we can help you get goat meat and live stock like chicken and all.
psalmuel76: Una no get work ....killing everywhere , na twitter engagement na the next thing.....still waiting to see the day when things will go the normal way it suppose to be in naija....seriously hoping
As COVID-19 no gree work on us, so they plan other way round .
NaijaRoyalty: If only Tinubu could stop stealing from Lagos through the governor he installed against the wish of Lagosians , Lagos woulda been more developed .
But what of the maintenance is very important, they are trying but we Nigerians are more than this. We bigger than this little achievement.
WHY THE OPPRESSION Do we really need this from this man as a Senator oppressing the citizens of Nigerians with our Money �. This is just totally � oppression
psalmuel76: You are part of Nigeria's problem....9 eggs per meal...thats what 9 people can feed on and you are happy feasting on it alone......Change starts from u.....
Is for two people as you can see the spoon � is two. Thank u
Google ABEG, na Beg I Dey beg you!!! no listen to garba make him no use hin own koba us. Because we need google and all here in Nigeria. No just mind Garba for anything hin do, overlook am say na your junior Brother...
Ninobraw: No need for a long story, I got married 2 yrs ago, during our friendship I mean courtship it was very sweet and lovely, we got married 2 yrs ago and I have 1 kid.
The problem I have is that, the girl's family come to greet almost every time and when they come they eat like elephant, anything eatable they eat it, they don't use eyes to see bread tea or butter in my room, they will finish it within a day, I will end up spending a lot during the time, when I noticed that it becomes offen i started telling my wife that I am broke, I don't have money. Although my wife is very nice she earns salary of 40k a month, and do funds and cook many times with her money.
Before now I was it okay, we are like a family, now i just realized that it is making me not think straight within a week oil and cooking things we bought will just finished the cartoon of indomitable that last the 2 of us before 1 month or month plus will just finish within 4 days of thier stay, some time 3 of her family will come once and another set will come again, my wife is the first daughter, the poor parents gave birth to 9 kids all in the name of looking for a boy, so she said although the 2 boys are number 7 and 9 position, her parents should be around man 60s and the woman 45yrs old. so now I am tired of the marriage, I don't know how to talk to my wife about it, that I don't like how thier family do come offend since we got married, my families has never come to sleep over in my place for a night talkless of spending holiday in my place my parents gave birth to only 3 of us 2 boys 1 girl.
Now i am just tired I can't be responsible for someone else burden why give birth to many kids and unable to train them, i plan to have only 2 or 3 kids only, and her family want to make me be like thier father sitting at home doing nothing depending on pension for survival, i have realized that I can't achieve what i should have achieved if i continue life this way.
Before our marriage, we agreed no family members is coming to stay with us, the issue now is they don't stay but come to eat and go, it's a big cheating to me I am tired for real, even if I say I don't have money and she use her own. The money should have be able to do other important thing . She spending is also affecting me a lot, we should have been able to buy land or car or live well, not feeding battalion. I am tired please I need advice on what to do.
brother if you believe in yourself and you’re a Man. Just don’t be tired or weak don’t let that bother you and keep your head straight and find something that will be making you happy in your marriage. Put the devil into shame be strong and don’t stop blessing other with Little you have, because God sees your heart and how you’v been feeding dis poor family and Almighty will be your Guarantor. Just be strong �
Xenry: This is what happens when you marry from a poor family, you will automatically become a burden bearer for all. Tell your wife to feed her family, while you feed yours! Imagine feeding a family of 11 just because you are married to One—that's unfair na! Try and relocate if you can. Because with the way they use to feast on your food, they might as well feast on your flesh when the food is no more .But they eat too much ooo! Damn! I tell you bro, Redpill no fit handle this problem ooo. So you need to Japa!
marrying from poor is not the problem, because if he doesn’t marry the poor girl , who will now marry the poor girls out thr... so and this life no balance is just for us to try and balance it. People are hungry out there and they need financial help. I believe he can just talk to his wife and still do little he can do to assist and God will still continue to bless the Husband for feeding the poor girls. Na wetin our government no plan be this and if to say there is allowance citizens collect every month that can still be sustaining people till they get job and have there own apartment. The prayer is God should just continue to bless the all the married men out there helping the wives one or the other.
I see this as professional legal kidnapping the yahoo boys, using them as source of income for the govt,, at all at all na him bad, them go drop something shaaa ni. But I feels is better for the govt to find them job instead of release them to the street again....
God has been so good to my family this year and a particular blessing has been giving us sleepless night.
I work with a big organisation here in Lagos and currently earn about N600k. I used to work in the branch since my entry level days 6 years ago until I was able to runz the head office movement.
Ever since I join the HQ two years, my life has been at ease. No weekend duties, no sickening pressures from customers. I have been able to develop my self, complete the professional courses I abandoned and can rest well on weekends/public holidays.
The worklife balance now isn't only the advantage of working at the HQ. The career progression and rapid promotion crowns it all.
My spouse earns a little above N400k and we manage ourselves well. Our combined income isn't that much but we've been able to achieve a lot due to our mutual cooperation. She commits her resources 100% into our home. Some people see me as a "big man" outside, no knowing I am actually enjoying the reward of marrying a good wife.
My wife recently got a job very lucrative job. Salary is about N1.5M monthly. She was on the process for close to a year. You can imagine our joy when she was eventually given an offer. This job is a huge one for us as a family and will make life more sweet.
My pain now is the job is based at Abuja and that means she has to relocate there with our kids. Abuja is not where I can drive to considering the security situation of Nigeria. Also, it won't be wise to fly down every week (I also have hidden phobia for heights ) because of costs and other attendant risks.
I actually want us to live together as a family most especially because of our kids. Some Kids tend to be spoilt when raised almost alone their mothers. As a father, I want to jointly raise them with their mother and also instill discipline in them appropriately.
The only solution on sight is to ask my company for redeployment to a branch at Abuja. This I fear might return me back to "Egypt". I.e days of stunted growth, no promotions. In summary, I am scared of killing my career by myself.
My wife is okay with us visiting each other every month but I am vehemently against it.
Someone please help
you said it all my brother...
1) you said you will love to be with your family 2) you said you can ask your company for redeployment to Abuja branch 3)you said God has been so good to you guys 4) you guys have good salaries even if you still redeployment to Abuja. So why dont you just move together with your wife, women can be funny sometimes when there husband is not with her, we are human beings ...las las we go say na devil work. But to avoid that please move with your family, family is first and money can follow thank God you guys are rich nah, una they chop
So my brother my advice is relocate with your wife to Abuja... no for one time leave your wife alone (guess you understood that part) and like you said you love to be with your family... don’t let the small differences of the salary money affect your home. Thank God you working in a Big organisation Don’t even try to stay in Lagos and your wife lives in abuja for one week... distance relationship is not good at all... especially when you have kids to watch after and your wife needs your around . Go with her and I think what you need now is to first get the transfer done first before moving with your wife to abuja...
Aaaaarghmed: Pls guys, I need recommendations on any country I can travel to with 1.5 m to hustle more. I was considering turkey or cyprus. Pls advise me and also you can tell me about any other countries too. Am a graduate and am also a hustler who can adapt.
Thanks
I think the best way is to pray to Almighty God to show you way out to success in life. Situation of this country has left so many young Nigerians in a confusing stage, imagine young man like that so confused and does not no what he can do with 1.5. Problem they Nigeria ooo May God help us.
I can buy, just that my shit they scatter everywhere... especially when the shit they sweet me I do always take my time and I can’t afford to use shot spoil 350 WC.
Taye4j: You guys always make me laugh. For your mind, you think your 2*2 shops are what brings income to Lagos - I laugh in Mandarin ! Abeg, what should we do for Dangote who has close to 18billion dollars investment in Lagos or other top business men who have multi billion dollar investment in Lagos?
Empty barrel is known for making the loudest noise.
Zhongkui: This thing common for schools with boarding house(hostels). I remember secondary school days my friend that lives in the hostel do tell some weired stories..... Woh na their wahala e that Nigeria itself na demon na everyday we dey read bad news