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It will never work, you can't reap where you didn't sow.

PrinceOfLagos:
Rihanna is from Barbados

So this is fake news

Oga stop Hating

EmptyGarden:
Like play like play, this boy madness don last o.

His Madness brings him riches,

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

A clear case of Kettle Calling Pot black.

dougfenton:
i really hate it when people don’t think intensively before talking, go through your comment and ask yourself, did what i write just made any sense?
thats why quora still remains one of the best forums.
because u wrote your common entrance when u were 16 doesn’t mean we should all write ours at the same age.

let me enlighten you sir, search engine like google uses keywords optimization to produce results, she probably typed in something relating to love, that brought out such websites out

Oga this aggression you're channeling to me should be channeled to your lil sis that is going astray.

The Lord is your Strength

Oga this your story made me believe that my eyes have truly seen my ears for this Naija.

So you're telling me that a 10years old is already watching porn steady and even searching for "how to find true love", what does she know about true love , someone that should be in primary 5 or 6, that should be preparing for her common entrance exam

It's cases like this that Citizens of European countries pray for, they will sue hell out of that police department.

Truly, Naija deserves their ranking in the Under Developed Country list.

Why should the use Fertilizer to cook

Never underestimate the power of Kpekus

This is Funny

Poverty is truly a Disease.

Just watch and see how people will start donating millions of naira to bury him but the never donated one naira to help his condition when he was alive.

The only thing I will eat there are those sexy looking pieces of fish that's in that pan

Oga stop Hating

Freestainworld:
What a letter, I hope Leo reads it anytime soon.

Even if he reads it, nothing will still happen.

The ship has sailed.

Becareful, before an Organ Harvester will deceive you and use your organs and become rich overnight

Didn't you read yesterday on Nairaland Frontpage how an Ogboni chiefpriest used the person that came to him to do money rituals and sold his organs and body parts

I see no Remorse on that idiotic Face,

I was expecting to see his face with Black eye and Swollen Thick Lips, why is his face still Fresh

DannyG8:
because he ask me for advice and I don't know what to tell him so I told him to be patience I will post it on nairaland for advice

Oga tell us the truth, it is you that is in this situation, not your friend.

Lovely handwriting

The One true and original Goat, the rest na Fake

Messi it is well with you, go and prosper.

So that their money and their wealth will not disappear in the mouth of a Hungry Leech with Thick Lips

At least this one has sense

See face

UCHIHAmask:
everything you have said is precise,true and correct...
i started out with the normal fire sign attribute,then in a moment i realised that there are other faces to life and character,this evolution made me lose almost all positive emotions but the subsequent apathy came with advantages like quietness,Curiosity etc and at 13 with the help of google i already amassed a credible deal of diverse information all inspired by my negativity,i couldn't draw from yang even if i wanted to...
over the years,travelling,sight seeing and meditating close to nature has brought good tidings,all this i did because to fully comprehend,empathize and gain mastery,all must be balanced,now i can be anything i want,intro or extrovert,humble or rude etc

" I've mastered the art of having my emotions under absolute control" lol,how dare you steal my words...

love,hate,joy,sadness and many other forms are emotions you can master by taming,manipulating or unleashing..
it is good to love,be kind,humble and all that but do you think that there is also need to act ruthless or hateful when neccessary?
would your mastery ever allow you draw from hate(negative emotions)?
in taming emotions,some people naturally have warm hearts and react so but with intelligence they keep their kindness from facing exploitation while some are cold in heart but try as much as posible to react and act with warmth when necessary,being neither cold nor hot in heart is also possible,what do you say about yourself?

Oga this your questions are tactical questions

From your response, I spotted three questions there, let's see if I can be able to asnwer them to satisfaction.

Now, to the first question I spotted which is
do you think that there is also need to act ruthless or hateful when neccessary?
--- To this question, here's a scenario that happened some months ago, I was in a public transport heading to my destination, there were two ladies talking and one of them was like with a concerned and serious and exhausting look on her face, she said "this problem I have with this woman is becoming difficult for me to handle,I have done everything and nothing is working," she then looked at that her friend she was talking to and added "I wish me and you were suffering this same problem", the both laughed but I could tell that it was a Fake Laugh... On the surface level, it seemed like an innocent statement, but an enlightened mind will see "beyond the surface level of that statement",.. Now, if that statement was made to me, my Ruthless instinct will kick in immediately because she's kind of projecting her problem to me and she wishes that I was also suffering with her.
The case would have been different if I had observed it from her body language but for her to open her mouth and wish for me to undergo the same difficult situation she's facing and at the same time using a Fake Laugh to hide her true wish speaks alot of Volume to an enlightened mind... For me, I'll be ruthless with this kind of person. Strategically keep her at arm's length, never divulging any of my present and future plans/moves with her. Secrecy becomes my anthem.

The second question I spotted which is would your mastery ever allow you draw from hate(negative emotions)?
---- if we are being honest here, Negative emotions are powerful. The are so powerful that souls get consumed by negative emotions and I like where you talked about in mastery of your emotions, there must be Balance.. having that Balance is everything, am the type that is so in love with acquiring Knowledge upon Knowledge and I don't think I can allow myself to draw from negative emotions, although there are situations when those negative emotions will rear it's ugly head because we are humans and it's normal to experience negative emotions but as long as you have that "strong will" that you won't allow those negative emotions to take over you, you'll be fine as long as you've mastered how to balance your emotions. The same way we humans have "good and bad" side in us, we still choose to do good because we're able to suppress the bad side in us and still choose to do good. It's the same with negative emotions, we can choose to suppress the negative emotions.


Now, to your Third Question,

---- I like the part where you said in
"taming emotions,some people naturally have warm hearts and react so but with intelligence they keep their kindness from facing exploitation".
---- The above quote is one of the reasons good people dont last long on this planet Earth because the Fail to see the world for what it really is, good people think that the world is filled with people just like them.the always get the cold harsh truth when it's too late.... People like us that completely understands how the game is played knows that at every corner of the world, there's always someone somewhere with that mindset to Exploit ruthlessly any gullible person he/she can find.
- I personally believe that everyone on this planet Earth has a cold Heart, all that is needed is a situation/occurrence that will spark that cold heart to action.

So in summary to the question you asked about what can I say about myself,

-- I'll say this, I pride myself as the type of person that "Loves to move in the Shadows".
-- I love this Quote with Passion.
"It's always a Pleasure to Deceive the Deceiver", this particular quote sums me up perfectly


Am also interested in hearing your answer to those tactical questions you fired me

punisha:
The vanity they will shout is not my problem bros...how u will slap them is what I am interested in.

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Tinubu that should be focused on himself and his health. Is this the same Tinubu that wants to contest for Presidency

This is the mistake alot of men make when going into marriage.
Once bride price is paid for the wife, the Husband has no responsibility to the wife's Family.its as simple as that.

Before a man takes the bold decision of marriage, he should have a thorough discussion with the wife and the should both agree to set serious boundaries that involves the Wife's Family and the Husband's Family.

Like I said earlier, No Husband owes a Wife's Family as long as her complete bride price is paid, anything the man wants to give after the stage of "bride price" should be of his own free will.

Anybody that comes here and talks about "Vanity Upon Vanity", I'll slap that idiot.

UCHIHAmask:
not just to the smallest details,i do every detail,even to the most basic muscle twitch and body movement,Integrating the past and present to predict their future deeds..
i would say that my eyes sees in the dark...
about you,having this ability how is your empathy and emotion like?

You made me laugh when you said
"my eyes sees in the dark"

Now, back to the question you asked,...
Having this ability, makes you feel powerful (let's be honest here, I know you also have that same feeling ), the ability to read body language to perfection is a beauty on it's own. With this kind of power In your possession, there's this tendency for you to be alot more calm around people, your words properly selected and carefully analyzed before you speak, you'll be in complete and full control of your emotions, loosing control and letting your emotions get the best of you Is a rare occurrence.. I can go on and on but I'll stop here.

Now, to the question you asked about how my empathy and emotions are like.

I'll go straight to the point, starting with empathy, in the past, like every other human whose eyes wasn't opened yet, I was only looking at things at the "surface level", the day I started looking at things beyond "the surface level", i realized how blind I was all these while,.. there are things that'll be happening right in front of your eyes but because you chose to see things at the "surface level", you'll miss it, but the time you learn to see things "beyond the surface level", you'll be amazed and shocked at the same time and before you know it, you'll start asking yourself questions like "how could I be so stupid, how could something like this be happening right under my nose and I didn't see it?.

One thing I noticed, if you're the type that pays attention to detail, there's this vibe you give off, people tend to be more straight forward with you, it's almost as if the know that you can detect when they're not being straight forward with you.

As for my Emotions, am not bragging here, or maybe I am , I've mastered the art of having my emotions under absolute control.

Another thing I noticed, life begins to make more sense and life becomes more worth living when you've mastered that ability to see "beyond the surface of things".


So What about you, I'll like to hear your own side,... Having this ability, how is your empathy and emotion like?