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Paulo Maldini

The very good old testament kinda justice.

Savage but I endorse.

He should have been debriefed before getting minced though. Animal

Apologies to all animals because they sure are more animal than this mistake.

You rot here on earth and in heaven.

Typing a very personal story to give an idea on why I admonished the op the way I did with my first submission until he went on a tantrum-throwing spree.

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Growing up in the standard Lagos face me I slap you setting in Mafoluku Oshodi when the Military boys held sway in Nigeria, most of the matures here or history savvy's would understand how hopeless and depressing the economy and general standard of living was at this time.

Now, daddy and mummy had chosen to manufacture 11 of us as kids, and I'd be saddled with the onerous task of being the Nigerian "first son" with loads of expectation from me on finding a way to alleviate the family's situation and by extension better the lots of kids I had been brought into the world with at my parents behest and not because I had chosen to come to them.

You can at best imagine daddy, mum, we the kids and a cousin living with us then having to jostle for a space in two-room living space from a sixteen-room face me I face you living set up.

Not able to wrap my mind around the kind of life I had been born into and in the quest to better mine and my family's lot, I decided I was going to quit school, find a way to travel abroad, and go hustle for my family.

Before then, a bachelor neighbor Oli, had chosen our house as the only trusted one where he could drop his keys because he lived with his boys/friends who were all traders at Idumota.

There was one of his roomies who was in his 40's then (Ikenna), he was always ever the last to leave home and would, as usual, drop their key at mine.

My immediate younger sister (Mary) had just finished high school, naive and still a virgin, she'd naturally be at home most times.

In the midst of all these, I had found out I could risk my life through the desert in search of a better life abroad, after all how I want to take get a visa, and if I die, I die but I had decided I'd rather die trying instead of sitting, watching my family ravaged by poverty and still die. All die na die I had told my young self.

Got myself prepped, lied to my dad and made him raise me some little cash, and into the desert, I proceeded.

For two whole years, I had languished on the road and was only able to communicate with my family only after about 6 months of living home. For sure they'd thought I had gone back to my maker.

After the two unforgettable years of languish, I had succeeded into Spain eventually, called up daddy to break the news to him, he didn't quite believe me. Note that this was before the era of mobile phones in Nigeria. Sensing that daddy was having a hard time believing I was in Spain finally, I had dropped the line, did a western union money transfer from the locotorium I was calling from, called him back and furnished him with the transfer details.

Then and only then was I able to convince daddy otherwise.

And then, keeping to my nomadic and adventurous lifestyle, I had proceeded on to move on to the Netherlands to go tell the authorities there how I and my friendly 'horse' on whose back I had ridden to Europe were the only ones surviving from my little village in Delta, hence my request to seek asylum in their country.

Luckily for me, I had succeeded in convincing them to allow me to stay in the Netherlands and would be given a weekly stipend as pocket money back then in camp. From this money I'd call home on weekends, talk to my family and always assured my other siblings that I'd make sure they had the best education having slaughtered mine on the altar of "I wan bail family out".

During one of such weekend calls, after the usual pleasantries exchanged, daddy had told me in a stutter....

" Mary, your younger sister fell pregnant and now has a daughter"...

Ah ah... I had muttered in obvious instant deflation plus disappointment, but I had refused to get angry, judge my sister or castigate her.

I asked daddy, how, when and by whom...


Still stuttering, he had told me it was like a month after I had left Nigeria, she initially wasn't forthcoming with who was responsible, how it had brought shame to the family which I could imagine knowing how our neighbors were, and how even some people had been insinuating that daddy who was a deeper life pastor might be responsible because no one could make a sense of how Mary who was a home girl could fall pregnant. The whole matter weak me like dodo, but I listened with rapt attention anyways.

And then, daddy said she later confessed that Ikenna, who we called Brother Ikenna was responsible. He had denied responsibility but when my battalion siblings faced him, he had accepted responsibility with zero plans to marry her just like this op.

I told dad how disappointed I was, and how angry I am that they had kept it away from me for that long, told them not to worry that I'd take care of my sister and the kid and hung up.

Fast forward to 2008 when I visited Nigeria, the baby Vic had grown, obviously abandoned with my family. She'd grown up to see my mum as hers and Mary as aunty Mary until recently.

Levels had changed, I had improved my family's situation, built them a house in Lagos, Ikenna gone with the wind, and would soon resurface looking for daddy's number and whoever could point him on how to locate my family.

By this time he should be in his 50s, no life, wife or any other kid. Come and see abeg.


My phone would go bellowing one day, upon picking up, the voice at the other end had been subtle and subdued with a "good afternoon sir, na me Ikenna"...

Ah ah..bwoda Ikenna, na me you dey call sir?

He went on, abeg no vex for wetin happen I know say I Bleep up...wetin i wan tell bwoda Ikenna after how many years... I simply dropped the call.. I no fit shout.

The long and short of it all is that, today over 20 years later...

Brother Ikenna's life is nothing to write home about.

Mary, my younger sister is today happily married and would soon be one of the youngest grandmas because Vicky, the kid in question had grown into a very beautiful young promising graduate.

Daguccizgreat:
You're a dude with conscience and wisdom

Thanks bro...

Going through most of the comments and attacks on my submission here has prompted me to want to share a personal experience.

I will do so later today just to give the kids here an idea of how most of my comments on issues are indeed borne out of personal experiences.

Watch out...

Ravenna:
Sirdoug,
I'm in the same shittt as you.
I'ma big boy, who impregnated a young gal of 19 I barely know: tho I wanted a one night thing for 5k, she refused the money and we continued fraking.
After a month, she got pregnant! GBAM!!
As a Lagos guy, I was like WTF!!!
I went wild.. we never dated not to talk of marriage.
On a normal day I cannot date a gal like her.
So, we tried abortion several times and it didn't work.
even in a specialist hospital that was when I realized I was dealing with something greater than I expected.
To cut the story short, I went to see her parents and talked to some elders and men of God, they all told me the same thing- ACCEPT it!
Few weeks later she gave birth to the most beautiful thing I've ever seen- A baby gal!!
I wept bitterly and asked God for forgiveness.
Tho the lady is never a gal of my dream: a sec school grad, her fam is shitty and all that but today we are living together.
I just gave the wheel to GOD and so far things are falling in line.
I'll be going to Europe too and may never come back anytime soon and probably marry another lady there but one thing is certain: That baby is mine and I'ma take full responsibility.

Bottom line: GOD is bigger than man.

This is what a real man does.

Owning up and taking responsibility, not coming on here with preconceived and premeditated conjectures to sway opinions.

Way to go mate...wish you the best.

madridsta007:
And yours is the typical response of the irresponsible, misogynist and the decieving-oneself response.

Someone goes and gets a girl pregnant and you want him to run away from what HE is responsible for? Actions have consequences, guy.

Lol

Just ignore that one my brother.

Allow him to revel and drown in his misogynism.

dalene1305:
I read your story and its quite pathetic. Don't marry her because of the children, if you must marry her, if not I would advice you take her outside the country, expose her to civilization, take care of your kids, when they grow to like 5years collect them and let her be, she will find someone else who will marry her.
Please don't abandon her here to be caring for the kids and no development for herself, I feel she will do better outside the country if you can afford it.

She will appreciate you later.

And you are a woman with this advice, he should strip her of her kids and deny those kids a mother's love just after 5 years?

This is amazing.

Welldone.

Way to go...

He also needs to be recalled by his constituents.

He is not worthy of the hallowed chambers..

Oh nooo...not again.

Why??

papiforreal:
He's not bigot bro. He's just blunt. It's can that painted him as that

I'd respect your opinion bro, but he's fond of presenting himself more as a divisive character going by his many utterances as it affects the nation.

So, all the while you had been chatting with her dirty, getting aroused by her and exchanging nudes you never cared to check her pictures until she decided to pay you a visit?

Oga how e dey do you?

Awww..

R.I.P

Of course, it is...

tiwiex:
True. They pretty much provided no solution to the numerous problems. I would have thought the theme could have been "challenges of open grazing and economic benefits of ranching". That would have made it worthwhile. That sector trumps oil and gas if managed commercially across the value chain and would create numerous jobs for the youths.

You sabi book my friend..chai

checkedout:
The matter tire me sef.

Make God no let me get case for this Nigeria na me go represent myself o

Lol...

Succinctly put.

The short man has always been very brilliant aside his penchant to lean towards the bigotry most times.

If you no tell yourself the honest truth nobody go tell you.

Me wey no even go school pass secondary school still sabi book pass this kain kpako lawyer.

The Abuja court lacks jurisdiction to order for the interim forfeiture but didn't lack same jurisdiction when you did the below bolded... Olodo lawyer.

Na so una take dey send innocent people go jail anyhow because of una incompetence...


Senator Nwaoboshi had applied to the Federal High Court in Abuja to vacate an order of interim forfeiture of his alleged assets made on July 2, 2019.

The Presiding Judge, Justice Taiwo Taiwo, had in his ruling on an ex parte application filed by the Special Presidential Investigative Panel for the Recovery of Public Property against the Senator for non declaration of assets, issued an order for interim forfeiture of 11 houses and 22 bank accounts linked to the Delta-North Senator.

Hmmm

He could have renounced and repented having seen the light, but he eventually lost control of his body.

Wey crew de la Vaseline?

grandstar:
There are pips who hate abortion and he is one of them. It would torture his conscience for the rest of his life. He is ready to accept the children if they are his and that's very noble of him.

The damage has already been done. The way forward is what is key!

Stupidity and evil is when you hate abortion and also hate a condom with a woman you aren't married to.

AntiMCU:
Sorry to bust your bubble but all the challenges mentioned above are faced by both people who do legit and illegit.
Life's challenges is not selective of an individual's current/past wrongdoings.
I repeat yahoo money can be profitable if invested/managed properly.
Simple!

Akiko...which person bubble you dey burst?

You must be kidding...

Keep on yahooing and profiting from it...im done with you.

Dem no dey tell pikin make e no grow big teeth...the only advise be say make e grow better lip follow am to fit take cover the teeth

Okay na

GeniusWannabe:
Mr. Douglas, if you really want to get the best out of this thread, you have to ignore that guy called daddytime. Judging from his manner of approach, it's obvious he has nothing positive to offer. It'll be in your best interest to ignore him.

I don cure your madness for the other thread abi...better advise this your fellow wey never sabi me. .

Neanderthals

sirdouglas:
Oga answer the question?? Stop trying to dodge it. You have been all over this thread. Replying every Tom snd Harry and telling everyone how I am a bad person but you admitted you impregnated a minor and at a tender age of 14 and has refuse to give insight on how it ended.

I wanted you to tell everybody. I told you many people here are interested or you think I am the only one online??

Motherfu*king hypocritical bastard. Tell everyone how it ended let them judge both of us who is a better human.
Me that impregnated at her early twenties and you that impregnated a minor possibly helped her to do an abortion or denied the pregnancy. Na God go punish you.

See this mungo park oo...

You are truly a bumkum.

I say, if you see my children you go think say dem be my mates or gf's. Some people here know me very well.

You get luck say no be my sister or family you come spew that your bullock.

Na inside grave u for use that your visa.

Animal

Mujtahida:
You are mean and very inconsiderate. You think that by being harsh you can pound your 'truth' into his head. But what you don't know due to the hardness of your heart is that a little sympathetic understanding from you will comfort him and make him amenable to listen to you. We all make mistakes. You yourself according to your own account impregnated someone when you were14. So you more than anyone else should understand his plight but here you are gas lighting him from post to post. Not good bro

Speak the truth in love if not shut up!

Na brain dey pain you asswipe...

Life...it can be so tricky, somewhat unfair and incomprehensible.

At the end of the day...life knows best.

Farewell...

Enjoy life guys....there's enough time to be dead....

seanwilliam:
dnt mind the op jare. but sir wetin u do to the pregnant wey u gv person wen u were 14? pls tell me sir so dat i go sabi

Be a good boy...

Anybody wey I tell say...see my pikin or children...dem dey relook me well...

Na God jare

mechanics:
That's a wrong reply, you shouldn't advise people to do evil.

What is eviler than the torture the woman, a supposed wife is making the brother endure?

Kindly explain to me sir...

sirdouglas:


You see how offended you are?? I haven't started yet. I am just judging based on what you said. Maybe if you give me an insight about what you did to the girl you impregnated at 14 maybe It can help me figure out this.

This is to tell how much of a hypocrite you are. Tell the world how you handled the baby a perverted fellow like you impregnated at the age of 14 that I am still struggling for my junior waec and class position. I am interested and I am sure a lot of people here will like to know.

Monkey...you no go fit siddon where my children siddon trust me.

You deceiving and lying son of a gun.

I'diot

You see family wey you fit manipulate and oppress that's why body dey shack you.

Dem suppose rearrange that smelly mouth wey you take utter those rubbish wey you spew to dem after impregnating their daughter.

You go collect believe me.

sirdouglas:
Oga is not how far but how well. Now I have seen you arenothing but a kid in adult skin.

What happened to the ten year old baby you impregnated you pervert??

Bursting your bubble niccur...

You need a lot to impress papas like us who abound here...

Stupid boy.

You'll get on front page to understand how far.

Ewu