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Amotolongbo:

Amotolongbo:

emkz:
I was unfortunate to be in a relationship with someone back home but we never quite got to the marital union. She calculated my earnings, deducted the costs of my rent, fuel and feeding, and requested I sent her the rest. She wanted to spend it on a lavish lifestyle to impress people and on her new relationship since I wasn't around. She was housing a man in a space I paid for and was trying to extort me (person wey I never marry oh). Imagine marrying such and taking her abroad. Na tears.

Well sha, I cut the relationship off because she was working at cross-purposes with me and teamed up with her boyfriend to deceive and extort me. She then promised to make my life miserable.

I am no longer abroad, but if I were, I'd marry a lady there, prepare a water-tight prenup and discuss the terms of disengagement should it ever come to that. That we are in a relationship does not mean I should be paying you for the rest of my life once the relationship ends. And except it is a woman whom you have been with for long and grew together in the relationship or someone you already married at home and she is still loyal to your vows as you can verify, I wouldn't advise any man to go and use his hand to carry a Nigerian-educated unexposed and ill-exposed girl and take her abroad for any reason. If you were Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Latino, Indian or Pakistani, I'd have advised you differently. But there is something fundamentally wrong with the African mind and I still can't dissect it.

emkz:
When I was abroad and wanted to get married, I was advised to marry an abroad-based Nigerian woman who had an understanding of the workings of the system abroad, who understood that every penny must be worked for and every bill must be paid and failure would lead to a judicial process. Someone who would appreciate the value of £20 after understanding the sweat it takes to get it.

Many at times, girls at home are not really exposed and don't understand the dynamics of settling down abroad. They don't understand the struggles of sharing a house, budgeting for a month, eating bread with mayonnaise, pasta with mayonnaise, seeing things you cannot afford to buy, loneliness and worst of all, having no money and having no one to loan you. When she does not go through these struggles and comes abroad, she'd think life is a paradise when she see house and car. Then when she is befriended by one gbeborun, they'd fill her head with ideas that she can be independent at your expense. They then begin to launch a scheme to get you out of the way and take over your house. Even when they take over these houses, they forget they must pay all the bills to maintain the house: heating, electricity, land tax, council tax, gas and water bills; telephone bills, TV license, home contents insurance and house fire insurance. Let them have the house. Fight not to pay alimony. Within two years, they'd be forced to sell the house and na there their real struggle go start.

There are many high-flying women abroad who are well-to-do and well-mannered. Go to churches, they are there; go to local expats events like internations, they are there. You'd also find them at conferences, pay and go. If it becomes inevitable to bring a woman from Nigeria, get a pre-nup to protect yourself and your assets, don't be blinded by love. Some women cannot manage freedom. I remember when the UK police went to a church and took a Yoruba-speaking Nigerian to plead with Nigerian women to stop calling the police on their husbands.

MrBrownJay1:
Sadly most people to be blamed on these issues are these foolish MEN who want to ignore the law. Whether a woman comes from some Nigerian village or the bush, the minute you bring her to the west, she will rightfully turn into a western citizen and use the LAW to her advantage.

garugaru:
did you read the shît on front page where a man was ordered to pay spousal support to his ex-girlfriend? See the best is to do PAYG if preçk is scratching you.

iTroll:
I told my friends about the RP and the MGTOW movement and they thought I was crazy.
They fail to see the gynocentric society we live in nowadays. How the leftists have manipulated social engineering to the extent that people can't see beyond their noses.
The world is a large playground, yet most people chose to play in the sand mound at the middle of the play ground. (Relationships, love and sex)

Coincidence? I think not

QueeenKKfire:
I was disturbing this girl that I met on a commercial bus to come and visit me for over a month.
Last week she came and gave me infection.


Now I am sad

Missyford31:
My man is Nigerian. I like learning things bout Nigeria on here. Especially pidgin

ZINIBANKS:
Ion trust that mofos
He's a guy tryna scam people stay alert

Missyford31:
Yeah I'm from Tasmania Australia

Missyford31:
Lolz I drink alotta coffee n I'm pretty sure mine dnt smell like caffiene� and I don't eat garlic very often so no offensive odours in the deep south lol.
U can't generalise ppls hygiene by skin colour. U get clean n dirty on every continent I'm sure

As Seen..
Lovers in Okija, Anambra State Committed Suicide because their parents refused to allow them to get married.

CNN) Former Minneapolis police officer Derek Chauvin has asked a judge to dismiss murder charges against him in the death of George Floyd.

In court papers Friday, Chauvin's attorney says there is not probable cause to support charges of second-degree murder, third-degree murder and second-degree manslaughter.

Floyd's killing sparked protests against systemic racism and police brutality around the world.

Meanwhile, prosecutors said Friday that Floyd's killing was so cruel that they want stricter sentences than recommended by state guidelines if Chauvin and the three other officers involved are found guilty.

Floyd died on May 25 after Chauvin knelt on Floyd's neck for almost eight minutes. Three other former officers are charged with aiding and abetting second-degree murder and aiding and abetting second-degree manslaughter.

All four officers were fired.

Prosecutors filed a notice that they will be asking for an "upward sentencing departure" in the cases of Chauvin, J. Alexander Kueng, Thomas Kiernan Lane and Tou Thao.

Attorney General Keith Ellison did not define what the request will be, but he told the judge he has reason to go beyond the "sentencing guidelines grid" used in Minnesota to factor in a convicted person's past criminal history.

"Mr. Floyd was treated with particular cruelty," prosecutors wrote. "Despite Mr. Floyd's pleas that he could not breathe and was going to die, as well as the pleas of eyewitnesses to get off Mr. Floyd and help him, Defendant and his codefendants continued to restrain Mr. Floyd."

The state also argues that the case has aggravated circumstances because Floyd was particularly vulnerable in handcuffs, and also claims that the officers abused their authority.

The other three former officers earlier filed motions to dismiss. Judge Peter Cahill has not yet ruled on any of them.

Chauvin also wants Hennepin County Attorney's Office disqualified, in part because of what Chauvin's attorney called "an inappropriate, pretrial publicity campaign," according to the filing. Cahill has denied a similar request by another former officer.

CNN reached out to the officers' attorneys for comment but has not heard back.

CNN's Omar Jimenez contributed to this report.

ublight:
guys, i do not even understand this girl again o. I mean what in the world has come over her this time. In the morning she snubbed me, now she is telling me she wants to buy me lunch today.

I just told her if i am hungry i will let her know. That one be say i no go chop lunch be dat. B4 i go chop na evening. Make she keep her lunch.

Nbotee:
No b who don chop beleful dey get allergy?

Sometimes I wonder, those who can afford to go overseas and train America, Europe, Asia and so on; and they continue sabotaging the economy, I wonder which kind of Nigeria they want their children to come and work for. I think there is a lot of lack of imagination.

Jh0wsef:
Nice nick bro. lol
I used to love that car