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IamiKayJayCee:
Lol. There was no need for invectives. I think I'm outgrowing it.

Really? Awwww
Why? Lol, don't mind me, it's all right if you want to, and it's all right if you still have it in you.

IamiKayJayCee:
I get your point. It depends, in that, some people do not give a fück, really, and when the blockhead they're trying to educate keeps repeating the same shiit, they just forget it and abandon the discussion all together. Yeah, no time for nonsense .

True, true,

But, in my case, I'm usually concerned about the audience too, so, although, the male chauvinist can't use the same misandrist label against me (since I'm not a female), I encourage it for the sake of female feminists that have the same concerns ( i.e they want the viewers to have something to take from the discussion), so that the sexist author of confusion would be incapable of making them go on the defensive. Otherwise, the discussion would just be as pointless as usual.

I understand, don't label yourself a feminist so that you won't be attacked with the fake definitions they give to feminism which in turn makes you defensive and while you are trying to explain yourself sidetracks you from the original reason you wanted to have a discussion, talk about the true definition of feminism? Right? But what if you can tie them together, although like you said not everybody has time for nonsense.

What if they succeed and now move over to gender equality and try and destroy the meaning so that no one will want to associate with gender equality they way they've done to feminism?

You can just come in with something like, "I'm not a feminist, but I support gender equality".

Why did this make me laugh?, I really want to know lol, I just felt like I went to a comedy show and the comedian just came out, took the mike and started with
"Hello everybody, I'm not a feminist, but I support gender equality"

IamiKayJayCee:
Without a dick, nairaland would never have existed? What do you mean by that? Are you talking about the fact that sèun happened as a result of REPRODUCTION which involves sexx, and therefore the penisss?

Your sexism made you forget that the vagìna was also involved? If the dick is special, the pussy is as well. Finito.

But if that's not what you meant, then the magic mushroom that's making you high must be even stronger than I thought.

Ah ah You want to knock him off his high horse of delusion?
If you say the D and P are both equal then how is he going to feel special again na? LMAO

I see the brotherly side is trying to come out but maybe this moniker doesn't allow brotherly love

IamiKayJayCee:
Exactly so. That's the fact of the matter. There's an interesting twist to it though. If you think about it, it is absolutely IMPOSSIBLE, that ALL of the people attacking feminism through this dubious prism have no idea what they're doing. There's NOT A SINGLE one of them who hasn't misunderstood it? That's clearly impossible. Some MUST know what's going on, but take delight in the confusion and want the fog to remain---get thicker even.

[color=darkgreen] Some are definitely doing it DELIBERATELY, because they don't want the actual idea to fly.[/color]

* Thinking* That's true. And then they want to drag you down into pointless arguments and kill your spirit. So that you don't ever mentioñ feminism again. Especially the ones who act so dense as if they don't understand a thing you say.
Really True.
Just a question, So if it's like that why do we give them what they want and stop calling ourselves feminists (I'm assuming this is their endgame, I may be wrong) and shift from all things feminism to gender equality (what if they move from feminism to gwnder equality) or even get to a point where we don't use labels as you suggested (I'm not saying there is anything wrong with your suggestion, I'm just asking) why not continue with the name feminism so that they know their plans aren't working?

BeeBeeOoh:
d person that was smuggled into the country and was reinstated

Udonmeanit

I don't know this person
Please tell me

IamiKayJayCee:
I detest BUHARISM enough, not to tell lies like its originator.

Kwarruption somborriii

Most of the people here were attacking MISANDRISTS and HYPOCRITICAL IDIOTS [who claim to be feminists, but ARE they feminists], thinking they're attacking feminism. I could come out and call myself NAPOLEON, does that make me Napoleon?! It only means I'm confused and deluded---or even mad. People can claim to be anything. It's their actions that determine WHAT THEY ARE.

This right here is just the crux of the matter,
people have refused to look at the true definition of feminism, thats why anyone can come and say they are feminists (even when through their actions it's clear they are not) and these people can't call them out, then these people go away and think that's all feminism is, the resultant effect is that anyone who dares utter the words feminism again will be viewed through the same lens and immediately dismissed.

IamiKayJayCee:
Was I banned? Now judge for yourself.

Let me return to my new shell.

Evidence of Kwarruption as usual you told your contacts to unban you, there izz God

Well, that's what happens when Misandrist elements have hijacked the movement, and are more RADICAL and PASSIONATE in promoting their ideologies than most of the actual feminists who, although not exactly passive, are not as active either; just floating somewhere in between, like a baby in the Catholic Limbo.

This one pain me small sha, true. I agreed with everything you've said on this thread. Except where you were showing your level of kwarruption
Cc Zandhazaraz

IamiKayJayCee:
This is why I don't call myself a "feminist". I just identify as an advocate of gender equality. ABSOLUTE gender equality, yes. People should be judged purely based on their ABILITIES. Gender is IRRELEVANT! Women are not "weaker vessels" that need "protection" as far as I'm concerned. We're equal. Oh, maybe the average man is PHYSICALLY stronger than the average woman. But why should physiology count? I've met fellow men who are PHYSICALLY STRONGER THAN ME. But you can't tell by these guys are superior to me, "by nature". You'll have to be mentally ill.

And what is "nature", by the way? [color=#000050]Take a trip to the jungle if you want to see how nature handle things, then come back to human society to appreciate the fact that ALL the ideologies, beliefs, and orientations we live by are all MAN MADE, and none is Holy Writ or natural. They can all be CHANGED! They can all be CHALLENGED![/color]

The word "feminist" just created 8 pages of pointless bickerings and headless discussions that have no precise direction!

Most of the people here were attacking MISANDRISTS and HYPOCRITICAL IDIOTS [who claim to be feminists, but ARE they feminists], thinking they're attacking feminism. I could come out and call myself NAPOLEON, does that make me Napoleon?! It only means I'm confused and deluded---or even mad. People can claim to be anything. It's their actions that determine WHAT THEY ARE.

I hate misandrists too---as much as I hate misogynists, but equating feminism with misandry is pure cretinism.

NightHound, I see you.

How many years ban were you given? If you lie you'll go to hell . I'm serious I'll send you there myself

It's truly sad that someone can't say I'm a feminist because people have refused to see that feminism has only one definition, but the point you guys have is valid, it's seems it's better to say to say you're for gender equality or people won't give you a listening ear, I find that sad.

NightHound:
@OP, You're on point with this, sweetheart. You don't actually have to call yourself a feminist to be a feminist, if you don't want to. Maybe being subtle about labels is even better for the collective struggle. The important thing is that women out there are thinking like you, and that it gets the job done.

ZandhaZaraZ:
Thanks, bruv.

My side is cool. I'm just here feeling myself, re-evaluating the remarkable reasons why I deserve to exist. Worth the while, right?

How's it going overthere?

Before I saw that feeling yourself, I wanted to ask if you were feeling yourself or contemplating suicide based on this part I bolded

1Sharon:


Crap. Story for kids.


That is how they use emotional blackmail to coerse their kids obedience

I stopped reading when I saw, my grandmother cursed him, if I had the power to curse someone and It will work won't I first curse myself to be richer than bill gates till I die?
All these people with power to curse others and it will work won't use it for something useful. Only for useless things.

frustratedrat:
to depend on 15k Health, food, cosmetics amongst other things. I can't stand on my own yet. I still think we can work things out. I'm trying to give her space

All right, Moving out should be your priority right now so try and cut down on the expenses you have, try and save and move out, also try and get another job if possible to supplement.

Don't ever think of hitting her, don't ever think of hitting anyone at all except in self defence, it's completely wrong,
It can be really tiring when anyone pours their frustrations on you but calm down, stop thinking of hitting her. That's wrong.

Also Find ways to bond better with your mum.

And learn anger management, stop being Short tempered

galaciousbabe:
I am sorry to say this but jagaban doesn't look like someone who lost someone. Too much smile on his face anyway what do i know. Let me leave this thread before all those ass lickers come and finish me with badmouth.

The comments I read here sometimes. SMH

yvelchstores:
This is the way it looks. For those saying they didn't feed the chickens well, you can see the egg looks super healthy, it gives the look of a very very fresh and healthy egg.I did a video. Will probably post it on IG. Bless u

I would like to see the video when you post it on IG of you don't mind.

frustratedrat:
we smile together at times (mostly when my pay comes). i'm not all evil, just ambivalent. What i need is advice not condemnation

So you have a job and you're still living with your mum? You made it seem as if you have no source of income.
Why are you still living with your mum? Move out. I guess that maybe one of the reasons she isn't happy, you have a source of income and you're still depending on her when you said she doesn't have much.
Move out.

BeeBeeOoh:
But in Nigeria we unveil newer version of corruption:


Grass Cutting

How To Buy House(s) In Dubai

N500m Mediating Charges

Osborne Motherless Money

Clinic Without Ordinary Vitamic C

Smuggling In Of Contraband Person. Etc




Nigeria my CUNTry

Which one is contraband person? ,

Frustratedrat.
calm down, don't ever raise your hand to anyone, at all, (except in cases of self defence) that's completely wrong

Don't ever do that, stop thinking about doing that, that's very wrong,

I understand your anger but Moving out is the best option.

And stop being short tempered, learn anger management.

ZandhaZaraZ another clown church

hopefulLandlord:
The spirit would definitely move in the church

tintingz:
If we have this kind of lawyer in Nigeria, he will be sentence to jail for 150 years.

Thank goodness we don't have dressing code in Nigeria, there is no law stating how to dress.

And the funniest and saddest thing is women covering up are also raped daily by perverted Beast.

True, there is no law, but it seems that nonsense he said is done here, I've seen threads here where a girl is harassed for the way she is dressed and people (both male and female), say it's right, the girl should have dressed well and they won't have come to her, she should have known better, there are even threads telling women to dress well to prevent being harassed and you see men and women here throw support and say it's right, dress the way you want to be addressed. Very true.

Then there are still threads here where a girl is raped and animals start asking what was she wearing, implying if her dressing was "indecent" she deserved to be raped.

It's just that he (the Egyptian lawyer) said his own outright, some posters will come here and form faux outrage but still go back and continue doing the same thing the man is saying. Some even agree with him in their hearts. Some even agree with him on this thread.


It's really sad. that's why I don't take all these dress well so that you will respected and not sexually harassed nonsense serious.

People who are fully covered are raped, girls who show their body are still raped, it's clear the problem is not from the girls nor their dressing.

Another deranged animal that sees women as nothing more than slaves,
Slaves that should be told how to act and if they don't comply, should be punished in any way they deem fit.

Yet tomorrow some people will still act like the girl child is the problem .

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. Thanks. How're you doing today?

I'm good my day was fine, how about you?

Why less popular? Not a good heading
Just say nairalander

RIP

hahn:
I am still trying to convince myself that deceiving so many people is worth it. My conscience is stopping me from becoming a pastor

I will have to lie to millions of people forever

True.

hahn:
Gbam! But dem no go gree

The business idea is very simple. Christianity creates imaginary problems(god, the devil, witches, wizards etc), then creates imaginary solutions(prayers, fasting, praise and worship, tithes and offering) and then threaten/force you to pay for the solution(god's wrath, hell fire, suffering and pain etc)

It is a very good business model though

I thought you were going to start a church and I was going to be your usher and also help you count the offerings?

EmperorHarry:
Valid point
But do you think that acting in this manner would solve anything??
Two wrongs don't make a right even though i still think it wasn't intentional
People got more likes than others cos they showed the best things about their country.... That's using sense and they are mostly non nigerians
You enlighten people not be stupid
You don't know how many non racist whites viewing that wanted to know more about Africawha all they saw was the stupidity we portrayed...so i done explaining cos people only understand from their level of perception

Lol, you enlighten people indeed, lol, you really think DHL Africa are clueless babies that do not know the implication of that picture?

stupidity? Who was being stupid in that twitter thread? What was stupid there now? Why would you call them stupid?
Two wrongs don't make a right? Please how were the people who corrected the wrongs of DHL wrong now?
Acting in that manner solved a lot because dhl won't try that again.

Love your self and your continent a little bit more, stop the self hate, stop kissing white ass.

Stop acting as if these people are babies that don't know the implication of what they are doing.
Even the whites (including the non racist whites), whose ass you are kissing know the implication of that picture, they are not stupid. They also know about Africa, anyone using twitter is not a baby, if they are old enough to use twitter they are also old enough to know about Africa. , they are not clueless babies who came to a Twitter thread learn about Africa.

You insistence at portraying dhl and the "non racist whites" as clueless is troubling.

Modified, I just saw this post, i shouldn't have bothered, the self hate is strong in you. Just imagine what an African wrote, implying that racism is in our heads and calling us all types of names,
Find a way to love yourself and your skin and your continent.
Kissing white ass and self hate is not the way to go.

EmperorHarry:
There's one thing i know africans don't have and that is sense... Common sense
We've all being brainwashed into belittling ourselves, thinking that we're the dirt of the world and this mentality is exactly what the idiots that are commenting stupidly have just verified
It's DHL africa, obviously there's a 75% chance it's was all in good cheer...they think the best thing about Africa is the abundance in wildlife bbut the stupid "white think they are better than us" mentality has just been displayed and any non african seeing all this would be disappointed and be more adamant about the fact that Africans are retared(which is so not true)
Just say something nice about africa that's all they asked for but the fact that most Africans think that every thing is a racist act against them... We've have made a big fool of ourselves...mtcheeeewwwwww

ZandhaZaraZ I modified.

BraniacX:
seems we are not allowed to post links, let me pm you instead

All right,

adepeter2027:
seconded

Abeg zandha, na money I need currently. All this Buffalo, bee and flame no follow at all (wink)

Let me call him, in case he will share the money.
ZandhaZaraZ
Tahra Zandha wants to share money

Don't mind the body shamers

LMAO

ZandhaZaraZ:
I wish you guys a happy new month:

Daeylar
Tahra
lovelygurl

adepeter2027
edimolu
DarkRebel69

In this new month, may you get stung by the bee of happiness and ambushed by the buffalo of comfort.

A sudden surge in the searing flame of adrenalin, to be instantly doused by the comforting water of dopamine from the endorphin river, gives the supreme buzz and makes for the greatest climax.

Do not mind my style, though. Afterall, there are bubbles of Halloween in tha air.

Happy new month, and I wish you the very best of it.

Abeg hold your greeting, hold your bee and your buffalo and your flame
Wetin sef
Thank you sir I don't want sir

Oya let me be serious
Wish you a happy new month also thanks

fergusen:
Are you saying loudmouthed (not in the exact sense of the word) people don't plan out revenge?
Are you saying the reason why quiet people are termed wicked is that they take calculated revenge, while 'extroverts' are not or less wicked because they exert vengeance sooner?
Are all quiet people vengeful?

Don't mind them it's just ridiculous stereotypes, because they expect everyone to be loud like them therefore when they see someone who isn't they term you what they want, to make you feel bad.

Is this not the sewing machine that was put in the museum?

Why give them outdated sewing machines? Do they give him outdated money?

Why not any of these?
https://s1.postimg.org/2pis3wp3v3/unnamed_1.jpg
https://s1.postimg.org/10wnsjuw0f/images_1.jpg



Please nobody should quote me I'm not feeling very fine
Runs out of thread.

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whateverkay:
The igbo states will soon copy Lagos. They rely on Yoruba's to lead the way yet they want biafra. I laugh

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You've gotten the attention you were desperately looking for.
Now Always remember to take your drugs,
Stupidity is not a good look