₦airaland Forum

tintingz:
No, it's not a must.

# I'm pro-choice, everyone has the choice to make.

# A woman not getting marry doesn't make her a whóre or whatever many archaic people call them, they simply have reasons they prefer not to get married, many of them are in open relationship.

# Because a woman doesn't marry doesn't make her financially unstable or has no bright future, Oprah Winfrey is not married and she has archived alot.

# A woman who decide not to marry doesn't mean she will regret it, many people regrets getting married.

Unfortunately, here in Africa so many deluded archaic people descriminate unmarried women, they think women are nothing without getting married, this is the most fallacious and a deluded mentality.

pp802:
Its really not mandatory!

I don't know why we Africans see marriage as a must or an achievement? They feel that a lady or a man who is not interested in marriage is not responsible or shying away from responsibilities. They believe that marriage makes you responsible and complete.

The whites don't share this idea. The ideology they believe in about life is happiness. Just do the things that would make you happy and live longer life.

I really don't believe in marriage, but because of my mum and the society pressure, I'm thinking of getting married. Like you're living your life for family and society!

At times I just ask God why I'm not a white man or an American.
The thing taya me jare

queenfav:
It depends on her upbringing o. Most of us would rather hustle like a man (Monday to sunday) at our diverse careers and businesses, than allow one man use money to be controlling your life .There are still a lot of ladies who value their self worth enough to hustle with all their clothes on. You just need to raise your girl child to love herself, be strong, very assertive, hardworking and independent.

monex:
the article was written by a lady

Yonce:
I don't think the topic is misogynistic. The writer mainly expresses concern on how the girl child has been programmed to take the back seat mentally and ONLY use her "talents" to get what she wants.

ElsonMorali:
I fault your logic.

A child's mind is always blank at birth and gradually filled by the impressions s/he forms or is formed for them.

Garbage in, garbage out.

You've just declared yourself a failure and not worthy to raise a child, whether boy or girl.

ZandhaZaraZ:
Yeah, the idiot is ready to have another man give birth to a female child for him to marry. These cretins.

ZandhaZaraZ:
It's just really baffling. One feels compelled to ask the idiot whether it's aliens from space that come here to fúck these girls, or it's him and his brothers ALONE that deflowered all the females in the country.

ZandhaZaraZ:
How, where, and when did you carry out the survey that led you to this conclusion? I say where did you conduct your study?

ZandhaZaraZ:
Who cares?! Why're you telling us? Even if you want to give birth to a lizard---yes, a fvcking reptile---that's your headache. No one's business.

Damn. These mutherfuckers are freaking me out.

ZandhaZaraZ:
Well, I hope so.

How has your day been?

ZandhaZaraZ:
This issue has been overflogged. No one will answer you, and they aren't gonna change it. They believe they owe no one an explanation, not even us, the nairaland subscribers, without whom the forum would be unsuccessful. But, hey, isn't that a Nigerian thing? From the government, to places of work, to schools, to many homes, AUTHORITARIANISM is the order of the day.

lovelygurl:
Lool Seriously which kind of friend is that? I wouldn't consider such a friend, I wouldn't even have been friends with her in the first place!
We have each other's back, support each other and what is said in the clique, stays in the clique. Simple

sanpipita:
You practically said my mind, we make seem like these girls sex themselves, if we want to curtail teenage pregnancy and sexual violence we definitely have to start from the boys

lovelygurl:
Wow, I'm surprised you still address her as a "friend".

Deeldorado:
Well stated. Number one women rights activist.

QueenOfNepal:
I'm done for today Time to prepare for work

QueenOfNepal:
Yes. I try to feel 15 when I'm going through a strain because at that stage of my life then the innocence i exhibited then can't be quantified.



If only i can turn back the Big clock . Gosh

QueenOfNepal:
The robot has more right than their women.

QueenOfNepal:
Their hypocrisy stenches. They value inanimate objects more than women