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ZandhaZaraZ:
That fellow is mad indeed.

Lol, just the perfect humor, @d mad guy. Offtopic completely but still funny
At least he turned a boring topic into something fun I can laugh about.>: , lol, love those kind of people, the mad one and the people advicing him to steer clear of the markets

sonnie10:
Its almost irreversible once you enter market. Please avoid the markets.

Gosh

rius17:
op pls bring chain b4 him enter mkt

LMAO

Nothing wrong with the name lucifer

tolexy123:
i hope my wife wont see it as running away from responsibilities

Why do I feel that you are being sarcastic also with this reply to him

Afam4eva:
I think it's even best you leave the country util the child comes of age.

You are wicked

Afam4eva:
Stay away from your female newborn as much as you can. Your only job is to donate sperm and leave the raising up the mom. If possible, you can move out of the house for the time being.

I haff died

Originalsly:
How do you look responsible?...and should it be about looking responsible or being responsible? And why does Afro...or braids...or dreadlock hairstyle indicate the person is 'not responsible'?.... would straightening the hair or cutting it very low to not highlight the Black's unique hair considered being responsible? Those making such rules and supporting such should be bundled and beaten out of Africa.....yes...not a typo... beaten out of Africa.
The student council is verrrry weak and timid..... their immediate response should be to get all students to show up wearing Afro... and dare the admin to put them out. University campuses are almost always the first to protests and bring about change...but these ...I'm speechless...collecting slaps and whatever else!...bunch of sissies?

Please ask him, self hate and inferiority complex has eaten deep into people and they don't even recognise it.

At the second part I bolded, they really should. 2017 and some people are implying that Afro hair doesn't look responsible?? And some human beings are supporting them? They should even be stripped of any African status at all. Let them become like the rest of the whites and Asians they love so much

ZandhaZaraZ:
Really? History is hard? Well, I had no idea.

Good morning. How was your night?

Lol, I think it is, having to remember all those dates and each activity that happened at each specific date.

Good morning, my night was fine. How was yours?

ZandhaZaraZ, just imagine.
this gift should know that this man doesn't deserve to have children whether male or female na,


Please can we stop wishing evil on female relatives of useless men and point all the evil to the man himself?
It's not fair to wish evil to the female relatives for the crime that a man committed. That's punishing women for a crime that they did not commit.

Wish evil on the man himself.

There is a possibility the man may not care if his sisters are raped, he may not care if anything evil happens to his female relations as long as he is all right.
Contrary to Nigerians way of thinking, not everyone cares about their female relations.

It's a lie


I refuse to believe that someone can be this bold.
This boy is very mad, he should be castrated immediately then we can start looking at jail time.



Rape apologists,(she is exposing her body, why did she go clubbing, why did she go out) " people who believe the girl child are the cause of all our problems in this world(both men and women)". Misogynistic animals(both men and women), All of you who supported kemen when he did this same sh*t in Big brother. All of you who want to raise your female child to be saints while leaving the male to act anyhow, "becuase, it's a man's world"
You are part of the reason why this boy is bold enough to do this nonsense.

This country just excuses rape like it's nothing.
There needs to be a reorientation towards rape and sexual harassment, Rape is never excusable.

An African country, banning Afro hair? Self hate, inferiority complex and utter stupidity rolled into 1 in a Nigerian polytechnic. this is worth looking into and reversing, what type of hair do they think Africans naturally have?

Look at all their ridiculous rules, trousers, afro and beard.
Trousers in this day and age.

Some nigerians love to act as if they are so disiplined and holy but in the end just show how stupid they are and end up disgracing the rest of us

It's a disgrace, a very big one

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. 69 YEARS. That's ridiculous. And just imagine the department. Nigerian schools have a way of making things more difficult and tedious than should be.

Lol, history is hard, respect that course.

Pridestorm:
Yea...
For Sure!

All right

Op do you really need help or this a hypothetical question?

Pridestorm:
Got it!
But what if you're not exposed to certain aspect of life or maybe you're just the type of person that's always lonely or don't know any skill(s) that may benefit you tomorrow..,, what are you going to do?

I don't understand, can you take care of yourself? I didn't get your answer to this.

As for your post, if you're lonely you can try to make good friends or just pursue your interests and find any one that shares the same interest with you to start up a friendship with, at least you can start from there. (But how is this related to your schooling issue though? This also goes for your skills question.)

Congrats to him, both on his first class and on breaking the record

ZandhaZaraZ
Come and see another record. All these records embarrass me.

Follow your heart but use your brain. Leave the bible out of this.

This part of your opening post really bothers me

Pridestorm:
As an aspirant, you aspire to be an Engineer, and you're very good at fixing and repairing spoilt items.., and all of a sudden, your parent decided that you should study engineering for medicine and at the other hand, you don't have any idea, not even a pinch partaining medical field(s) and your parent further stated that if you don't obey or follow their instructions, they won't be there for you either financially or otherwise.....
Contrary To What Is Been Written In Ephesians 6:1-3,,, Are We To Follow Our Heart Or What Is Been Written In The Bible Because I'm Totally Confused......

Can you take care of yourself and your education on your own? If yes then go for your dreams. Your parents have lived their life, they should allow you to live yours, after all you're the one that actually has to study either course.,
If no, well...

yeyerolling:
lol typical Nigerian shifting the goal post. shebi na u say "MUST" , all those tins u have a choice of doing and not doing it. same goes for marriage its not a must and ur reasons don hold any water

LMAO

You know them well, his post is on marriage and he gave reasons why everyone must be married, you and others countered the reasons, instead of him to answer he started talking about car and accidents ,

I'm waiting for the day Nigerians will learn to stop imposing their way of life and opinions on others.

All these thank God nonsense I'm reading is really annoying, why should "God" make them like that in the first place? And why didn't he separate them himself especially seeing how the parents and the children were auffering? instead of waiting for 30 doctors to put their all into the surgery?
This thank God rubbish needs to stop.

Is it bad for a ghost to wear wristwatch? , LMAO
Lol, nice piece,
I want one for men.

lovelygurl:
I think that's the best option too. All this whining here and there is starting to get on my nerves. They all should become gay. This "I dont want a girl child" "Girls are useless" etc is all starting to get irritating, especially since those fools will be judging billions of women by the few they meet. Common sense is even incapable of telling them they need a woman to even have a child, including their precious baby boy

Even women are joining in this I don't want a girl child bs, I'm just tired of it all.
Congrats op you've choosen the right part. You don't need to like girls. Please face your fellow men, thanks once again

lovelygurl:
As in, just look at the way he's speaking of her

I'm just happy that he says he doesn't like girls again, he should just become a homosexual and face his fellow men, starting with that his friend that says he should "mould the girl to his taste".

Let women rest abeg. All these men that don't like girls should please face their fellow men,

Thanks.

They fit each other.

They should have continued with their plans to adopt, there is no reason to steal a child.

pp802:
I will say infinity times

You really need to so that these people can get it, they are even here on this thread, doing exactly what you described.

femi4:
The judge not crew will come for your head

Nah, they are too embarrassed

stilldoingokay:
to me there is nothing pathetic about her.

she is just looking at things from the feminist angle.

How? Could you explain?

Didn't get that at all, just got someone complaining about how hard it is to raise a girl child and in the end doesn't want to raise one at all.

stilldoingokay:
I have sisters who are still living in my father house single with business on their own, the pressure of marriage from my father is there, but there will listen to him and move on,


I think what some women should be doing is to raise girl child to be hard work, and responsible in every areas of life,


intend of saying girl child are not being recognized, their should start fighting for equal right.

You understand me perfectly, also not just women, women and men should raise both sexes male and female properly. I agree with all, but this writer would rather not have a girl child so that such issues do not affect her, so pathetic.

Acmetek:
Essentially he is building one already, we are in a thought provoking session, and everybody contributing in one way or another is bringing a solution to this societal menace.
Raising a girl child in this Facebook days requires 200% devotion.

Not really, I think it's a she is basically saying I don't want a girl child, no effort to change anything. Just doesn't want a girl child so the "problems" of raising a girl child do not affect her.

stilldoingokay:
if am to advocate for anything in this world, it will be, don't claim victim, don't let people thought bring down,


pressure or not, is when you allow them.

Not so easy, especially when the people pressuring you are the ones taking care of you, some do hold on and use your advice. But I feel for the ones who break.
I love your advice.

stilldoingokay:
the hole thing is surprising me Now self, all the time is all about the girl child, like as if the rest are not important too.

So much pressure on the girl child, so much stress,
It's pathetic really, this shouldn't be on FP.